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00:00Today I'm going to be speaking on a few things that's been on my mind for the past few days.
00:11I don't know if any of you have been listening to me or not, but if you have, thanks for
00:17tuning in.
00:18The name of this podcast is called No Females Allowed Records.
00:27First of all, I'm going to be going over month-to-month leases.
00:33A month-to-month lease is like a short-term lease where you rent an apartment or a house
00:38for a month.
00:39That's the type of leases that I've been looking for lately.
00:44Just the simple fact that I don't want a 12-month lease because I'm being bullied and I don't
00:50want to stay anywhere for 12 fucking months.
00:53That's just not my style.
00:58I need the lease to be for month-to-month.
01:00Most of the month-to-month leases are high as hell because the property has to be furnished.
01:08With the furniture, they usually start at around $1,900 a month for just a studio.
01:17You're not even going to get a bedroom.
01:20I personally need to have a bedroom because I have to have room for my dogs to run around.
01:25They can't just be cramped up in a room with a bed and a kitchen and all that in the same
01:32room.
01:33That's not enough space.
01:35Those month-to-month leases are anywhere between $1,900 and up and that's very expensive.
01:42You have to have the money.
01:43I don't even know if I'm going to get in there or not.
01:51I haven't had an apartment in almost 10 years.
01:55The last time I was in an apartment, something bad happened to me.
01:57I was being bullied.
01:58I was a victim of domestic violence.
02:01I was being beat up and stuff like that by an abusive partner.
02:07That's why I lost my apartment.
02:09I haven't had an apartment in 10 years.
02:13In order for me to get back into one, I'm going to have to pay $2,000 a month in order
02:18to get in one unless I go to the projects and apply for public housing, which I don't
02:24want to do because living in the project is not easy.
02:32I've had plenty of project apartments during my young adult life and I didn't enjoy living
02:41in there.
02:42I was a victim of domestic violence.
02:43It was too much drug use.
02:46It was too much crime around me.
02:48The apartments were in such horrible condition.
02:53It was unbelievable.
02:56I didn't have anything.
02:57I was a dirt poor.
02:59I really don't want to go backwards to that.
03:02In order for me to move forward, I'm going to have to pay $2,000 a month.
03:10I don't know if it's a good choice or not.
03:14I'm talking based on my own personal experiences.
03:17This is not a podcast where I'm giving people advice.
03:22This is just my own personal experiences.
03:24I'm not trying to give anybody any advice.
03:28I don't know if it's a good decision or not.
03:30I don't know if I'm going to get scammed or not messing with these month-to-month leases.
03:35I don't even know if I'm going to get approved or get in there.
03:39I would have to try first before I can knock it.
03:42I've never had one, so I would have to try it first.
03:45I usually just stay in hotels, but the hotel scene is getting pretty old.
03:53I'm trying to elevate into an apartment.
03:58I feel like it's kind of a rip-off paying $2,000 for a studio.
04:07That's crazy.
04:10The places I'm talking about where these month-to-month leases are, are not in New York City or LA.
04:17These are places, kind of city, but not that city.
04:25You know places, little places like Baltimore, Richmond, Virginia, or Charlotte, North Carolina,
04:36or something like that.
04:38Those are the type of cities that these month-to-month leases are, and some over there in St. Louis
04:47too.
04:48Missouri.
04:49I don't know if it's a rip-off or not.
04:53First of all, I'll have to try.
04:55Now, second of all, getting the money for these month-to-month leases.
05:00That's another thing.
05:01In order to come up with $2,000 a month, you're going to have to have a side hustle.
05:08So, I started looking for a side hustle.
05:16I've thought about stripping.
05:20That's not going to work because first of all, I have to be a gay person to do that.
05:27I can't show my body to a bunch of women.
05:31I'm going to explain the strip club right quick.
05:36There's a lot of lesbian frauds in that.
05:39They're not real dancers.
05:40They're lesbians.
05:41They're just in there because they want to see a woman's body.
05:44They're in there because they want to get a sneak peek of a bunch of women changing in
05:48the dressing room.
05:50They're in there because they're trying to smash women.
05:52They're not in there for the gentlemen.
05:54There's supposed to be a gentlemen's club where women go in there to find a gentleman.
