It's Showtime: Dalagang hindi nabigyan ng assurance, nagsawa sa relasyon! (May 31, 2024) (Part 3/4)
Aired (May 31, 2024): Labis na nasaktan si Christine nang biglang nagsawa at nanlamig ang pakikitungo sa kanya ni Derick dahil na rin naging busy ito at komportable sa relasyon nila, kaya naman hindi na ito nabibigyan ng oras at assurance dating naibibigay sa kanya. Panoorin ito sa video.
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00:00 Sometimes, we have free days at work.
00:03 - Like Sunday. - We have dates because I forgot.
00:07 - Yeah. - You don't make up.
00:08 - Making up is very important. - My son...
00:10 We don't date that much anymore.
00:13 But the things I make up for him
00:17 are our anniversaries.
00:19 - I really put in effort. - How do you make up for it?
00:21 You make up for it and you forget the anniversaries.
00:24 - Not the anniversaries. - The months.
00:26 - But the months. - You only remember the months.
00:27 That's what I want to ask.
00:29 Until when?
00:30 Because some couples celebrate their anniversaries.
00:34 But there are couples who celebrate their anniversaries.
00:39 So I feel like there should be a communication.
00:43 - Let's celebrate. - Mutual communication.
00:46 And it's not an issue.
00:47 You don't have to celebrate.
00:49 At least you'll remember and you'll remember to greet each other.
00:51 Especially if you're really doing it.
00:54 - Do you really do it? - Yes.
00:55 Do you greet each other?
00:57 Sometimes, we'll say, "Hey, it's our anniversary."
00:59 - Yes. - We'll say, "How many?"
01:03 I know that there's a time when it's our anniversary.
01:07 - Yes. - Right?
01:09 She just makes me feel like I know it's our anniversary.
01:12 - It's like... - That's cute for girls.
01:15 - When boys greet their girlfriends. - That's why she makes you feel like it's their anniversary.
01:17 Because she's aware that it's your anniversary.
01:20 She's waiting to see if she's aware.
01:22 - Because historically, you forget. - Yes.
01:26 - Right? - That's true.
01:29 - So... - That's true.
01:30 But for you, when it's your anniversary, you shouldn't celebrate your anniversary.
01:36 You should...
01:37 Especially when you're working.
01:38 When you're busy.
01:40 When we were still together, I felt like it's okay not to celebrate our anniversaries.
01:44 Because...
01:45 What do you call this? We need to prepare for something.
01:49 - Like a future. - No.
01:50 We were talking about celebration.
01:52 Do you want to celebrate your anniversaries or just remember it?
01:55 - Just remember it. - At least.
01:57 I want to celebrate my day.
01:59 I want to celebrate my anniversary.
02:01 She'll greet me on my day.
02:03 Even just that.
02:04 It's a simple effort for me.
02:06 But the impact of it will bring sadness to you.
02:11 Because I'm trying so many things.
02:15 I'm trying to be kind to her.
02:17 I'm not expecting anything material.
02:20 I just want to feel that she still loves me.
02:23 Even if it's just a small thing.
02:28 Even if it's just a small thing.
02:31 Those things can make you feel...
02:34 Because at that point, you feel like she doesn't love you anymore.
02:37 - Right? Because it changed. - Yes.
02:39 She changed. A lot of things changed.
02:42 - Right? So you feel like she doesn't love you anymore. - Yes.
02:45 So I hope she's looking for things to remind her that she still loves her.
02:52 I still love her.
02:53 - But assurance. - Our topic yesterday,
02:55 aside from "I love you", what are the words or phrases
02:58 that you heard that are equivalent to "I love you"?
03:00 - Because it's not always "I love you". - Yes.
03:03 Right? The things they said.
03:05 The "I pray for you everyday".
03:08 When you heard that, it's like they said "I love you" to you.
03:11 The simple...
03:13 "Babe, drink water always."
03:14 - "I love you." - That's "I love you".
03:17 The same thing. When you see...
03:18 "Oh, she still loves me."
03:22 She's just looking for something to prove,
03:26 even just by looking, that she still loves her.
03:28 What I feel is not true if she doesn't love me anymore.
03:32 Because at that point, you don't see or feel that she still loves you.
03:39 Yes, that's how it is.
03:40 So in that way, no matter what,
03:43 I just feel sad.
03:47 And I lose my thoughts like that.
03:53 You'll doubt if she still loves you.
03:55 Because her effort and sweetness is 100%, right?
03:58 - Yes, it's so much. - From 100, it's zero.
04:01 Yes, that's how it is.
04:02 - It's not really zero. - She got me used to that.
04:05 - Then suddenly... - What?
04:06 - It's not really zero. - It's not zero.
04:09 I have a one.
04:12 - No. - No, because...
04:13 - Let's talk about that. - What is it?
04:14 Because what she said is that she's just looking for...
04:17 - Assurance. - Assurance.
04:18 You're just looking for assurance when you greet her.
04:20 Or if you're not...
04:22 - Because she doesn't want to be assured. - Yes.
