Aired (July 19, 2024): Tinuldukan na ng batikang artista na si Nadia Montenegro ang mga at isyung kinakaharap niya, at isa ring rebelasyon ang kanyang ibabahagi sa isang eksklusibong interview kasama si Tito Boy. Panoorin ‘yan sa video.
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00:12Magandang hapon, Pilipinas at buong mundo.
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00:19Ako po si Boy, and welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
00:22Yes!
00:23Sa mga kasama po natin sa Facebook at YouTube,
00:26and sa mga nakikinig po sa DZEW, welcome to the program.
00:33Naitay kapuso, please welcome,
00:35ang ating kaibigan, Nadia Montenegro.
00:40Tito Boy!
00:42Welcome, welcome, welcome.
00:44Thank you.
00:45Thank you for being here.
00:46Thank you, Tito Boy.
00:47Child of the 80s.
00:49Yes, 80s forever.
00:50Anong naalala mo sa 80s?
00:52Siyempre lahat ng mga sayaw, di ba?
00:54Anong sa'yo?
00:55Iba, oh.
00:56Siyempre, di ba?
00:58Sa'yo mga pag-ayaw.
01:01Sa 80s, iba talaga.
01:03Exactly, specifically, aside from the jazz,
01:08ano yung naaalala mo talaga, please?
01:12Fun.
01:13Fun.
01:14That comes to mind.
01:15Innocence.
01:18Pure happiness.
01:19Growing up talaga, in a different world at 11,
01:26parang I was fit, fit for that life, Tito Boy.
01:29But prior to 11, kumusta yung buhay mo?
01:32What do you remember?
01:35Oh.
01:37Saan ka naglalaro?
01:38Sino mga kalaro mo?
01:41Where were you?
01:43We were a very tight-knit family.
01:46I had cousins.
01:47I grew up with cousins, with my aunts.
01:49What kind of a child were you?
01:51I went to San Agustin, a regular student.
01:55My mom would take me to school.
01:57My dad was a minor.
01:59He would go out sa mga bundok, minero.
02:03Talagang minerong, Espanyol.
02:05Sometimes, Tanya and I would just be sleeping in the trunk of our car.
02:09Then, sasama kami kay daddy sa mga adventures niya.
02:15Life was good?
02:16Yeah.
02:17You were well-provided?
02:18Very well-provided.
02:20But until my dad had to leave, yan.
02:24That's where everything talagang went down.
02:26Do you remember how he left?
02:28Yeah.
02:29He left because he and my mom decided to separate.
02:33It was very, very tragic for my mom
02:39because my mom was stabbed by my dad.
02:43My mom was stabbed by my father.
02:46She survived it.
02:49It happened in Hong Kong.
02:51We were all too young.
02:52But when they told us,
02:54they said na nakawan sila sa market ng robber
02:59para hindi namin maisip na daddy namin.
03:01So when they got back to the Philippines,
03:03naghiwalay na sila.
03:04That's where my dad, we just saw him leave.
03:07How did you know?
03:09I found out I was already in showbiz.
03:11I was around 11 years old.
03:13I was in the house of my aunt,
03:15swimming with my cousins.
03:17I went to the kitchen.
03:18I overheard my mom talking to my aunt.
03:20My mom was in the ICU for 10 days.
03:22My dad was in jail for 10 days.
03:24Ano to away mag-asawa?
03:26Parang ang daddy ko,
03:27parang inbes na maghiwalay tayo,
03:29mawala ka sa akin, wala na lang.
03:31Paano naka-apekto yan sa batang Nadja Montenegro?
03:35Oh, the violence, yeah.
03:38But my dad came back when I was 22, tito boy.
03:41He came back.
03:42And your mom was okay?
03:43They were all okay that time.
03:45And I couldn't wait to see him.
03:47Forgotten? Forgiven?
03:48Yes, yes.
03:51Yeah, when he walked in the door,
03:53I just cried on his lap for four hours.
03:55But prior to that, before he...
03:57I've always forgiven him.
03:58You've always forgiven him?
03:59Hindi ka nagalit?
04:00My mom never said any bad things about my father.
04:04It was me who discovered it
04:06and I kept it, I knew.
04:08So I knew it was dad.
