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00:00Some are praying for Ayah Min's quick death.
00:09Hello and welcome to another episode of Motif Trending.
00:12Today, we have Abdul Mukmin in the studio with us today.
00:16I'm sure many of you know him
00:18because you've seen his videos with his dad
00:19where he always goes through the FYP, right?
00:23Even the news about Mukmin reached Indonesia.
00:26And he's here with us today.
00:28He came all the way from Terengganu to Bukit Jalil, bro.
00:32Studio, let's welcome Abdul Mukmin.
00:41First of all, thank you for coming all the way from far away to be with us.
00:45I appreciate it. Thank you for your time.
00:47Maybe you can share a bit about your background
00:50to the viewers who don't know you or have never seen your videos.
00:54My name is Abdul Mukmin bin Mazli.
00:57I'm from Besut, Terengganu.
01:01So, I'm the son of a bongsu.
01:04I'm adopted by three siblings.
01:07So, I'm the only male who takes care of my dad.
01:11Yup.
01:15What is your hobby?
01:17My hobby is to make car videos.
01:20I shoot the scenery.
01:22The scenery of the village.
01:24Cinematography?
01:25Yes, cinematography.
01:27Because I've watched your videos...
01:29Armin?
01:29No, not Armin.
01:31I've watched your Mukmin videos.
01:32For example, in the video about you and your dad taking care of him,
01:36there are some cinematic shots.
01:38For example, this is a tree, right?
01:40Oh, I can see a bit of that.
01:42I said, wow, that's powerful.
01:43How do you feel when your name or account suddenly became trending on TikTok?
01:48How did you feel at that time?
01:49Actually, at first, I made it with the intention of making a memory
01:54with my dad.
01:55I posted it on TikTok.
01:57Then, one night, I went to sleep.
01:59After I took care of my dad, I went to sleep.
02:01I woke up in the morning.
02:03I woke up in the morning.
02:04Suddenly, a lot of people DMed me on TikTok.
02:08I got a lot of calls.
02:11You got a lot of calls?
02:12I got a lot of calls.
02:13Then, I looked at the video.
02:15Wow, there are a lot of likes.
02:18Then, someone called.
02:20I don't know who it was from.
02:22I don't know.
02:24I was shocked.
02:26But, you still replied to those who didn't even know your number?
02:29I replied to all of them.
02:30I replied to hundreds of DMs one by one.
02:44For those who don't know,
02:47I can tell you about your dad's condition now.
02:52What is his condition?
02:53How long has he been sick?
02:57My dad has been sick for 11 years.
03:00Since he was a high school student.
03:01Since he was 13 years old.
03:02My dad actually had a stroke.
03:06It was a half-body stroke.
03:07He couldn't remember whether he could or couldn't.
03:10Then, he had a seizure.
03:13Seizure?
03:13Seizure.
03:14Oh, okay. Seizure.
03:16So, what did your dad do last time?
03:19What did he do?
03:19He did a lot of things.
03:21He ran his own business.
03:22He sold chicken and rice.
03:24His last business was selling palm oil.
03:28He sold palm oil to people.
03:29Then, one night,
03:32he...
03:33I remember that he always joked with us that night.
03:36What did he joke about?
03:37He joked with his children.
03:39He joked and laughed.
03:41That night, he went to sleep.
03:44We all turned off the lights and went to sleep.
03:47Then, I heard him laughing.
03:50Oh.
03:50Then, we thought that he was joking.
03:53Then, my mum came out.
03:55She said that my dad fell off the bed.
03:58Then, she saw that his mouth was bleeding.
04:01Oh, my goodness.
04:02Then, we called the villagers
04:06and took him to the emergency room in the hospital.
04:09Then, my dad was diagnosed with a stroke.
04:13So, that was the first time?
04:1511 years ago?
04:16Yes.
04:16That was the first time.
04:17So, did he suddenly have a seizure that night?
04:19Yes, that night.
04:20The doctor said that he had high blood pressure.
04:23Your dad had high blood pressure.
04:24He also had high cholesterol.
04:26He had a seizure.
04:27They said that it could be a stroke.
04:30So, at that time, Min was 13 years old?
04:34Yes, she was 13 years old.
