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00:00Why do Iranian women use the word bhatkali after the word hambishtari?
00:13Everyone will start using it once they know the reason.
00:17My husband got a job in an office in Iran.
00:21So he brought me to Iran with him.
00:23So that he or I don't have to worry.
00:27I also thought that I should live with my husband.
00:31So I was happy to know my husband's decision.
00:34And I reached Iran.
00:36My husband's job was such that he didn't get much time apart from his duty.
00:43So he would buy me a house.
00:46So right after I shifted there, my husband showed me the market of his colony.
00:51And told me that almost all the women in this colony do shopping themselves.
00:57Because all the men present there used to give very difficult duties.
01:02The women used to buy the house.
01:04So I had to go to buy the house myself.
01:08By the way, I hadn't said hello to anyone yet.
01:11And neither had I spoken to those people yet.
01:14I would just go to the market.
01:16And quietly take my stuff and put it on the counter.
01:19And the shopkeepers would make me a bill.
01:22So somehow I used to buy things.
01:26But after a few days, I felt something strange.
01:30And that was that in the shopping of Iranian women,
01:34most of the items used to be made of cotton.
01:38At that time, I was very surprised to find out that
01:41in Iran, cotton was used a lot.
01:45And after a while, I also found out that
01:48Iranian women used to make cotton themselves.
01:52That is, they used cotton for their personal use.
01:57I was very surprised to find out that
02:00after all, what would they do with so much cotton?
02:03And what would be the benefit of this cotton?
02:06Whenever Iranian women came to shop,
02:09they used to buy a lot of cotton.
02:12And most of the time, I used to buy cotton every day.
02:18What was so special about this cotton that it was bought so much?
02:23I didn't understand.
02:25But I couldn't ask anyone about it.
02:28First of all, I didn't know their language.
02:30And secondly, I hadn't met anyone yet.
02:34And it was very difficult for me to make friends.
02:37Because she was a very quiet and calm girl.
02:42I hadn't been able to make friends with my in-laws yet.
02:47And this was a foreign country.
02:50Foreign people and a completely foreign language.
02:54Anyway, with the help of my husband,
02:57I was learning the language of the Iranians
02:59so that I could talk to someone.
03:02Because living like this was also creating problems for me.
03:05My husband's job was such that
03:07he would spend more than half of his time on duty.
03:10In this case, it was important for me to make friends
03:13so that I could help someone in difficult times.
03:17I learned very important words from my husband.
03:21And not only that, he once took me to his friend's house
03:25and introduced me to his wife so that I could get to know someone.
03:30She was a very nice woman.
03:32And she was very nice to me.
03:34And one thing that I saw a lot in those Iranian women
03:39was that those women were very obedient to the veil.
03:42This woman also took me inside
03:44whose husband and my husband were sitting in the room outside.
03:48Then she told me that we will go shopping together every day.
03:53In this way, we will get to know each other better
03:56and we will also become good friends.
03:58What else did I want?
04:00I also said yes immediately.
04:02Anyway, since I came here, I had become very lonely.
04:07Now this woman's sincerity and words gave me a lot of strength.
04:11And I was thanking God in my heart.
04:14And when I came back, my husband was very happy to see me
04:18because I had started complaining to him that I was alone.
04:22The next day, after a short while of my husband's work,
04:26that woman came to my house and told me to go shopping.
04:32I also quickly went to the market with her.
04:36With that Iranian woman, I reached the market
04:39while speaking in a broken Iranian language.
04:42As soon as I entered the market,
04:44that woman first picked up the lottery ticket
04:47and then started buying the rest of the things.
04:50Seeing her picking up the lottery ticket,
04:53I unknowingly asked her,
04:55why do all Iranian women buy so many lottery tickets?
04:59What is the benefit of this
05:01because of which you never forget to buy lottery tickets?
05:05Hearing this, that woman looked at me in amazement.
05:09Looking at her like this, I felt very ashamed.
05:13And I felt that maybe I had asked her personal questions
05:17on the very first day and made a big mistake.
05:20Because many people feel very bad about their personal interference
05:25and I had not even learned about Iranian women properly yet.
05:29And today, when I met this Iranian friend for the second time,
05:34I asked her such a question.