04:09You kept it because?
04:13You kept it while you were able to forgive him?
04:16Yeah, yeah.
04:18I was young.
04:20Parang, oh, that happened pala.
04:21Okay, move on.
04:22So, ganun lang yan.
04:24Is that the attitude you have in life?
04:25Yes.
04:26I mean, it happens, move on.
04:27Yes, yes.
04:28Good or bad?
04:29Yes.
04:30Hindi ka nagwawalo?
04:31No.
04:32You don't stay?
04:33No.
04:34Okay.
04:35I cry about it na.
04:36Hindi ko napatatagalin para tapos na.
04:39Okay.
04:40Yeah.
04:41So that was a childhood?
04:42Yes.
04:43Parate ko ito'y tinatanong,
04:44hindi mo ba narandaman na
04:46ninakaw ang iyong pagkabata,
04:48iyong pagtatrabaho ng iyong pagkaartista?
04:51Nakaw ayun is a strong word.
04:52Yeah.
04:53But you know what I mean?
04:54Dito boy, maraming ninakaw ang demonyo sa atin lahat.
04:56Yeah.
04:57Sa buhay natin lahat.
04:59I just want to believe that it's fate
05:02kung saan ako nanggaling,
05:05saan ako nang nakarating,
05:07at kung nasan ako ngayon.
05:08I did have to go through all that.
05:10No regrets.
05:11I mean, at 11, I knew I had a job.
05:16I knew I was earning money.
05:18I was so focused on giving my family everything.
05:21You were present there.
05:22Yeah.
05:23I was enjoying also everything I was doing.
05:25I was about to ask you that.
05:26Ano ang mga regrets,
05:27ano ang mga blessings
05:29ng buhay showbiz ni Nadia Montenegro?
05:32Maybe I would have gotten married.
05:36Maybe I would have...
05:38I really wouldn't know.
05:40Kasi iniisip ko dito boy,
05:41baka kung sumama ko sa kaedad ko,
05:43baka wala na kami after one year.
05:45Hindi ko talaga masasabi.
05:47Marami naman din kasabay si boy
05:48noong naligaw sa akin noon.
05:50May choices naman ako,
05:51pero hindi talaga.
05:54Talagang sa kanya ako napunta.
05:56So that's fate.
05:57That's fate.
05:58Ano yung pinakamalaking blessings
06:00ng pagiging artista?
06:02Meeting him and having all my children now.
06:05Yeah.
06:06Yeah, I guess.
06:07How old were you then?
06:0917, 16?
06:1017, yes.
06:1117.
06:12Yeah.
06:13Kasi dito boy,
06:14ang dami kong mga naging interviews in the past.
06:15So syempre,
06:16you know,
06:17when it comes to editing,
06:18nagkakaiba-iba.
06:19So talaga,
06:20I met him.
06:21I mean,
06:22naging kami ng 17 ako.
06:23Okay.
06:24Yun ang story.
06:25I met him before that pa
06:26because of all the events in Caloocan.
06:28He was the mayor.
06:29Artistas were always invited.
06:31Alam mo yung ganoon.
06:32What was your reaction
06:33the first time
06:34you realized
06:35na may gusto sa'yo
06:36si Mayor Boy Asistio?
06:38That time, tito boy,
06:40honestly,
06:41hindi po ako sa nagyayabang.
06:43But at that time,
06:45madami naman po talagang
06:47naniligaw noon time na yon.
06:48I really didn't know
06:49who he really was.
06:51But I knew he was Mayor Asistio.
06:53But, you know,
06:54I was young.
06:55I wasn't focused on,
06:56you know,
06:57I was focused on Richard Gomez.
06:59I was focused on,
07:00you know,
07:01my barkadas,
07:02my age.
07:03Pero,
07:04I never was,
07:05you know,
07:06intentionally na
07:07sino nga ba tong mayor na to.
07:08Muna,
07:09wala ako ganoon.
07:10Tito boy,
07:11kasi noon time na yon
07:12naman talaga
07:13bigla na lang
07:14may mga dumarating na
07:15regalo sa bahay.
07:16May mga nanliligaw,
07:17flowers.
07:18You meet them na lang.
07:19Okay.
