Aired (August 23, 2024): Kilalanin ang mag-ex na sina Grace at Jack, na may 9 years age gap. Alamin ang kanilang istorya sa video na ito.
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00:00Sorry, it's just a sham.
00:02And they're happy.
00:04That's why I'm happy.
00:06That's why we're going to talk about
00:08Especially for you!
00:12Relationships with different perspectives
00:16are ready to share
00:18That's so hard!
00:20Relationships with different perspectives
00:22are ready to share stories
00:24and look back.
00:26Wow, good job!
00:28Before we continue,
00:30let's hear from our searchers
00:32and the lucky ones
00:34who will be chosen
00:36in the Work of Love Cafe
00:38in Pasig City.
00:40in Pasig City.
00:44One of them is already
00:46on the marrying stage.
00:48But the partner
00:50is still far from
00:52the marriage in her mind.
00:54Oh, Em!
00:56Their difference
00:58became the meaning
01:00of a different relationship.
01:02Here's our special couple for today.
01:24When your day is long
01:46And the night
01:48The night is yours alone
01:58When you're sure you've had enough
02:06Of this life
02:10Well, let go
02:18Don't let yourself go
02:28Cause everybody cries
02:38Everybody hurts sometimes
02:54Everybody hurts sometimes
02:58So hold on
03:10Thank you so much, Marian Osabel!
03:14Everybody hurts!
03:16And welcome!
03:18Especially for you, Grace and Jack!
03:20Welcome!
03:22Hello, guys!
03:24Oh, you're twinning!
03:26What are you talking about?
03:28We're just laughing.
03:30Ogie is still with us in the dark.
03:32I'm with you
03:34for the third week.
03:36Oh, cute!
03:38But it happens sometimes, right?
03:40Yes.
03:42Not on purpose.
03:44Not on purpose?
03:46But when you were still together,
03:48did you have a twinning color?
03:50No, we didn't.
03:52But there are couples
03:54when you're always together,
03:56you almost wear the same clothes.
03:58Not on purpose, right?
04:00You don't wear it like that.
04:02Did you do that, Kim?
04:04I just noticed.
04:06You're wearing the same
04:08wavelengths.
04:10Yes.
04:12Are you two twins?
04:14You're so mean!
04:16She just read it in the book.
04:18Oh, sorry.
04:20She's so mean.
04:22I don't want to get mad.
04:26Grace, how are you today?
04:28I'm okay.
04:30Grace looks happy.
04:32She's smiling.
04:34But Jack looks sad.
04:36Are you crying, Jack?
04:38No.
04:40I'm okay.
04:42When was the last time you saw each other?
04:44Last year.
04:46We broke up.
04:48This is the last time you saw each other?
04:50This is the last time.
04:52You're still wearing the same clothes.
04:54Yes.
04:56It's their anniversary.
04:58They saw each other last year.
05:00Break up anniversary.
05:02After one year,
05:04we're together again.
05:06How do you feel now, Grace?
05:08After you saw Jack again?
05:10I'm okay.
05:12I don't have any other...
05:14Didn't you say,
05:16Jack, save me?
05:18What's that?
05:20I'm okay.
05:22I've moved on.
05:24I don't have any other feelings.
05:26You're okay.
05:28How about you, Jack?
05:30I'm a bit confused.
05:34Confused?
05:36Why are you confused, Jack?
05:38Do you still like Grace?
05:40No.
05:42I'm just thinking
05:44what if.
05:46What if?
05:48Can you share with us?
05:50What do you mean by what if?
05:52Give us 200 examples.
05:54Don't give us too many.
05:56Just two.
05:58If we didn't
06:00let go of our relationship,
06:02what would we be now?
06:04You two are still together.
06:06It hurts.
06:08You've been together for two years.
06:10Do you have any regrets, Jack?
06:12Nothing.
06:14Just what ifs.
06:16Before we talk about what ifs,
06:18let's know
06:20how they met.
06:22Can you tell us?
06:24Where did it all start?
06:26Grace.
06:28We met at a hotel.
06:30But
06:32you're thinking wrong.
06:34We're not thinking anything.
06:36Grace.
06:38Who would think that?
06:40Grace, we just met.
06:42Grace, we just met.
06:44We met at a coffee shop.
06:46No one judged us.
06:48At my age,
06:50I can't do that to you.
06:52What did you do there, Grace?
06:54Did you see each other?
06:56I stayed at a hotel
06:58where I work.
07:00Who's with you, Grace?
07:02Just me.
07:04What year is this?
07:06Two years ago.
07:082021.
07:10Pandemic.
07:12That's why you're on staycation.
07:14She's also working.
07:16What does she do?
07:18She's a staff.
07:20She just stopped.
07:22She's just a staff.
07:24Staff.
07:26S-F-F-F.
07:28And?
07:30She's usually the one who serves.
07:32She assists.
07:34Everyday,
07:36we're close.
07:38For how many days?
07:40One week.
07:42So she's always serving you?
07:44Yes, she's always serving me.
07:46I'm a bit curious.
07:48Why is she always there?
07:50She's hardworking.
07:52Why is she always there?
07:54She's just a staff.
07:56Why are you always there?
07:58Because at that time,
08:00there were people
08:02who couldn't go to work.
08:04Because of the pandemic.
08:06So I was the one
08:08who's always there
08:10even on my day-off.
08:12So you're like a double duty?
08:14Yes.
08:16But it's not because you're
08:18obsessed with her beauty?
08:20Actually, that's also the reason.
08:22I didn't expect that.
08:24How many days before you realized
08:26that you're obsessed with her?
08:28Did you fall in love at first sight?
