上田と女がDEEPに吠える夜 2024年9月17日 なかなか踏み込めない30代以降の恋の悩み…マッチングアプリから恋愛観を赤裸々告白
上田と女がDEEPに吠える夜 2024年9月17日 なかなか踏み込めない30代以降の恋の悩み…マッチングアプリから恋愛観を赤裸々告白
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00:00If you're over 30 years old, it's hard to rank up.
00:02I used to use a lot of matching apps.
00:05But the number of likes is decreasing.
00:09I see.
00:10Tonight's topic is...
00:13When I was 29 years old, the moment I logged into an app, I couldn't put anything on my face.
00:17But I got 100 likes right away.
00:19If you're over 30 years old, you can't even search.
00:22When I was young, I was in a state where I couldn't put anything on my face.
00:26I used to use a lot of matching apps.
00:29But as I get older, the number of likes is decreasing.
00:31I was told by a marriage consultant.
00:34When a man chooses a woman at a certain age,
00:36he can choose up to 35 years old.
00:38There is a 5-year age gap.
00:40I was told that the first year from 35 to 36 years old is a big age gap.
00:44Is that so?
00:45When I was young, I had a lot of encounters even if I didn't say anything.
00:48But as I get older,
00:50many women don't know how to start a relationship.
00:55In addition, the requirements for a lover are increasing.
00:58It's hard to start a relationship.
01:01So, tonight's topic is...
01:04The worries of love after the age of 30.
01:07I'm sure I won't be able to get married.
01:10When my friends get married,
01:13my friends who used to get married get married.
01:17So I don't have a sponsor.
01:20Even if you have someone you care about,
01:23you don't have a partner.
01:26That's right.
01:28I have a partner.
01:30When I was young,
01:32even if I was hurt by a breakup,
01:35I was filled with other fun things.
01:38But as I get older,
01:40I don't have much fun.
01:42I don't have anything to fill.
01:44I don't want to get hurt.
01:46That's right.
01:47I can't get hurt easily.
01:49So, tonight's topic is...
01:51The worries of love after the age of 30.
01:54A woman's deep night.
02:01This program is a talk show for adults with deep themes.
02:05How old are you?
02:06I'm 33 years old.
02:07If you're over 30, it's hard to start a relationship.
02:10How about men?
02:12I don't think I'm in love.
02:16That's true.
02:18I don't think I'm in love.
02:22Is this a woman's story?
02:25I don't know.
02:26I think I understand the 35-year-old line.
02:29Did you have a hard time starting a relationship?
02:32Yes.
02:33I'm in a deep night.
02:36Is she Okubo Children?
02:38Yes, she is.
02:40How about you, Mogami?
02:42I'm a single mother.
02:45I was traumatized by that.
02:48I'm 35 years old.
02:51I can't see you.
02:52You're cute.
02:54You look like an old lady.
02:56I can't start a relationship easily like when I was young.
03:03How about you, Sato?
03:04I'm 45 years old.
03:06I'm a single mother.
03:07It's hard for me to start a relationship because I'm young and my parents are old.
03:12I feel sorry for my partner.
03:14How about you, Kumamoto?
03:15I thought I was popular when I was in my 20s.
03:18But I was spoiled by my age.
03:21I see.
03:23I've been wearing overalls since then.
03:26I thought I was able to cover my body.
03:28But I wasn't.
03:31I have a strange question.
03:33Why did you think you were popular when you were in your 20s?
03:35When I was in my 20s?
03:37Why?
03:39Were you popular?
03:40I had two partners.
03:42I may have made a mistake.
03:45I was popular.
03:46I was popular.
03:47I wasn't single.
03:49How about you, Inada?
03:50Is it hard to start a relationship when you're in your 30s?
03:52I used to use a dating app.
03:55But I got fewer likes.
03:58I see.
04:00I thought I was able to start a relationship.
04:02I got a message.
04:03I asked her why she started a relationship.
04:06She said she wanted a boyfriend.
04:07I said I wanted a girlfriend, too.
04:09She said she had a strong desire for sex.
04:13I asked her if she was okay.
04:14She laughed.
04:15I didn't laugh.
04:17I didn't want to laugh.
04:19Have you ever used a dating app?
04:21No, I haven't.
04:23If you use a dating app, you may hesitate.
04:30I prefer to start a relationship when I'm in my 20s.
04:33How do you start a relationship?
04:35How old do you want to start a relationship?
04:38How old do you want to start a relationship?
04:40I'm not sure.
04:43You're older than her.
04:45I'm just saying.