07:20Pangatlong beses mo
07:21nang sinasabi
07:22yung mga nanliligaw.
07:23Ang dami nila,
07:25Oo.
07:26Oo.
07:27No,
07:28only if you want.
07:29I mean,
07:30only if you can.
07:31Ayaw natin makasira
07:32ng mga relasyon lang.
07:33Oo na,
07:34oo na po.
07:35Pero mga,
07:36syempre,
07:37may politicians,
07:38may actors,
07:39may regular na
07:40businessmen.
07:41At uuwi ka sa bahay,
07:42meron ng mga regalo.
07:43Yes.
07:44Ganoon.
07:45Pero,
07:46kay boy ako na
07:47na hulog.
07:48How did it happen?
07:49Persistence.
07:50He was persistent.
07:52Very.
07:54How persistent was?
07:55She will read.
07:56She will read.
07:57Charming,
07:58alam mo na.
07:59And at that time,
08:00Tito Boy,
08:01honestly,
08:02alam ko,
08:03isa lang yung kasama niya.
08:04At wala na sila noon.
08:07Again, again,
08:08say that.
08:09At that time,
08:10nung nanliligaw siya sayo,
08:11ang alam mo,
08:12wala na sila noon
08:13kasama niya.
08:14So,
08:15wala na siyang kasama.
08:16Okay.
08:17Not knowing after.
08:18Meron pa pala.
08:19Oo.
08:20Yeah.
08:21So,
08:22at noon,
08:23nalaman mo,
08:24na meron pa pala.
08:25Pinanindigan ko na,
08:26Tito Boy.
08:27Pinanindigan mo.
08:28Walang pagkakataon na,
08:29I'm walking,
08:30I'm walking out.
08:31I'm walking out.
08:32Well,
08:33there are some,
08:34you know,
08:35pagginom sa mauhuli mo,
08:36ayako na.
08:37Pero,
08:38I never gave up on him.
08:39Did you have a conversation
08:40with him?
08:41Yes,
08:42Tito Boy.
08:43How was that?
08:44I had a conversation
08:45with boy two weeks
08:46before he passed,
08:47not knowing he was
08:48gonna pass.
08:49And,
08:50every January,
08:51I do a prayer fast
08:52wherein I stay
08:53in my room
08:54for a few days.
08:55And,
08:56I apologize
08:57to everyone
08:58I've wronged
08:59for that year,
09:00or, you know,
09:01to start the new year right.
09:02You know,
09:03I do that.
09:04And,
09:05when I did that to him,
09:06I texted him.
09:07I said,
09:08I'm sorry
09:09for all the mistakes
09:10I've done to you.
09:11Ganyan, ganyan.
09:12Sabi niya,
09:13ako nga itong maraming
09:14kasalanan sayo.
09:15Alika baba ka dito
09:16sa kwarto.
09:17Because that time,
09:18he was sick already.
09:19So,
09:20we had a two-and-a-half
09:21hour talk
09:22that we never had
09:23for 29 years.
09:24And,
09:25it was one of the most
09:26amazing moments
09:27that I will thank God for
09:28because of the closure,
09:29the forgiveness,
09:30the laughter
09:31of all the things
09:32we did to each other.
09:33Nung times na hinuhuli ko siya
09:34dati,
09:35hindi siya umamin,
09:36umamin na rin.
09:37Alam mo yung gano'n.
09:38Not knowing he was
09:39gonna pass.
09:40And,
09:41I thank God
09:42for that day.
09:43Ano yung mga bagay
09:44na naalala mo?
09:45Lahat ito, boy.
09:46I thank God
09:47for everything.
09:48I thank God
09:49na naalala mo?
09:50Lahat ito, boy.
09:51Lahat?
09:52Lahat.
09:53Ilang sa mga lahat?
09:54The kids.
09:55Unang-una yung kids.
09:56Okay.
09:57What did you talk
09:58about the kids?
09:59Wag ko silang papabayaan.
10:00Not only my kids,
10:01his kids.
10:02Lahat sila.
10:03We're a family,
10:04tito boy.
10:05We may be an odd family,
10:06but we are a family.
10:07The kids of boy,
10:08all 21 of them
10:09are intact
10:10until this day.