04:24 For example, like what Vice said earlier,
04:27 do you have any other ways to show your love to her
04:32 besides greeting her?
04:36 Actually, I've given her a promise ring twice
04:39 just to assure her.
04:43 What did you say in the promise ring?
04:45 - Well... - What did you promise her?
04:47 Maybe she was hurt because you gave her a promise ring
04:49 but she didn't see the promise you said in the promise ring.
04:53 She said that maybe I'm just talking.
04:57 That I'm just saying things.
04:58 - Because she's still seeing things. - Yes.
05:01 So aside from the promise ring, what else did you do?
05:04 She also promised a necklace.
05:07 - She promised an enclave. - She promised a tiara.
05:08 - She promised a jewelry box. - She promised a tiara.
05:11 What else?
05:12 Do you have any other love language you've made for her?
05:16 I still invite her to go out
05:21 but not as often as before
05:24 - when she's not busy. - When she's not in love.
05:27 Because in a relationship,
05:29 it's different...
05:32 You feel...
05:33 Do you know the difference between love and in love?
05:37 Yes.
05:38 Because you can say, "I love her."
05:41 That's the difference between
05:43 whether you love her or you love her.
05:47 Because you can give your love to everyone, to many people.
05:52 Right?
05:53 But you're giving your love to the most vulnerable.
06:03 So if I feel that she loves me,
06:06 or you're saying, "I love her."
06:08 But do you feel that you love her?
06:12 Do you feel that she's being protected?
06:19 Love and in love...
06:21 Because love is for everyone.
06:24 But in love, there's only one.
06:28 And to maintain your love in a relationship,
06:33 it is a constant combination.
06:36 It is a constant combination of both your
06:39 conscious and unconscious efforts.
06:44 Because if you don't...
06:45 That's why in love, there's a...
06:47 The difference between loving and being in love is
06:50 the unique sense of intimacy.
06:54 Unique sense of intimacy.
06:56 If you don't feel it,
06:57 if the unique sense of intimacy is not evident in a relationship,
07:02 you just love her, but you don't love her anymore.
07:06 Because there's no uniqueness in your feelings for each other.
07:10 You don't do anything different or unique to each other.
07:13 What you show and do to each other,
07:15 you also show to everyone.
07:17 There's nothing special.
07:19 You have to make that person feel so special.
07:22 You have to do things that are special.
07:24 You have to make that relationship special.
07:27 Extra special compared to your relationship with your friends,
07:30 relationship with your co-workers.
07:32 How you treat that person should be extra special
07:35 compared to how you treat your workmates, your friends.
07:38 How you talk to your friends outside,
07:41 when you talk to them, it's different.
07:43 There's a unique sense of intimacy
07:45 so you can feel for each other,
07:47 "I didn't just love, I'm in love with her."
07:51 That's why when you're in a relationship, it's scary if...
07:55 "Am I still in love with her or do I just love her?"
08:00 So at that point, are you still in love with her
08:03 or do you just love her?
08:05 When you love her, you care about her.
08:08 You want her to be happy.
08:10 You feel good about her, you have love for her.
08:13 But when you're in love with her,
08:15 you want to see her, you want to talk to her.
08:18 "I'm so tired but I want to go home
08:21 because I want to hug my wife."
08:23 "I'm not in the mood but I want to talk to Aion
08:26 because I'll be back in the mood."
08:29 That's how it is.
08:31 It's always like this. It's annoying.
08:33 There are so many things like this.
08:37 But this is what I want to be with for the rest of my life.
08:41 You're in love with her.
08:43 A unique sense of intimacy.
08:46 But if you don't want to be with her,
08:48 you don't want to talk to her,
08:49 you don't want to spend time with that person,
08:52 you don't want to hug her, you don't want to celebrate.
08:55 "But we're already used to it. Why are we still in love?"
08:57 That's why you want to celebrate every month because you're in love.
09:01 You always want to celebrate.
09:03 So if you don't want to celebrate with her,
09:05 that's the time you question yourself,
09:06 "My God, do I just love her? Am I not in love anymore?"
09:10 "Why do I not want to celebrate with her?"
09:12 Being with her is special.
09:14 Every time I spend with that person is special
09:18 because I am in love with that person.
09:21 Were you in love with her or did you just love her?
09:26 I know that I love her.
09:33 But I'm not aware that maybe my actions
09:38 are different from what she feels.
09:43 She's lacking in what I'm giving her.
09:50 Or maybe I'm just being too self-centered
09:55 and I thought that everything I do is okay with her.
09:59 I thought that what I'm giving her is enough.
10:02 But it's not. It's lacking.
10:03 There's no such thing as conscious and unconscious efforts.
10:07 Because when you're in love, there are conscious and unconscious efforts.
10:10 For example, when you're in love with someone,
10:13 your conscious effort is to bring them home.
10:17 When you're in love with someone, you're like, "I'll bring them home."
10:22 So you'll feel that someone is in love with you
10:24 because they're bringing you home with their conscious effort.
10:26 But that's planned.
10:29 You're planning something for the person you're in love with.