05:37I started buying the second lottery ticket
05:39with a shy look in my eyes.
05:41And that woman also quietly turned towards the lottery ticket.
05:45But she did not give me any answer
05:47because of which I became even more embarrassed.
05:50I thought that I would apologize to this woman
05:53and would not ask her any such personal questions again.
05:57I had hardly recognized a woman
06:01and because of my stupidity,
06:03I had made her angry as well.
06:06Thinking this, I left the market with a shy look.
06:11I stood on one side
06:13and started waiting for that woman to come out.
06:17After a while, I saw her coming out
06:20so I went to her quickly and then we walked back.
06:24Then I courageously said to that woman
06:26that I apologize that I asked you personal questions.
06:30Since I have come here,
06:32I have seen all the women buying lottery tickets.
06:35So, I did not hesitate and asked you.
06:39Then that woman replied
06:42that she did not feel bad to ask me this question.
06:46Yes, but I felt bad to ask such a question in the market.
06:50We women cover our faces
06:52and in the market, in front of non-men,
06:54not only the mention of lottery,
06:56I felt very bad.
06:58But it is not your fault.
07:00Since you are new here,
07:01it will take some time to get to know the customs here.
07:04And I am surprised that you do not know
07:06why the lottery is used.
07:09Although you are also married.
07:11Hearing this, I thanked her
07:14that she was not angry
07:16and then I said that I do not know anything about lottery.
07:20And what does a married woman have to do with lottery?
07:24Hearing this, that woman gave me
07:26a very strange look
07:28and became silent.
07:30Then I did not ask any more questions.
07:33I was already embarrassed to ask a question.
07:37But I was surprised that why did she say
07:40that you are married
07:42and still you do not know how to use the lottery.
07:45I was very surprised and surprised.
07:49And I wanted to know this secret right now.
07:52I did not know.
07:53And when I did not know,
07:54she behaved very strangely.
07:56As if I am doing something wrong
07:58by not using the lottery.
08:00Or I have done a big crime
08:02by being unaware of this.
08:06I kept thinking.
08:07I kept doing my household chores.
08:10And after finishing the household chores,
08:12I did not think of anything else.
08:14So I picked up my mobile
08:16and started using the lottery
08:18on YouTube and Google
08:20to see the benefits of it.
08:22Maybe I will get to know something special from there
08:25in which it is very important
08:27to use the lottery of married women.
08:30But after searching for a long time
08:32on Google and YouTube,
08:34I did not get to know anything special.
08:37I got tired and kept my mobile phone
08:39and waited for my husband to come.
08:41And when my husband came home,
08:43I saw his food and other things
08:45and quickly completed the kitchen work
08:47and reached my husband.
08:49And I asked him,
08:51does he know anything
08:53about the use of lottery
08:55so that it can be known
08:57that married women
08:59should use the lottery?
09:01Hearing this,
09:03my husband started looking at me
09:05with amazement.
09:07What did I think
09:09when I asked him this question?
09:11He asked me,
09:13how do I know
09:15why the lottery is used?
09:17Why should married women
09:19use the lottery?
09:21And what happened to you
09:23that you are asking such a question?
09:25Where did you hear
09:27that married women
09:29should use the lottery?
09:31Then I told my husband
09:33how I have been seeing
09:35that Iranian women
09:37buy a lot of lottery
09:39for their personal use.
09:41And when I asked
09:43this question to his friend's wife,
09:45I was surprised
09:47that I did not know
09:49the use of the lottery.
09:51My husband told me,
09:53you can ask the same question
09:55to that woman
09:57and tell her that
09:59you are ignorant
10:01because you have not heard
10:03or seen anything like this
10:05in Pakistan.
10:07She will tell you
10:09the use and benefit of the lottery
10:11herself.
10:13And when I told him
10:15that I did not know the use
10:17of the lottery,
10:19I did not have to tell him
10:21anything.
10:23The next couple of days
10:25went by as usual.
10:27I used to go to the market
10:29with that Iranian woman
10:31and come back
10:33with the lottery.
10:35But I had not asked her
10:37about the lottery
10:39because I was not able
10:41to convince her to come
10:43home with me.