10:1121 outside
10:12of your eight kids?
10:13No,
10:14with my eight kids,
10:15yes.
10:16And,
10:17um,
10:18yun.
10:19Anong sinabi niya
10:20tungkol sa mga anak?
10:21Wag ko silang
10:22papabayaan
10:23kahit sa anong
10:24dumaan sa buhay namin,
10:25lumabang kami man
10:26ng magkakasama.
10:27And I'm very happy
10:28because the kids
10:29until this day,
10:30regardless,
10:31sino-sino,
10:32kung ilan silang
10:33magkakasama,
10:34magkakapatid,
10:35iba-iba kami
10:36mga nanay,
10:37they still,
10:38they still live
10:39with the word
10:40of their father.
10:41Nads,
10:42humingi siya
10:43ng tawad.
10:44Yes, tito boy.
10:45Paano niya
10:46sila?
10:47Um,
10:48kasi ako
10:49unang humingi
10:50ng tawad.
10:51Dahil?
10:52Because it was my,
10:53my,
10:54that's what I really
10:55do every,
10:56you know,
10:57January.
10:58And it just
10:59came naturally
11:00na biglang.
11:01Because of the prayer fast?
11:02Yes.
11:03Pero ano ang
11:04hinihingi mo
11:05ng tawad
11:06during that time?
11:07Lahat,
11:08lahat ng mali.
11:09Alam naman niya.
11:10Walang,
11:11walang hindi alam
11:12si boy,
11:13tito boy.
11:14Okay.
11:15Kaya kami
11:16may ugaling
11:17na ayon natin
11:18na iisahan tayo.
11:19Etong story
11:20ng buhay ko,
11:21tito boy,
11:22feeling ko na isahan,
11:23feeling siguro ng Pilipino
11:24na isahan ko sila
11:25by not telling my story.
11:26Tito boy,
11:27it was stolen from me.
11:28My story,
11:29you know,
11:30I realized this,
11:31I saw this clip
11:32from Selma Hayak
11:33where she said that,
11:34I,
11:35I own my mistakes.
11:36I own my own mistakes,
11:37tito boy.
11:38I've always
11:39owned my mistakes.
11:40But it is my story
11:41to tell.
11:42Nobody has
11:43the right
11:44to tell
11:45Nobody has the right
11:46to tell my story.
11:49I caught that.
11:50I caught that line.
11:51Yes.
11:52You were there,
11:53tito boy.
11:54You were there
11:55when it all happened.
11:56And
11:57anyone who says
11:58that this person
11:59is vindicated
12:00for doing
12:01what she did to me
12:0217 years ago,
12:03tito boy,
12:04is sick.
12:05Is sick.
12:06No one can ever
12:07be vindicated
12:08for ruining
12:09somebody's life
12:10just for a news.
12:11Tito boy,
12:12I had
12:13seven children
12:14at that time.
12:15And I had
12:16a husband
12:17who was sick.
12:18Did anyone
12:19even consider that?
12:20What I went through?
12:21To put my family
12:22where I am right now,
12:23where we are right now,
12:24we are whole.
12:26And I'm living
12:27with my head up high
12:29with dignity
12:30because,
12:31tito boy,
12:32as soon as I started
12:33pleasing God
12:34and not man,
12:35I found
12:36the right road.
12:37I took that road.
12:39We'll go there later.
12:41What made you
12:42fall for him?
12:43His heart,
12:44tito boy.
12:45They can say
12:46that he became a woman
12:48or call him
12:49all these nasty names
12:51because
12:52he had an affair
12:53with a child
12:54or what,
12:55or, you know.
12:56This is what's painful
12:57with this world.
12:58They didn't know
12:59that person.
13:01And until this day,
13:02tito boy,
13:03for seven years
13:04that he's been dead,
13:05every day I wake up,
13:07I still think,
13:08what will
13:09boy say to me?
13:10In situations like this,
13:12because he would
13:13always be fair.
13:14He would always
13:15do everything
13:16without hurting anyone
13:18or taking advantage of anyone.
13:20And today,
13:21when you woke up,
13:22you were about
13:23to do this interview,
13:24so what do you think
13:25boy would say?
13:26I'm so proud of you, Tart.