05:58They're going in there to find a female, and that's a turn-off.
06:02I cannot strip around that.
06:04A lot of the women are too damn young.
06:06I'm too old to be in there dancing with 18-year-olds.
06:09That's what happened the last time when I was dancing.
06:12I was like 29, 26 years old in the club listening to Lil Uzi Vert.
06:24At my age now, I knew that that won't write, you know what I'm saying, listening to Uzi
06:29Vert and dancing in the club at 29.
06:33I don't think that was right.
06:35I don't even like that particular rapper anymore because I saw him in a video with red nail
06:40polish on him.
06:42Anyway, I can't do that hustle.
06:49I asked the club.
06:50It was a club in Washington, D.C. that I applied to a couple of days ago.
06:54I asked them, what's the maximum age that you have to be in working here?
06:59She said, there's no maximum age.
07:01You just apply.
07:02You have to be over 18.
07:05That's a problem.
07:06It needs to be a maximum age.
07:07I don't think women over 30 should be in there.
07:12I think it should be from 18 to 30.
07:13I don't think women over 30 should be able to dance.
07:17I don't think that's okay.
07:20Like I said, I'm not going in there for the gentlemen.
07:22I'm trying to find straight men that can leave a bag on me, dump a bag of money on me.
07:29I'm not going in there to try to get preyed on by a bunch of lesbians.
07:32Men, when you don't do what they want, they start calling you gay.
07:35They're like, why is she here?
07:38Get that gay tarrant out of here.
07:40Get that gay lady out of here.
07:42Because you're not being gay with them.
07:44You know what I'm saying?
07:45If you're not gay with them, they're not going to want you there.
07:49So that's why I can't strip.
07:51I applied for those jobs for nothing.
07:53I was just doing it to pass time.
07:54I had too much time on my hands.
07:56I'm really not going to go to those strip club auditions and dance at my age around
08:01a bunch of lesbians.
08:02And those men in there, I don't even know if they're going to drop a bag on me.
08:06They're probably going to drop a bag on a lesbian and then they're going to pick on
08:09me and call me gay for being in there.
08:11So I'm not going.
08:13And then, I'm not there to see the women, but they're going to lie and say I am.
08:17I'm there to get a bag from a man and those men aren't going to be turnt off by me because
08:21I'm not gay.
08:22So I'm not going to the strip club.
08:25Another side hustle that I thought about, I told you on the last episode, I can't go
08:31to the casting calls.
08:32They're 100% bogus.
08:33They're scammers.
08:34These casting calls out here are scams on the East Coast.
08:39A lot of them are scammers.
08:42You should never pay money up front.
08:43If they're asking for money, you should never give them money up front.
08:46They cannot guarantee you a job.
08:48They're not going to make you a star.
08:50They're not going to make you a celebrity.
08:52They cannot guarantee you fame or wealth or millions of dollars.
08:58Those are scammers and they're preying on innocent victims that want to make it out.
09:03They're preying on innocent, they're using people's talent to their advantage.
09:09They cannot guarantee you a job after you give them the money.
09:12If they're asking for $1,000, $2,000, $3,000, they are a scam.
09:16I don't care if they're licensed or not.
09:19They're still a scam.
09:21You should never pay that much money.
09:23If they're not making you any money back and can't get you a role, they're a scam.
09:31That side hustle is not going to work for me.
09:38Another side hustle I've thought about to come up with the money for the month is becoming
09:44a house sitter.
09:47The first website I looked at, the fee was $269 to sign up for a year.
09:53I thought that was too expensive.
09:55That could possibly be a scam because who's going to guarantee that I'm going to be able
09:59to house sit anybody's house once I pay the $269.
10:06And then there was another website that I saw earlier this morning for $25.
10:11I think I'm going to sign up for that one because that's way cheaper than paying $269.
10:18So their fee was $25 for a year.
10:21So I'm going to do that one day.
10:23I'm not going to do it today, but I'm going to get around to signing up for that for a
10:27year and see if I can get a house sitting job.
10:32Another platform I use for a house sitting job, I messaged like 14 people this morning.
10:41They had their phone number on their ad, house sitting ad.
10:44When I called them, they were a scam.
10:46It was like, well, we don't have, I don't have a house for you to sit, but I have a
10:50work from home remote job that you can do.
