Toxicity in Relationship || Acharya Prashant

Full video: The best way to deal with toxic people || Acharya Prashant, with NIT-Calicut (2022)

Transcript

00:00If toxicity knows that it would be thrown out of the window, it would change its ways.

00:06But it does not mend itself because it knows it would be accommodated.

00:10Why do you accommodate it so much?

00:12And by accommodating it, are you doing yourself any good?

00:15Are you doing the other person any good?

00:17That person will continue to remain toxic.

00:19You will continue to suffer.

00:21You will continue to feel like a victim.

00:23He will continue to be himself.

00:26Who is gaining?

00:27Nobody is gaining, right?

00:28You know what is the fundamental problem?

00:30Since we do not know who we really are, therefore we take on all kinds of needless roles,

00:37responsibilities, and identities.

00:39Every second lost to mischief is a second that you owed to your own inner progress.

00:47Every second lost to toxicity is a moment stolen away from its right utilization.

00:56Do you see what kind of loss that is?