04:47How old do you want to start a relationship?
04:5028 years old.
04:5228 years old.
04:53How about you?
04:5542 years old.
04:58I'm in my 20s.
05:01I'm popular at 28 years old.
05:03I'm not older than her.
05:06That's not what I meant.
05:08She said she was in her 20s.
05:10She said she was in her 20s.
05:14How about you, Okubo?
05:16I'm a premium member.
05:18I choose a person I like.
05:22I show my face to that person.
05:26I don't show my face much.
05:28I took a picture with that person.
05:30I woke up the next morning and she was there.
05:33She wasn't a premium member.
05:35She was a regular member.
05:37She took a picture with Okubo for a few hours.
05:40She had a matching app.
05:42I got a lot of comments.
05:45I'm still taking pictures with insurance.
05:48I'm still taking pictures with insurance.
05:50Why don't you use a matching app?
05:52I don't use it.
05:54Why don't you use a matching app?
05:56Have you ever used a matching app?
05:59Yes, I have.
06:01I've never met her.
06:04I've hidden my face.
06:07I've tried to hide my face.
06:09I thought if I met her, I might be found out.
06:11You would be found out.
06:13I was afraid of change.
06:15I was afraid of change.
06:17I was afraid of change.
06:20I was afraid of change.
06:22I tried talking to a lot of people.
06:25I tried talking to a lot of people.
06:27But I didn't meet her.
06:29Yeah, that's scary.
06:31Inada, have you ever met a person from Matching App?
06:35I've met him a few times.
06:36Oh, you've met him a few times?
06:37Yes, he noticed me in a photo and sent me a DM saying,
06:40Congratulations on winning The W.
06:43He sent me a DM from Matching App.
06:45I thought he was just trying to fool me.
06:46I'm here to fall in love.
06:48He has a strong voice.
06:50You haven't met anyone?
06:51Well, when I was in my 20s and 30s, Matching App didn't exist.
06:56I've been dating people I met naturally.
06:59So I thought, maybe I'll meet someone.
07:04Maybe I'll meet someone.
07:07I'm 54 years old.
07:09I don't think I've ever met anyone.
07:11How about you, Satoshi?
07:13Do you go out drinking?
07:15No, I don't go out drinking.
07:18But I think people who go out drinking care about their time.
07:24You don't go out drinking when you meet someone?
07:27No, I don't.
07:28But when you were young, you went out drinking and fell in love, right?
07:35Yes, I did.
07:36I did when I was in my 20s.
07:37But when I was in my 40s, I didn't go out drinking.
07:41I see.
07:42You get tired.
07:43When you're in a relationship, you need time, energy, money, and feelings.
07:48But when you're in a relationship, you need time, energy, money, and feelings.
07:51I'm saying that I'm not eager to go out drinking.
07:53But I go out drinking at least 8 times a year.
07:56That's enough.
07:58You go out drinking too much.
07:59I go out drinking a lot.
08:00How many times a year do you go out drinking?
08:02I don't.
08:04I don't even go out drinking with Okubo.
08:05Don't you have a day when you go out drinking?
08:10Do you go out drinking, too?
08:11I want her to hug me until I go crazy.
08:13I go out drinking about 10 times a year.
08:16You must be lonely.
08:18I suddenly want her to help me.
08:20Then, the next day, I go out drinking again.
08:22Calmly.
08:23Then, I go out drinking again.
08:24Then, I go out drinking again.
08:25Then, I go out drinking again.
08:26You're in your 30s.
08:28Yes.
08:29Don't you have any conditions?
08:31When I was in my 20s, I liked older men.
08:35I was attracted to them.
08:36For example, they were talented.
08:38But now, I like younger men.
08:42I like kind men.
08:44I see.
08:45I used to think that kind men were boring.
08:48But now, I like kind men.
08:51They are kind to me.
08:54Satoshi, you were nodding.
08:57When I was in my 20s, I liked kind men because they were kind to me.
09:02But now that I'm older, I like kind men because they are kind to me.
09:08I like men who make me feel good.
09:10I understand.
09:11I understand.
09:13How about you, Okubo?
09:14Do you have any conditions?
09:17I'm in my 20s.
09:19I want to live a peaceful life.
09:22I used to like bad men.
09:23I thought I was in love with men who make me feel good.
09:25Now, I want to live a peaceful life.
09:27But I don't know how to kiss a man who is peaceful and kind to me.
09:34I don't know how to kiss a man who is peaceful and kind to me.
09:35I don't know how to kiss a man who is peaceful and kind to me.
