Ye_Bayan_khas_torr_par_nojawano_kay_lia_hai_-_Life_changing_Bayan_by_Ajmal_raza_qadri(360p)
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00:00The motivational speaker tells you that I will take 5000 rupees to make you sit on a
00:14chair and convince you.
00:15And our students give 5000 rupees and sit next to him so that they get a little motivated.
00:22But the scholar took so many books and sat on the day of Jummah.
00:29And he said, I don't have any demand from you, just come soon.
00:36I have set up fans in the mosque, I have made it easy, I have arranged for ablution.
00:42Because I say to you with responsibility, for some things, if a person's heart is
00:48opened the way it should be.
00:50My father used to say, if you want to take charity, then at least straighten the bowl.
00:56If the bowl is not straight, we do not have that temperament.
01:00With forgiveness.
01:01In matters of religion, to listen, to read, to ponder.
01:05If you have that temperament, you don't have to go anywhere else for a minute.
01:10We will get all the blessings of the universe from the door of the Prophet.
01:15But that generosity.
01:16When I used to study, now I don't know, I haven't been informed for a long time.
01:21When I did my matriculation, the result came on March 31st.
01:25Yes or no?
01:28On March 31st, the matriculation result came.
01:30So those who had given the paper, they used to start prayer on March 1st.
01:34And their father also used to start.
01:37Because the papers were given.
01:39So the day the father found out that your son has done the matriculation.
01:44So the relative he never had to call.
01:49He was so happy.
01:52He used to be so happy that he used to call and say,
01:55Brother, congratulations, your nephew has passed 10th grade.
01:58This was happiness.
01:59He handled happiness.
02:01Sometimes when there is happiness in the right meaning, then he handled it.
02:06Sadqe Jama, Wari Jama, this is what the mother says.
02:09And he is the one who prostrates.
02:11But sometimes if the son's stature is equal to the father's,
02:14then the matter is handled by the father too, no one knows.
02:17He says, now I am fine, my son.
02:19That is a different matter.
02:20If the son says after 6 months of marriage that I have to separate,
02:23that is a different matter.
02:25But the father is very happy that the stature is equal, he has studied, he is capable.
02:29I am saying the right thing.
02:30This is valihanapan.
02:32Valihanapan happens in relations.
02:35The sensitivity of the relations tells.
02:37Don't you understand?
02:39Then Hazrat Ans bin Malik said,
02:42I don't forget that day,
02:44the day Allah's Messenger migrated from Makkah to Madinah.
02:49In front of the Prophet's camel,
02:51someone behind, someone on the right, someone on the left.
02:53Someone used to say, O Muhammad, O Messenger of Allah.
02:56Banu Najjar was a big tribe, big.
03:00He used to have dignity in the tribes.
03:04Their daughters took the duff and sat.
03:07They were not able to handle the happiness.
03:10Those little girls who used to sit there and play duff,
03:13used to sign and sing for the Messenger of Allah.
03:17And she used to say, don't think we are ordinary.
03:20We are the daughters of Najjar,
03:23of the noble family.
03:25We are happy that the son of Aminah has come.
03:38Just create a little valihanapan in it.
03:41Valihanapan.
03:42Don't make anything a ritual in Melaad.
03:45If there is no gathering in our mosque,
03:47people will go there.
03:48Leave this.
03:49Do you want people to gather?
03:51This is the work of the Lord and the Messenger.
03:54And remove rituals and restrictions from it.
03:57You have made such an expensive gathering.
03:59A poor man can't even put his hand in the gathering.
04:01So expensive.
04:02Such big expenses of those who come.
04:04The one who recites naat here in your area,
04:06he also recites Nabi Pak.
04:08A little thing.
04:10I said to my friends last year,
04:12that the food that you give to the priests,
04:16the priest, the cleric, the preacher,
04:19they give the same food.
04:21Inshallah, they will eat it.
04:23Cook everyone's food equally.
04:25In many poor houses,
04:26the meat is not cooked all year round.
04:28If you put a lot of meat,
04:30put it on Melaad,
04:31and feed it in a proper way,
04:33then it is possible that the children of the dead
04:35will ask their father,
04:37that father, we have never done this.
04:40What is this today?
04:41Stop that also.
04:42Son, eat properly.
04:43Today, no one is covering you.
04:45Today is the Melaad of my Prophet.
04:47But bring emotions in it.
04:49Bring feelings.
04:51Don't make the atmosphere of that also.
04:53The one who gave two lakhs,
04:55he is a special guest.
04:57The adornment of the stage.
