It's Showtime: Ang EXpecial love story ni Joyce na nagwakas dahil sa SUGAL! (EXpecially For You)
Aired (July 23, 2024): Nagkakilala through a friend sa pamamagitan ng isang messenger app sina Joyce at ang kanyang ex. Naging masaya at matatag ang kanilang relasyon matapos malagpasan ang LDR (Long Distance Relationship) at umabot ng halos isang dekada ang kanilang pagsasama, ngunit isang masamang bisyo ang pumagitan at nakapaghiwalay sa kanilang dalawa, ang pagsusugal. Alamin ang kanilang EXpecial love story! #GMANetwork
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00:00Welcome to Xpecial for you, Joyce!
00:02Joyce!
00:04Remember what she said, honeymail.
00:07It's the lover, not the love, who broke your heart last night.
00:12So still believe in love.
00:15It's the lover, not the...
00:17What was the last line?
00:19It's the lover...
00:21It's the lover, not the love...
00:23who deserted you.
00:25It's the lover, not the love, who deserted you.
00:28What does it mean? Who deserted you?
00:31He ate something sweet and then...
00:33Deserted?
00:34Deserted.
00:36It's not the love who deserted you.
00:38What does it mean?
00:39Deserted.
00:41You were left alone.
00:43You were left alone in the middle of nowhere.
00:45That's deserted.
00:46But that's it.
00:47You were left alone.
00:49You were left alone.
00:52How are you, Joyce?
00:53I'm happy.
00:55You won the raffle.
00:57You won the raffle.
00:59Where are you from?
01:00I'm from Sampaloc, Manila.
01:02You're happy because of Joyce.
01:04She's famous.
01:05Joyce twos the world.
01:07Joyce twos the world.
01:08Are you from Sampaloc?
01:09Where's Jackie? Why aren't you here?
01:11Why don't you want to join us?
01:13I'm here.
01:14There's no escape.
01:15You're here.
01:16Why?
01:17I know your forbidden techniques.
01:22I'll pass on that.
01:24I know that.
01:26I just want to be with you.
01:28Because you're good at giving opinions.
01:31Yes.
01:32The opinions there.
01:34You can give opinions there.
01:36There are a lot of opinions there.
01:38Badlampipo should know.
01:40Of course, I'm not behind you.
01:43I don't remember much.
01:44Do you remember?
01:45Why?
01:46Do you want to sit?
01:48Don't lie.
01:49If this is the hall of the district,
01:51you'll be the captain.
01:53Sorry.
01:55Joyce, you're from Sampaloc.
01:57What do you do for a living?
01:58I work.
01:59As?
02:00Accounting assistant.
02:01No, you're just a number.
02:03It's hard to talk to you.
02:04You're from there.
02:05Why?
02:06What's your job?
02:08Accounting assistant.
02:09Accounting assistant.
02:10That's right.
02:11You're a number.
02:12I'm really a number.
02:13Accounting assistant.
02:14She's the one who gets the calculator
02:16before the accountant works.
02:18She's my calculator.
02:20How about balance sheets?
02:21Excel?
02:22Yes.
02:23More on debit and credit.
02:25Debit, credit, and balance.
02:27Debit and credit.
02:28Okay, Joyce,
02:29to make her more comfortable,
02:30let's call her to join us.
02:31Because her ex is not here.
02:33Her ex has a different partner
02:35and he's not available.
02:37Oh.
02:38But,
02:39were you okay when your ex left?
02:41We stopped talking to each other.
02:43You stopped talking to each other.
02:44Did you get mad at each other?
02:46We talked to each other nicely.
02:49Then, after that...
02:50How did you talk to each other nicely?
02:52Did you have a hairdo?
02:53Did you have a pylori?
02:54Did you have a nice closure?
02:56Yes.
02:57It's like we separated
02:59because we wanted the same thing.
03:02Mutual break.
03:03Mutual decision.
03:04They agreed to separate
03:05but you weren't okay with it.
03:07Yes.
03:08You weren't okay with her,
03:09she wasn't okay with you.
03:10You didn't care about each other.
03:11We really don't care about each other now.
03:13Yes.
03:14Her ex is not here
03:16but her ex is nearby.
03:19Who is it?
03:20It's Mel.
03:21Come here, Mel.
03:22Is she near Mel?
03:23Come here, Mel.
03:24We were surprised to see you here.
03:26Mel, welcome to the show.
03:27Have a seat there.
03:29Thank you, Mel.
03:30She has a nice outfit.
03:31Yes.
03:32It's a grad ball.
03:33Nice.
03:34Graduation ball.
03:35Okay.
03:36The person that Joyce will choose
03:37for us to talk to
03:38is none other than
03:39Jovi.
03:40Hi, Jovi!
03:41Hi, Jovi!
03:42Hi, Jovi!
03:43Okay, turn around.
03:44It's a wedding.
03:45It's a wedding.
03:46It's a wedding.
03:47Hi, Jovi!
03:48Hi, Jovi!
03:49Hi, Jovi!
03:50She's just ordering one.
03:51So cute!
03:52Different materials.
03:53Inside, they're just different.
03:54Black and white.
03:55Hello, Jovi.
03:56Jovi is...
03:57What's your connection with Joyce?
03:58I'm a sibling of her ex.
03:59Oh.
04:00They're a family, right?
04:01Yes.
04:02We've been together for 9 years.
04:03Really?
04:04You're really close.
04:05We've been together for 9 years.
04:06We've been together for 9 years.
04:07I'm a family member.
04:08We're family.
04:09So, you're really close
04:11even after the relationship.
04:13Yes.
04:14He's still with me
04:15at the family outing.
04:16That's amazing.
04:17Good thing that friendship isn't over, right?
04:20Yes, sometimes that's the...
04:21Yes, we thought the friendship would end
04:24but we're still friends.
04:29What about his ex,
04:30what about his ex,
04:31who's your sibling?
04:32He hasn't had a choice yet.
04:35Is it you, the type of sister of an ex or a sister of a relationship, who is more of a companion to her boyfriend than to her sister?