10:54I automatically knew it was a scam.
10:56That is a site for house sitting.
10:57Why are you on there posting for a remote job at home?
11:01You know what I'm saying?
11:02It was 100% bogus.
11:04I'm not going to be on that house sitting website long because it's a scam and I'm not
11:11getting any house sitting gigs on there.
11:13I've only been up there for less than 24 hours and they're already showing up there.
11:17They're scammed.
11:18They messaged me back saying, well, I don't have a house, but you can work for me from
11:23remote from home and give me 15% of what you make.
11:26I was like, hell no.
11:27This is a scam.
11:28I think the name of the website was called house sitters.com or something like that.
11:35And then the one for $200 CC9 was like trusted house sitters.
11:40And then the one for $25 CC9, I forget, it was like luxury house sitters or something
11:45like that.
11:46That's the one I'm going to sign up for and see if that works.
11:49I don't know if they're a scam or not, but I'm going to find out and I'm going to stay
11:52on trusted house sitters for like another week or two to see if they're a scam, fully
11:57a scam.
11:58If I don't get any gigs in a week or two, they're a scam.
12:01And then there's another house sitting website that I found, I don't know the name of that
12:06one for sure.
12:07Let me see if I can find it.
12:13Bear with me.
12:31Yeah, luxury house sitting is the one I'm going to sign up for now.
12:36And then
12:44house sitters.com is the one I'm going to get off of in a couple of weeks because it's not working out.
12:50Okay, house sitters America, I don't like that one.
13:06Most of the jobs are free.
13:08They're not paying anything.
13:10I'm looking for pay.
13:12I'm not trying to watch somebody house for free.
13:14I don't mean no harm.
13:16I don't like house sitting that much.
13:19I mean, I love it.
13:21Don't get me wrong.
13:23If you're looking to hire a house sitter.
13:25I'm not saying that I don't like doing it.
13:27Please don't take it that way.
13:29I love house sitting.
13:31I love pets.
13:33I have my own pet.
13:35But I'm talking about for free.
13:37If you're a house sitter looking for a free sitter.
13:39I can't do that.
13:41I'm sorry.
13:43I apologize.
13:45I have to pay for the month to month lease.
13:48And my house is another one that I might use.
13:50I have to go through some of these ads.
13:52And see if they have houses in my area.
13:54I think I saw a few of them on there.
13:56But not many.
13:58And their fee is like $30 a year.
14:00That's not bad.
14:02But I have to sign up and pay the fees first.
14:04Before I can even find out.
14:06And then I have to stay on there for a certain amount of time.
14:08To see if I can get a gig.
14:10And then I have to sign up and pay the fees first.
14:12Before I can even find out.
14:14And then I have to stay on there for a certain amount of time.
14:17So that's basically all I had to share with you all.
14:19I don't have much to say.
14:21Other than knowing.
14:23If you're in a situation like me.
14:25Where you don't want to be in the projects.
14:27Or you don't want to be in a bad neighborhood.
14:29And you have to pay an expensive month to month lease.
14:31For a small studio apartment.
14:33Or a one bedroom apartment.
14:35That costs $2,000.
14:37Just know that.
14:39Hanging there.
14:41It's going to get easier.
14:43It's going to get easier.
14:46And then.
14:48Another thing.
14:50Side hustles.
14:52There are plenty of hot side hustles out there.
14:54Stripping isn't one.
14:56If you're not gay.
14:58I wouldn't recommend it.
15:00Becoming a house sitter.
15:02I believe that might be a good side hustle.
15:04It just takes time and patience.
15:06And you have to be willing to pay the yearly fee.
15:08To be on the platforms.
15:10And watch out for scammers.
15:12Cast and call scammers.
15:15Acting scammers.
15:17It's another type of scam that I research.
15:19Acting coaches.
15:21Some of those are scams.
15:23They are not acting coaches.
15:25They don't have any experience.
15:27They just have a website.
15:29Acting like they have years of experience.
15:31Can help you get a big break in the industry.
15:33And make you a star.
15:35That's a bunch of bogus bull.
15:37There might not be a real acting coach.
15:39I wouldn't trust paying them anything either.
15:41Watch out for these talent agencies.