04:35She took care of your dad for 11 years.
04:38When she took care of your dad,
04:39did she finish her secondary school?
04:42She didn't finish it yet.
04:44Oh.
04:44She was still in school.
04:46My sister was also studying.
04:47Okay.
04:48At that time, she had to go to college
04:51to continue her studies.
04:53But we were like,
04:55it's okay.
04:56Let's leave it for a while.
05:00Let's focus.
05:01Let's give her time.
05:03Okay.
05:04Min, take care of your dad.
05:06My sister, take care of your mum.
05:08At that time, we didn't know
05:10that her mum had cancer.
05:13She didn't want to tell her son about it.
05:17She hid her illness.
05:34When you found out that your mum had cancer,
05:38was your dad already ill?
05:40Yes, my dad was already ill.
05:42So, was it before your dad was ill?
05:45Yes, before my dad was ill.
05:47So, as time went by,
05:50we found it strange to see my mum like that.
05:53Why did she go to her room every day?
05:56Then, at 2 or 3 a.m.,
05:58after she prayed,
06:00we heard her crying.
06:04We wanted to know
06:06what was happening to her.
06:09We were all in the same room.
06:12My mum was changing her bandage.
06:17Breast cancer.
06:18Then, she went into her room
06:21and saw the blood coming out.
06:24So, we were saddened to see her condition.
06:29Why didn't she tell us?
06:30But we knew that she didn't want to tell us
06:32because she didn't want to give her children a hard time.
06:36So, we decided to discuss it with my siblings
06:39and took my mum to the hospital.
06:43The doctor said that my mum needed chemotherapy
06:46because the tumor had spread to her lungs.
06:50My mum had asthma.
06:54She was getting weaker every day
06:57because of the chemotherapy.
06:59The doctor asked us to sign a form for her lungs
07:03and her hip.
07:06We agreed to go to school.
07:15At that time, I was more concerned about my parents.
07:20Sometimes, I woke up in the morning to see my dad.
07:22He was in such a sad condition.
07:27I woke up in the morning to change my dad's packs,
07:31his diapers, and his wet wipes.
07:33At that time, my dad drank his milk through a tube in his nose.
07:38He used a wet wipe.
07:40He was getting more and more uncomfortable.
07:42So, I threw the tube away.
07:46Then, I pulled the tube from his nose.
07:50Then, I told my dad to eat as usual.
07:54Did the doctor tell you to do that?
07:56No, the doctor didn't tell me to do that.
07:58But you felt that it was better for your dad?
07:59Yes, it was better for him.
08:00He was in pain when he was about to move.
08:03He could eat as usual.
08:06So, I hugged him and thanked God.
08:12I prayed for him.
08:15I told him to remove the tube from his nose.
08:21He drank his milk.
08:23The doctor turned his head away.
08:26Why did you do that?
08:28I just wanted to help him.
08:30So, that was the miracle.
08:33God knows best.
08:38If you don't mind me asking,
08:42what year did your mother pass away?
08:47My mother passed away in 2018.
08:51It was after the chemo session.
08:57Did you manage to remove the cancer cells?
09:02Or was it too late?
09:06It was too late.
09:09I only found out about it at the last minute.
09:13I only found out about it when my mother passed away.
09:16So, the doctor said it was too late.
09:26Yes, it was too late.
09:27He knew about it, but he didn't tell his family.
09:30It was too late to get treatment.
09:32So, it was difficult for him to survive.
09:35Yes, it was difficult for him to survive.
09:37So, the doctor decided to put him to sleep.
09:42The doctor asked us to put him to sleep.
09:46He said, we had to put your mother to sleep...
09:48...because the tumor had spread to her brain.
09:50In the morning, I had to go home to see my father.
09:56I went home to see my father.
09:58I came back from Kota Bharu to Besut.
10:03I took a motorbike.
10:05I didn't have a license yet.
10:07I came back to Besut.
10:09Then, my sister called.
10:12She said that my mother was gone.
10:16When I got home, I said, Allah!
10:20Everything was empty.
10:25She said, when my mother was put to sleep...
10:32...she told me to take good care of my father.
10:36That's how it was.
10:37My mother was gone.