13:28He was always proud of you?
13:31Yeah,
13:32he was always proud of me.
13:34And,
13:35um,
13:36uh,
13:39I don't think
13:40there's ever going to be
13:41another man like him.
13:43Was there an instance
13:44na nagalit siya,
13:45may mga hindi siya
13:46nagustuhan?
13:47Tito boy, yun nga eh,
13:4829 years,
13:49never nagalit yun.
13:50Never ako,
13:51never ako pinagalitan.
13:53Never ako minura.
13:55Never,
13:56never kami,
13:57baka siya pa,
13:58siya pa nasaktan ko.
13:59Pero,
14:00siya never,
14:01tito boy,
14:02he never cursed me.
14:03He never called me names.
14:06How was he as a father?
14:08Oh, he's the greatest.
14:09I always said,
14:10in my interviews,
14:11kung siguro nagiwalay kami
14:12ni boy naman,
14:13walang sasama sakit
14:14sa mga anak ko.
14:15Kasi lahat daddy's girl
14:16at daddy's boy.
14:17Okay,
14:18how was that?
14:19He was always present?
14:20He was.
14:21He was very,
14:22sabi mo nga,
14:23verbal with his kids?
14:24Yeah,
14:25if he could be there
14:26in all the graduations,
14:27on all the,
14:28he would,
14:29he would.
14:30Was he strict?
14:31Was he a disciplinarian?
14:32No,
14:33no.
14:34What about the boys?
14:35Halimbawa,
14:36na nagpaparamdam sa mga girls?
14:37Yeah,
14:38strict.
14:40There was one instance,
14:41my daughter had a boyfriend,
14:42siguro three years
14:43bago niya tinigdan sa mata.
14:46Sino ito?
14:47I mean,
14:48one of the daughters?
14:49Yeah.
14:50Okay,
14:51nagagalit siya?
14:52Yeah,
14:53syempre,
14:54tatay pa rin.
14:55Tatay pa rin.
14:56There was no tension
14:57between the kids and boy?
14:58Never.
14:59Never.
15:00They were always eager
15:01to come home,
15:02to run to his bed,
15:03in his arms.
15:04They were always,
15:05you know,
15:06they were always eager
15:07for out of town trips
15:08or just even
15:09a simple trip
15:10to drive through.
15:11There was no sense
15:12na hindi ka namin
15:13buo na amin?
15:14No.
15:15They never took it
15:16against their father
15:17na may ibang family.
15:19Kasi,
15:20siguro if there's one thing
15:21na sinubukan ko talaga
15:24from the very beginning
15:25is mabuo nga,
15:26magkakilala,
15:27kakilala.
15:28And you raised your girls well?
15:29Thank you,
15:30tito boy.
15:31I did my best.
15:32You did?
15:33I raised them.
15:34Boy is just eavesdropping
15:35on this conversation.
15:36Nakikinig lang
15:37kung may nais kang sabihin
15:38kay Mayor Boy.
15:40Anong sasabihin mo sa kanya
15:41ngayon
15:43at this point in your life?
15:46Salamat.
15:48Salamat.
15:49Kasi,
15:50I couldn't see myself,
15:51tito boy,
15:52with anyone else.
15:54And if,
15:57salamat sa pagtanggap sakin
15:59kahit may mga pagkakamali ako.
16:01Kasi,
16:04asagot naman niya sakin
16:05ilang beses mo rin
16:06ako pinatawad.
16:08So,
16:10blessed ako, tito boy,
16:11na siya naging partner ko.
16:13Sobra.
16:14Kasi,
16:15kung hindi siya mabuting tao,
16:17hindi siguro ganito
16:18mga anak ko o ako.
16:20Na,
16:22we have the heart to serve,
16:23we have the heart to love,
16:24to give, to share.
16:25It's all from boy.
16:27One of the relatives
16:28of Mayor Boy was saying,
16:31pagkatapos daw pumanaw
16:34ni Mayor Boy Asistio,
16:38you literally,
16:40doon sa'yong makakaya,
16:41took good care
16:42of everyone you could
16:43take care of.
16:45And that said a lot.
16:47We will talk about
16:48the controversy
16:49that you started to talk about.
