• 4 months ago
Arnold Clavio
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00:00In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
00:30I said, I don't want to do this anymore.
00:32He insisted.
00:33I said, okay, I'll go alone, but only to the door.
00:38I thought, Jamie will come back.
00:40I need to get away from here.
00:41I need to get inside the door.
00:47Don't you love your wife anymore?
00:49Yes, I love her.
00:50How can you say you love her?
00:53Whether you like her or not, just know that she's only 17 years old.
00:57Of course, we have to take care of her.
01:00Take care of her.
01:13A video spread on the networking sites showing the pain of a man to his beloved woman,
01:20after he refused to return to her.
01:23How can this be called a sweet look?
01:37We met James through Facebook in September last year.
01:42Typical of men, he's sweet, kind.
01:46Actually, the first time we met, he even brought flowers.
01:54We've been together for less than a month.
01:56There's a quality that makes you fall for him.
01:59It's impossible that you don't like him.
02:05The first part was okay.
02:07But the latter part, our first month, he showed his aggressiveness.
02:11He pulled me.
02:13He pulled me.
02:14He rubbed me on my arms.
02:16As time went by, he started hitting me.
02:20He slapped me.
02:21He hit me with my own phone.
02:23He threw it at me.
02:28I took a break because what James was doing was too much.
02:31That same day, James suddenly showed up.
02:35He came back.
02:37I said, I don't want to anymore.
02:38He insisted.
02:40I said, okay, I'll show up, but in the dorm.
02:43I went out.
02:45We talked.
02:46Yes, he's kind.
02:48He admitted it to me.
02:49He admitted to what he did.
02:51I said, no more.
02:52I already told my parents.
02:53I mean, to my brother.
02:55Then, I said, James, I have a class at 7.
02:59I'll be late.
03:00I need to sleep.
03:01I haven't slept yet.
03:02He said, how can I contact you?
03:04I said, it's here.
03:06He said, open it and show up.
03:08I said, yes, I'll open it later.
03:10I don't want to show up.
03:11Because James, he always does this to me.
03:14I'll show up with my phone.
03:16He'll steal it.
03:17He'll use it on me so that I won't be able to leave.
03:20He did it.
03:21The first attempt.
03:22When I went out, he took it right away.
03:24That's when I really did it.
03:26What?
03:27I did that.
03:28Other people heard what happened.
03:29Then, the second time, he stood up again.
03:31He said, he wants to see me open it.
03:34That's when he really forced it.
03:36He held my hand.
03:37I said, what?
03:39I don't want to come back to you.
03:41I think, from what you did, I'll come back.
03:43Especially not anymore.
03:44That's when he snapped.
03:48That's when he started me.
03:49I saw that there was metal.
03:51That's why I backed off.
03:52I backed off.
03:53That was the first hit.
03:54I fell.
03:58Wow.
03:59I was shaking.
04:00I was shaking.
04:01I just tried to stand up.
04:02Because I was thinking, James will come back to me.
04:04So, I had to stand up.
04:05So, I could enter the door right away.
04:07That's why I was looking.
04:09Because anytime, he could come back.
04:13What I know, I saw and heard
04:15when our landlady's son was crying.
04:17What my landlady did was,
04:19they playback their CCTV.
04:21Which, at that time,
04:22I really didn't know that there was a CCTV.
04:24They watched it.
04:25That's when they found out that I was drowning.
04:27My aunt got sick.
04:28That's when I showed them that I was drowning.
04:32Because, my plan was not to damage my landlady.
04:36Of course, my mom,
04:37I don't know, I think they made her drink water.
04:40Because she panicked.
04:41Especially when the brass knuckles were mentioned.
04:44She didn't know what kind of brass knuckles happened to me.
04:48But, that's when they saw the CCTV.
04:51That's when my mom really cried.
04:54She couldn't accept it.
04:55She said, why didn't you tell me?
04:58Of course, I was angry.
04:59How dare you do that to my sister?
05:02Because, you're still new here.
05:05Here in our community,
05:06our family is well-respected.
05:10And, you're a different person.
05:11You're a different person.
05:12I thought you were my boyfriend.
05:14I thought you were my sister.
05:17That night,
05:18I went for a medical check-up.
05:19I went for a bladder check-up.
05:21My injuries,
05:22I had four cuts.
05:25Here.