10:45I told her that I am
10:47a Pakistani
10:49and I have not seen
10:51any woman
10:53using the lottery
10:55in Pakistan.
10:57And neither have we been
10:59told about the use
11:01of the lottery
11:03by any woman.
11:05So I do not know anything
11:07about the use of the lottery
11:09by any woman.
11:11So please tell me
11:13everything about it.
11:15Then she said
11:17that actually
11:19Iranian women
11:21use the lottery
11:23after bed time
11:25because
11:27it was very surprising
11:29for me.
11:31Because I had not heard
11:33anything like this
11:35in Pakistan.
11:37Do Iranian women
11:39use the lottery
11:41after bed time?
11:43I had shifted to Iran
11:45with my husband
11:47a few years ago.
11:49And as soon as I came here
11:51I became very close
11:53to a woman
11:55who was born in Iran
11:57and who was living
11:59permanently in Iran.
12:01She was the wife
12:03of my husband's friend
12:05who had three children.
12:07She was very beautiful
12:09and attractive.
12:11Her eyes were big
12:13and her face was white
12:15like milk.
12:17Her lips were like
12:19the petals of roses.
12:21She was like a peacock.
12:23The day
12:25I saw her
12:27I was amazed
12:29and I kept looking at her.
12:31She was so beautiful
12:33that I could not take my eyes
12:35off her.
12:37But her thoughts
12:39were surprising me.
12:41But I don't know why
12:43even after rejecting her words
12:45my heart was getting restless
12:47to use the lottery.
12:49When I told her this
12:51she became happy.
12:53I said I don't have the lottery
12:55but let's both get it.
12:57I will get mine
12:59and you get yours.
13:01So she became happy
13:03and went to get ready.
13:05She got ready and
13:07stood in front of me.
13:09I put on my burqa
13:11and went with her.
13:13She was talking to me
13:15and I couldn't stop thinking
13:17because tonight
13:19I was going to use the lottery
13:21with my husband.
13:23We both got the lottery
13:25and came home.
13:27She went to her house
13:29and made some space
13:31to spend some time
13:33with her husband.
13:35My husband was looking at me
13:37with strange eyes
13:39and asked me if everything is fine.
13:41I asked her why she was
13:43looking at me like that
13:45and she said nothing
13:47and just wanted to spend some time
13:49with me.
13:51She looked at me
13:53suspiciously
13:55and said
13:57if there is something
13:59you can share with me
14:01because I don't like
14:03your impressions.
14:05There is something wrong.
14:07I looked at her and said
14:09yes there is something wrong
14:11because I want to spend time with you
14:13and I want to do something.
14:15But I can't tell you
14:17because it is a secret.
14:21She smiled and
14:23bowed down to me
14:25and then I got fresh
14:27and gave her breakfast
14:29and when she left
14:31I started using the lottery.
14:33After that
14:35I was thinking about
14:37that woman
14:39who uses the lottery
14:41to eat.
14:43I used it on my body
14:45and mouth
14:47because I was thinking
14:49if I should eat it or not.
14:51I ate it
14:53and it tasted weird
14:55but I tolerated it.
14:57I started vomiting
14:59but I tolerated it.
15:01After 2 in the afternoon
15:03I started feeling weird
15:05and my stomach started hurting.
15:07I started feeling nauseous
15:09and I was sitting with my daughter
15:11and daughters
15:13and I started vomiting
15:15and I ran to the washroom.
15:17I vomited a lot
15:19and I felt weird
15:21and I fell down
15:23and my kids
15:25got worried
15:27and called that woman
15:29and she looked at me
15:31and said
15:33Is everything fine?
15:35What happened to you suddenly?
15:37You were fine till yesterday.
15:41I couldn't say anything
15:43I was just telling her to call my husband.
15:45I was just telling her
15:47that woman called the doctor
15:49and called the doctor
15:51and she started checking me.
15:53The doctor looked at me
15:55and asked me if I ate anything
15:57and I shook my head
15:59and told him that I ate Bhatkari.
16:01She said
16:03that woman you shouldn't have done this.
16:05I know why you did this.
16:09You did this to make your husband happy.
16:11Here in Iran
16:13everyone does this
16:15but they don't eat it.