08:30Something like that.
08:32So sometimes,
08:34when you have to work,
08:36you're like,
08:38I'll do this.
08:40Yes, I block her.
08:42Is that what happens
08:44when Grace enters the room?
08:48Someone's sleeping.
08:50Someone's sleeping?
08:52Oh my gosh!
08:54It's like,
08:56there's a delivery
08:58in room 337.
09:00I'll do this.
09:02Jack is so hardworking.
09:04Did you notice that, Grace?
09:06Did you notice that
09:08he's always there?
09:10Yes, he's always there.
09:12But I also noticed that
09:14when I saw him.
09:16Actually, you two are
09:18the same. You're both so cute.
09:22Actually, you two match.
09:24And then?
09:26I'm so excited!
09:28Because the story is so cute.
09:30Very cutesy.
09:32Very cutesy, very demure,
09:34very caring, very popular.
09:36Very mindful to Jack.
09:38And then, how did you two start dating?
09:40Oh!
09:42Oh!
09:44Oh!
09:46Oh!
09:48Oh!
09:50But...
09:52Grace is laughing.
09:54I also noticed that
09:56on his last day at work,
09:58he's not there anymore.
10:00He's at work.
10:02You're so good at investigating
10:04on his last day.
10:06He's monitoring.
10:08He's checking records.
10:10Oh! He's checking out!
10:12Oh! He's checking out!
10:14Oh! He's checking out!
10:16Oh! He's checking out!
10:18You two are so similar.
10:20He's my friend, Jack.
10:22So, what did you do
10:24when you found out that
10:26he's not there anymore?
10:28So, when I found out
10:30that it's his last day,
10:32I got his strength of mind.
10:34How did you get his strength of mind?
10:36Oh my gosh!
10:38He doesn't remember.
10:40And then?
10:42I approached him.
10:44I asked him if he has a boyfriend at that time.
10:46He said no.
10:48How did you approach him?
10:50For example, I'm Jack.
10:52Grace is Jack, right?
10:54Ma'am, Bella is the door.
10:56Oh, really?
11:00No, I'm inside.
11:02No, it's his last day.
11:04It's his last day.
11:06It's his last day.
11:08I did it.
11:10You made a door.
11:12It's his best actress.
11:14And the door is like an elevator.
11:16It's his best actress.
11:18For example, Jack, I'm you.
11:20Grace is him, right?
11:24Chang is beautiful.
11:26Where's the bathroom here?
11:28I'm sorry.
11:30Grace, I heard that
11:32you're leaving.
11:34Yeah.
11:36Yeah.
11:38Very demure, right?
11:40I'm embarrassed.
11:42Grace,
11:44can I borrow?
11:46Can I invite you
11:48for a date?
11:50On Mother's Day?
11:54Grace, stop it.
11:56Stop it.
11:58I'm confused with her life story.
12:00Where were you, Grace?
12:02Were you inside the room?
12:04How did he make the doorbell?
12:06Yes, I was there.
12:08He asked me.
12:10Ma'am, you're happy.
12:12I opened the door.
12:16What did Jack say?
12:18He just asked
12:20if I'm not going to extend.
12:22I said no.
12:24Because
12:26your stay is only for one week.
12:30He didn't surprise you?
12:32What did he ask?
12:34Did he ask for your number?
12:36He asked for my Facebook.
12:38We talked there
12:40after the staycation.
12:42When did he invite you
12:44to meet again?
12:46After one day?
12:48After two weeks.
12:50Was it a constant communication?
12:52Yes, we chatted a lot.
12:54Did you get tired of chatting?
12:56Yes.
13:00I'm sure you felt something
13:02because you didn't reply for two weeks.
13:04If you don't like someone,
13:06you don't reply.
13:08Or you don't reply fast.
13:10That's how it is.
13:12If you don't reply fast,
13:14if you're not interested.
13:16If you're interested,
13:18you don't reply fast.
13:20Sometimes, it takes a long time
13:22to reply.
13:24You have to wait for it to be perfect.
13:26That's how it is.
13:28When did your first date start?
13:30After two weeks, right?
13:32After two weeks.
13:34How did it start?
13:36Where did you go?
13:38We just ate at the restaurant.
13:40At the hotel where he works.
13:42How did you plan it?
13:44How did you prepare it?
13:46Since I'm tight on my budget,
13:48I saved up
13:50for the date.
13:52I saved up the tips
13:54that I got.
13:58I invited him for a simple
14:00meal.
14:02Is that the name?
14:04A simple meal?
14:06A simple meal.
14:08I was happy
14:10because he agreed.
14:12Of course, he agreed.
14:14He agreed.
14:16Bingbing?
14:18Sorry.
14:20I'm old, but the door is open.
14:22The door is closed.
14:24You're too loud.
14:26Bingbing is laughing.
14:28Bingbing.
14:32Sorry.
14:36I think we were in love
14:38at that time.
14:40I made him laugh.
14:42Jack, do you feel
14:44that you have hope?
14:46Grace will answer this.
14:48I didn't
14:50assume.
14:52Yes.
14:54I don't want to expect
14:56that I can answer her.
14:58I need to work first.
15:00Or you enjoyed
15:02your time together.
15:04Getting to know each other.
15:06Can you say that
15:08your relationship started
15:10when you were happy?
15:12Yes, very happy.
15:14How many months?
15:16Before you became a couple.
15:18What are the happy moments, Grace?
15:20We went on
15:22rides and strolls.
15:24I like to ride a motorcycle.
15:26Really?
15:28She has a motorcycle.
15:30We went on a road trip.
15:32We went sightseeing.