04:45Because there are people like that, right?
04:47Yes, I'm the one who's the talker.
04:49Oh, really?
04:51You're the one who's falling for your sister, Joyce.
04:53But it's a secret.
04:55It's just a secret.
04:57It's like you're more of a companion to Joyce.
04:59Yes, yes. She's so nice.
05:01Why did you fall for Joyce?
05:03Because she's good at being with us.
05:05Are you like that, Rose?
05:07We can feel her love for our family.
05:09So your sister herself is not kind and not good at being with her family?
05:11She really fell for him.
05:13Her ex had a lot of girlfriends before her.
05:17Yes.
05:19But you weren't close?
05:21No, but before we became close,
05:23my brother and I have been together for a few months.
05:25Before we became close.
05:27Because I thought,
05:29he was just a girl at first.
05:31You thought he was serious?
05:33Yes, I thought he was just kidding.
05:35I was surprised when he got older.
05:37When my brother had his birthday,
05:39I started calling him Ate.
05:41Then he continued.
05:43That's nice.
05:45That's nice. It's different.
05:47Your sister is closer to you,
05:49but you're still okay with each other.
05:51Deadman, you weren't able to talk to your ex-lover.
05:53No, not anymore.
05:55Okay.
05:57How long have you been together?
05:599 years.
06:01That's a long time.
06:03How about you?
06:05What?
06:07How long have you been together?
06:11That's a long time too.
06:17It hasn't been more than a decade.
06:19No.
06:21More than 5 years?
06:237 years.
06:25It's a glitch.
06:27A glitch.
06:29A 7-year glitch.
06:31So, 9 years.
06:33How did you two meet?
06:35Through a messaging app.
06:37A messaging app?
06:39Yes.
06:41Shake, shake, shake.
06:43WhatsApp?
06:45No, no.
06:47WeChat?
06:49Yes, WeChat.
06:51When you shake the app,
06:53you'll know who's close to you.
06:55You'll know the people nearby.
06:57But he's not the one I met there.
06:59He's his friend.
07:01So, he introduced you to his friend.
07:03Why did you do that?
07:05I'm really looking for someone to chat with.
07:07I'm curious about Shake.
07:09Shake, shake, shake.
07:11There's nothing wrong with that.
07:13Some people use Tinder, some use Bumble.
07:15That's also one of your intentions.
07:17Why did you do that?
07:19Maybe you'll have a partner
07:21and you'll become true love.
07:23That's true.
07:25I've met a lot of people.
07:27You've met a lot of people.
07:29But that's where you fell in love.
07:31That's where you fell in love.
07:33That's where you fell in love.
07:35Yes.
07:37How's your relationship?
07:39We're happy.
07:41Maybe there are people...
07:43What was the best effect
07:45that he gave you?
07:47I'm always happy.
07:49I'm always happy.
07:51I feel like I belong to everyone.
07:53I feel like I belong to everyone.
07:55But I always want to see him.
07:57But I always want to see him.
07:59When I get home from work,
08:01I want to be with him.
08:03We lived together for 4 years
08:05before we split up.
08:07before we split up.
08:09On your 5th year,
08:11you got together.
08:13Yes.
08:15Because they lived together for 9 years.
08:17They lived together for 9 years.
08:19I have 5 left.
08:21Can I be an accountant?
08:23Assistant.
08:25Assistant to the assistant of the accountant.
08:27I compete for him.
08:29I compete for him.
08:31Love has a lot of effects.
08:33Love has a lot of effects.
08:35It's inspiring.
08:37It's beautiful.
08:39It's happy.
08:41It's exciting.
08:43It's fulfilling.
08:45We lived together for 2 years
08:47before we split up.
08:49before we split up.
08:51He went to Dubai for 2 years.
08:53He went to Dubai for 2 years.
08:55He went to Dubai for 2 years.
08:57After he came back to the Philippines,
08:59He went to Dubai for 2 years.
09:01He went to Dubai for 2 years.
09:03We decided to live in.
09:05We decided to live in.
09:07Were you able to witness
09:09their happy moments?
09:11Yes.
09:13Yes.
09:15Where did you go?
09:17We went to a restaurant.
09:19We went to a restaurant.
09:21We went to a restaurant.
09:23We went to a restaurant.
09:25We went to a restaurant.
09:27We went to a restaurant.
09:29We went to a restaurant.
09:31We went to a restaurant.
09:33We went to a restaurant.
09:35We went to a restaurant.
09:37We went to a restaurant.
09:39We went to a restaurant.
09:41We went to a restaurant.
09:43You don't have a boyfriend there.
09:45I have a live-in partner.
09:47Ah, but you have a third wheel.
09:49So, you're happy,
09:51you went to Dubai, you live-in.
09:53What was the problem of the live-in?
09:55If you live-in, why didn't you get along?
09:57It's like
09:59it's priority is
10:01his friends over me.
10:03It's like
10:05he's more afraid of his friends than me.
10:07he's more afraid of his friends than me.
10:09What are their trips?
10:11Online casino.
10:13Casino.
10:15Casino.
10:17You know,
10:19that's a problem of many
10:21OFWs.
10:23Of course, if they're there,
10:25they can save money, right?
10:27Then when they come here, if they don't have a job,
10:29of course, you save money,
10:31you go out and out,
10:33but you still have a visa.
10:35That's why there are many OFWs who suddenly,
10:37what happened to them?
10:39They lost their money in gambling.
10:41So, you can see that
10:43they're losing their money in gambling.
10:45Yes.
10:47And it's painful because
10:49I'm the only one who works for us.
10:51So,
10:53when we're together,
10:55I'm the only one who lives for the two of us.
10:57But who's gambling the most?
10:59His money or your money?
11:01My money.
11:03Oh, your money.
11:05How do you tell him to ask for money for gambling?
11:07When it comes to love,
11:09we always believe in love.
11:11I'll just ask for a change of oil.
11:13I'll ask for a motorcycle.
11:15Expenses.
11:17I'll give him whatever he wants.
11:19Then I'll tell him
11:21that I need a receipt.