04:58Stop it.
04:59The special guest of Huzoor's Melaad is the one
05:02who comes and gives the call to prayer.
05:05The one who gives the broom in the mosque.
05:09The one who does the work of the religion of Rasool Allah.
05:12If you don't understand,
05:13then find the incident of that woman from Bukhari Sharif.
05:17The one who used to give the broom in the mosque of my Prophet.
05:21The companions didn't like to trouble Huzoor.
05:25They buried him after the funeral.
05:27So Huzoor came to the grave and stood up.
05:29And the whole world is on the green dome.
05:32And Huzoor came to someone's grave?
05:35The Prophet came to the grave.
05:37Because she gives the broom in the mosque.
05:39Huzoor came to the grave.
05:41Although the second funeral is not permissible.
05:43But if the heirs didn't offer it,
05:45then it is permissible.
05:46And Huzoor himself is the heir of the Zahiri Ummah.
05:49So the Prophet came to the grave and said,
05:52Make a meeting.
05:53I will offer the funeral again.
05:55A little,
05:56a little journey of realities.
05:58A lot of formalities happened.
06:00A lot of things happened.
06:01Now a little,
06:02in our own temperament.
06:04Look,
06:05Huzoor had said to someone,
06:07to Abhi,
06:08that if my nose or my mouth is bleeding,
06:12then rub it on my face.
06:14If there is respect and love,
06:17then there are formalities too.
06:19There are formalities.
06:22Huzoor had said to someone,
06:24that the water from my body,
06:26you rub it on my face.
06:28In fact, look at the true Muslim.
06:31Hazrat Abu Ayub Ansari radiAllahu ta'ala
06:34Hazrat Abu Ayub Ansari said,
06:36Huzoor blessed my house.
06:39He came to my humble abode.
06:42So there were two floors of my house.
06:44I used to live downstairs.
06:46Sometimes there were children upstairs,
06:48or it was empty.
06:49When Mahboob came,
06:50I said,
06:51Huzoor,
06:52whatever you like.
06:53He said,
06:54I live downstairs.
06:55People have to come and go.
06:56It will be easy for people.
06:57Hazrat Abu Ayub Ansari said,
06:59He took the children and went to the roof.
07:01He lay down.
07:02When I woke up in the night,
07:04I opened my eyes.
07:06I was walking on the roof.
07:08I had a thought in my heart,
07:10that Abu Ayub should not be like this,
07:13that where your feet are,
07:15Huzoor should rest down there.
07:19I had a thought.
07:20If Huzoor had said this in front of him,
07:24then Mahboob would have said,
07:26I live upstairs, you live downstairs.
07:28But the Prophet,
07:30peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
07:32taught us another way,
07:35the companions taught us another way,
07:37of serving Huzoor,
07:39that Huzoor did not say this.
07:42Hazrat Abu Ayub said,
07:44I had a thought,
07:45so I stood in a corner all night,
07:47and I spent the whole night there.
07:51In the morning I said,
07:53O Messenger of Allah,
07:54it is not in my power to live on the roof.
07:57Wherever you are, please come down.
07:59Mahboob looked up and saw his face.
08:03And his emotional state,
08:05and his body language,
08:07and his style, his sincerity,
08:09he said,
08:10Okay, you come down with the children,
08:12and I will go upstairs.
08:13These companions,
08:15taught us how to serve Huzoor.
08:17Firstly,
08:18how to serve with love,
08:20how to serve with respect,
08:22and the third thing,
08:23I will go close to someone,
08:24and I will conclude the conversation.
08:28Those companions,
08:29used to follow the orders of the Prophet.
08:33These days,
08:34if you ask a friend to pray,
08:35he will say,
08:36you pray for me.
08:38I will pray for you.
08:39I will say,
08:40if I get a salary from the bank,
08:42I have never asked anyone to pray,
08:44that you pray for me,
08:45and take my salary,
08:46I don't feel like it.
08:47I have never asked anyone to pray.
08:48There is nothing to laugh about.
08:49May Allah forgive us.
08:50Why should we laugh in the mosque?
08:54Oh brother,
08:55have you ever prayed,
08:56that I have to take money from someone,
08:58and he is saying,
08:59take the money,
09:00I don't feel like going.
09:01Have you ever prayed?
09:02Tell me.
09:03Do you feel like going?
09:04Why don't you feel like going to the mosque?
09:09It is strange, isn't it?
09:11That,
09:12I don't open my eyes in the morning.
09:14I see,
09:15the one who has a flight at 4 in the morning,
09:17does his eyes open or not?
