Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Bea Alonzo, naka-MOVE ON na ba sa pinagdaanang break-up? (Episode 379)

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Aired (July 11, 2024): Matapang na ibinahagi ni Bea Alonzo na upang siya’y maka-move on ay kinakailangan niyang at tanggapin ang mga nangyari sa kanyang buhay.

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00:00How are you at this point in your life?

00:10I'm just really enjoying my life. I guess I'm embracing the uncertainty.

00:17Because I realized that sometimes we have a lot of plans in our life, but God's plans are always better.

00:26And so I'm just here to embrace the uncertainty.

00:32What have you become because of that relationship?

00:37We're talking about the relationship?

00:39No, we're not anymore. We're talking about Bea after the relationship. What have you become?

00:45Well, I've always known I'm resilient, but I didn't know I'm this resilient.

00:52Yeah, I guess it made me stronger.

00:56Yes, it made me stronger.

00:58And I learned to cancel the noises that are not necessary in my life.

01:09And just accept or embrace, again, the magic word, those opinions that add value to my life.

01:19You and I, I think, share the same idea that we should close the discussion about your past relationship.

01:27And I want to do it here, at least on behalf of myself.

01:30And if you were to close this chapter, let's do it here.

01:35If you were to close this chapter of your life in words,

01:40Words.

01:41How would you do it? What would you say as the closing of this chapter?

01:50It's so hard. I mean, that's a very hard question.

01:55But is there a top of mind that I can think of right now?

01:59Thank you so much.

02:01Yeah, I'm, you know, I'm grateful.

02:05I'm grateful.

02:07I'm grateful to all the beautiful memories and even the not-so-beautiful memories

02:15because it made me stronger. It made me who I am right now.

02:20Yeah.

02:22It's so hard to ask.

02:24Bibi, moving forward and keeping still.

02:30The only reason why, we're not going to talk about it anymore.

02:32But when you become still right at the present moment and when you move,

02:39and we just move and move until you're able to move forward.

02:45Yeah.

02:47Saan ka humuhugot? In moments of confusion.

02:53Kasi hindi naman kaagad yun eh. Diba?

02:54In moments of confusion, as you try to be quiet and still and moving forward.

03:03Saan ka pumupunta?

03:05Malaking bagay yung support system, my family and my friends.

03:11But also, especially on the recent one, I really made sure that mas introspective yung process.

03:24I really made sure that I reflect on the things na mga pagkakamali ko

03:31o yung mga bagay na nakasakit ng loob ko.

03:34I guess that also made my relationship with God stronger.

03:41Because it's all about trust eh, Tito Boy.

03:47And acceptance.

03:49First, you have to accept the current situation, the circumstances that you are in,

03:55and then trust that there will be better days.

03:59And I feel like better days, I have better days now,

04:03and I feel like there will be more better days in the future.

04:07Oo, pero kailangan talaga nun acceptance.

04:10I like what you said that, you know, it's also about me, about forgiving myself,

04:14about the right and the wrong that I've done.

04:16People who've wronged me, people who've hurt me, and how I have been hurt along the process.

04:23Kasi hindi ka talaga makaka-stay in that position,

04:28pag hindi buo yung meditation, your contemplation of where you are.

04:33And siguro yung, Tito Boy, yung napaka-importante to let go

04:38and learn to walk away from the things that are really not meant for you.

04:46Thank you.

05:16Thank you.

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