15:43They still shady as hell.
15:45They still ripping people off.
15:47It's been a scam since I was born.
15:49They ain't making nobody a star.
15:51They just taking their money.
15:53What's another scam out there?
15:55There's some scammers out there.
15:57Pretending to be affiliated with my website.
15:59I'm not a real business.
16:01I already told you all that.
16:03I'm just a rapper.
16:05Selling merch.
16:07I'm not a real professional business.
16:09I'm going to tell you this.
16:12There's some scammers out there.
16:14Trying to affiliate with No Females Allowed.
16:16No Females Allowed is not affiliated with females.
16:18That's why I named my website that.
16:20It's called No Females Allowed for a reason.
16:22If I affiliated with females.
16:24Why would I have a website like that?
16:26My website is not a joke.
16:28I mean what I say.
16:30I'm really standing on business.
16:32Like no cap.
16:34For real.
16:36No cap.
16:38No cap.
16:41For real.
16:43If I say I'm not No Females Allowed.
16:45That's what the fuck I mean.
16:47If there's a female out there.
16:49That's saying they affiliated with my website.
16:51Or my rap label.
16:53They're telling a lie.
16:55I don't know any women.
16:57I'm not in the videos with them.
16:59I don't dance with them.
17:01I don't talk to them on the phone.
17:03I don't go to the clubs with them.
17:05They don't do my lashes.
17:07They don't do my makeup.
17:10I'm not a dyke.
17:12I'm not a gay woman.
17:14I'm not with them.
17:16That type of way.
17:18Watch out for these women.
17:20That's always acting like they know me.
17:22But calling me a tard.
17:24Or calling me Ed.
17:26Or calling me out of my name.
17:28Or calling me a bum.
17:30Or calling me the lamest bum they ever seen.
17:32Watch out for them.
17:34I don't know them faggots.
17:36I don't know them dykes from a can of paint.
17:39I don't act like they know me personally.
17:41I don't know any women.
17:43I said this on the last 10 podcasts I done recorded.
17:45No females allowed.
17:47It's standing on business.
17:49I'm 100% real.
17:51I don't fuck with these fucking females.
17:53If anybody saying they asking for money in my name.
17:55They telling a lie.
17:57I don't beg for money.
17:59I don't troll people for money.
18:01I'm not in nobody inbox.
18:03I'm not in nobody's inbox.
18:05I'm not in nobody's inbox.
18:08Asking for them to wire me no cash out.
18:10Cash out me anything.
18:12So if somebody saying that I'm doing that.
18:14That's not me.
18:16That's another person.
18:18And if anybody doing that.
18:20Please report that to me.
18:22Email me at
18:24OyaObenitoDo
18:26At
18:28NoFemalesAllowed.com
18:30Email me.
18:32And let me know if anybody saying that.
18:34In my name.
18:36Because I don't beg for money.
18:38I'm not affiliated with females.
18:40They're not affiliated with my brand.
18:42They're not affiliated with OyaObenitoDo.
18:44They might be affiliated with
18:46Santeria.
18:48Or Voodoo.
18:50Or any of that.
18:52In Mexico or Cuba or whatever.
18:54But they not affiliated with me.
18:56The rapper.
18:58I'm not affiliated with.
19:00No one's affiliated with
19:02NoFemalesAllowed.com
19:04Ain't nobody writing my blogs for me.
19:06Ain't nobody posting for me.
19:08All that's being ran by me.
19:10Ain't nobody posting
19:12on my social media for me.
19:14That's me.
19:18So if anybody pretending
19:20to be with me, around me,
19:22or affiliated with me, they a fraud.
19:24Ain't nobody paying my bills.
19:26Ain't nobody buying me anything.
19:28Ain't nobody buying my merch.
19:30They not helping me grow.
19:32Ain't nobody coming back and dragging me down
19:34and being haters.
19:36And being down low and weird.
19:38Go to my website.
19:40www.nothemalesallowed.com
19:42Check out Terra first hand.
19:44I'm almost on my 100th story.
19:48So check that out.
19:50I still got a new album coming out.
19:52I still gotta buy some beats.
19:54Exclusive
19:56lease beats.
20:02So
20:24That's one of the biggest platforms out there.