10:33 The unconscious effort, you're walking and she dropped her book.
10:36 You took it.
10:38 Unconscious effort.
10:41 You didn't plan it, but you did it for her
10:44 and that made him feel so good.
10:47 Conscious effort and unconscious effort.
10:50 When you're in love, there's always something like that.
10:53 It's a constant combination of your conscious and unconscious effort.
10:58 Conscious effort.
11:00 I'm in love with her. I'll date her.
11:02 You planned the date.
11:04 The unconscious effort, you ate her.
11:07 The rice got stuck here. You removed it.
11:12 You won't do that to everyone who got stuck here.
11:15 You'll only do that to the person you're in love with
11:18 because it's in their unique sense of intimacy.
11:21 And when you do that, she'll feel so good
11:24 because you're in love with the person you're in love with.
11:28 That's the unconscious effort.
11:30 You didn't plan it, but you did it.
11:32 And it's sweet.
11:33 So if you don't have a conscious effort,
11:35 you don't have an unconscious effort,
11:38 you might just love her because you have someone you're in love with,
11:42 you have memories, you have a relationship,
11:46 but she's not special anymore.
11:49 You're not in love with her anymore.
11:51 So now, ask yourself,
11:55 to your relationships, what are your unconscious efforts?
11:59 Your conscious efforts.
12:01 Are you still in love?
12:03 Or you just love her?
12:05 Are you still in love?
12:07 Good.
12:10 It's like she spoke in words.
12:12 She's really good.
12:13 So you said goodbye to her, right?
12:15 Did you chase her?
12:16 When she had a break, no.
12:19 It was a few days.
12:20 We were both in love with each other that day.
12:25 You didn't chase her.
12:29 So it's like, let go.
12:33 It's like, you're not in love anymore.
12:36 Yes, because if you're in love for five years,
12:38 it's a challenge if the relationship lasts.
12:40 It's a challenge on how you maintain your strong,
12:44 your unique sense of intimacy.
12:46 That's why it's a conscious effort.
12:48 Because the relationship, love, not love,
12:52 love and relationship are worked,
12:56 developed, and embodied.
13:01 You work on the relationship.
13:03 You can't just say, "I love her."
13:06 But you're not doing anything.
13:08 It doesn't start and end with you feeling that you love her.
13:12 It starts with you feeling that you love her
13:15 and it ends with you feeling that you love her.
13:19 Especially after years and years and years of being together.
13:23 Because of course, we're on the honeymoon stage.
13:26 But eventually, there comes a point
13:28 that you have an effort and you choose to stay in love.
13:33 Yeah.
13:34 You're not just saying, "I love you, I love you."
13:38 You're not just saying, "Let's be together, let's be a couple."
13:42 You're not just saying, "Let's be a couple."
13:45 You're working on it, developing it, and embodying it.
13:50 Yeah.
13:52 -Yes. -Amazing.
13:53 Amazing. Amen.
13:55 So sadly, you were in love at first.
13:59 But eventually, we're not sure if you stayed in love or she left.
14:03 Because unconsciously, she changed.
14:07 You were sad because of the change.
14:10 You couldn't take it anymore and you left.
14:13 Yes, that's right.
14:14 Now, are you okay with her leaving?
14:18 There's a part of me that...
14:22 Of course, I still miss the old us.
14:24 I won't lose her because she's my first boyfriend.
14:27 -Yeah. -And we've been together for a long time.
14:29 And you might still love her.
14:31 -Yes. -But there's no sense of intimacy.
14:34 -Yes. -Because you were together.
14:36 Yes.
14:37 I feel like she won't leave right away.
14:42 Because it's different when you're the one who really loves.
14:48 You give everything.
14:52 -It's hard to forget. -Do you regret giving everything?
14:55 No, I don't regret it.
14:56 Because I gave my best.
14:58 I showed her.
15:01 -I didn't hesitate. -You worked hard.
15:03 -Yes. -You did your best.
15:05 -Of course. -And you tried to make her laugh.
15:07 Yes. I really took care of her.
15:10 There were times when her co-workmates were jealous of her.
15:14 I prepared her for her birthday.
15:16 Why don't you stay to see her?
15:20 Because if you're just a caterer, you have to prepare for others.
15:25 You have to earn money.
15:26 You didn't think about it.
15:27 -I'm just kidding. -She really loves you.
15:30 So now, you're not in love with him anymore, right?
15:32 -No? -What?
15:34 -No. -No?
15:36 -There's something. -What?
15:39 -It's because it's first love. -Oh, it's because it's first love.
15:41 -Oh, it's because it's first love. -Oh, my God.
15:44 That's how it is when it's first love.
15:48 -Oh, it's because it's first love. -Yes.
15:51 That's a good click.
15:53 I'll give you 250 pesos later.
15:56 So, you don't have any hope that Derek will come back?
16:03 I don't limit what can happen.
16:07 Because I still want him to be my friend.
16:12 Because we have a deep bond.
16:18 And we're not all bad memories.
16:21 There are happy things that happened to us.