09:38Do you want to kiss me?
09:40Why do you say that?
09:43What are your conditions?
09:45I don't have any conditions for men when I get older.
09:49But I'll write down what I think.
09:52I don't like men who eat dirty food.
09:55I wrote down 30 conditions.
09:57I don't like men who ride thin bicycles.
10:01I don't like men who ride thin bicycles.
10:02It's good.
10:03I don't like men who wear headphones and play the wind-chill bicycle.
10:08It's good.
10:11How has Bendy changed from the past to the present?
10:15Right now, I like people who are independent.
10:22Everyone is in a strike zone.
10:25Independent means working and taking care of yourself?
10:30Yes, taking care of yourself.
10:32I think it would be nice to have a partner who can work hard with you.
10:36It's the same job.
10:37Isn't it the same job?
10:39No, it's not.
10:42It's the same job, right?
10:43Yes, it is.
10:44Do you understand each other's feelings?
10:46For example, I can't work at a company,
10:49so I think it's amazing that people who can do that can do what I can't.
10:53Oh, that's what you mean.
10:55You ran away.
10:57No, I didn't run away.
11:00What about Kumamoto?
11:02He's like a person who can't move.
11:06I want to be his lover, but I don't want to go out with him.
11:11Is there anyone who says that?
11:16What about Kumamoto?
11:18He's a person who doesn't say what he doesn't think.
11:21He doesn't have a driver's license.
11:23He's like a person who can't move.
11:28Then there must be more.
11:30It's all a matter of personality.
11:33If you're over 50 years old, what's your personality like?
11:39Not at all.
11:41I've heard rumors that people over the age of 40 will have a bad personality.
11:47I was so surprised that I couldn't tell the difference.
11:51What about Inada?
11:54The person I talked to the most was a person in his 50s.
11:59He was calm, and we had a good conversation.
12:02But his parents are a little older than him.
12:05So his parents were against it.
12:08But you're not getting married for your parents.
12:11That's right.
12:13I like my parents and I like you, but I can't say anything more.
12:20Don't you have any hurdles in your relationship?
12:25When I have a daughter, I have a hurdle.
12:29I want someone who will be kind to my daughter.
12:33I think it's a hassle.
12:35So I don't want to get married.
12:39I see.
12:40If you're going out, you have to think about marriage.
12:44It's difficult.
12:47I see.
12:48It's hard to choose.
12:51It's hard to live.
12:53Do you have any hurdles in your relationship?
12:56I don't have any hurdles.
12:58Really?
12:59I think I have a hurdle.
13:01There are people who like Inada, right?
13:04Yes.
13:05For example, drinking parties.
13:07Don't you have a feeling for him?
13:09The other day...
13:10He's been there lately?
13:12He said he lived in Omiya.
13:16I went to Omiya from there.
13:22He said he couldn't stay there for more than 30 minutes.
13:26He couldn't stay there.
13:28He wanted me to live closer to him.
13:30He said he would stay at his house.
13:33He said he would book a hotel for you.
13:36I didn't think about it.
13:40I'm sorry.
13:41I didn't think it was a good idea.
13:45You can go to Omiya and stay at his hotel.
13:48I can't do that.
13:49I can't go to Omiya right now.
13:51Where is Omiya?
13:53Does he think Omiya is Texas?
13:57How about you, Kumamoto?
13:58Do you have any hurdles?
13:59I don't have any hurdles.
14:00I think I forgive him.
14:02Really?
14:03It's hard to say.
14:05I don't want to complain.
14:06The other day, we were dating.
14:09It was during the pandemic.
14:11We could only meet at home.
14:14We were sharing a room.
14:16It was hard for me to come to his house.
14:18I went to a hotel.
14:20I'm sorry.
14:21It's a love hotel.
14:22It's not a love hotel.
14:23It's okay.
14:24It's a love hotel.
14:25It's okay.
14:26We could watch a movie together.
14:28We could eat together.
14:30We could go to karaoke together.
14:32I thought it was a good idea.
14:34I told him that I dated him for 3 years.
14:36He said,
14:37I just wanted to do it.
14:39I just wanted to do it.
14:40I didn't do anything.
14:42I just wanted to do it.
14:43You don't deny it.
14:44I just wanted to do it.
14:45It's not a hard question.
14:46I don't want to complain.
14:47What are you talking about?
14:48It's not a hard question.
14:50I didn't mean to ask you that.
14:51You are going to win The W.
14:53Do you think you will be popular if you win?
14:56I think so.
14:57I receive a lot of DMs.
