90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 6 Episode 10 - (Dis)Enchanted - Part 1/3

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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way.

00:04Today's the start of our journey and we'll be heading south out of England.

00:08I'm just new to communicating in a healthy way.

00:12It's nice that you are just communicating with me now.

00:15This is the whole reason I'm here, because I believe in us.

00:19Yeah.

00:20Welcome to the family.

00:22Hi!

00:23Today I'm meeting Inky's parents for the first time.

00:26Do you want to have kids?

00:29Yes, yes, yes, yes!

00:32Children, we've been dating for four months.

00:35Just ease it down a little bit.

00:40I want to know what's your job?

00:43I can't work, but the thing I can offer her is just that I'm in love with her.

00:48I knew I would be judged for not being able to work.

00:51I don't want Lily's family to think this marriage is not a good idea.

00:56We've been together for a long time.

00:59It's not a problem if there's an emergency.

01:01You have a child.

01:03You have to have a child.

01:05They want a grandkid so badly.

01:08I just know that.

01:10But now I don't even know if James wants a kid.

01:14You have to be happy.

01:16You have to have a healthy child.

01:20We applied for the Kabir visa with Shikaina.

01:24I only have one son.

01:26What are we going to do if he leaves?

01:31Please move.

01:37He was yelling at me in the car and saying he's changed his whole life for me.

01:40What have I done? What have I done? I haven't done anything for him.

01:43And then he came over and grabbed my phone, ripped my hair extension out.

01:47It feels like surreal, like this isn't real.

01:50It feels like we're so wrong.

02:21Excited to move in?

02:23I'm still waiting to see how I feel about that one.

02:25But nervous for how it'll all go.

02:30We are officially moving into Tata's parents' house.

02:34And right now, I can't picture myself living here.

02:38It's still their house, their rules.

02:41It definitely has me very anxious about what to expect.

02:46Whatever you need, we will help to look for it.

02:50Okay.

02:52The room we're moving into, it literally looks like a prison cell.

02:57So let's start by scrubbing the walls.

03:00It's a giant bunch of concrete.

03:03It's a lot of concrete.

03:05It's a lot of concrete.

03:06It's a lot of concrete.

03:07It's a lot of concrete.

03:08It's a lot of concrete.

03:09It's a lot of concrete.

03:10Let's start by scrubbing the walls.

03:12It's a giant bunch of concrete.

03:15So we have a lot of work ahead of us.

03:18We have to put floor in.

03:20Put some wallpaper on the wall to at least make it look less like a concrete cell.

03:27Nice.

03:28We've gotten the door done.

03:30Okay.

03:31And there's a bed.

03:33My body, my body.

03:35My body, my body.

03:39After all the work we've done to the room, I'm feeling super exhausted.

03:43But right now, it still feels a little bit weird being here with our parents right beside us.

03:50We'll see how it goes.

03:52I'm definitely nervous about it.

03:55Okay.

04:02Kiano.

04:03I have something for you.

04:06What is it?

04:07What is it?

04:09I told James to say, I have something for you because he brought a lot of gifts.

04:15And there's like seven people living at my parents' house.

04:19So it's nice that James brought gifts for all of them.

04:25Wow.

04:45I brought these beautiful amethyst necklaces for Tata's mom and for her sister.

04:51This is silver.

04:57I also brought moon coins for her dad.

05:00They are just a symbolism of no matter where we are, we are always looking at the same moon under the same stars.

05:08Ken, say thank you to James.

05:11Salam.

05:12Thank you, James.

05:19James, when you have a kid tomorrow, you'll be like this.

05:23One day when you have a kid, you'll be like this.

05:27That's why you should have a kid soon.

05:29Go fast to have a kid.

05:31Yeah.

05:41It's just a culture here.

05:43When you're married, they're expecting you to have a kid.

05:48But James still doesn't know that Adele told me that James doesn't want to have a kid.

05:54This makes me sad because I know James is going to be a great dad.

05:59Seeing James playing with my nephew is like seeing our future if we have a kid.

06:11The kid will be so handsome like you.

06:19I know this is a conversation that they're going to keep throwing at me time after time after time.

06:24It's been something they've said since me and Tata have been together.

06:28So I know my doubts about having children, it's not going to go over well.

06:39If you guys have a kid, I will have more grandson and grandkid.

06:48What is hurt the most?

06:50If James don't want to have a kid, it will break my family heart too.

06:54It's the last thing I ever wanted to hurt them.

07:25Yes!

07:33Things are nice this morning since we've christened the van.

07:37We've been apart for a few months, so yeah, it was nice and I think it's released a lot of tension, if anything.

07:46The van has been christened, yes. Multiple times.

07:51Hello.

07:52Where do you want to go?

07:54I guess we have a boot sale to attend, whatever the heck that is.

08:01What exactly is a car boot sale? I don't know if we have them in America.

08:06You park on a field and then you put a table out and put all your things on the table.

08:11A bit like a market sort of style vibe.