10:39I miss that memory.
10:41It was traumatic.
10:43When my father was gone, I felt like I had a mother.
10:47When I woke up in the morning, my mother...
10:50...had been tidied up.
10:52The food and clothes had been folded.
10:56The house had been tidied up.
10:58Even though she was in that condition, I thought about it.
11:01In the morning, my brain flashed back.
11:08I saw her.
11:10She was sitting in the kitchen, eating.
11:31To be continued...
12:02Then, I continued to study at the vocational school.
12:07To survive, my mother was gone.
12:13My father was ill.
12:15I had to earn my own money.
12:17I had to pay for my school activities.
12:23I had to work at a stone house.
12:28I had an idea.
12:31I like to make and edit videos.
12:36I had an idea to make a TikTok video.
12:39When you were in the vocational school...
12:44...did you get an offer to continue your studies?
12:50Yes.
12:51In the field of navigation?
12:53Navigation.
12:56I got an offer to study at other universities.
13:02But I had to decline.
13:04I thought of my father.
13:06If I work, who will take care of my father?
13:09If I continue to study, I will need money.
13:17It's a big capital.
13:19So, it's okay.
13:20I declined.
13:23I thought of my father.
13:24I focused on him.
13:25Don't worry about the sustenance.
13:27Leave it to Allah.
13:29The sustenance is everywhere.
13:32I know that to make a decision as a human being...
13:36...especially for the future...
13:38...it's hard because we have to sacrifice our future.
13:43Our education and everything.
13:45But what I want to know is...
13:48...how do you strengthen your spirit?
13:53I'm pretty sure at that moment...
13:55...you saw that you couldn't continue your studies.
13:59So, your ambition to be whatever...
14:03...was hard to achieve.
14:05It was delayed.
14:10How do you strengthen yourself or give yourself the spirit...
14:15...that this is a good choice?
14:18What I'm doing now is to sacrifice my education...
14:21...to take care of my father and mother.
14:23That's the most important thing in my life.
14:26So, what I'm doing is to make that decision.
14:30Because for you, it's hard.
14:33It's hard to let go of our future.
14:37So, how do you do that?
14:39Can you share with us?
14:41I focused on my parents.
14:46My father said...
14:49...you can find a job.
14:52You can build a career.
14:54But if you lose your parents, there's nothing you can do.
14:57So, I focused on that.
15:01If we want to sacrifice ourselves for our career...
15:05...we have to sacrifice for our career.
15:08My parents went through that too.
15:12They sacrificed more for us.
15:16Time, work, their energy for us.
15:20So, why not do what they did when they took care of us...
15:27...from young to old.
15:29So, it's okay.
15:31God willing, there will be blessings.
15:35So, what are your dreams?
15:38What do you want to be?
15:40My dream is to become a pilot.
15:46A pilot.
15:48But how do I do that?
15:50God has given me other opportunities.
15:52So, I want to use this opportunity...
15:56...to inspire everyone.
16:00Not just in Malaysia, but around the world.
16:10To all the people who have been through this,
16:13I hope you can be a role model to others.
16:16I hope you can be a role model to others.
16:21In all the positivity we share online...
16:24...even with positive comments, negative comments won't go away.
16:29Because there are filters in the comments on TikTok.
16:33If you open it, there are comments like,
16:38Can you give us a few examples?
16:41Where did they go wrong?
16:43You said that people insulted you.
16:46Where did they go wrong?
16:49On TikTok, in the middle of a live stream,
16:52there were comments like,
16:53online fanatic.
16:57Someone prayed for my father to die soon.
17:01At the same time, when I was at home,
17:04the villagers were surprised.
17:06What did this kid do?
17:08So many people came to my house.
17:10I was once slandered when I was taking care of my father.
17:14They said that I was a drug dealer.
17:19It felt like a slander.
17:22It's okay. I have no intention of taking revenge.
17:25I just prayed for the best.
17:28May Allah give him the strength to open his heart.
17:32May he open his eyes and see how my life is.
17:46I want to ask.
17:48Can you share any struggles or moments that you experienced
17:54that made you feel like,
17:56I can't do this anymore.
17:58This is really bad.
17:59Maybe the insult was too much.
