Liezel Lopez, ibinahagi ang kuwento tungkol sa abusive boyfriend! | Mars Pa More
Ikinuwento ni Liezel Lopez na isa sa greatest fears niya ay ang masaktan muli dahil sa pinagdaanan niyang abuse sa kanyang ex-boyfriend.
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00:00Not all kinds of fear are visible to our eyes.
00:04Sometimes, the most dangerous ones are the ones in our minds that we ourselves create.
00:10You're correct, Mars.
00:11According to experts, these are fears that hold us back
00:17so that we can achieve our goals.
00:20So what we're going to do today,
00:22we're going to look for those.
00:24In our word search puzzle,
00:26we're going to encircle or list the first three that we can see
00:30as in, the first one that will catch our attention.
00:34Yes.
00:35Okay?
00:36So here's our puzzle.
00:38You also have one there.
00:39Okay.
00:40Okay, here it is, Mars.
00:41Here, we saw something there.
00:45Here, here, here.
00:46Oh.
00:47There, Mars.
00:48Here, I'm looking for something.
00:50Boink.
00:51Ah, I tied Mars.
00:53Oh no.
00:56Nice, Mars.
00:57Okay, we also saw Mars here.
01:00Done.
01:01Okay.
01:02So let's go to Lizelle first.
01:04Lizelle, what are the words that you saw?
01:07Okay, so the first thing I saw was loneliness, getting hurt, and also the loss of freedom.
01:16Loss of freedom.
01:17Okay.
01:18And you, Myrtle, what did you encircle?
01:21Mine, the first thing I saw was rejection.
01:24Okay.
01:25The second is being judged, and lastly, failure.
01:30Oh.
01:31Okay.
01:32So out of those three words, which one relates to you the most?
01:37Yes.
01:38Choose one.
01:39Choose one from the three that you saw.
01:41For me, I think getting hurt.
01:44Okay.
01:45Because once a person is hurt, they change.
01:47It will never be the same person, I think.
01:50It's either you're going to get worse or you're going to get better.
01:54But, you know.
01:55Have you experienced something in the past where you feel like it's changed you for the worse?
01:59The worst thing for me is that I had a boyfriend before who was physically hurting me.
02:08Oh.
02:09So it's not just emotional, it's also physical.
02:12So I think that's the worst.
02:15If you tell someone that you love them but they can't do it,
02:19how can you trust another person again and give yourself up?
02:22And how can you feel safe with someone who can actually hurt you in different ways?
02:28I guess, because I'm sure for a time, you weren't thinking much of it.
02:33You kind of just pass it off.
02:35So I'm sure your understanding of what love is was blurred.
02:40Yes.
02:41Okay.
02:42Ethel, how about you?
02:43What are the things that you've experienced that you can relate to?
02:47The thing that I really fear here, or the thing that I can relate to the most,
02:52is the fear of failure.
02:54Because as a person, I value all the opportunities that come to me.
03:00You know, when God gives you something,
03:03sometimes you're scared of failing or disappointing someone,
03:07or not giving your best into something.
03:09Recently, my outlook on life has changed.
03:12Instead of looking at my fears to stop me,
03:16if there's something that makes me feel uncomfortable,
03:21the more I pursue it, the more I'll jump.
03:24I will take that leap of faith and I will go for it.