16:50We will talk about,
16:52you know,
16:53in reference to that interview
16:54that Baron Geisler
16:55granted O.G. Diaz.
16:57And,
16:59I think doon lamang para,
17:00we would like to hear
17:01your side of the story.
17:03I know you don't owe
17:04anybody an explanation.
17:06We'll also talk about
17:08how you handled being public
17:11and at the same time
17:12kept certain things private.
17:15Ang lahat ng ito po
17:16ay pag-uusapan natin.
17:17But for now,
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17:33kaagad, ninyo kaagad
17:35sa Family Feud
17:36kung isa kayo
17:37sa mga nanalo.
17:39Fast Talk with Boy Abunda
17:41will be right back.
17:42We're back to the show.
17:44Kasama pa rin po natin
17:46Miss Nadja Montenegro.
17:47Okay.
17:49Let's talk about
17:50this controversy.
17:52Pero I'll put it
17:53straight, Nadj.
17:55Does Baron Geisler
17:57have a child with you?
17:59Tito Boy,
18:00I've already admitted that.
18:01Okay.
18:02Yes.
18:03Sofia is turning
18:0518 on August.
18:07And that's why I'm here,
18:08Tito Boy.
18:09It's not for views,
18:11not for
18:13to trend
18:14because that's one thing
18:15I hate.
18:17But to put an exclamation
18:19to everything.
18:20Okay.
18:21Tell me your side of the story,
18:22makikinig kami.
18:23Tito Boy,
18:2517 years ago,
18:27may siniwala
18:28may siniwalat
18:29ang isang tao
18:30tungkol sa buhay ko
18:32na I don't think
18:33naman anybody has the right.
18:35Kasi nung time na yun,
18:36Tito Boy,
18:38inaayos ko
18:39lahat.
18:41Hindi man lang
18:42kinonsider
18:4317 years ago
18:44kung ano ang
18:45pinagdadaanan ko
18:46ng mga anak ko
18:48kung anong pwede
18:49mawala sa akin.
18:50Anong inaayos mo?
18:51Anong pinagdadaanan mo
18:5217 years ago?
18:53Itong
18:55sinasabi ko ngayon
18:56na ako'y nagkaanak
18:59and
19:01it's happening again
19:02Tito Boy, now
19:03na parang
19:04wait.
19:06Everybody's feasting
19:07on something that I did
19:0817 years ago.
19:10That's why sabi ko,
19:11Tito Boy,
19:12this is my mistake.
19:13Kung nagtamali man ako,
19:15I don't even wanna
19:16call it a mistake,
19:17Tito Boy.
19:18Sofia is one of the
19:19most beautiful girl
19:21you can ever meet,
19:22Tito Boy.
19:23Not just sa buka niya,
19:25pati puso niya,
19:26Tito Boy.
19:27This child has been
19:28through so much
19:30that she did not deserve
19:33na
19:34pinangakuan siya
19:35na sige,
19:36magkikita tayo
19:37ng isang beses
19:38pero
19:39walang makakaalam.
19:41Tito Boy,
19:42sila magkausap,
19:43hindi ako nakialam.
19:44Sinong naguusap na ito?
19:45Si Sofia
19:46at si Baron.
19:47So,
19:48you're saying
19:49na at a certain point
19:50in acknowledge,
19:51there was an
19:52acknowledged relationship
19:53between
19:54your daughter
19:55and Baron.
19:56They were always
19:57in contact, Tito Boy.
19:58They were always
19:59in contact.
20:00From social media,
20:01but never
20:02like, you know,
20:03na
20:04na personal.
20:05Hide.
20:06Walang ganon.
20:07It was just,
20:08I'm okay.
20:09Wala.
20:10Walang ganon.
20:11But Sofia knew
20:12Yes.
20:13that her father
20:14is Baron.
20:15Yes.
20:16Okay.
20:17So, may pag-uusap,
20:18balikan natin,
20:19that they were
20:20supposed to see each other.
20:21Pero, Tito Boy,
20:22huwag natin kalimutan, ha?
20:23Bakit ba tumagal
20:24ng ganito?
20:25I take
20:26unlimited chances
20:27for someone to change.
20:28Give me a reason
20:30na ipaharap kita sa kanya
20:33nang sober ka.