16:24 -You should court her again. -Derek, do you have a girlfriend?
16:28 -Do you have a girlfriend? -When we got divorced,
16:31 I really tried to fix it.
16:33 But she didn't want to.
16:37 She was really hurt.
16:39 And when she was hurt,
16:43 she said she felt sorry for herself.
16:46 She didn't want to come back to me.
16:48 She felt sorry for herself because she gave her all to love me.
16:52 And then, in the end,
16:56 I couldn't return the effort she gave me.
17:02 -When you didn't realize it. -Yes.
17:03 When I didn't realize it, I thought everything was okay.
17:06 -It's up to you. -Yes.
17:07 She said she didn't close the door on you.
17:09 It's up to you.
17:10 You can court her again.
17:12 But this time, you can't be sure.
17:14 Because she's open to entertain others.
17:17 Is that right?
17:18 It's okay.
17:19 Because a lot of my friends say that
17:23 -there's a better person. -That's why you're open.
17:26 That's why we will now start the search.
17:29 I'm having a hard time saying it.
17:32 I can't say it. Let's start the search.
17:34 You did it. Congratulations.
17:37 Let's start this.
17:38 Christine, it's time to meet our searchees.
17:41 Searchee number one, reveal.
17:44 What's up, Madlum people?
17:50 I'm Daniel, the cyclist of San Pascual, Batangas.
17:55 -Cyclist. -Cyclist.
17:57 What's your bike?
17:58 It's a hybrid.
18:00 It's a combination of mountain bike and road bike.
18:04 What's your bike, babe?
18:06 Is it a hybrid?
18:07 Road bike.
18:08 What's the hybrid?
18:09 The hybrid is like, for example,
18:11 in mountain bike, the suspension is replaced with rigid fork
18:15 so that it looks like a road bike.
18:19 But it has a handlebar that's not like that.
18:23 -It's a straight bar. -A lot of people ride bikes in the Philippines.
18:26 I'm happy.
18:27 Actually, because of the pandemic, people are riding bikes.
18:32 But still ride safely, guys.
18:34 Helmets.
18:36 You can ride a bike. Just answer your bike.
18:39 The one with memories.
18:40 Training wheels.
18:42 This is for kids.
18:43 My dad bought me one like this.
18:45 Me too.
18:46 Training wheels.
18:47 Yes, for memories.
18:48 Do you have a pick-up line?
18:50 Hello, Christine.
18:52 Hello.
18:53 Hello.
18:54 Hello.
18:55 Hello.
18:56 Christine, are you a virgin?
18:59 Oh, my God.
19:00 It's like, the virgin smells.
19:02 You want to impress, but you're the one who's a virgin, right?
19:06 Please, again.
19:08 Christine, are you a virgin?
19:11 Why?
19:13 It smells.
19:14 Why?
19:17 Can you be mine?
19:21 The pick-up smells.
19:25 That's it.
19:26 I thought you were going to ask the bike, "Christine, are you a bike?"
19:29 Guys, are you a bike?
19:31 Why?
19:32 Bike guy.
19:33 Lord, please, let him go first.
19:47 So good.
19:49 Beautiful.
19:50 That was beautiful.
19:51 Ate Anne will rap with Glock 9.
19:54 You're all in the front.
19:55 Oh, really?
19:57 Ate Anne, no, no.
19:58 Searching number 2.
20:00 Please introduce yourself.
20:01 Reveal.
20:02 What's up, madlang people?
20:11 I'm Jam, your future romantic flight attendant of Bulacan.
20:17 Oh.
20:20 That's a bitin, Jam.
20:22 Sorry.
20:25 He's just getting up.
20:27 Future, what did you say?
20:30 Romantic flight attendant.
20:32 Romantic flight attendant.
20:34 Why romantic?
20:36 Because I'm so sweet, and when I love someone, I'm all out.
20:40 I'm honest.
20:41 That's how Derek was when he started.
20:43 Right.
20:47 Jam. Okay, where are you from?
20:50 From Bulacan.
20:51 Bulacan is just near.
20:54 Yes, it's just near QC.
20:55 You're just S-Lex.
20:57 Correct.
20:58 S-Lex.
20:59 N-Lex.
21:00 Why?
21:02 I'll just listen if you know.
21:03 Look, you don't know.
21:04 N-Lex is South.
21:05 I'll just listen to your reaction.
21:07 Okay, what are the places in S-Lex?
21:11 What places?
21:13 There's a McDonald's there.
21:16 Sorry.
21:17 There's a McDonald's in S-Lex.
21:19 Right?
21:20 Daniel.
21:22 Do you have a pick-up line, Jam?
21:26 Yes, I do.
21:28 Oh, Mape has two passports there.
21:30 Negu has a pick-up line.
21:32 There's also a shopping mall in S-Lex.
21:35 There's a Jollibee there.
21:36 Shopping.
21:37 Shopping and Jollibee are next to each other.
21:39 Oh, what are they?
21:40 Shopping.
21:41 There's also a McDonald's there.
21:42 Whenever they're there, you're standing.