05:26Here, I know there were two.
05:28Then, here.
05:29And here, near my ear.
05:31The bone here.
05:33I don't know if it popped.
05:34Because, there was blood.
05:35There were two here.
05:37Then, I had this.
05:39If you can see, it's still black.
05:41It became like a mushroom when I got hit.
05:44Then, because I was in the back,
05:46I just placed it here,
05:47on the bridge of my nose.
05:48Then, my upper lip popped.
05:51I lost my self-respect.
05:53People kept looking at me.
05:54This woman is so weak.
05:56I didn't want to be like that before.
05:57I'm a very strong woman.
06:00But, because of her,
06:01she removed that from me.
06:05The first reason
06:06why I joined the Relationship is because,
06:08she was looking for
06:09something.
06:10She was looking for something in her life
06:12that she could see in that person.
06:14Maybe, they complement each other.
06:16That person will make you feel good, right?
06:18Maybe, you love someone
06:20because you're insecure.
06:22You're looking for someone
06:23who will fill your insecurity.
06:25That's why, we need to be careful.
06:27Because, there are a lot of people
06:28who have low self-esteem.
06:30They're looking for someone
06:31who will love them
06:33to fill their lack of self-esteem.
06:36There will be crimes of passion
06:37if the premise is wrong.
06:38The premise is that
06:39the relationship is just a wrong start.
06:41That means,
06:42two people who are not yet mature,
06:43they have a need.
06:44They're looking for
06:45to immerse themselves in the relationship
06:48instead of immersing themselves
06:50in their own issues.
06:51It's up to you.
06:52Don't get involved with others.
06:54Because, what you need to see here is,
06:57my happiness is not dependent on other people.
07:00My fulfillment and success in life
07:03is not dependent on the relationship.
07:06If those two things are true,
07:08my success in life is dependent on others.
07:11Then, there are crimes of passion.
07:12You're thinking,
07:13if he's gone,
07:14I'll be gone too.
07:16When I saw what he did to me,
07:18I heard it.
07:19I'm not crying because
07:21I pity myself.
07:23No, I'm scared.
07:24You know,
07:25the fear that he did to me is different.
07:27I can't stand it.
07:28I don't want to see him.
07:29I don't want to work in Manila.
07:31I realized that
07:32I need to meet a guy.
07:35I need to introduce him to my brother.
07:39At first, I wasn't comfortable with that.
07:42But I realized that
07:43it's right.
07:44It's right because I need to introduce him to them.
07:46I can't be the only one to accept him.
07:49It's okay for us to be together.
07:51But how can you make it big?
07:54I hope he'll come out.
07:56When he says that he loves me
07:58and he's regretting it,
08:00I hope he'll come out.
08:01Because I can't stand it.
08:03I don't know what to do.
08:23Don't you love your wife?
08:25Why?
08:26Don't you love her?
08:30Don't you love your family?
08:32I don't know.
08:33I don't know.
08:34You're just eating.
08:35Get out!
08:36Are you a boxer?
08:38You're not?
08:39What will you do?
08:40It's okay.
08:41We'll live.
08:42Maybe we'll get married.
08:51In the past,
08:52the rescue team has witnessed incidents
08:54of people falling in love and being taken to the police station.
08:57Just like the case we documented
09:00last September,
09:02where a couple lost
09:04and ended up in the hands of Mr. and Mrs.
09:16I don't know what happened to his son.
09:18I don't know what happened to his son.
09:20I don't know what happened to his son.
09:25I also have a son.
09:26I'm from Masbate.
09:28But he's not with me.
09:29He's in Vienna.
09:32I was just telling his son
09:35that he was wrong.
09:38Then he suddenly punched me.
09:41Let's go to the police station.
09:43What did I do to you?
09:45What did I do?
09:46What did you do to him?
09:47What did I do to him?
09:48What did I do?
09:49What did I do?
09:50What did I do?
09:52What did you do?
09:54No, no.
09:55Go to the doctor.
09:56Go to the doctor.
09:57Go to the doctor.
09:59That's why we were forced to send him to the Women's Dex.
10:03There, they will investigate
10:05how serious his marriage to his wife is.
10:08POSSIBLE CAUSES OF DEATH
10:24When he entered,
10:25he saw a huge bump on his right eye,
10:30including his 11-month-old son,
10:35that there was a slight bruise on the right side of her face.