20:39That didn't happen?
20:41No.
20:42The drunk messages,
20:44the drunk text
20:47to my daughter,
20:48you think that would help her?
20:51You came out
20:52in an interview
20:53all of a sudden
20:54asking us?
20:55Even if you didn't
20:56mention my name,
20:57sa tingin mo,
20:58hindi kami nabulabog?
20:59Did you even think
21:00for a while
21:01what would happen
21:02to your daughter?
21:05Okay.
21:06So, this is an interview
21:07that he granted
21:11without naming you
21:12but you knew
21:13na kayo
21:14ang pinag-uusapan.
21:15Tito Boy,
21:16it's an open secret.
21:17Okay.
21:18Nabulabog,
21:19paano kayo nabulabog?
21:21Dahil may inamensin
21:23siya sa interview niya
21:24kay OJ Diaz
21:25and then pinik-up na naman
21:26ng ibang
21:29masasamang elemento.
21:31So, ayun.
21:33Paano naapektuhan
21:34ang bata?
21:35Paano naapektuhan kayo?
21:36School.
21:37What happened
21:38in school?
21:39Friends.
21:40She was bullied.
21:41How?
21:43Someone all of a sudden
21:44just posted
21:45on the student council page
21:46a picture of Barron in jail.
21:48Kali nung tatay to.
21:50Sa skwilahan?
21:51Kailangan ko ba
21:52Tito Boy,
21:53kailangan ko ba
21:54paikwento
21:55kung anong pinagdaanan namin
21:57just to keep our peace?
21:59This is my life.
22:01This is my children's lives.
22:04This is my story,
22:05Tito Boy.
22:06No one has the right
22:07to tell my story.
22:10My mistakes,
22:11I've always owned
22:12my mistakes,
22:13Tito Boy.
22:14But let me say
22:15kung anong pagkakamali ko,
22:16hindi ka,
22:17hindi ko kailangan
22:18na spokesperson.
22:20I've always faced
22:21my battles,
22:22Tito Boy.
22:23I've always fought them
22:24head on.
22:26Why?
22:27Because I pray.
22:29I do things
22:30not because I want
22:31to hurt people.
22:32I do things,
22:33Tito Boy,
22:34now because I want
22:35people to learn
22:36from my mistakes.
22:37Hindi ko kinakala to
22:38para mag-entertain
22:39o para pagpestahan
22:40yung buhay ko,
22:41buhay ng anak ko.
22:43I want this to end
22:44because, Tito Boy,
22:45my daughter's turning
22:4618 soon.
22:47And she does not need
22:48to come out
22:49of this world
22:50and answer questions
22:51for her mother.
22:53So, I'm putting
22:54an end to this now,
22:55Tito Boy.
22:56So, yes.
22:58I'm happy.
23:00I have a child
23:01named Sofia.
23:02And she does not need
23:03anything else
23:04in this world
23:05because she's complete.
23:07Did you and Boy
23:08assist you
23:09talk about Barron?
23:10Yes.
23:12How was that conversation?
23:14All he asked me
23:15was not to tell her
23:16until he's gone.
23:17And I kept that promise.
23:19Na hindi mo sabihin
23:20sa iyong anak?
23:22Dahil ayaw niyo magbago
23:23tingin ni Sofia sa kanya.
23:26Sofia is aware of this?
23:28Yes.
23:29He loved everyone equally.
23:31How did your daughter know?
23:34She always knew, Tito Boy.
23:36From the very start?
23:37Tito Boy,
23:39tingnan mo naman yung buka.
23:40Lagyan mo lang ng wig.
23:44And Tito Boy,
23:45all these years,
23:46I never lied.
23:49If someone approached me
23:50and asked me,
23:51I would have answered.
23:52But nobody dared.
23:54So,
23:55I don't think
23:56it's anybody's...
23:58Diba?
23:59Iba mong anak.
24:00Kumusta ang
24:01support system?
24:02I'm blessed, Tito Boy.
24:04They don't want to even
24:05consider it.
24:07Tito Boy, iba kami.
24:08Iba yung family namin.
24:10My children grew up.
24:12Ito kuya mo,
24:13ito ate mo.
24:14You know,
24:15blended family kami.