11:23He'll say,
11:25oh, I dropped it.
11:27I'll let it go until he calculates.
11:29I was tempted to calculate
11:31his cell phone.
11:33That's why I caught him.
11:35Is that true, Jovi?
11:37Yes.
11:39I tell him
11:41that
11:43my brother is here.
11:45When he's with us,
11:47he'll know.
11:49How's your relationship with your brother?
11:51Why don't you fight?
11:53I'm not afraid of him.
11:55When he finds out,
11:57I'll tell him.
11:59He'll never find out that you're gambling?
12:01Never.
12:03It's not just me.
12:05My cousins
12:07are gambling too.
12:09But your brother will never find out
12:11that you're gambling with Joyce?
12:13He'll tell him that I don't gamble anymore.
12:15So that it won't last long.
12:17How's your family?
12:19Are they aware that you're gambling?
12:21They're aware.
12:23My brother gets mad at me.
12:25But I'm tough-headed.
12:27But it's like you.
12:29You know what you're doing is wrong.
12:31That's why you're telling him to stop.
12:33Yes.
12:35So that it won't last long.
12:37That's what I'm doing.
12:39How about your friends?
12:41Are they more of a priority than you?
12:43Do they still gamble?
12:45Yes.
12:47They're in-between.
12:49Online.
12:51There are only three of them.
12:53They're in-between.
12:55There are online casinos
12:57that they go to.
12:59It's fun when there are a lot of people
13:01who are gambling.
13:03Yes, there are a lot of people
13:05who are like,
13:07let's play games.
13:09We should do it together.
13:11Yes.
13:13I'm trying to break that with the gays.
13:15How?
13:17Because there are a lot of people
13:19in the comedy bar.
13:21Of course, the gays are making money.
13:23Sometimes,
13:25or sometimes,
13:27there are high-spenders
13:29in the comedy bar.
13:31They'll join us after the gig.
13:33We'll eat together.
13:35Sometimes, they'll join us at the casino.
13:37They'll give us games.
13:39They'll go there.
13:41When I found out,
13:43I asked the gays.
13:45Is this an intervention?
13:47Yes.
13:49The gays are afraid of me.
13:51At that point,
13:53I will make sure
13:55that I get in.
13:57There are two main reasons
13:59why life is bad.
14:01It's gambling
14:03and drugs.
14:07I don't know anyone
14:09who gambles and drugs
14:11after everything.
14:13Life is beautiful.
14:15In the beginning,
14:17you were given gambling.
14:19That's why you got addicted.
14:21You believed in luck.
14:23It's addictive.
14:25But in the end,
14:27nothing happened.
14:29You're good as a friend.
14:31You can be unfriended.
14:33That's the tough love
14:35that they call it.
14:37Our relationship is deep.
14:39We won't be unfriended.
14:41I don't want to be unfriended.
14:43But I won't allow it.
14:45They won't be unfriended.
14:47But I won't do anything to them.
14:49I will always support them.
14:51When I joined the Vice Comedy Club,
14:53I said,
14:55no, no.
14:57If I gamble,
14:59you know what will happen.
15:01I want to clean the environment.
15:03Especially you,
15:05because you're always together.
15:07It will affect your work.
15:09If you lose,
15:11you'll be sad.
15:13If you work,
15:15you'll have problems.
15:17Aside from work,
15:19you'll be left behind.
15:21It's not a waste of your hard work.
15:23You're always afraid.
15:25If you get sick, we won't help you.
15:27Because you had a chance.
15:29You had a chance to earn
15:31and save money.
15:33But you wasted the chances.
15:35What will happen?
15:37They'll earn a lot.
15:39When they have a need,
15:41they can't support themselves.
15:43Some are out of gambling,
15:45some are out of drugs.
15:47It's clear.
15:49Do you get to the point
15:51where you can't give anything?
15:53Yes.
15:55Until she learned
15:57how to beg my parents.
15:59Even your parents?
16:01Yes.
16:05When you found out?
16:07My mom still keeps it a secret.
16:09She's afraid
16:11that we'll fight.
16:13My mom is kind.
16:15When you're stuck,
16:17you can't stop it.
16:19It happens.
16:21Excessive.
16:23Anything that is non-excessively
16:25constitutes a vice.
16:27Anything that constitutes a vice
16:29constitutes evil.
16:31I'm your vice.
16:33Healthy.
16:35Just call me that.
16:37That's how it is.
16:39So,
16:41it hurts.
16:43It's hard.
16:45You see something wrong,
16:47but you don't know how to talk about it.
16:49Have you experienced that?
16:51Yes.
16:53When I love him too much,
16:55I let it go even if it hurts.
16:57That's what's hard.
16:59They call it an enabler.
17:01You let it go.
17:03But sometimes,
17:05it hurts when you're called an enabler.
17:07When you're called an enabler,
17:09you let it go.
17:11You don't let it go.
17:13It's hard for you.
17:15How do you open
17:17your issue?
17:19You know the effect of it.
17:21You'll fight. You'll separate.
17:23He doesn't let it go.
17:25He's just not strong enough.
17:27He's not brave enough.
17:29He's not ready.
17:31No matter what happens,
17:33when you start a conversation,
17:35it's not that easy to open
17:37a conversation about an issue.
17:39I feel like a lot of you
17:41have issues, but you don't know
17:43how to start a conversation
17:45because you're afraid.
17:47You don't have the strength
17:49to confront your partner.
17:51And when you start a conversation,
17:53you'll gaslight.
17:55It's like you're the one at fault.
17:57It's like you're at fault.
17:59You'll fight.
18:01You don't want to be toxic.
18:03I'm also afraid that he'll leave me.
18:05Correct.
18:07That's it.
18:09When you start a conversation,
18:11you'll fight. You'll separate.
18:13That's what you can't do.
18:15But it doesn't mean
18:17that you're letting him go.
18:19Yes.
18:21Maybe he repeats it
18:23because he sees that
18:25I'm always forgiving him.