15:34We went to the mountains.
15:36Maybe you didn't have bangs then.
15:38It's a long story.
15:40If you remove your bangs,
15:42it will be like that.
15:44How?
15:46It will be like that.
15:50When I wore a helmet,
15:52you can feel
15:54that there's a lot of hair on your body.
15:56Especially on your face.
15:58You can't reach it.
16:00Of course.
16:02Jack can ride a motorcycle.
16:04Of course.
16:06They even vlogged.
16:08Right away.
16:12So those are the moments that you enjoy.
16:14Yes, that's the happiest moment.
16:16And she's kind.
16:18Both of you are kind.
16:20Since we've been together for 9 years,
16:22I like
16:24old-fashioned things.
16:28In a way,
16:30when you open the door,
16:32when you sit down,
16:34he does it at his age.
16:36Even if he's younger.
16:38Did you teach him?
16:40No.
16:42That's what impressed me.
16:44Sorry, how old are you now?
16:4636.
16:48How about Jack?
16:5027.
16:52Didn't you feel intimidated
16:54that he's older than you?
16:56I didn't think about it.
17:00When I saw him,
17:02I didn't think about it.
17:04Actually, I didn't notice it.
17:06It's not a factor.
17:08But Grace,
17:10since Jack is 9 years younger than you,
17:12didn't you feel
17:14that he's younger than you?
17:16Maybe he likes you more?
17:18Maybe he's not serious.
17:20It's not just that.
17:22Women mature earlier.
17:24Maybe you didn't feel it at the same time.
17:26Actually,
17:28before I answered,
17:30I felt bad for myself.
17:32Because it's the first time
17:34that I had a relationship
17:36with someone younger than me.
17:38For me,
17:40I was scared
17:42for him.
17:44Because I was selfless at that time.
17:46I was like,
17:48wait, why?
17:50Does he really like me?
17:52If he really likes me,
17:54I felt sorry for him.
17:56Why?
17:58Because I was selfless.
18:00I felt like
18:02I'm more suitable for him.
18:04Instead of me.
18:06At that time,
18:08who decided
18:10on the relationship?
18:12At that time,
18:14there was no under-under.
18:16It was just fair.
18:18Sorry,
18:20Grace was the guide.
18:22She was our guide.
18:24Was she a tour guide?
18:26Was she a guide for big decisions?
18:28Or just for everyday things?
18:30For everything.
18:32Actually,
18:34I was like,
18:36I know it's right
18:38to make decisions
18:40but
18:42others don't.
18:44She was the one who
18:46corrected me.
18:48Did you ever ask her
18:50if you really want to do it?
18:52Did you ask her?
18:54So, it means
18:56you really value your opinions
18:58and perspective, Grace?
19:00It's good. It's rare for men
19:02to accept that.
19:04If it's like that,
19:06do you introduce her to your friends?
19:08Do you introduce her to your parents?
19:10If you look at them,
19:12Grace doesn't look like she's 9 years old.
19:14Grace is really pretty.
19:16So if you don't...
19:18I thought she's Kulot's and Kelsey's friend.
19:20I thought
19:22she's 100 years old.
19:24I'm just kidding.
19:26Go, Jack.
19:28Did you introduce her to your friends?
19:32We're on the same side.
19:34We didn't hide it.
19:36Why did you hide it?
19:38Even from your friends?
19:40No.
19:42My friends know her.
19:44Why did you hide it
19:46from your family?
19:48Maybe
19:50I'm just avoiding
19:52what they might say
19:54since our age gap is long.
19:56So, you decided
19:58not to tell them
20:00or introduce them?
20:02It's the same.
20:04Mutual.
20:06And it's okay for you, Grace?
20:08It's better for me.
20:10I asked my parents
20:12to know that I have a younger partner.
20:14My friends are also my age.
20:16I'm already an aunt.
20:18At my age,
20:20I'm already an aunt.
20:22You're still young.
20:24Who said that?
20:26It's not obvious to her.
20:28Jack said that.
20:30I have a lot of bashers friends.
20:32You have a lot of bashers friends?
20:34Why are you like that?
20:36Your partner is younger than you.
20:38Maybe you're the one
20:40who's always complaining.
20:42So, there's a fear of judgment.
20:44Both of you are afraid.
20:46Both of you are afraid.
20:48I have a question.
20:50How long have you been together?
20:52We've been together for 10 years.
20:54How about you?
20:56Are you still the same?
20:58Didn't you introduce her?
21:00No, I introduced her.
21:02I told her that she's 72
21:04and I'm only 32.
21:06It's the opposite.
21:08She looks older than me.
21:10I'm just kidding.
21:12I'm just kidding.
21:14You know,
21:16we never thought of
21:18the age
21:20and the fact that
21:22we'll be judged by other people.
21:24But we know that there are
21:26things that other people can say about us.
21:28You can't please them all.
21:30Yes, you can't please them all.
21:32And to begin with, we're the only ones
21:34in a relationship.
21:36So, I guess that's our strength
21:38at that time.
21:40We were confident that
21:42we love each other.
21:44It's the relationship between the two of you.
21:46Yes, so we didn't think about
21:48what they'll say.
21:50Actually, I got that from Carlo.
21:52He doesn't care.
21:54He's very secure.
21:56Yes, he's very secure with himself.
21:58So, that never became
22:00an issue for us.
22:02That's why you can see that
22:04you love each other so much.
22:06We've been together for 14 years.
22:08And all the women who got married
22:10here at Showtime
22:12are older than the men.
22:14Yael,
22:16Ann,
22:18Ann and Erwan.
22:20So, you know.