08:15Hopefully I sell some things.

08:17Yeah, hopefully.

08:18It's called a boot sale because in England the trunk of a car is a boot of the car.

08:24How about a spot over there?

08:26Since I've had to downsize so much, I thought it would be a quick way to get rid of some stuff and earn some extra cash.

08:34I reckon that will do for now.

08:36Okay.

08:38Now we wait, I suppose.

08:40We wait.

08:49Hello.

08:50Hiya.

08:55How do people usually do it? Do we go out and talk to people?

08:58Hello.

08:59Come and buy our own boot. Clothes for sale.

09:03Hiya.

09:04Hi.

09:05Ah, yes, hello.

09:06We have all kinds of tarot cards, regular cards.

09:10Most of the clothes are like size 6 and 8.

09:12Perfect.

09:13My size is awesome.

09:15Can I take the outfit?

09:17Yeah.

09:18£7, please.

09:19Very nice. Our first sale of the day. We appreciate it.

09:23Have a good one.

09:25So, we've sold one thing.

09:28Yeah.

09:29If we were to sell everything here by some miracle, how much do you think we would get for it?

09:37I don't know.

09:39Okay.

09:40Like, um, these are like difficult conversations for me to have in general,

09:46but I feel like I want to have a healthy relationship with you.

09:50So, I was talking to my friend Natalie,

09:52and she just noticed that I tend to give and give and give in relationships of my finances,

10:01and so I'm trying to be more mindful of that.

10:04Yeah.

10:05You also have said many a times, I want to provide for you.

10:09Like, you don't need to work. I'll provide for you.

10:11I want to be able to look after you.

10:13I've never, I feel like I have.

10:14You have.

10:15It's like 100%.

10:16It's one of your kinks to look after somebody financially.

10:18It's not 100%.

10:19It's not 100%, though, is it?

10:21You haven't bought the van 100% on your own?

10:24Yeah, no, I'm not saying that I have.

10:29In an ideal world, I would just spoil the heck out of the person that I'm with.

10:33But in reality, I'm in a lot of debt.

10:39And so, while I've agreed for Dempsey not to have a job now,

10:43this isn't a long-term thing.

10:45Long-term, I want us to both be able to have jobs.

10:48Dempsey, what are you going to do for work?

10:51So, I'm just going to do bits of work here and there.

10:55Okay.

10:56For a couple of months, I'll be the breadwinner.

10:58For a couple of months, I'll be the breadwinner.

11:00I really would like a partner who's also financially independent.

11:07Have you girls agreed on that?

11:09We talked about finances.

11:11At this point, no.

11:14I've tried to bring up money stuff in the past with Dempsey,

11:17but she just jumps to immediately getting very defensive.

11:21And so, it's hard for me to have a conversation about this stuff

11:25because I'm basically just ready for her to jump down my throat.

11:29I'll be paying everything for a while, you know what I mean?

11:33I have a loan that I've taken out.

11:35And then, you know, I also had to take an extra $6,000 out

11:38in like an advance at work.

11:41I'm just saying, going forward, it would be nice for us both

11:44to have money coming in, in some ways.

11:50I just put my trust in the universe,

11:52and I know that wherever I go, I will always find a way to make money.

11:57It's just the way that I am. It's just the way that I live.

12:00Right, but doing what kind of things, out of curiosity?

12:03Whatever I want. Whatever I feel.

12:05Just so I have an idea.

12:06I don't have an idea.

12:08You just know that you're going to manifest a job.

12:11Yeah.

12:12Okay.

12:13I don't have any money concerns.

12:15Right. And I do.

12:17Okay.

12:18So, yeah.

12:23I'm independent. I always have been.

12:25I will work when I need to work.

12:27Like, that's just the way that I want to live my life at the minute.

12:30Oh, it's so frustrating.

12:33I know that you like to have a plan, but I don't,

12:36so we're just going to have to work with each other on that.

12:38Like, that's just how I am, and you knew that before you got into this with me.

12:42I mean, I've got my last, like, month's wages to come into my bank,

12:46and then I still have the money from my car.

12:49Oh, from your car.

12:51Yeah.

12:52I have no worries about earning money.

12:56Okay.

13:03It's the first time I'm hearing that she, you know, had extra money.

13:08I didn't know she had extra money from her car.

13:10In fact, when she called me, she was like,

13:12we need this money now or we're not going to get the van.

13:17So I put myself in an uncomfortable position with my boss asking for more money,

13:22and then in reality, she actually has all this money stashed away.

13:25Like, I don't even know what to feel.

13:27I'm sad, I think, mostly.

13:29I'm sad because I feel let down.

13:31I feel betrayed.

13:32I feel like she kept this from me, and it's,

13:34she's just kind of flying past it like it's not a big deal.

13:38I just feel like I'm getting screwed over.

13:46I feel like I'm getting screwed over.

90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 6 Episode 10 - (Dis)Enchanted - Part 1/3

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