18:27Sometimes,
18:29there's a point
18:31when I pray to God
18:33that if he's not for me,
18:35I'll stop.
18:37But I'm also the one who's annoyed.
18:39God has given me so many signs.
18:41I'm still not leaving him.
18:43You're the type of person
18:45who asks for signs.
18:47What are the signs?
18:49For example,
18:51when we fight,
18:53I'll sign to God
18:55that if we're not
18:57for each other,
18:59I'll stop because it's been a long time.
19:01It's been nine years.
19:03Tomorrow,
19:05he'll repeat the same problem
19:07but I'm still forgiving him.
19:09Joyce,
19:11did you not talk to his family
19:13about your problem?
19:15I tried.
19:17And
19:19it's not because
19:21of our breakup.
19:23It's because
19:25he doesn't have a plan in life.
19:27Since I met him,
19:29it's like...
19:31Is he going to Dubai?
19:33Yes.
19:35I brought him to Dubai
19:37for a change.
19:39At first,
19:41I didn't want him to go to Dubai.
19:43But his parents told me
19:45that it's also for you
19:47so that you can be separated
19:49from your friends
19:51and find a job.
19:53Because ever since,
19:55I'm the only one who works for us.
19:57At that time,
19:59what did you tell him?
20:01Aside from complaining,
20:03did you tell him to break up?
20:05There's a part like that.
20:07But he doesn't want to.
20:09He really loves his brother.
20:11I feel guilty for my brother
20:13because I told him
20:15that he's my brother.
20:17Yes.
20:19But he really loves you.
20:21He always tells me
20:23to break up with my brother
20:25because he's ruining my life.
20:27I don't want to hurt him.
20:29I also love my sister.
20:31That's why I want to
20:33break up with him.
20:35But he also loves his brother.
20:37We can only try and do so much.
20:39At first,
20:41we can help each other
20:43and convince each other.
20:45I'm helping you to go up
20:47especially if you feel like you're going up.
20:49Let's go together
20:51because I'm going up.
20:53Let's go up together.
20:55If you don't want to go up with me,
20:57you can't bring me with you
20:59when you go down.
21:01Because if you do,
21:03you'll lose your money.
21:05Yes, sir.
21:07Then you'll reach the point
21:09where you'll run out of money
21:11because of him.
21:13Yes, sir.
21:15And his parents,
21:17they'll also beg him.
21:19But I don't know
21:21if it's true.
21:23His blood started to change.
21:25What?
21:27He had a motor accident in 2021.
21:29After that accident,
21:31his blood started to change.
21:35Maybe his trauma
21:37from that accident
21:39has an effect
21:41on his behavior.
21:43Yes, sir.
21:45That's why I can't leave him
21:47because I'm afraid
21:49that he'll change
21:51because of me.
21:53I still have hope
21:55that I can save him.
21:57I can bring him up.
21:59But I can't.
22:01The problem with us
22:03is that we always want people
22:05to change immediately.
22:07We want to help them
22:09to change immediately.
22:11In reality, that's not the process.
22:13You can't change.
22:15We need to understand
22:17why it's like that.
22:19Where did it come from?
22:21You need to know
22:23why it's like that.
22:25You need to go there and understand.
22:27Once you understand,
22:29you'll be able to resolve
22:31where the illness came from.
22:33It's the same with...
22:35Stop the gambling.
22:37Because we don't know
22:39what's running through their minds.
22:41They're going through something.
22:43Where did it come from?
22:45We need to start there.
22:47That's how life is.
22:49You can lose everything anytime.
22:51If that's how life is,
22:53there's no guarantee that I can die anytime.
22:55I'll enjoy everything.
22:57Whatever I have,
22:59if it's fun to gamble, I'll gamble it.
23:01If it's fun to be with my friends,
23:03I'll join my friends.
23:05Where did it come from?
23:07Is that the way
23:09to escape?
23:11Because he doesn't want to be inside the house?
23:13Is the house a mess
23:15that's why he wants to be with his friends?
23:17What about me?
23:19Where am I?
23:23You need to know
23:25where he is
23:27to know where you are.
23:29Because if you want
23:31to be with him,
23:33you need to know where you are.
23:35Unless it's clear to you
23:37that wherever you are,
23:39I'm here.
23:41It's up to you
23:43if you want to come back,
23:45I'm here.
23:47Or, if you're not here,
23:49I'm sorry,
23:51maybe when you come back,
23:53I'll be gone.
23:55Right?
23:57If you want to be with the two of you,
23:59you need to know where he is.
24:01He also needs to know
24:03where you are
24:05to find the two of you.
24:07Because if the two of you
24:09are in different places,
24:11even if you're next to each other,
24:13it's like you're apart.
24:19He needs to understand himself
24:21and for all those who want to help,
24:23they also need to understand.
24:25But you also
24:27need to understand
24:29what you're good at.
24:31Right?
24:33You also need to help yourself.
24:35But the reason you're thinking
24:37is right.
24:39If you're going to be gone,
24:41or if I will lose you,
24:43it's better
24:45than
24:47I lose myself.
24:49Yes.
24:51But it took me a long time
24:53to decide
24:55to leave him.
24:57Joyce,
24:59did you ask your ex
25:01if you,
25:03or your friends,
25:05did you choose him?
25:07He always
25:09answers me.
25:11But you don't feel it?
25:13No.
25:15Addiction is a therapy.
25:17Right?
25:19Especially in other countries.
25:21Because here,
25:23they don't talk about it.
25:25It's normal to get depressed
25:27and the next day,
25:29you're like,
25:31I don't want it anymore.
25:33Addiction also becomes a disease.
25:35It's a part of your mental health.
25:37It needs therapy.
25:39And it needs time
25:41and understanding.
25:43There's a support group.
25:45Right?
25:47But in the Philippines,
25:49they don't talk about it.
25:51The different types of addiction
25:53and what kind of condition it is.
25:55They think it's just a visual.
25:57Anytime, you should leave.
25:59But because
26:01it's not normal
26:03to talk about it,
26:05they don't understand it.
26:07And it's not normal
26:09for people
26:11to include
26:13mental health in their wellness.