22:22I'm the youngest.
22:24Bella is also older than Bella
22:26by 2 years.
22:28But we're not married yet.
22:30So, we're just younger.
22:32Excuse me, there are two here.
22:34I was talking about the married ones.
22:36Oggy,
22:38Is Regine older than you?
22:40No, I'm older.
22:42It's just the girls.
22:44It's not just the girls.
22:46It's not just the girls.
22:48It's not just the girls.
22:50It's just the girls.
22:52So, what do you feel
22:54when you hear that they're working?
22:56And I'm confident
22:58that age didn't become a factor.
23:00Yes, it's not about age.
23:02It's just the two of you.
23:04So, you shouldn't worry about the noise outside.
23:06So, what happened?
23:08What do you feel now that
23:10they can still work?
23:12Is that the reason why you broke up?
23:14That's one of the reasons.
23:16It's one of the factors.
23:18Actually, I have a problem
23:20because I also have insecurities.
23:22Ah, okay.
23:24So, my insecurities led me
23:26to leave our management.
23:28Why are you insecure?
23:30Because Jack is...
23:32He's my age.
23:34Does he like to go out?
23:36He also likes to party.
23:38Actually, I made a lot of adjustments
23:40when it comes to
23:42partying.
23:44I don't like to party.
23:46I'm with him
23:48so that he can be happy.
23:50So, you made him
23:52do whatever he wants.
23:54That's why it doesn't work for you.
23:56That's why the impact on me
23:58is that I'm not happy.
24:00It's not me.
24:02Which is valid.
24:04You don't want to be noisy?
24:06Yes, I don't want to be noisy.
24:08I'll correct him.
24:10He said that
24:12he only drinks with his friends
24:14when he's partying.
24:16But it's not the same party.
24:18It's not the same clubbing.
24:20It's not the same party.
24:22It's like a drinking party.
24:24And you're with him.
24:26When you're with him,
24:28does he talk to you?
24:30He's quiet.
24:34He's really quiet.
24:38If he's not asked,
24:40he won't answer.
24:42Maybe he's not comfortable.
24:44Did you make an effort
24:46to do an activity
24:48that Grace
24:50likes?
24:52Yes.
24:54What is it?
24:56When we go
24:58to the park,
25:00he's literally
25:02the only one
25:04who rides with us.
25:06So it's more for Grace?
25:08Yes.
25:10Grace likes strolling and sightseeing.
25:12Tour, nature.
25:14How about you, Jack?
25:16What are the events in your life
25:18that you can't forget?
25:20Oh!
25:22Oh, Jack!
25:24You know,
25:26Jack's smile is different.
25:30It's just funny.
25:32It should be funny.
25:36That time,
25:38we went to a park
25:40in Manila.
25:42We were supposed to buy
25:44street food like kwek-kwek.
25:46But we couldn't.
25:48Why?
25:50Did you leave the market?
25:52I dropped some money
25:54in my pocket.
25:56Now,
25:58someone approached us.
26:00When they saw
26:02the coins in my hand
26:04that we were supposed to buy
26:06kwek-kwek,
26:08they asked for it.
26:10But I said,
26:12I don't have any.
26:14But I held it.
26:16Now, they chased us.
26:18That's funny.
26:20It's memorable.
26:24I really want kwek-kwek.
26:26It's a simple story.
26:28But it's cute.
26:30They chased us.
26:32Hurry up!
26:34Hurry up!
26:36Let's buy fish ball.
26:38If there's an extra,
26:40I'll be happy.
26:42I'll give it to them.
26:44But it's a tight budget.
26:46It's a tight budget.
26:48It's your fault.
26:50But Grace, at the age of 36,
26:52didn't you talk about
26:54settling down?
26:56Or do you want
26:58to settle down together?
27:00I want to.
27:02Because at my age,
27:04I'm already settling down.
27:06But at her age,
27:08I never mentioned it.
27:10I know that at her age,
27:12she'll start her goals,
27:14her dreams,
27:16her help to her parents.
27:18I don't want to be a hindrance.
27:20So, you're not talking about it yet.
27:22You already planned it?
27:24Yes.
27:26I had a plan at that time.
27:28To propose to Grace.
27:30To be with Grace in the future.
27:32Or are you already thinking about it?
27:34Are you already thinking about it?
27:36Chang, he's already thinking about it.
27:38Are you already thinking about it?
27:40At that time, Chang?
27:42Can you forgive my accent?
27:44Wait a minute.
27:48Go ahead, Jack.
27:52I'm already thinking about it.
27:54But,
27:56at that time,
27:58I'm not thinking about it yet.
28:00Because,
28:02I'm still thinking about
28:04my mother and father
28:06that I'll leave.
28:10They can do it,
28:12but,
28:14I'm already supporting them.
28:16Yes, I'm already supporting them.
28:18I'm the only one
28:20who doesn't have a family.
28:22I don't want to leave
28:24them alone.
28:26Are you honest with Grace?
28:28Yes.
28:30You said that's the situation in your house.
28:32Yes.
28:34You don't know about Grace.
28:36That's what you're thinking about.
28:38You didn't know about it.
28:40Now, you're hearing about it.
28:42Yes.
28:44What's the reason why you two broke up?
28:46The number one reason
28:48is the age gap.
28:50The age gap.
28:52It started when I became cold to him.
28:54I was avoiding him.
28:56He changed.
28:58He became a drinker.
29:00He always leaves.
29:02Then,
29:04his performance at work
29:06is not good anymore.
29:08His work is neglected.
29:10How is it not good?
29:12He doesn't go to work anymore.