15:00Really?
15:01I send a DM to Inna.
15:04She says,
15:05I won't go home.
15:06What should I do?
15:07She said,
15:08She doesn't like people who come to her house.
15:10So, she wanted me to do my best.
15:13I asked her,
15:14What do you think of Kumamoto-san?
15:17She said,
15:18Don't underestimate me.
15:19So, I sent a DM to her.
15:20You sent a DM to her.
15:21You sent a DM to her.
15:22She said,
15:23It's like she landed in my heart.
15:25It's not a big deal.
15:27But she landed in your heart.
15:29She landed in my heart.
15:31I don't know.
15:32I think female entertainers are not popular
15:35if they are famous.
15:37I think so.
15:38I think so.
15:39I think they talk about love.
15:44I think it's a little embarrassing.
15:47I think so.
15:48I don't think so.
15:49Female entertainers are popular.
15:51It's my problem.
15:54No, no, no.
15:55When I was on a TV show called Jouken,
15:59I was on the 25th floor.
16:01When I was on TV,
16:03I attracted a lot of men.
16:05You watched it?
16:06Yes.
16:07I thought it was because of the variety show.
16:09I thought it was because of the variety show.
16:11I really thought so.
16:12When I was on TV,
16:13I said,
16:14What are you doing?
16:15They said,
16:16He is a strict man.
16:18They were far away from me.
16:20You can show the gap.
16:22Can you teach me?
16:23Can you teach me?
16:24Can you teach me?
16:25Hello.
16:26Thank you for your hard work.
16:27I'm doing it.
16:28You have a good image.
16:29I'm doing it.
16:30In private,
16:32I say,
16:33Hello.
16:36That's not good.
16:39You say hello first.
16:40I say,
16:43Hello.
16:46How about you?
16:47Do you have any other problems with your partner?
16:49Do you have any other problems with your partner?
16:51Do you have any other problems with your partner?
16:53People say,
16:55I want to be a lover,
16:56but I don't want to date.
16:57No, it's not.
16:59Is there a person who says that?
17:01Yes, there is.
17:02I'm waiting for a person who says,
17:04I want to be a lover.
17:05If you know that the other person likes you, you'll probably get carried away.
17:08You'll be like, it's okay to say this.
17:10I had the impression that he would follow you no matter what you said.
17:13I guess so.
17:14But I think he was pretty easy-going.
17:18Is that so?
17:19No, no.
17:20He wasn't popular, so he wasn't easy to get along with.
17:23If I told him I liked him, he'd be happy.
17:26So I tried to get along with him.
17:28But the moment he told me he was a lover, I thought, oh, it's like an accessory.
17:33So I tried to stay away from him.
17:35I see. You don't think he's serious about you.
17:37Kumamoto, do you have a boyfriend?
17:39My first boyfriend was an employee at a part-time job.
17:46That's how I fell in love with him.
17:52I really like people who are like me.
17:54People with dark skin?
17:55Black and white, I don't care what color it is.
17:57I think black and white are all colors.
18:03We're looking forward to your subscription.
18:05We're looking for your concerns.
18:08It's hard to say to your family and friends, but if you have any concerns you'd like to talk to us about, please feel free to contact us.
18:15My first boyfriend was an employee at a part-time job.
18:19He was about 32 years old at the time.
18:22He was always late for work.
18:26He was the type of guy who was always late for work.
18:29He was always late for work, and his teeth were black.
18:32He was always late for work, and his teeth were black.
18:34I was like,
18:36Kumamoto, be mine.
18:38I fell in love with him.
18:41I fell in love with him.
18:46After a week, he started to give me 1,000 yen every day.
18:51He asked me to lend him 1,000 yen for a day's tobacco and lunch.
18:56He asked me to lend him 1,000 yen for a day's tobacco and lunch.
18:59He started to give me 1,000 yen every day.
19:01He asked me to lend him 50,000 yen for a day's tobacco and lunch.
19:05I felt so pathetic.
19:08After a while, we broke up.
19:11But since then, I've always liked men like him.
19:13What?
19:14Even now?
19:15Yes, I like men like him.
19:17Men with black teeth?
19:20Men with black teeth don't have to have white teeth.
19:23Black and white are a perfect match.
19:25You've seen them in your childhood.
19:27I think he's a perfect match.
19:30Next time, we'll talk about mental illness in depth.
19:35I recently found out that depression is a disease of the brain.
19:39I heard that it's reported in statistics.
19:41I was relieved when I was diagnosed with depression.
19:45Look forward to it.