26:15Their wellness
26:17in their general check-up,
26:19dental check-up,
26:21their wellness in their
26:23mental health,
26:25it's not included in the Philippines.
26:27That's why they should talk about it
26:29so it becomes normal
26:31for people to talk about it.
26:33So when you decided
26:35to run away,
26:37how did you tell them?
26:39How did you tell them
26:41that you were going to leave?
26:43She left our house
26:45all of a sudden.
26:47She fired you?
26:49Yes.
26:51The next day,
26:53she messaged me
26:55if she could come back.
26:57That's their house, right?
26:59We moved to their house
27:01first.
27:03And you asked her to come back?
27:05No.
27:07That's when I said
27:09I was tired.
27:11I didn't cry.
27:13I only cried once
27:15to my parents.
27:17And that's your right.
27:19You have the right to say
27:21how and when
27:23you will say
27:25the right thing.
27:27But I still tried
27:29to beg her.
27:31Oh, you still tried?
27:33After you said no?
27:35Yes.
27:37You chased her away?
27:39You didn't ask her to come back
27:41but you begged her.
27:43You can just come back.
27:45Can I go back there?
27:47No. I'm tired.
27:49But I feel sorry for her.
27:51But I'll go back there.
27:53That's how it is sometimes.
27:55Why did you beg her?
27:57Regine said,
27:59why did you do that?
28:01After a month,
28:03I felt bad
28:05because she always makes signals.
28:07So I hoped
28:09that we'll be okay.
28:11We chatted
28:13and I went to their house.
28:15But it was too late.
28:17She was with someone else.
28:19Oh!
28:21Jovi didn't say
28:23that he has a new girlfriend?
28:25I told him.
28:27You don't listen.
28:29You hear things but you don't listen.
28:31You know things but you don't know.
28:33You see things but you don't see.
28:35That's how love is.
28:37Not many people are like that.
28:39You heard it
28:41but you begged.
28:43You saw it but you blabbered.
28:45You found out but you were stupid.
28:47I'll tell you a story.
28:59Before I went there,
29:01I chatted with her.
29:03I told her not to tell her brother
29:05that I was going there.
29:07But the girl was already there.
29:09She told her brother.
29:11So when I went there,
29:13they asked the girl to leave.
29:15When I got there,
29:17I just smiled.
29:19She apologized to me.
29:21She didn't tell me
29:23that she was afraid of causing trouble.
29:25That's valid.
29:27When you got there,
29:29she asked you to leave.
29:31If that was you,
29:33you saw the girl running away,
29:35you asked her to get in the car,
29:37what would you do?
29:39I'll go there and beg.
29:41No, you just reached her.
29:43I'll be the girl.
29:45I'll get in the car.
29:47You asked me to leave.
29:49Jackie will be there soon.
29:51You don't want to start?
29:53Your car is so slow.
29:55I'll go there.
29:59Why did you ask me to leave?
30:01Who will be there?
30:03Just leave.
30:05You might get caught.
30:07Let's open the gate.
30:09Is that her?
30:13Is that her?
30:15Yes, that's her.
30:17Wait, wait, wait.
30:19My motorcycle is broken.
30:21That's why I'm riding a horse.
30:23Ouch!
30:25Ouch!
30:27Wow!
30:29You're riding a horse?
30:35That's her.
30:37That's Vice.
30:39She's already there.
30:41You're together.
30:43It's okay.
30:45She won't go there if you didn't decide
30:47that you want to be with her.
30:49Ouch!
30:51I'll explain, Jackie.
30:53You're not there.
30:55You're in the L.U.
30:57Ouch!
30:59That's why I invited her here
31:01so that I can talk to her.
31:03I'll just talk to her.
31:05She's in the L.U.?
31:07That's why you're the one she likes?
31:09She's in the L.U.?
31:11Let's just finish this.
31:13Let's simplify the situation.
31:15There are three of us.
31:17There are only two of you.
31:21It's either us or you.
31:25I won't choose the person
31:27who didn't choose me.
31:29I just didn't have a chance
31:31to make a decision
31:33to be with someone else.
31:35I'll just ask first
31:37and then I'll choose.
31:39Why do you need to ask?
31:41Why is she here?
31:43Will she go there alone?
31:45This is our place.
31:47You brought her here.
31:49Wow!
31:51It's us!
31:55I'm sorry.
31:57I'm sorry, Jackie.
31:59I saw her...
32:01I can't see you.
32:03That's what's hard for you.
32:05You're not content.
32:07You're not perfect.
32:09Did I look for someone else?
32:25If that's the case,
32:27find the one who's missing.
32:31Isn't that how it should be?
32:33Find the one who's missing.
32:35Are you going to fix this?
32:37No.
32:41That's too much.
32:43That's how it should be.
32:45Is it a confrontation?
32:47Yes.
32:49But there's no one else.
32:51There's someone else.
32:53That's a clear sign.
32:55That's enough, Joyce.
32:57That's enough.
32:59Did you see that?
33:01That's it.
33:03Joyce is so nice.
33:05That's how it is.
33:07But after that,
33:09I talked to my ex.
33:11I'll give you a mic.
33:13Don't you want to stop?
33:15He's awake now.
33:17What did you say when you talked?
33:19I asked him if our relationship is okay.
33:21He wants to hear it.
33:23He wants it to be clear.
33:25I asked him why
33:27he has a girlfriend.
33:29I asked him if he likes
33:31the girl.
33:33He just answered me,
33:35maybe.
33:37But no judgment.
33:39That happens to us.
33:41That's too much.
33:43We're possessed
33:45by
33:47our concept of love
33:49and relationship
33:51and attachment.
33:53Forever.
33:55You don't want to let go.
33:57That's how they believe.
33:59As long as there's life, there's hope.
34:01Hope brings
34:03a lot of good things.
34:05But sometimes, hope
34:07is also a curse.
34:09Or you don't know.
34:11Do I still feel hope?
34:13Deluded.
34:15Deluded.
34:17But at least,
34:19you were saved.