29:14Sometimes, he doesn't go to work anymore.
29:16But before he changed,
29:18you also changed to him.
29:20You said that you became cold to him.
29:22He became insecure.
29:24That might be the effect of Jack.
29:26Yes.
29:28He didn't verbalize to you.
29:30Yes.
29:32Let's ask Jack.
29:34Is that the reason why you go out and drink with friends?
29:36Yes.
29:38Because,
29:40my world revolves around him.
29:42Aside from work.
29:44Then,
29:46suddenly,
29:48I don't know why
29:50at first.
29:52Why did he become cold?
29:54I don't know.
29:56Then,
29:58I reached the point that
30:02I reached the point that
30:04I always
30:06invite people
30:08to drink with me.
30:10Even if we are in the same place.
30:12I invite people to drink with me.
30:14Since you do that,
30:16don't you want to see him?
30:18Because it's heavy.
30:20Why did he suddenly change?
30:22So that I can forget him.
30:24So that you can forget yourself.
30:26Yes.
30:28Because when I drink,
30:30I feel peaceful.
30:32I feel peaceful.
30:34But when we drink,
30:36it's just a temporary thing.
30:38There's always a problem.
30:40There's always an escape.
30:42But the next day, it's still there.
30:44It's heavier.
30:46Yes.
30:48Didn't you face him
30:50so that you can talk to him?
30:52I didn't open up to him.
30:54Now, you hear each other's side.
30:56What are your realizations?
30:58What are the things
31:00that you hope to do?
31:02I hope that
31:04my biggest wish is
31:06that
31:08instead of
31:12drinking with a girl,
31:14I hope that
31:16I can reach her.
31:18Do you know this, Grace?
31:20Or are you just hearing it now?
31:22You caught him.
31:24In the act or in the text?
31:26In the act.
31:28What do they look like?
31:30No, it's in the act.
31:32It's in the act.
31:34It's in the act.
31:36Is it like this?
31:38It's closer.
31:40How?
31:42It's like this.
31:44It's an act.
31:46It's an act.
31:48I didn't do an act.
31:50It's just like that.
31:52It's just like that.
31:54I saw them.
31:56Did you confront them?
31:58No, I was just far away.
32:00When I saw them,
32:02I just left.
32:04Why did you think of going there?
32:06I called him and chatted with him.
32:08He didn't reply.
32:10I thought that
32:12he might be there
32:14drinking.
32:16I saw him there.
32:18What did you feel when you saw him?
32:20It hurts.
32:22Did you cry?
32:24No, I didn't.
32:26Did you hear him?
32:28He cried on the Fx.
32:30If you were Grace,
32:32when you saw him,
32:34what would you do?
32:36What would you do?
32:38I would slap him.
32:40Was there a slap in the bar?
32:42Yes, there was.
32:44They were just in the corner.
32:46You would slap him.
32:48Raise your hand.
32:50It's just like that.
32:52It's just like that.
32:54It's just like that.
32:56It's just like that.
32:58Do you like Jackie's crop top?
33:00Yes.
33:02You would go to the post office
33:04and you would cry.
33:06But you wouldn't be surprised.
33:08You would go to the post office?
33:10Yes.
33:12A lot of people would pee on the post office.
33:14You would go to the post office?
33:16I didn't think of that.
33:18I didn't think of that.
33:20Of course, I know how you feel.
33:22You shouldn't go to the post office.
33:24Now, we know.
33:26It's so hot again.
33:28What is that?
33:30She would cry when she goes home
33:32when there's no one in front of her.
33:34When there's no one looking at her.
33:36Did you say anything to him?
33:38No, I didn't.
33:40It's hard because you two are the only ones
33:42who are together.
33:44Now, you have a problem.
33:46My parents don't know.
33:48So, I can't be open to my mom.
33:50And you can't tell your friends.
33:52The bashers.
33:54Because they will answer you.
33:58But what if you get caught?
34:00Yes.
34:02They will just tell you.
34:04Who's your girlfriend?
34:06Your close friend?
34:08She's with my friend
34:10who I invited.
34:12Actually, there are three of us.
34:14Where's the other one?
34:16I think she's in the bathroom.
34:18That's perfect.
34:20Wow.
34:22She's your friend.
34:24I'll take care of it.
34:26Grace said, you're amazing.
34:28So, how was it?
34:30Did you know that you were caught?
34:32Yes, I saw her.
34:34You saw her looking at you?
34:36Did you chase her?
34:38I chased her.
34:40Since there were so many people,
34:42I couldn't chase her.
34:44If you want, there's a way.
34:46If you don't want, there's a reason.
34:48If you don't want,
34:50you can't chase her.
34:52It's like what happened to you.
34:54No.
34:56It means that she's enjoying it.
34:58I went outside.
35:00But I didn't see her.
35:02You saw her?
35:06How did you explain it the day after?
35:08How did you explain it to her?
35:10I explained it to her.
35:12It was a long message.
35:14You were with the girl.
35:16Did you talk to her through text?
35:18Yes.
35:22I think she didn't want to show it.
35:24Of course.
35:26And she got hurt.
35:28You didn't reply because you were just drinking.
35:30Something really happened to her.
35:32She got hurt.
35:34You should understand that she can't reply.
35:36It was a long message.
35:38She didn't even breathe.
35:42It was a long message.
35:46Is that the reason why you broke up?
35:48Yes.
35:50So that's the final answer.
35:52You said that you don't want it anymore.
35:54So you broke up because of the message.
35:56Or you saw each other?
35:58We saw each other personally
36:00on August 1,
36:02last year.
36:04Okay.
36:06It was a closure.