21:46 We're not left alone.
21:47 We're so close.
21:48 Wow, you're all...
21:52 Yes.
21:54 You're all...
21:55 What are you?
21:56 Someone inquired about you.
21:58 Yes, what?
21:59 Angels Burger.
22:00 I said, "I'll ask."
22:01 But you have two passports.
22:02 Because you're a bi-wanda.
22:03 Jam, pick-up line, Jam.
22:05 Hi, Christine.
22:07 Hello.
22:09 Is Basilio your brother?
22:10 Christine!
22:12 Basilio!
22:13 That's Crispin.
22:14 Go, Jam.
22:15 Are you happy to trespass?
22:17 Why?
22:19 Because you just enter my heart and mind without saying goodbye.
22:24 Baby, stop.
22:28 Jam is so romantic.
22:30 Jam, Jam, Jam.
22:32 Jam, Jam, Jam.
22:34 What's your name, Ube?
22:36 Strawberry.
22:38 No, it's O-Rains.
22:40 O-Rains.
22:43 Sentry number three, reveal!
22:45 What's up, Bronco people!
22:54 He's so strong.
22:57 I'm Axel, 22.
22:59 I'm the student cutie of Tondo, Manila.
23:02 Student cutie.
23:04 Wow, you're still a Chixers.
23:07 Who's Chixers?
23:11 Hey, you know Chixers?
23:13 What's Chixers?
23:15 You know Chixers?
23:17 Chixers was famous before, right?
23:20 We didn't get to see it.
23:22 It was in the early, late 20s, 16, 17.
23:30 Are they dancers?
23:32 Boy band?
23:34 Why did you take off your shades, bro?
23:39 So that you can see my face better.
23:41 So that you can meet your best friend, Sander Port.
23:44 Let's go.
23:55 Lord, please get him.
23:56 I just know that Vincent Dapalong is not recognized anymore.
24:03 Axel, what can you say?
24:06 Are you from Sanga?
24:08 I'm from Tondo.
24:09 He doesn't have a pick-up line.
24:11 He's a student cutie.
24:12 Do you have a pick-up line?
24:13 Student cutie.
24:14 What school?
24:16 TUP.
24:18 Oh, that's cute.
24:19 Axel is really cute.
24:22 Axel, break it down.
24:25 Christine?
24:26 Yes?
24:28 Maybe you were walking last night.
24:30 Why?
24:32 Because you're not in my dreams.
24:34 Oh, okay.
24:35 Do you know what Axel's name is?
24:40 That's Axel's nickname.
24:41 What's the first name?
24:42 Inhale.
24:43 Inhale Axel.
24:44 Axel.
24:45 I'm so happy for Inhale.
24:52 Inhale Axel.
24:53 But I really thought he was a Chicster.
24:56 Why Chicster?
24:57 Yes, right?
24:58 He took off his shades.
24:59 Oh, Pixel.
25:00 Pixel.
25:01 Pixelated.
25:04 Okay.
25:05 Let's talk to them.
25:07 So you'll know them.
25:09 We have questions for them.
25:10 Joke.
25:11 What's the first question?
25:16 Listen, guys.
25:17 For number one.
25:22 No, for all of them.
25:23 Don't make your own segment.
25:25 I'm telling you, for all of them.
25:28 Did you rip this?
25:31 For number one.
25:32 What's the question?
25:37 Please tell us.
25:38 This is the number one question.
25:40 Have you ever been a Tick-Tick?
25:42 Is it possible that he has changed his attitude towards me?
25:48 He's not gentle and he doesn't have time.
25:51 But he still loves me.
25:53 Because that's what he asked himself.
25:57 You're still doubting if he loves you.
26:00 Is that possible?
26:01 For me, yes.
26:03 And maybe one of the evidence that he still loves you,
26:09 although he's not making an effort or what he did to you before,
26:13 is our grandparents, our great-grandparents,
26:16 that until they have grandchildren,
26:20 but they're still the last,
26:22 and until they're old, they say, "Till death."
26:26 So for me, it can change how you started,
26:30 but in the end, you still love each other,
26:32 and you're still together until the end.
26:36 For me, it's impossible.
26:42 Because if you love someone, you won't feel that.
26:46 If you love someone, you'll feel that you love them,
26:49 and you won't let them overthink.
26:51 So for me, it's really impossible.
26:55 Do you have anything to say, Daniel?
26:57 - Okay, I'll say it. - They're already confused.
27:01 - Was that okay? - Yes.
27:05 Axel, do you want to back out?
27:08 So we can choose quickly.
27:11 - Axel, what will you say? - What's the question again?
27:15 The question is, if one of the three is removed, who is it?
27:19 - No. - Maybe he'll have a good answer.
27:23 What if he's changed?
27:25 For example, you have a girlfriend,
27:27 and you see that she's changing,
27:29 she's doing something else, she's not flirting anymore,
27:31 she doesn't have time for you, she's changed,
27:33 but she still says she loves you.
27:35 Is that possible?
27:37 As per my experience, because...
27:39 I'm just kidding.