16:17You are from Pakistan
16:19so this is not good for you.
16:23The women here eat this
16:25and they are healthy
16:27and they are newly married.
16:29You have been married for many years
16:31and you have three kids.
16:35If you eat this
16:37you will get sick.
16:39You can use this
16:41and apply it on your face
16:43and it will make a difference
16:45If you eat this
16:47you will get sick.
16:49I understood what she said
16:51and I shook my head.
16:53The doctor had left
16:55and my friend sat next to me
16:57and asked me
16:59who are those women
17:01who eat this.
17:03You can use this
17:05and apply it on your face
17:07and you will get well soon
17:09and you will become beautiful like me.
17:11She smiled
17:13and left.
17:15Iranian women
17:17and their husbands
17:19have a lot of
17:21phatkari under their bed.
17:23This deepens the relationship
17:25between husband and wife
17:27and they get lost
17:29in each other.
17:31This gives the husband strength
17:33and comfort.
17:35The wife also makes the husband happy.
17:39Phatkari
17:41makes the husband beautiful.
17:43That woman
17:45looked very beautiful to me.
17:47She invited me to her house
17:49and my husband and kids
17:51did not want to go
17:53but I took them with me.
17:55After going there
17:57we came to know
17:59that they are very friendly
18:01and kind people.
18:03Their husband and wife
18:05were very nice.
18:07That Iranian woman
18:09took good care of us
18:11and gave us food.
18:13We had come home
18:15but my daughter
18:17and my husband
18:19and my kids
18:21were talking about
18:23that woman's beauty.
18:25That she is very beautiful
18:27and beautiful like us.
18:29I also knew this
18:31but as a woman
18:33I did not feel
18:35that she is so beautiful
18:37and I am so simple.
18:39After thinking this
18:41I became a little sad
18:43and quiet.
18:45The next day she came to my house
18:47and asked me
18:49if Phatkari is there.
18:51I was surprised
18:53that she needed Phatkari.
18:55When I told her
18:57I knew
18:59why she needed Phatkari.
19:01I could understand
19:03that she was ignoring me
19:05when I told her.
19:07But when I
19:09forced her to speak
19:11she said
19:13that we women
19:15use Phatkari
19:17because
19:19it enhances our beauty.
19:21I was so beautiful
19:23and beautiful
19:25that you could not take your eyes off me.
19:27I was shocked
19:29to hear this
19:31and I was scared
19:33I asked her
19:35if she was laughing
19:37because of Phatkari.
19:39She said
19:41it is useless
19:43if we do not iron
19:45with our husband.
19:47I was happy
19:49because I was going to use
19:51Phatkari after a long time.
19:53When we iron with our husband
19:55and then
19:57we use Phatkari
19:59our beauty is enhanced.
20:01Our face
20:03gets a new light.
20:05In Iran,
20:07Phatkari is celebrated as a ritual
20:09and it has been like this from the beginning.
20:11In order to be beautiful
20:13and to please my husband
20:15I ate Phatkari
20:17and spoiled my health.
20:19When my husband
20:21came at night
20:23he saw me sick.
20:25He asked me
20:27how did this happen?
20:29and
20:31I came to know
20:33that the doctor had also come.
20:35The children were telling me
20:37so I told them
20:39everything slowly.
20:41She looked at me and said
20:43stupid woman
20:45you were stupid in the beginning
20:47and you are still stupid.
20:49You should have
20:51consulted me.
20:53Now I understood
20:55why you were coming to me
20:57You don't need anything.
20:59You are so beautiful.
21:01You are my love.
21:03I don't want any change in you.
21:05You look so beautiful
21:07but
21:09I was quiet.
21:11Because I didn't want to do this again and again
21:13and I did this.
21:15After a few days,
21:17I saw a huge difference.
21:19I was not like before.
21:21My complexion was
21:23white like milk.
21:25My face was pink.
21:27My lips were also
21:29beautiful.
21:31My husband used to tell me
21:33that you have changed a lot.
21:37I used to smile.
21:39Because every woman is a
21:41slave of praise.
21:43I also liked to hear my praise.
21:45I will tell you all
21:47to use this
21:49but don't eat it.
21:51You can use it
21:53on yourself.