34:21Yes.
34:23When you look at
34:25the bad things
34:27that happened,
34:29you were actually saved
34:31during that time.
34:33If you didn't see the girl,
34:35you might have fallen for her.
34:37If you didn't get hurt
34:39by the words,
34:41I love the girl,
34:43you might have pity on her.
34:45You gave it another chance.
34:47If that didn't happen,
34:49you might still have
34:51a hard time until now.
34:53Yes.
34:55Wow.
34:57Your martyr is amazing.
34:59Is she your ex-girlfriend now?
35:01Yes.
35:03Are they okay with her present?
35:05They're okay.
35:07I hope they'll be okay
35:09so that they'll be happy
35:11and you'll be happy too.
35:13So that everybody's happy.
35:15Correct.
35:17We will rejoice.
35:19And be glad each day.
35:22Long live.
35:24What did you say?
35:26I said, long live.
35:28I didn't mean that.
35:30I didn't look at you.
35:34I'm sorry.
35:36I was looking at her.
35:38I didn't connect with you.
35:40We didn't understand each other.
35:42I was looking at you.
35:44Me too.
35:46Are you happier now?
35:48Yes.
35:50I'm able to do things
35:52that I couldn't do before.
35:54Are you free now?
35:56Yes.
35:58From pain?
36:00Yes.
36:02From anger?
36:04Yes.
36:06I called her.
36:08And what about you?
36:10I don't know.
36:12It's okay.
36:14It's okay.
36:16But you need to start your journey
36:18to forgive yourself.
36:20What's important is that
36:22you need to forgive yourself.
36:24You don't need to rush
36:26and rush.
36:28Why did you forgive him?
36:30So that he won't
36:32add to my thoughts.
36:34That's true.
36:36Because if you forgive him,
36:38you'll be able to
36:40think about him.
36:42So you forgave him for yourself.
36:44Yes.
36:46He has power in you.
36:48Joyce, when you see Jovee,
36:50don't you think about your ex?
36:52No.
36:54He doesn't look like his brother.
36:56We didn't really
36:58talk about him.
37:00Jovee is also good.
37:02You don't...
37:04You have a different
37:06friendship, right?
37:08Because some people
37:10will disconnect.
37:12Especially your brother.
37:14That's what we thought.
37:16That we'll cut ties.
37:18But
37:20we didn't become friends
37:22when we were
37:24ex-boyfriends.
37:26That's why I'm usually with
37:28Jovee and his cousins.
37:30Actually, I'm still with
37:32his cousins until now.
37:34Where are they?
37:36Okay.
37:40So you forgave him
37:42for yourself.
37:44That's why you forgive yourself
37:46for yourself.
37:48Baby steps.
37:50In your time, in your face.
37:52But I think I'm okay now.
37:54You're okay now?
37:56Yes.
37:58Just shout it out.
38:00Shout it out.
38:02Just cry it out.
38:04I forgave myself
38:06for myself.
38:08But for me, I'm okay now.
38:10You're okay.
38:12And you'll be okay when you meet
38:14these three.
38:16Joyce, it's time
38:18to meet our searchees.
38:20Searchee No. 1, reveal.
38:30What's up, Bedlam people?
38:34I am
38:36Kaiser 29,
38:38the teacher bae of Olongapo City.
38:40Teacher bae.
38:42Teacher, that's why.
38:44Not mom, Kaiser.
38:48Kaiser,
38:50right?
38:52In love with Kaiser.
38:56Kaiser with love.
38:58What are you teaching?
39:00I'm currently teaching sciences
39:02at Junior High School in Olongapo City.
39:04Okay, sir.
39:06What's your pick-up line for Joyce?
39:08Joyce,
39:10are you a teacher?
39:12Why?
39:14Why do you smile
39:16whenever you're sad?
39:18Carry along when your
39:20attrities are bad.
39:22All I wanna do
39:24is to grow
39:26old with you.
39:30Wow.
39:32I don't know how many songs I've sung.
39:34Adam Sandler.
39:36Beautiful.
39:38Cutie.
39:40And now, searchee No. 2, reveal.
39:44What's up,
39:46Bedlam people?
39:56I'm Lil...
39:58I'm Lil
40:0029,
40:02the financial crime and fraud
40:04preventer of Quezon City.
40:06Wow, financial crime and fraud
40:08preventer.
40:10There you go,
40:12credit cards,
40:14even withdrawals
40:16from ATMs,
40:18money is lost.
40:20Okay.
40:22When was the last time you had a girlfriend?
40:24No girlfriend since birth.
40:28But Wil, do you think
40:30you'll be chosen by Joyce?
40:32Will you be chosen by Joyce?
40:34I think so.
40:36Yay!
40:38Yay!
40:42Okay, Wil.
40:44What's your pick-up line for Joyce?
40:46Joyce.
40:48Why?
40:50I won't give you a jacket.
40:52I won't give you 5,000.
40:54Give her love.
40:56Yay!
40:58Yay!
41:00Yay!
41:02Yay!
41:04She's pretty, right?
41:06Kayser is happy for you.
41:08So cute.
41:10Thank you, Wil.
41:12Here's the third search.
41:14Reveal.
41:20What's up,
41:22Bedlam people? My name is Bricks28,
41:24your sales manager of Quezon City.
41:26Bricks.
41:28What's your job?
41:30I'm a sales manager at a well-known department store
41:32in the Philippines.
41:34When was the last time you had a girlfriend?
41:36That was 3 years ago.
41:38Did she leave you?
41:40We made a decision
41:42because she left me and my heart.
41:44She left me too.
41:46What's your pick-up line, Bricks?
41:48Joyce, do you know
41:50that I just achieved my sales plan
41:52this afternoon?
41:54Why?
41:56Because I sold all my goods,
41:58my heart and my love to you.
42:00Aww.
42:02Achieve.
42:04Achieve.
42:06Yes, girl.
42:08Okay.
42:10Jovi, describe
42:12the three of them to Joyce.
42:14How are the three guys?
42:16They're okay.
42:18I feel like one of them will be better than the other.