27:43 Close the curtain.
27:45 Close the curtain, cremate him.
27:48 Because...
27:51 If you really love someone,
27:53 you won't feel that she's gone.
27:55 Because if you two
27:59 don't have feelings anymore,
28:01 it's not love anymore.
28:03 It's like...
28:05 you're just together for nothing.
28:07 So that's it.
28:11 In love and love only.
28:13 I love you, or I am in love with you.
28:16 So they're saying, if you're really in love,
28:18 you won't feel it.
28:21 But for him,
28:23 our parents,
28:25 they're together.
28:27 They've been together for a long time,
28:29 they've decided to be together
28:31 because they love each other.
28:33 Who would you give the green flag, Christian?
28:35 One, two, or three?
28:39 For me,
28:42 from what I've heard,
28:46 number two.
28:48 Jam.
28:50 Which one did you like the most?
28:52 What did you say?
28:54 Because it's right that you shouldn't
28:56 make him feel.
28:58 Especially if your partner's effort is...
29:00 too much.
29:04 It's like you're the opposite.
29:06 He's putting in too much effort,
29:08 he's doing everything to make you happy.
29:10 So that you won't feel
29:12 that you don't love him anymore.
29:14 And you,
29:16 you don't have any effort.
29:18 You don't want your partner to feel
29:20 that you don't love him anymore.
29:22 Approve or disapprove, Derek?
29:24 What do you say?
29:26 In his choice, approve or disapprove?
29:28 I like the romantic.
29:30 He likes the romantic.
29:34 So we approve him.
29:36 You should date Axel after this, Derek.
29:38 Question number two, Christian.
29:42 Congrats, Jam, you have a green flag.
29:44 If you put me in something
29:48 and it's gone,
29:50 but I'm still looking for it,
29:52 who's to blame?
29:54 Me, who's looking for it,
29:56 or you, who's giving it?
29:58 Nice.
30:00 I'll just read it.
30:02 You're so ugly.
30:04 Chai!
30:06 No, it's because the question is nice.
30:08 It's like, "Oh, that's a heartbroken question."
30:10 Listen up, okay?
30:12 If you put me in something
30:14 and it's gone,
30:16 but I'm still looking for it,
30:18 who's to blame?
30:20 Me, who's looking for it,
30:22 or you, who's giving it?
30:24 Nice.
30:26 It's because
30:28 it's hard to get used to
30:30 things that can be lost.
30:32 The one to blame
30:34 is the one who lost it.
30:36 For example,
30:38 I'm the one to blame.
30:40 Because...
30:42 What was the question again?
30:44 Don't ever come back.
30:46 Axel will be so mad.
30:48 This is so fun to step on.
30:52 He's already there.
30:54 Your clothes are pedestrian.
30:56 I'll step on it later.
30:58 Who's to blame?
31:00 He said it.
31:02 Who's to blame? You, who went here,
31:04 or the one looking for you?
31:06 He's already there.
31:08 You're already there.
31:10 You said it.
31:12 Then, why?
31:14 Ann, we'll take care of it.
31:18 Talk to your brother.
31:20 We'll take care of it.
31:22 You can beep this.
31:24 You can beep it.
31:26 Sorry, son.
31:28 What's next, Axel?
31:30 Do you want to ask again?
31:32 It's really my fault.
31:34 It's really my fault.
31:36 You're to blame.
31:38 Okay.
31:40 But,
31:42 why is it your fault?
31:44 Because you didn't feel it.
31:46 What happened to Erwan?
32:02 He's celebrating his birthday.
32:04 Is that why you're celebrating
32:06 your death anniversary?
32:08 I'm just joking.
32:10 Who's to blame?
32:12 The one who went here,
32:14 or the one who gave you
32:16 and then, it's gone?
32:18 The one who gave me.
32:20 You gave me everything
32:22 and then, it's gone.
32:24 All your efforts are gone.
32:26 It's not consistent.
32:30 It's not consistent.
32:32 What's your address?
32:38 Why?
32:40 I want to know the address of your parents.
32:42 It's not consistent.
32:44 Daniel.
32:46 Daniel.
32:48 The one who gave me.
32:50 It's your fault that you gave him.
32:52 The one who gave me.
32:54 Usually, it's the men
32:56 who are really in love.
32:58 They're really popular.
33:00 They give everything.
33:02 Chocolates, hotdogs, hotdogs.
33:04 And then,
33:06 later on, they get used to it
33:08 that it's gone.
33:10 That's why self-awareness is important
33:12 to guys.
33:14 You should also assure
33:16 that you're doing what you used to do
33:18 when you were courting.
33:20 Our girlfriends should also
33:22 look at us as if we're still courting.
33:24 For me, it's the one who gives.
33:26 But it should be consistent.
33:28 Did you make Derrick to give?
33:30 No.
33:32 Derrick just got fat.
33:34 For me, it's the one who used to give.
33:36 The one who has a fault.
33:38 Because at first,
33:40 when we were courting a girl,
33:42 we promised her heaven and earth.
