Vice, nagbigay ng payo kay Ky tungkol sa pagmamahal sa pamilya | It’s Showtime | Expecially For You
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Transcript
00:00I mean, I have a family, but I don't feel at home.
00:02But when she...
00:04Until now, do you think your family is like that?
00:07Actually, yes. I just recently became open.
00:11Oh, okay.
00:12Growing up, that's how I feel.
00:15Are you fixing your relationship now?
00:17With my mom, yes.
00:18That's good.
00:18Yes, it's hard when you're not okay with your family.
00:21That's a very difficult problem.
00:24Yes.
00:25That's the problem that's very difficult for you to solve and find a way.
00:29If you think about it, it's even harder to get gold in the Olympics.
00:33Yes.
00:34Right?
00:35When you have a problem with your family,
00:37that's the problem that's very difficult to solve.
00:40But...
00:41But sometimes, in other families,
00:44that's not applicable.
00:47It's like...
00:49If they were...
00:50It's like...
00:51It slows down your progress in life because of them.
00:56It's like you have to let it go.
01:00Because it also depends on the situation.
01:02Like I said, not all kids grow up in a supportive, open family.
01:09Yes, but...
01:10Sorry, I don't believe that you can let go of your family.
01:15Yes, that's true.
01:17The fully let go of your family.
01:19There's a point where you need time out.
01:23Yes.
01:24I agree with you, right?
01:26Time out.
01:27I can't let you go.
01:28I'll blame myself first.
01:30But no, I'm letting go of your family.
01:33There will come a point that you will have to go back home.
01:37There will come a point that you will have to talk to them again.
01:40That's right.
01:41And there's a point where you'll cry and say,
01:46It's a waste that I didn't talk to him.
01:48Yes.
01:49In my part, even for my mom,
01:52because I'm starting to build a relationship with my mom again.
01:56Even for my mom, I'm vocal that I've done my part.
02:03And I think it's time for me to choose myself.
02:07And it's time for me not to be affected by them anymore.
02:12To force myself.
02:15Because I have a bad relationship with my two siblings.
02:22Well, that's you.
02:24You do you.
02:26But it's saddening.
02:28Yes, it's very saddening.
02:30But as I always tell my friends,
02:33I'm not forcing myself.
02:35I'm not forcing myself.
02:37Yes.
02:38I'm not forcing myself.
02:39Yes, that's right.
02:40I'm letting go.
02:41Yes.
02:42For now, you can breathe.
02:43Breathe.
02:44Yes, exactly.
02:45Breathe.
02:46I mean, I'm living my life with or without those people who don't believe me.
02:53Do you feel like they don't believe you?
02:55Is that your problem?
02:56Or is it a toxic relationship?
02:58Yes.
02:59You just don't get along.
03:00Actually, that's why I chose to be a sailor.
03:04Because I feel that I'm not a good sailor.
03:09Because I feel that they will be proud of me.
03:13I see.
03:14They will be proud of me.
03:15I will be able to give them something.
03:17I will be able to help them.
03:18Because we came from a poor family.
03:20We came from a very poor family.
03:22My mom is a single mom.
03:23And the three of us go to school.
03:26So, I told them.
03:27And growing up,
03:30what we know is that
03:35we only recently found out that they are really my half.
03:38Because I never asked that.