24:16So,
24:17when I told them,
24:18I think Sofia was only four
24:20or five
24:21when I told my older kids.
24:23And they were like,
24:24Ma!
24:25Sana noon mo pa sinabi?
24:27Alam mo yun?
24:28Parang wala.
24:29Kung baga parang
24:31it just all fell into place,
24:32Tito Boy,
24:33and I worked hard for that.
24:35You know,
24:36pe pwedeng mawala
24:37yung pamilya ko,
24:38pe pwedeng mawala.
24:39I could have
24:40made different choices,
24:41Tito Boy,
24:42but
24:43God gave me
24:45both.
24:46Sabi niyo,
24:47you can have both.
24:48You can have Sofia,
24:49you can have your family,
24:50all intact.
24:52And that's what I did,
24:53Tito Boy.
24:54I did not have to come out
24:55and announce my life.
24:57I did it all on my own,
24:58through prayers
24:59and through,
25:00with my family.
25:01My children are all okay.
25:03The best and the worst
25:04thing
25:05that
25:06you did
25:07or that happened
25:09while Boy was alive?
25:11Took drugs,
25:12went with the wrong people,
25:14made some mistakes,
25:16I pay for it.
25:18And the best?
25:20Forgiveness.
25:22And moving on.
25:23That's true love,
25:24Tito Boy.
25:25Oh,
25:26I don't think you can
25:27really move on
25:28na walang pagmamahal
25:30na galing sa puso.
25:32You're very strong.
25:33You're very,
25:34very strong, Nadia.
25:36Kailang ka mahina?
25:38Pag may sakit nanay ko,
25:39pag nasasaktan
25:40mga anak ko.
25:42And when they have to,
25:43when I see them,
25:44you know,
25:45Tito Boy,
25:46pag pinagpipestahan
25:47yung buhay mo sa TV,
25:48sa social media,
25:49atas nakikita mo
25:50yung mga anak mo
25:51na parang,
25:52Mama, it's okay.
25:53Keep your head up high,
25:54Mama.
25:55You're a great mom.
25:56That's enough for me.
25:58That's enough for me.
26:01Nad,
26:03kumusta ang future?
26:04How does it look?
26:05Oh,
26:06very bright, Tito Boy.
26:07Very bright.
26:08Very bright.
26:10I'm free.
26:12I have nothing else
26:13to hide, Tito Boy,
26:15for so long.
26:17Di ba?
26:20I always had that moment,
26:21Tito Boy,
26:22I always prayed for this night.
26:23I always prayed for this.
26:25What did you pray for,
26:26for now?
26:27I knew that this was,
26:28this day would come.
26:29And if I was gonna put
26:30an exclamation point,
26:31it would be with you.
26:32Salamat.
26:33Yeah.
26:35And that's it.
26:36The show's over.
26:38Wala na pong continuation
26:39sa life ko,
26:40kundi lahat ng ganda.
26:42Because Tito,
26:43Tito Boy,
26:44God gave me a story
26:45for His glory.
26:47That's all I say.
26:49Nad, maraming salamat
26:50sa pag-uusap na ito.
26:51Thank you, Tito Boy.
26:52Maraming salamat.
26:53Thank you, Tito Boy.
26:57Maraming salamat.
26:58Thank you, Tito Boy.
26:59Thank you very much, Nad.
27:00Thank you, Tito Boy.
27:01God bless you.
27:02God bless you, Tito Boy.
27:03Thank you.
27:04Thank you for your trust.
27:05Maraming salamat for
27:06laughing, crying.
27:07Yes.
27:08Conversing.
27:09Lahat na.
27:10Yes.
27:11Tapos na po
27:12ang parte ng buhay kong iyan.
27:13Thank you.
27:14Thank you.
27:15Thank you.
27:16Nay Taya Kapuso,
27:17maraming salamat po
27:18sa inyong pagpapatuloy sa amin,
27:19sa inyong mga tahanan,
27:20araw-araw.
27:21And stay kind.
27:22Make your nani and tari proud.
27:23Hashtag say thank you.
27:24Do one good thing a day
27:25and make this world
27:26a better place.
27:27Goodbye for now.
27:28God bless.
27:29Woo!
27:30Applause