42:20Okay, Joyce.
42:22Talk to our searchees.
42:26Question number one.
42:28In getting to know yourself,
42:30when you reach 40,
42:32how much money
42:34do you think you have?
42:36Oh, sir.
42:38Financial stability.
42:40How old are they?
42:42Kaiser is 29.
42:44Will is 29.
42:46Bricks is 28.
42:48So, it's a projection.
42:50In getting to know
42:52yourself, your abilities
42:54and your personality,
42:56when you reach 40,
42:58how much money do you think you have?
43:00Do you have savings?
43:02By the age of 40,
43:04financial stability
43:06is increasing
43:08every year.
43:10So, I guess I have a million.
43:12Enough for the two of us
43:14to live.
43:16We also have land
43:20and cars.
43:22And I'm sure
43:24you'll manage
43:26as an accountant
43:28my pet shop
43:30where you'll work
43:32and we'll live
43:34and we'll grow old together.
43:38So, you have savings and assets
43:40and business.
43:42Will.
43:44Maybe
43:46when I reach 40,
43:48based on my
43:50computation,
43:52I'll have around
43:54120,000.
43:56It won't reach a million
43:58because I love coffee.
44:00I'm a coffee slifer.
44:02But Joy is a cappellinga slifer.
44:12That's his non-negotiable, coffee.
44:16But I'm more of a cappellinga slifer.
44:18Oh, as a cappellinga.
44:20Bricks.
44:22If you give an amount, let's say,
44:241 million.
44:26That's it.
44:28We'll work on it.
44:30It's hard to save this time because there are a lot of bills.
44:32But there's a possibility
44:34that we'll get it
44:36as long as we have
44:38a strong determination as of the moment.
44:40We should move now
44:42for preparation in the future.
44:44Actually, what you said is good.
44:46It's really hard to save.
44:48We always encourage people
44:50to save.
44:52What will they save?
44:54Their salary is still not enough for their daily expenses.
44:58Aside from wanting to save,
45:00there should be a lot of opportunities
45:02for them to save.
45:04Even if there are opportunities,
45:06people also need hard work
45:08and determination
45:10and a desire to save.
45:12So, Joyce,
45:14who will you give the green flag to?
45:16To Kaisler.
45:18Kaisler is number one?
45:20Yes.
45:22Why?
45:24Because I heard about the pet shop.
45:26My family loves dogs.
45:28Oh, sorry.
45:30Kaisler only likes cats.
45:32No dogs.
45:34And
45:36he said that
45:38he really has a goal.
45:40That's what's important to you.
45:42Let's ask Jovi.
45:44What do you think, Joyce Jovi?
45:46I think that's right.
45:48You have a lot of pets.
45:50They have a lot of dogs at home.
45:52That's why it's right.
45:54Thank you very much. Congrats, Kaisler.
45:56Question number two, Joyce.
45:58Question number two.
46:00How will you know
46:02if you still love people
46:04or you're just tolerating them?
46:06How will you know if you still love people
46:08or you're just tolerating them?
46:10Why?
46:12That's a beautiful song.
46:14How will you know
46:16if you still love people
46:18or you're just tolerating them?
46:20Tolerating.
46:22Tolerating.
46:24Let's start with Brix, number three.
46:26For me, how will I know
46:28if I still love people?
46:30I should feel from them that I still love them.
46:32Because
46:34in a relationship,
46:36there are two things.
46:38Let's say, it should be 50-50.
46:40You can't be the one
46:42giving everything
46:44while the other one is just understanding.
46:46Because at the end of the day,
46:48if you're tolerating a person,
46:50let's say, your girlfriend or boyfriend,
46:52that will lead you
46:54into separation.
46:56That's the way
46:58that if there's something
47:00that needs to be changed,
47:02just change it.
47:04Don't wait for the end.
47:06For me, you should feel the same
47:08when you make a decision.
47:10Both parties should be the same.
47:12For me, I'm tolerating.
47:16Thank you, Brix.
47:18Okay. Thank you.
47:20Kaizer, number one.
47:22For me, love is unconditionally.
47:24So,
47:26as Katy Perry said,
47:28it's very unconditional.
47:30You will love someone
47:32without any hesitations
47:34and any reservations.
47:36If you're going to love someone
47:38like me, I will give my own
47:40and love you
47:42the same way as you did.
47:44Will.
47:46I can say that if you love someone,
47:48just tolerate.
47:50If you're tolerating, just tolerate.
47:52It's like,
47:54you're doing it over and over again.
47:56There's nothing new.
47:58It's like you just complained
48:00that you said good morning,
48:02you ate, I love you, good night.
48:04Just tolerate.
48:06There's nothing new.
48:08Sometimes, it's scripted.
48:10Sometimes, you need to go out of the box.
48:12Surprise them.
48:14It's okay to go back to the box
48:16but surprise them
48:18because you love them.
48:26Okay.
48:28It's up to you, Joyce.
48:30Juloques is a bit off.
48:32It's up to you, Joyce.
48:40It's like...
48:42It's like...
48:44It's A.
48:46It's Will.
48:48It's A.
48:54I'm sorry.
48:56I'm a bit slow today.
48:58Unconditional.
49:02Me too.
49:04Maybe I'm just so slow today.
49:06For me, it's like what Joyce did.
49:08It's love.
49:10She gave him a chance.
49:12That's why he tolerated.
49:14Because he loves her.
49:16He doesn't want to leave her.
49:18He doesn't tolerate.
49:20He just can't leave her.
49:22He doesn't want to tolerate
49:24but he can't leave her
49:26and hope.
49:28If you're just tolerating
49:30without love, you're just tolerating.
49:32For example, it's like this.
49:36We saw your boyfriend. There's a girl with him.
49:38Let him be.
49:42Whether he's there or not,
49:44you don't care.
49:48For example, you're already married.
49:50If you want to leave, leave.
49:52If you want to stay, stay.
49:54It's up to him.
49:56He can do whatever he wants
49:58as long as my children are important to me.
50:00I don't have love anymore.