10:42I filed a case against my husband for physical injuries in relation to 9262
10:48because they are husband and wife.
10:50I filed a case against him for physical injuries
10:53in relation to his wife and their children.
10:57I was really wrong.
10:59I will accept it.
11:02It's really painful.
11:04It's really painful.
11:06My son fought for it.
11:08He didn't give up.
11:16Mom, I'm sorry.
11:18I did that to you.
11:20But you know that I love you.
11:31I'm sorry.
11:43I forgave him because we have children.
11:46I don't know where I can get food for them.
11:51I still believe that he has changed.
11:53He has changed in his behavior, in his work.
11:55He continues to be like that.
11:57At that time, I told myself that I won't do it again.
12:03I love my wife and my family.
12:06I really regretted it.
12:08I won't do it again.
12:10We had a fight.
12:12I was the only one who avoided it.
12:14I went out.
12:16Because if I let it go, it will be difficult if I can't stop myself.
12:22So now, I went out.
12:24I told him that if we have a fight, he will forgive me.
12:29And you too.
12:31For example, if you make a mistake, don't force yourself.
12:36I made a mistake.
12:37Now, we are okay.
12:38We understand each other.
12:40My advice is to have good harmonious relationships.
12:43Number one, you need to humble yourself.
12:46Be humble.
12:47You always have an involvement in the fight.
12:50Even if you say that there is one person who is at fault, you also did something.
12:53Number two, always be understanding.
12:56Look at where that person comes from, given their background.
13:00Because what you did was different from what he did.
13:05Once a week, go on a date where you don't talk about children, money, work, or the problems of the world.
13:12Bonding with each other is very important.
13:14Enjoy each other's company so that your patience for each other will be longer.
13:20I am thankful that he has changed.
13:23He doesn't drink often anymore.
13:25Ma, thank you for changing.
13:28I hope this will continue.
13:30Ma, again, I hope you understand.
13:35I know you understand that I love you very much.
13:39I hope you love me too.
13:50It doesn't matter if he wins or not, as long as you know that he is only 17 years old.
13:54Do you have any plans to have a baby?
13:57I want to have a baby.
14:02I really can't do it anymore.
14:04At first, I was afraid of him because he is my brother.
14:08As time goes by, I can't do it anymore.
14:10Because no matter what I do to him, he always runs away.
14:13I am so scared of him.
14:16February 2011, the rescue was documented.
14:20The rescue of the Paraguayan officials in Luce, Quezon City,
14:25in a minority group of people,
14:27the father of the child was no longer able to move.
14:30How did he get through the maze of the road?
14:39His brother approached us.
14:43He told us what he knew about his brother.
14:47As a member of the Paraguayan Authority,
14:50as soon as we gave our action,
14:55he was the one who came to his senses.
15:04Where are you, sister?
15:05Here?
15:06No.
15:07Where is your sister?
15:10Where is your sister?
15:11Where is your sister?
15:13We are your friends.
15:16Good afternoon.
15:19Good afternoon.
15:20Are you his brother?
15:23We are here.
15:25We are here to help the child.
15:28As soon as he saw us, he went inside their house.
15:34I went inside and told them I would pacify the child.
15:40Let's go home first.
15:43Come, let's talk.
15:45Let's talk.
15:47You can talk to your sister.
15:50Come, let's talk.
15:51Why did your sister bring you here?
15:55Why did your sister bring you here when your grandmother died?
15:57My grandmother passed away.
16:01So you were brought here.
16:06Now, when he came here, he made friends.
16:09They go out, he knows how to drink,
16:12they have fun,
16:14and he hangs out with other men.
16:17Do you hang out with other men?
16:21What do you mean?
16:22I have a boyfriend.
16:23Oh, you have a boyfriend.
16:24Who is your boyfriend?
16:25I don't know.
16:27He met this man in a place
16:32where he was hanging out with other women.
16:37I think that's when their intimate relationship started.
16:44Why? Did something happen?
16:46Huh? Did something happen?
16:49Did your husband do that to you?
16:52Huh? Did he do that to you?
16:54He did that to me.
16:59Oh, you were pregnant.
17:01Yes.
17:02Then he married another woman.
17:05You haven't had a child yet.
17:06He has a responsibility to you.
17:08So I think we have to look for the guy.