20:26Music platforms.
20:28I'm always going to have monthly listens on there.
20:30I read in one blog that if you have over 50 monthly listens then you're doing good as
20:34an artist.
20:35I manage about 2,000-3,000 monthly listens a month.
20:38I wish I had over 10k a month.
20:40That would be real good.
20:41If I had over 10k listens every single month, that would be even better.
20:47Hopefully I'll get there one day.
20:49But I gotta get these scammers and con artists out of my way first before I can get to the
20:54money.
20:55There's so many scammers and cons, I'm trying to do everything legit.
20:58I ain't gay.
20:59I don't want to be in jail with a bunch of women.
21:01I ain't trying to get locked up for scamming and conning.
21:03I already got an identity theft charge on my record.
21:07And if you're nosy and you're a house sitter and you're going to check my record, that's
21:13another thing.
21:14I don't even know if I'm going to get a house sitting job because the website that I'm on
21:19now, the background check is $30.
21:21So I had to pay for that and wait for that to clear to see if I can get a gig.
21:30It might not even clear.
21:31I got charges on my record.
21:32They old as hell.
21:33My charges are over 7 years old.
21:37But they're still on there.
21:39I might not get a job.
21:40They might give me a thumb down and say they don't want me.
21:43But I gotta pay the $30 for the background check first.
21:46Sorry, excuse me, I'm tongue twisted.
21:50I have to pay for the background check first.
21:53And all the other sitter websites are going to charge a fee for background checks too.
21:58So I have to pay for those and see if they clear.
22:00If they clear, I'll be so happy.
22:04But I'm going to explain this identity, old ass identity theft charge I got.
22:08It wasn't for credit card fraud.
22:10I didn't steal anybody's identity.
22:12I don't steal people's identity.
22:13I'm myself all the time.
22:17What happened was I got pulled over by the cops and I gave them another name because
22:24I didn't want to go to jail.
22:26And when they found out that the name that I gave them wasn't me and then they charged
22:35me with that.
22:38And then it was like, you're not that person, you're Thea Arnold.
22:42I was like, okay.
22:45And then they charged me, we're going to have to charge you with identity theft.
22:49And I was like, okay.
22:51And then they took me down to the jail and then I got charged for that.
22:55So that's why that's there.
22:57It wasn't for credit card or stealing the ID or none of that.
23:01I got pulled over.
23:02I got scared and I gave them a wrong name because I didn't want to go to jail.
23:06And they sent me there anyway.
23:09I would never get, if I ever, if God forbid, anything sickening like that happen again,
23:15I get pulled over.
23:17I tell them motherfuckers my name is Thea Arnold.
23:20I mean, God damn, I'll turn myself in, okay?
23:26So if you're a house sitter, please be down to earth.
23:29That's the type of person I am.
23:31I'm not going to do anything in your house, bruh.
23:34I'm not going to mess it up.
23:35I'm not going to have sex in it.
23:37I'm not going to have parties in it.
23:39My dog is going to be urinating outside where he belongs.
23:42I'm not going to be smoking in it.
23:45I'm not going to be doing drugs in it.
23:48The only thing that I might do in it is record a video clip with their permission.
23:54I would ask if I can record a video clip inside the house.
23:57If I can't, I won't even record a video clip inside the house.
24:01I will respect people's property and treat it like as if it was my own.
24:06And I really want people to hire me and trust me.
24:10They will be ecstatic at how I treated their house and their pets.
24:15They would most likely hire me again and again because I'm a fun person to be around.
24:20Pets love me, especially dogs.
24:23All dogs love me.
24:26Pit bulls, everything.
24:28Labs, chihuahuas, other little puppies out there that I don't know what they're called.
24:34Beagles, all those type of dogs like me.
24:38Birds like me.
24:40Alligators like me.
24:41Even bears like me.
24:44So I would trust me if I was a house sitter.
24:46I would give me a chance if my background cleared and said that those charges are old
24:53enough for me to start over.
24:55If you see me out there with a cleared background, Jack, please hire me.
25:03Anyways, thanks for listening to my podcast.
25:07Tune in next time.
25:08I don't do this on a regular basis.
25:10I usually post maybe like every other Saturday or something.
25:14So just stay tuned and go to my Instagram.
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