18:01It disturbed your emotions.
18:03Did you have such moments?
18:05Yes.
18:06When my father fell,
18:08he was bleeding here.
18:10At that time,
18:11people said that there were a lot of insults.
18:13They said that I didn't know how to take care of my father.
18:15They said,
18:16it's better to die.
18:17They said,
18:18it's better to die than to insult your father.
18:21So,
18:22at that time,
18:23I felt like,
18:24I was down.
18:25I felt like I was drowning.
18:27Maybe that day,
18:28I didn't have the motivation to do this job.
18:30But when people said,
18:32they saw my father,
18:34he came to me like an aura.
18:37I wanted to see my father.
18:39I wanted to give comfort to my father.
18:42At that time,
18:43my father was sleeping on the floor.
18:44My father was sleeping on the floor.
18:45Did any of your followers DM you and say,
18:49I have experienced this too.
18:52Yes.
18:53How did they encourage you?
18:56They encouraged me with this message.
18:59They said,
19:00continue to take care of your father.
19:01Because,
19:02your father has taken care of you since you were little until you grew up.
19:05He didn't complain at all.
19:07So,
19:08as a child,
19:09we should take care of him sincerely.
19:11Don't complain.
19:12If we feel like,
19:14we want to get angry,
19:16we should run away for a while.
19:18It doesn't mean,
19:19we should go to places.
19:20Calm your mind first.
19:22Calm your emotions,
19:23then return to the situation.
19:25Sometimes, I ask,
19:27how is your situation now?
19:30We are the same.
19:31I ask,
19:32how is your father?
19:33Is he okay?
19:34Is he healthy?
19:35But,
19:36at the same time,
19:37I am also worried.
19:41And,
19:42I want to bring that dream,
19:44wherever I go.
19:52The last question I want to ask,
19:54can you share,
19:56one or two memories with your father,
19:59before your father had a stroke?
20:01A sweet memory.
20:03Or,
20:04a sweet moment,
20:06is now.
20:08Maybe you can share.
20:10Memories,
20:12before my father got sick,
20:13we came from,
20:15a simple family,
20:17a happy family.
20:19At that time,
20:20we watched TV,
20:22ate a lot,
20:23laughed a lot,
20:25in the house,
20:27had fun.
20:28But,
20:29if we look at it now,
20:31we remember,
20:32when we eat,
20:33we eat alone,
20:34because of work.
20:36So,
20:37while eating,
20:38we cried.
20:39Sitting in one place,
20:40we watched,
20:41we can see,
20:42our tears,
20:44our tears,
20:45our tears,
20:46our tears,
20:47our tears,
20:48our tears,
20:49our tears,
20:50our tears,
20:51our tears,
20:52for,
20:53well,
20:56for us to feel grateful,
20:58in ourselves.
21:09Lastly,
21:10maybe you can,
21:11give a few words,
21:13to,
21:14your friends,
21:16your fans,
21:17or your followers out there,
21:18who support you,
21:19all this while,
21:20and give a lot of,
21:21contribution,
21:22to you as well.
21:23Like,
21:24maybe there are words,
21:25that they would like to say,
21:26to the camera,
21:27for you to present.
21:28Thank you,
21:29for supporting me,
21:30from,
21:31from the beginning,
21:33until today.
21:35I always pray,
21:36for my followers,
21:38may you always be,
21:39in the presence of Allah SWT,
21:41and be given,
21:42long-lasting health,
21:43for the rest of the family.
21:45Without,
21:46all of you,
21:48I wouldn't be here.
21:50Take care,
21:51take the blessings,
21:52to take care of your parents.
21:54A mother,
21:55a father,
21:56can take care of 20 children.
21:57But,
21:5820 children,
21:59are not necessarily,
22:00able to take care of,
22:01a mother or a father.
22:02You're not alone,
22:03in this,
22:04and there are a lot of people,
22:05out there,
22:06who are willing to support,
22:07as long as you,
22:08speak up,
22:09and ask for help.
22:10So yeah,
22:11I pray,
22:12the best for you,
22:13and your family.
22:14Thank you so much,
22:15for coming.
22:16And guys,
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22:25Thank you once again, Min.