36:08It was an official breakup.
36:10We talked in a coffee shop.
36:16I don't want it anymore.
36:18I don't want it to happen to my age.
36:20You're not sure.
36:22I'm not sure.
36:24I'm confused.
36:26I don't have blessings.
36:28It's hard to have a relationship
36:30where you don't know
36:32how to have a relationship
36:34where you don't have blessings from your parents.
36:36I believe in that.
36:38What if you get married one day
36:40and that's when you get to know each other?
36:42Your parents have a heavy heart.
36:44They don't have blessings.
36:46Their life is heavy.
36:48That's right.
36:50What did you learn from your relationship?
36:56You should talk about your problems.
36:58Don't blame yourself.
37:00Yes.
37:02That's one of the keys
37:04to have a good relationship.
37:06To have a good conversation
37:08with your partner.
37:10If you can change anything
37:12in your last moments,
37:14what would it be?
37:16Maybe...
37:20He saw me with a girl.
37:22Maybe I shouldn't have
37:24allowed him to drink.
37:26I should have talked to him
37:28so that we can
37:30fix the problem.
37:32Or if you broke up,
37:34you broke up.
37:36Yes.
37:38Sorry,
37:40but didn't you sleep together
37:42when you saw me?
37:44Didn't you go on a date?
37:46We did, but it didn't work out.
37:48But at least now,
37:50you're willing to help
37:52and look for a date.
37:54Yes.
37:56Are you okay with that?
37:58Yes.
38:00Are you okay with that?
38:02Are you okay with
38:04getting to know someone new?
38:06It's okay if you have
38:08a new friend.
38:10But I hope you'll get rid of
38:12your insecurities.
38:14You're so beautiful.
38:16Age is just a number.
38:18Look at Chuck.
38:20And you should be
38:22the first one to
38:24have the courage.
38:26That's what you're saying.
38:28Have the courage
38:30and trust the second one.
38:32There's someone for you.
38:34Yes.
38:36There's someone for you
38:38and there's someone for Chuck.
38:40Yes.
38:42That's why, Bella.
38:44That's why.
38:46It's time to meet our searchees.
38:48Searchee No. 1, reveal.
38:54What's up, Madlang people?
38:56I am Doc Yow.
38:58I'm 32 years old.
39:00I'm the singing doctor
39:02of Olongapo City.
39:04Oh, Doc Yow.
39:06Singing doctor of Olongapo City.
39:08Maybe he's good at dancing.
39:10Singing.
39:12He can do moves.
39:14Doc, can you sample the chorus?
39:16Can you sing Grace's part?
39:18Okay.
39:20You, oh you
39:22The morning and the night
39:24You, oh you
39:28The present and the past
39:30You, oh you
39:32He's doing an opera.
39:34Every moment
39:36Before the patient can sleep.
39:38Doc, let's try to dance.
39:40Dancing.
39:42Dancing, Doc.
39:44That's it, Doc.
39:46That's it, Doc.
39:48Doc, when you go out,
39:50Mr. Suave will come.
39:52Of course.
39:54He's my idol.
39:56You're still an idol.
39:58Thank you, Doc Yow.
40:00What kind of doctor are you, Doc Yow?
40:02I'm a general physician.
40:04General physician.
40:06I usually handle dialysis patients
40:08and ER patients.
40:10That's a lot of blood.
40:12In the ER.
40:14You always need to be prepared for emergencies.
40:16Yes.
40:18Doc, you're good at under pressure.
40:20Yes.
40:22Grace, under pressure.
40:26You're good, Kim.
40:28You're good, Kim.
40:30Do you have a pick-up line, Doc?
40:32Yes, I do.
40:34Okay.
40:40Grace.
40:42Yes.
40:44I wish I was your right hand.
40:46Why?
40:48Because when there's a flag ceremony,
40:50I'll hold your heart.
40:54That's different.
40:58Grace is so cute.
41:00Thank you, Doc Yow.
41:02He.
41:04Yow.
41:06Thank you, Doc Yow.
41:08Now we know each other.
41:10Searching over to reveal.
41:14What's up, Madlam people?
41:16What's up?
41:18Hola, Carlitos.
41:20Hola.
41:22This is Carlitos.
41:24I'm 40 years old.
41:26I am from Spain.
41:28I am a real estate manager.
41:30Wow.
41:32Carlitos, Carlitos.
41:34How are you today?
41:36How are you?
41:38Italian.
41:40How are you?
41:42Introduce yourself.
41:44Montevelo.
41:46I'm from Dr. Bigbello.
41:48Buenas.
41:50Buenas.
41:52Buenos dias.
41:54Buenas tardes.
41:56Buenas tardes.
41:58That's correct.
42:00What's up, Madlam people?
42:02Excuse me, can you repeat?
42:04Please translate.
42:06Can you say,
42:08What's up, Madlam people?
42:10Can you say,
42:12What's up, Madlam people?
42:14In Spanish.
42:16What's up, Madlam people?
42:18What's up, Madlam people?
42:20What's up, Madlam people?
42:22What's up?
42:24What's up?
42:26El Toro, El Toro.
42:28This is it.
42:30This is it.
42:36Carlitos.
42:38Thank you very much, El Toro.
42:40Let's ask Carlitos.
42:42Let's ask, where are you from in Spain?
42:44I am from the
42:46northwest of Spain, which is
42:48called Vigo.
42:50Vigo.
42:52That's new, Vigo.
42:54In the letter.
42:56That's Vigo.
42:58Welcome to Showtime, Carlitos.
43:00Thank you so much.
43:02He doesn't speak Spanish.
43:04Just a little bit.