50:02I'm tolerating that.
50:04It's up to you because I don't care anymore.
50:06You don't care anymore.
50:08Jaded in love.
50:10It doesn't affect you anymore.
50:12So it's up to you.
50:14But love,
50:16he has a lot.
50:18He has care.
50:20He has concern.
50:22He has
50:24empathy.
50:26He has compassion. He has sympathy.
50:28Hope.
50:30Acceptance.
50:32He has a lot of emotions.
50:34Love is very special.
50:36That's why you're just tolerating.
50:38You're letting it happen over and over again
50:40when you don't feel anything anymore.
50:42You don't have emotions anymore.
50:44So, Will,
50:46congratulations. You have a green flag.
50:48You have one more question.
50:50Question number three.
50:52Where do you google
50:54the biggest part of your time and energy?
50:56Why?
50:58Where do you google
51:00the biggest part?
51:02For example, you have 100% energy
51:04and time.
51:06Where do you divide that?
51:08What is the biggest
51:10fraction
51:12of your time and energy?
51:14Let's start with
51:16Will.
51:18I google
51:20my time
51:22in work
51:24and life balance.
51:26Balance in work
51:28and balance in life.
51:30I just divided it.
51:32Because
51:34in my life,
51:36I need to exercise.
51:38You need to exercise
51:40to reach the age of 40.
51:42To become a millionaire.
51:44Then, in work,
51:46I need to work
51:48to live.
51:5050-50.
51:52So, you are really like that.
51:54You are really balanced.
51:56You don't have
51:58super work.
52:00You don't have
52:02fun.
52:04Yes, everything should be balanced.
52:06Sometimes, if you lack or you are too much,
52:08you will get hurt.
52:10What about Bricks?
52:12My time now is
52:1480% work.
52:16Then,
52:1820% rest.
52:20To have peace of mind
52:22for my next task.
52:24I need to wake up strong
52:26and do what I need to do.
52:28I believe that
52:30whatever we do in life,
52:32if you want to be successful
52:34at the end of the day,
52:36you need to prepare yourself.
52:38Number one capital is ourselves.
52:40In terms of relationship,
52:42as of the moment,
52:44I haven't thought about it yet.
52:46Because,
52:4880-20 is still too early.
52:50And my relationship is pitiful
52:52because I can't give it time.
52:54So, in case I will have a chance
52:56in the future,
52:58this is what I did.
53:00This is my action now.
53:02This is my preparation in the future.
53:04I am prepared to be with him.
53:06Connected to question number one.
53:08Thank you, Bricks.
53:10Kaiser.
53:12As a teacher,
53:14it's like 24-7
53:16to be a teacher.
53:18So,
53:20as Kaiser,
53:22I have
53:24my own pet shop.
53:26And I also teach.
53:28Because,
53:30I've been there since
53:32I was 29 years old.
53:34And I want to have a goal
53:36that I want
53:38at this age,
53:40this is what I can achieve.
53:42This is what will happen to me.
53:44This is my
53:46finance.
53:48Things like that.
53:50And I want
53:52when I came to that part,
53:54I want to be with someone
53:56who will
53:58support and cherish
54:00that.
54:02Because,
54:04what I do is
54:06for my family and my future.
54:08And I need that for all of us.
54:10Even for us,
54:12to be with him?
54:14We can benefit from that.
54:16What a teacher does,
54:18even if we are not with them,
54:20it has an effect on us.
54:22They teach
54:24to the future president of the Philippines.
54:26Okay. Thank you very much.
54:28So, your biggest time is going to work.
54:30To work for my future.
54:32Okay.
54:34Joyce,
54:36who will you give the green flag to?
54:38To Kaisler.
54:40Kaiser!
54:42Two green flags for Kaiser.
54:44Congratulations!
54:46Kaiser, congratulations!
54:48Here are the searches
54:50that you didn't choose. Searching number 1.
54:52Number 2, introduce yourself.
54:54Searching number 1, number 2.
54:56Introduce yourself.
54:58Searching number 1, number 2.
55:00Hi, Joyce.
55:02How are you?
55:04Enjoy
55:06what you chose.
55:08That's okay.
55:10Kaiser, take care of him.
55:12He left me because of you.
55:14Yay!
55:16Yay!
55:18Take care of him.
55:20He left me
55:22because of you.
55:24Yay!
55:26Did you get hurt?
55:28Yes.
55:30Are you sad because of the slide?
55:32Yes.
55:34Do you really want to choose?
55:36I'm getting hungry.
55:40I love Wil.
55:42So cute, Wil.
55:44I thought he's your older brother.
55:46But he's your nephew.
55:50He should go back
55:52because he has something to say.
55:54Yes.
55:56Okay.
55:58Here's another search
56:00that you didn't choose.
56:02Joyce, introduce yourself.
56:08Hi, Joyce.
56:10Thank you for today.
56:12Enjoy the ride
56:14with Kaiser.
56:16I hope you find what you're looking for in life.
56:18Thank you.
56:20Thank you, Bricks.
56:22Joyce,
56:24your ex-sister
56:26is in love
56:28with you.
56:34Hi, Teh.
56:36Or Teh.
56:38I think
56:40you'll get along well with No. 1.
56:42You have a lot of work
56:44and a pet shop.
56:46Right?
56:48That's all.
56:50Wil, I feel like I'm looking at Joey.
56:52Joey!
56:54Joey has a partner.
56:56I'm getting hungry.
56:58Joyce, you have something to say
57:00to Joey.
57:02Joey, thank you
57:04so much.
57:06Even though...
57:08I'm crying.
57:10Even though we don't have
57:12your brother anymore,
57:14you're still there for me.
57:23Jervie,
57:25do you want to talk to Kaiser?
57:27He's running away.
57:31Hi, Kaiser.
57:33Take care of Ate.
57:35We love her so much.
57:37She's such a nice person.
57:39I hope you two get along well.
57:41That's all.
57:43Thank you, Ate.
57:45Kaiser,
57:47you can sit next to Joyce.
57:52I love you.
57:54I love you too.