17:10And then she mentioned that she is pregnant,
17:12but we don't know yet.
17:13Because that's how she feels, right?
17:15So until she gets medical, we cannot say that.
17:24We saw the man at his mother's house.
17:38We don't have any rights.
17:42We just want to know
17:44if the story of the child coincides.
17:47He allowed me to ask.
17:50You know, he is 17 years old.
17:52So you know that you used him when he was young, right?
17:56That's it.
17:58Whether he allowed you or not,
18:00you just know that he is only 17 years old.
18:03He didn't want to move.
18:06Move?
18:07He didn't want to move.
18:10He didn't want to move.
18:12Then he told me,
18:14even if you just kiss me on the back,
18:16you can't.
18:17In the test done, she is two months pregnant.
18:20In her check-up,
18:22they saw that the child already had a laceration.
18:25The additional thing is to have another check-up
18:28for the baby or other diseases
18:31that she might get from the guy.
18:35But when we asked her
18:37if she's willing to file a case against the suspect,
18:40she wasn't willing to file a case.
18:43But in behalf of her,
18:47her family can still file a complaint
18:50in her behalf because she's of minor age.
18:53For now, she can go under seduction
18:57in relation to R.A. 76N because she's a minor.
19:00She can't be raped because
19:03there's no intimidation,
19:05no force,
19:06which are elements of rape.
19:09The seduction age bracket is above 12,
19:14below 18,
19:16with deceit.
19:18That's why we said with deceit
19:20because the guy is of legal age.
19:23Their age gap is big.
19:25He shouldn't...
19:28He shouldn't push the child
19:30even if he says he likes the child.
19:33I just want him to answer
19:36what he did to me.
19:38I won't be sad if he's gone.
19:41I won't be sad if he's gone.
19:43Why was R.A. 76N sentenced to life in prison?
19:45The family in question wants to know.
19:54After that incident,
19:56I was taken to a shelter.
19:59I studied the housework there.
20:08About God.
20:10The materials that I used to make.
20:17My children were brought to the hospital.
20:21I was sad because they were so small.
20:25The child was big.
20:27Then, I went out of the hospital.
20:34In 2011, I went home.
20:37I brought my baby.
20:39I saw my siblings.
20:41They were happy.
20:43Then, I took the baby.
20:45I didn't leave the baby.
20:47I missed the baby.
20:49I wasn't sad anymore.
20:51I was with all my family.
20:54Since I entered the house,
20:57I haven't seen my husband, father, and children.
21:03I thought that it's okay for me to lose my husband.
21:09I can replace him with a better son.
21:12It's okay that I have a son.
21:15I left my husband first.
21:17But, it's okay.
21:19At least, I have a good memory.
21:24It can help me.
21:28I regret it.
21:30Why did I do that?
21:32Why did I leave my husband early?
21:35I learned not to go out with strangers.
21:40I learned to choose a good man.
21:43It's not like when I first met my husband.
21:47It's hard for some people.
21:49They only know each other for a few months.
21:51They want to live together.
21:53We don't advise that.
21:55There's a big percentage of people who want to separate.
21:57What we're saying is to enjoy your youth.
22:01When you're in love with someone,
22:03and you feel that,
22:05just prolong the relationship.
22:08Just enjoy it.
22:12My son gives me strength.
22:14Even though he's still young,
22:17I can feel what he's saying.
22:20He says,
22:21Mom, you can do it.
22:22Even though we're poor.
22:25I love my son so much.
22:28I regret it.
22:30I shouldn't have gone out with strangers.
22:33I should have gone out with my whole family.
22:40Thank you so much for watching our program.
22:45As a part of our real service,
22:48we will give you a rescue next Thursday
22:51for the program, Candidato.
22:53I'm still with you.
22:55This is for you to encourage each other.
22:57Let's get to know each other.
23:00So that you can vote wisely.
23:03Good evening, I'm Glavio.
23:05Here at Rescue,
23:07we believe that anyone can help.
23:11When he came back,
23:13I told him I didn't want him to be angry.
23:16I told him,
23:17I'll show him,
23:18but he didn't listen.
23:21I told him,
23:22I'll be back soon.
23:23If I need to go far away,
23:24I'll go there.
23:29Don't you love your wife?
23:30I love her.
23:31Yes.
23:32Why are you angry?
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