43:06How old are you, Carlitos?
43:08How young are you?
43:10I'm 40 years old.
43:12Do you have a pick-up line?
43:14Yes, I do.
43:16Please say your pick-up line.
43:18Drop it like it's hot, now.
43:22Grace,
43:24I don't know what's
43:26wrong with my eyes.
43:28Why?
43:30Because I cannot stop staring
43:32at you.
43:38I like the delivery.
43:40Very good, very good.
43:44Thank you, Carlitos.
43:46Now, let's listen to
43:48search number three, Ruby.
43:54What's up, Madlang people?
43:58Sir Mond, 36, is the
44:00math teacher of Pasig City.
44:04Mond also speaks Spanish.
44:06Where are you from, Mond?
44:08Pasig City.
44:10He said, I'm Sir Mond.
44:12He's Doc Yao.
44:14He's Sir Carlitos.
44:16I'm a math teacher.
44:18Math teacher.
44:20Okay.
44:22Sir Mond, where are you teaching?
44:24Pasig City.
44:26How long have you been a teacher?
44:28Since 2009.
44:3014 years.
44:3215, 2024.
44:34You're right.
44:36You're a math teacher.
44:38No, I'm not.
44:40Sorry, sorry.
44:46Do you have a pick-up line?
44:48Yes, I do.
44:50Pick-up line, Sir Mond.
44:52Grace, do you have a math problem?
44:54Why?
44:56Because I'm ready to have a hard time.
44:58I just need to get the right answer from you.
45:02That's the sweetest.
45:04Let's ask Jack.
45:06Jack, who do you think
45:08will be Grace's pick-up line?
45:12For me,
45:14maybe
45:16number one.
45:18Why, Doc Yao?
45:20Because...
45:24He's good at math.
45:26I thought it was free dialysis.
45:30I thought it was free.
45:34He's the kindest.
45:36For me.
45:38Who's the...
45:40Savage.
45:42What?
45:44Who's the...
45:46No.
45:48Who's the gallant?
45:50It's 2.
45:52It's 2.
45:54The real estate agent.
45:56Who's the teacher?
45:58It's 2.
46:00It's 2, too.
46:02It's Joe.
46:04You made Jack smile again.
46:06He's a bit sad.
46:08Grace, are you ready with your question?
46:10So that we can get to know you better.
46:12Go.
46:16It's...
46:18For the camera.
46:22Is age a factor
46:24in getting married?
46:26Is age a factor
46:28in getting married? That's the question.
46:30Yeah. For Carlitos.
46:32Let's start with Carlitos.
46:34Let's start with number 2.
46:36So, age
46:38is not a problem.
46:40Once you
46:42reach a specific
46:44experience in your life.
46:46Let's say, once you reach
46:4825 to 30 years old,
46:50that's already done with
46:52your developing mentally,
46:54spiritually, and physically.
46:56So, that shouldn't
46:58be a problem anymore.
47:00As long as we are good listeners.
47:04Good listeners. Good point.
47:06For Doc,
47:08number 1.
47:10For me, I think age is really
47:12a big factor for marriage
47:14in a relationship because
47:16through age, the experience changes.
47:18It changes.
47:20Sometimes, we're different when we're 20 years old.
47:22We're different when we're 25. We're different when we're 30.
47:24We're different when we're 35. It changes
47:26through experience and through
47:28what we call
47:30the changes in life.
47:32We feel that
47:34maybe, there's always a time
47:36that this is time
47:38for us to be like this.
47:40But,
47:42I'm different now.
47:46I guess, with our age,
47:48we'll know more.
47:50For him, age is important.
47:52Yes.
47:54For your teacher.
47:56For me, it's not.
47:58As long as you're emotionally
48:00matured, financially matured,
48:02as they say, life is not a career.
48:04It's the same with love.
48:06Love is not a career.
48:08Be prepared for us
48:10to have a successful love life.
48:12Thank you, Sir Mon.
48:14Grace,
48:16who do you want to give the green flag
48:18out of the three?
48:20Who did you like?
48:22The number one
48:24because we have the same
48:26perspective.
48:28Number one.
48:30That's the second answer.
48:32The number one.
48:34Doc.
48:36It's the green flag.
48:38Doc Yao.
48:40Grace, what's your second question?
48:42What era are you in?
48:46What era are you in?
48:48Taylor Swift?
48:50Taylor Swift era.
48:52Hi, Ate Taylor.
48:54Carlitos, did you understand?
48:56Did you understand the question?
48:58What era are you in in your life?
49:00Is this your dating era, your marriage era?
49:02Like that.
49:04Not yet. Let's start with Teacher Mon.
49:06I thought he was going to say something.
49:08Yes, Mon.
49:10Number three.
49:12Teacher Mon first.
49:14Our number three.
49:16For me,
49:18I'm in the marriage era
49:20because as a breadwinner of the family,
49:22I'm able to give
49:24for them.
49:26At least for me,
49:28when I enter a relationship,
49:30there's no more games.
49:32That's right.
49:34Serious.
49:36Attack.
49:38How about you, Carlitos?
49:40For me,
49:42I'm a person that has been traveling a lot.
49:44I've been already here
49:46for seven years.
49:48I've been through a lot of eras in my life,
49:50but this is the time
49:52where I choose to
49:54go back in my house
49:56and settle
49:58and reduce my connections
50:00and also circle
50:02to the really truly ones.
50:04Okay.
50:06Thank you, Carlitos.
50:08Dokyao?
50:10I think I'm in the part of my life
50:12that I need to
50:14be serious.
50:16I need to change.