33:44 We wanted to show her
33:46 that she's the one we love.
33:48 We can do it.
33:50 That she's the princess.
33:52 And then, she suddenly disappears.
33:54 She loves you.
33:56 She saw that in you at first.
33:58 What if it's not the same at the end?
34:00 That's why we need to be resistant.
34:02 Because a real man has a resistance.
34:04 Oh!
34:06 Rhyming!
34:08 Because a real man
34:10 is a stubborn man.
34:12 Because
34:14 when you're courting,
34:16 you should introduce yourself.
34:18 You shouldn't just be a fool.
34:20 When you're courting, you should show
34:22 that you're not a fool.
34:24 Who will you give the green flag?
34:26 I'll give it to Jam.
34:28 What did Jam say?
34:30 A man should have a resistance.
34:32 Oh!
34:34 Boom!
34:36 She chose Jam.
34:38 Congrats, Jam.
34:42 But here are the searches that you didn't choose.
34:44 Christine, introduce yourself.
34:46 Number one.
34:48 Hello, Christine.
34:50 Hello.
34:52 Thank you for the opportunity
34:54 to meet you.
34:56 Actually, you're the name of my last ex.
34:58 So, nice meeting you.
35:00 And I'm happy for you.
35:02 And I hope that you'll see
35:04 Jam, your position guide.
35:06 Thank you.
35:08 Thank you, Danielle.
35:10 Here's another search that you didn't choose.
35:12 Introduce yourself, Axel.
35:14 Number two.
35:16 Do you know Axel?
35:18 My favorite.
35:20 Yes!
35:22 The resurrection of cheeksers.
35:24 How about the hands?
35:26 Yeah.
35:28 Hey!
35:30 That's not allowed.
35:32 That's bad. You don't do that.
35:34 You ask for permission.
35:36 You know you can be demanded for what you're doing.
35:38 You don't do that.
35:40 You can't be
35:42 the one who steals kisses.
35:44 Sorry.
35:46 Christine,
35:48 thank you.
35:50 Even if you didn't choose me, it's okay.
35:52 Because you're the name of my ex.
35:54 He ruined my life before.
35:56 But he's kind.
35:58 Good luck.
36:00 Thank you.
36:02 Thank you, Axel.
36:04 Don't do that. That's bad.
36:06 I'll hurt you.
36:08 Just kidding.
36:10 Okay, Derek.
36:12 What does your ex want to say to Christine?
36:14 I want to say to you, Christine,
36:24 I'm sorry.
36:26 I'm sorry for being inconsistent.
36:28 I'm sorry if you feel
36:32 that I didn't give you value as a person.
36:34 And I didn't give you back all the effort
36:36 that you gave me.
36:38 Maybe, the saying is true.
36:40 Don't abuse a kind heart.
36:42 You may never be offered one again.
36:44 So,
36:46 I realized that
36:48 when you're tired,
36:50 I understood that.
36:52 Take care.
36:54 I love you.
36:56 Christine has something to say to you.
36:58 For you, Derek,
37:02 I want you to take care.
37:06 Take care of yourself.
37:08 Because
37:10 I'm not there to take care of you.
37:12 Fulfill your dreams.
37:16 And be happy.
37:18 Because
37:20 when I see you happy, I'll be happier.
37:22 That's all.
37:24 Always be beautiful.
37:26 That's all.
37:28 Derek, what do you want to say to Jam?
37:30 Go there. It's not Jam.
37:36 You heard
37:38 our story earlier, right?
37:40 So, it's like...
37:42 It's so hard for me
37:48 because I'm still single.
37:50 But,
37:52 I just want to tell you that
37:54 I hope that
37:58 you can enjoy
38:00 the wealth
38:02 that you can get
38:04 from her.
38:06 So, take care of her.
38:08 Jam,
38:12 you can put Christine aside.
38:14 Christine,
38:28 be Jam.
38:30 Thank you.
38:32 Your heart will be broken
38:36 several times.
38:38 But, it can rest
38:40 with the person for you.
38:42 This is especially for you.
38:44 We'll be back for "It's Showtime."
38:46 Live from the "It's Showtime"
38:56 studio,
38:58 we're going to
39:00 study the secret
39:02 of the wide range
39:04 of sounds
39:06 from different regions.
39:08 This is called
39:10 "The School Showdown."
39:12 Good morning, people!
39:22 I'm Andrea.
39:24 Welcome to Ang Dios Gugman Catholic School
39:26 Incorporated, Iloilo City.
39:28 I'm a grade 11 student.
39:30 I want to join
39:34 the Conservatory of Music.
39:36 I'm a member of a choir
39:40 in our school and community.
39:42 When it comes to singing,
39:44 I'm a fighter.
39:46 In fact, because I always win,
39:48 I'm not allowed to join
39:50 singing contests in our school.
39:52 But, I'm still happy
39:54 because I'm the one performing
39:56 in my program.
39:58 In my singing,
40:00 I'll prove that our Ilonggos
40:02 should be heard
40:04 by the whole world.