09:20What kind of joke is this,
09:22that we make with ourselves?
09:24And,
09:25the command of every person,
09:27is a precedent for me.
09:28And,
09:29the command that the Prophet has given,
09:31I can't go and tell a stranger,
09:32to keep a beard on his face.
09:34It is the Sunnah of the Prophet,
09:36that you have to tell the servant of the Prophet.
09:38And,
09:39the servant of the Prophet is saying,
09:40I am not pious,
09:41how can I keep a beard?
09:43In which hadith is it written,
09:44that the one who is pious,
09:45will keep a beard?
09:47The Ummah,
09:48that is not careful,
09:49in the matters of Halal and Haram,
09:52we are the followers of a pious Prophet.
09:56The Prophet,
09:57with the blessings of his holy feet,
09:59has given this Ummah,
10:00purity.
10:03How can we say,
10:04that it is Haram?
10:06How?
10:07How can we tolerate it?
10:09Tell me,
10:10I will ask you a question.
10:13Do you pay attention to what I am saying?
10:17If the meat is cooked,
10:18it is of the best quality,
10:19and the spices are of your choice.
10:21If a person eats 2-3 bites,
10:23and he enjoys it,
10:24then a person says,
10:25that this is not of charity.
10:29In your mouth,
10:30its taste changes.
10:32Am I saying it right?
10:37Just like,
10:38in your mouth,
10:39and if someone says,
10:40that this is dead,
10:41it was not slaughtered,
10:42then he may vomit.
10:44Tell him,
10:45that this is not right.
10:46So my brother,
10:47just like,
10:48a bite says,
10:49that this is Haram.
10:52Similarly,
10:53when you have,
10:5450 lakh Haram,
10:55you should also say,
10:56that this is Haram.
10:59You should also vomit,
11:00you should vomit.
11:02The Prophet,
11:03did this purification,
11:04I read to you,
11:05our verses,
11:06and they purify you.
11:08He did this purification,
11:09so that,
11:10nothing unlawful,
11:11can come near them.
11:13There was no question.
11:15The mind was purified.
11:17Today,
11:18and then,
11:19I will tell you one more thing.
11:21The Prophet,
11:22peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
11:24the two pieces of the moon,
11:26the sun,
11:27the stones,
11:28and the trees,
11:29recited the Kalima of the Prophet.
11:31But all this glory,
11:33was known to the Prophet,
11:34later on.
11:38The first thing,
11:39that the Prophet,
11:40said to the people,
11:42was to be truthful and trustworthy.
11:46Yes,
11:47eating sweets,
11:48is also Sunnah.
11:49But,
11:50speaking the truth,
11:51is the biggest Sunnah.
11:54Smoking,
11:55is also Sunnah.
11:56But,
11:57keeping the heart clean,
11:58is the biggest Sunnah.
11:59So,
12:00what is this,
12:01that a few things,
12:02should be followed.
12:03And,
12:04that should be considered,
12:05as the complete religion.
12:06But,
12:07the Prophet,
12:08peace and blessings of Allah be upon him,
12:09gave the light of knowledge,
12:10and light.
12:11And,
12:12to listen to the words,
12:13there are excuses.
12:14There are many excuses.
12:15I have seen,
12:16that there is a meeting,
12:17in the middle of the mosque,
12:18with many intelligent people.
12:19And,
12:20they have exposed,
12:21the turban of many clerics,
12:22that,
12:23someone does not do any work,
12:24someone is wrong.
12:25They get all the comments.
12:26When it is time for prayer,
12:28many of them,
12:29remember their work.
12:31Some say,
12:32I have to go there,
12:33and read.
12:34What is this?
12:35It is just a matter of words.
12:38Only we,
12:39that,
12:40I go there,
12:42now,
12:43it has become difficult,
12:44to go there,
12:46the responsibility of the institution,
12:47is increasing,
12:48day by day.
12:49But,
12:50I see that,
12:51there is a meeting,
12:52on the 21st.
12:53The founder of the meeting,
12:54tells me,
12:55when you pray,
12:56he says,
12:57pray.
12:5821 clerics,
12:59all together,
13:00could not do good to you.
13:01I said,
13:02after today,
13:03do not tell anyone.
13:04They will say,
13:05what kind of people are they?
13:0621 people came to him,
13:07and,
13:08he could not listen to anyone.
13:09Give the things,
13:10the real ones.
13:11The real ones are there.
13:12If your memories are not good,
13:13then how will you build a building?
13:14How will you build?