90 Days Andrei Compares Elizabeth’s Family to a Cult
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00:00You made the big decision to move away from Elizabeth's family.
00:04How has life changed since you did that?
00:09I must say, it's a family, it's like a cult, like, most likely.
00:13Like, we should put you, like, on an escape the cult type of, like,
00:18you know, like, franchise.
00:20It's not that bad.
00:21Escape the cult.
00:22She's doing great.
00:22Oh my gosh.
00:23I'm very happy to have you back, babe.
00:24Don't give any ideas.
00:25Yeah, I'm very happy to have you back.
00:28She's, we're doing great.
00:29You know, like, we didn't, you know, like, the only people that I speak
00:33with from the family is with Chuck and, you know, like,
00:37Becky a little bit.
00:38Becky, you know, like, sometimes she's still being, you know, on the edge.
00:41But, you know, like, the rest we didn't speak with for many years.
00:45And, you know, like, clarity in mind, you know, tell them how it feels.
00:51No more interaction, no more, you know, like, spilling.
00:53Fighting.
00:54We don't fight as much, for sure.
00:55Yeah.
00:56Because they did come in between us.
00:57And you just, we have so much more peace, I think, in our home in general.
01:01Coming between us, yeah.
01:02It's just, it's nasty.
01:03Yeah.
01:04Yeah.
01:05Elizabeth, how is it, has it changed your relationship with your own family
01:08at all?
01:10Yes.
01:10So, I, I really don't speak to many people in my family.
01:15It just, it's kind of like, everybody would just get together and would
01:20talk about, like, my decisions.
01:21And it just got to a point where it was too toxic.
01:24And so, I'm really only speaking with, like, my dad and Becky and
01:29sometimes my mom.
01:30But, honestly, like, once I took some time apart, I saw how good it was.
01:36And you just see life in the world differently.
01:38And I just, I don't know.
01:40I don't want to go back into that toxicity.
01:42I really think that, and I'm, like, I stand by my idea from the beginning.
01:46If it's blood, it doesn't mean, you know, it's toxic.
01:49It doesn't mean you have to have it around.
01:50It's like, you know, you're not going to sacrifice your life.
01:54You have to think about yourself, too.
01:55Well, are they doing you a service or a disservice?
01:57And it was more of a disservice than anything.
01:59Do you ever see yourself kind of getting back to that space?
02:03Or, like you said, now that you've taken a step back, you realized how
02:07nice it is without it.
02:08You know, I often think about that.
02:11And I feel like maybe way ahead in the future at some point.
02:15I feel like it's bound to just come up or, you know, there's going to be
02:18some situation.
02:20But right now, no.
02:22Yeah.
02:22No, bound to happen to just to meet up.
02:25You're not going to, like, the relationship is never going to be
02:28restored because...
02:28I mean, I don't know.
02:29Are they going to change?
02:30Like, do people change?
02:31I don't think that they change.
02:33We have a saying.
02:33It's like the wolf doesn't change.
02:35You know, like it might change its fur, but the character will never be
02:38changed.
02:39So it's the same thing over here.
02:41The people not change and we don't, like, I'm not accepting that kind of,
02:45like, toxicity in my relationship.