40:06 The charismatic voice
40:12 of Ang Dios Gugman Catholic School
40:14 Incorporated
40:16 will be shown
40:18 by Andrea Legada.
40:20 [cheering]
40:22 [music]
40:26 Hello, Madlang people!
40:34 I'm Siegfried and welcome to my school,
40:36 St. Paul University Philippines.
40:38 When I was young,
40:44 I was curious about the recipe
40:46 for food in restaurants.
40:48 That's why I took a course
40:50 in Hospitality Management
40:52 and one day, I want to be a chef.
40:54 This is one of the places
40:58 where our school is located, our chapel.
41:00 Here in Alfresco,
41:04 is one of my favorite places.
41:06 Now, I'm not just a pageant winner
41:08 because I'm also a game
41:10 that will make the whole Madlang eat.
41:16 Let's welcome the chef
41:18 of St. Paul University Philippines
41:20 to give a show,
41:22 Siegfried Catawa!
41:24 [cheering]
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44:22 Siegfried Catawa of St. Paul University Philippines!
44:30 Aww, she's crying!
44:34 Why are you crying?
44:36 I'm about to cry!
44:38 Are you okay?
44:40 Water. Tissue.
44:42 Stretcher.
44:44 You need water?
44:46 Tissue.
44:48 While they're getting water,
44:50 we'll bring back Andrea
44:52 to join Siegfried in the entablado.
44:54 Wow.
44:56 Oh my, you're the one who made her cry.
44:58 Andrea, she's crying.
45:00 Oh, Andrea, did you make her cry?
45:02 No.
45:04 Why are you crying?
45:06 I died.
45:08 For three consecutive months.
45:10 And my last,
45:12 my nephew,
45:14 I couldn't go because of TNT.
45:16 So, it's really,
45:18 the song hurts.
45:20 This is really TNT.
45:22 It's really your fault.
45:24 The lyrics are "in the next life".
45:26 Yeah.
45:28 "Tagos, tumagos."
45:30 "Nanuot, tumimo."
45:32 "Pumasok, sumuot."
45:34 "Nanuot, sumalubsob."
45:36 Yes.
45:38 You're okay.
45:42 You're happy.
45:44 You're like Laike Estrella.
45:46 Thank you.
45:48 I'm just kidding.
45:50 Just kidding.
45:52 Andrea is from Ang Dios Gugma
45:54 Catholic School, Incorporated.
45:56 Is that right?
45:58 Yes.
46:00 Is that the name?
46:02 Love, right?
46:04 Ang Dios Ang Magal Gugma.
46:06 God is Love Catholic School.
46:08 I love you.
46:10 God is Love Catholic School, Incorporated.
46:12 That's why she called you Jesus.
46:14 Yes.
46:16 Representation.
46:18 She really represents her school.
46:20 Not the religion.
46:22 It's not the same.
46:24 And God, of course.
46:26 God is number one.
46:28 Yes.
46:30 Miriam?
46:32 Miriam Codd.
46:34 Miriam from Katipunan.
46:36 St. Paul.
46:38 Where's your school?
46:40 Tugigaraw City.
46:42 In Manila, it's all girls, right?
46:44 Yes.
46:46 In your school, it's co-ed.
46:48 In your school, all girls, co-ed?
46:50 No.
46:52 What do you mean?
46:54 There are choices, right?
46:56 Boys?
46:58 Yes.
47:00 In Miriam, it's co-ed?
47:02 No, not in college.
47:04 Not in college?
47:06 High school.
47:08 It's true, you're in.
47:10 In college, there are boys,
47:12 but they're deaf students.
47:14 Majority women.
47:16 Majority girls.
47:18 It's different, right?
47:20 In New York City and college,
47:22 there are boys.
47:24 What school were you in?
47:26 In high school?
47:28 College of St. Rosa and Angelicum College.
47:30 Then you're the boy school.
47:32 No, I was an artist.
47:34 I was an artist.
47:36 The other one, you can't be an artist.
47:38 In College of St. Rosa.
47:40 What's your school?
47:42 Don't say it's embarrassing.
47:44 Why?
47:46 They'll get mad.
47:48 It's an international school.
47:50 Ridley International School.
47:52 Ridley International.
47:54 Ridley.
47:56 Ridley's believe it or not.
47:58 Ridley International is good.
48:00 Isn't it Juicy Fruit?
48:02 Riglis.
48:04 Riglis?
48:06 Riglis.
48:08 Juicy Fruit.
48:10 Was your performance by Juicy Fruit
48:12 juicy?
48:14 Let's ask the judges.
48:16 Let's hear her comment.
48:18 Judges, between Escalante.
48:20 Hello, Madlang people.
48:22 Good afternoon.
48:24 Andrea,
48:26 you have such a bright
48:28 personality.
48:30 You're so sunny on stage.
48:32 And your singing voice is so natural.
48:34 It's like
48:36 your speaking voice
48:38 when you cross the singing,
48:40 it's still natural.
48:42 It's raw.
48:44 Now, when you become a singer,
48:46 you need to use
48:48 your body.
48:50 [silence]
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