50:18I need to be more
50:20focused
50:22on one thing in my life,
50:24especially on relationships.
50:26I had a lot of relationships
50:28that weren't successful
50:30because of my immaturity and my...
50:32How many, Dokyao?
50:34How many are those a lot?
50:36About...
50:38Oh, he counted.
50:40So many to mention.
50:42I can't say.
50:44But since I was in my 30s,
50:46I started to be serious about relationships.
50:48And when I choose
50:50to be in a relationship,
50:52I really need the one.
50:54Okay. Thank you, Dok.
50:56Grace, did you hear their answers?
50:58But before I ask you,
51:00let's ask Jack.
51:02Jack, which answer
51:04did you like?
51:08It's a bit...
51:10But for me, it's number 2.
51:12Number 2.
51:14Carlitos is chosen by Jack.
51:16I like the one that's a bit...
51:18It's a bit even.
51:20It's even.
51:22Thank you, Jack.
51:24Are you listening to Jack in this round?
51:26He's also number 2.
51:28Number 2.
51:30Carlitos also has a green flag.
51:32Third question.
51:34At what point
51:36can you say you're matured?
51:38Okay. How can you tell
51:40when a person is already mature?
51:42Okay.
51:44Let's start with Dokyao.
51:46For me,
51:48when you're really ready,
51:50when you know
51:52what you need to do,
51:54when you're focused on the things
51:56that you need to finish,
51:58and you're looking forward for a future
52:00with somebody.
52:02Because life is like
52:04a road that you don't need to walk alone.
52:06Sometimes, you really have to be with someone
52:10to really enjoy the reality of life.
52:14Thank you, Dokyao.
52:16Reality of life.
52:18Teacher Mon.
52:20I thought it was 2.
52:22Sorry.
52:24For me, I can say you're matured
52:26in terms of decision-making.
52:28When you know what to do
52:30in a situation,
52:32and you should know how to compromise.
52:34Because in a relationship,
52:36you can't avoid having
52:38ups and downs.
52:40You need to have problems.
52:42So you should partner.
52:44When you're a matured partner,
52:46you should be willing to compromise.
52:48Because you always start with love.
52:50That's the root of your relationship.
52:52You should start with love.
52:54In case of anything that happens
52:56in your relationship,
52:58love is what we should hold on to.
53:00Whatever challenges you face,
53:02you should return the love.
53:04Thank you, Teacher Mon.
53:06Carlitos?
53:08Yes.
53:10In my opinion, maturity
53:12is when you are able to
53:14communicate efficiently.
53:16And also when you are able
53:18to, again,
53:20be a very good listener,
53:22and also be a person
53:24that you have cleared your boundaries.
53:26And you are also able to
53:28communicate them to your partner.
53:32Boundaries and communications.
53:34Efficient, right?
53:36Efficient communication.
53:38Jack, in this round,
53:40who do you think is your bet for Grace?
53:42For me,
53:44in this round,
53:46it's still C2.
53:48Carlitos.
53:50Because,
53:52like what I said earlier,
53:54our problem before
53:56was communication.
53:58So,
54:00I heard the answer
54:02that I didn't have before.
54:04So, I'm choosing C2.
54:06Number 2.
54:08Jack, he's choosing number 2 for you.
54:10But of course, Grace,
54:12you will still be the next one.
54:14So, who will you give your green flag to?
54:18Number 1.
54:20Huh?
54:22Number 1.
54:24Number 1 is Don Quijao.
54:26So, it's two.
54:28The green flag is Don Quijao.
54:30Here are the searchees
54:32that you didn't choose.
54:34Searchee number 3.
54:36Let's start with Mond.
54:38Please introduce yourself, Mond.
54:40Hello,
54:42Grace.
54:44Thank you,
54:46even though you didn't choose me.
54:48Maybe someone else chose me.
54:52Yes,
54:54and here's another searchee
54:56that you didn't choose.
54:58Carlitos.
55:04Hello, Grace.
55:06It was a pleasure to meet you
55:08and I hope you have a very good luck
55:10with Don Quijao.
55:14Thank you, Carlitos.
55:22Let's listen to
55:24Jack's message to Grace.
55:26Jack.
55:32Jack.
55:34How are you?
55:38How are you?
55:40How are you?
55:42I just want to apologize
55:44for
55:46what I did before
55:48and for the wrong decisions.
55:50I also want to thank you
55:52because
55:54you were my guide back then.
55:56You know that.
55:58So, I hope you can find
56:00the love
56:02that other people
56:04are looking for
56:06in God.
56:08Okay.
56:10Grace, do you have anything to say to Jack?
56:12Jack,
56:14since
56:16our chapter is over,
56:18my only wish
56:20to you is
56:22always the best.
56:24When we were together,
56:26you were my guide,
56:28I almost cried.
56:30Always do your best
56:32in life.
56:34That's all.
56:36You treated me the same
56:38when we were together.
56:40Love your partner in the present
56:42and in the future. That's all.
56:44Always be careful.
56:52Jack, what is your message
56:54to Don Quijao?
56:58Congrats.
57:00Congratulations.
57:02Take care of Grace
57:04like you take care of her.
57:08I hope
57:10she won't get hurt
57:12and confused again
57:14in her decisions.
57:16Congrats again.
57:22So, Don Quijao,
57:24go to
57:26Jack's position.
57:44Grace,
57:46meet Don Quijao.
58:00This is especially for you.
58:02This is especially for you.
58:04It's showtime.
58:30You
58:32You
58:34You
58:36You
58:38You
58:40You
58:42You
58:44You
58:46You
58:48You
58:50You
58:52You
58:54You
58:56You