It's Showtime: College instructor, paulit-ulit na niloko ng dating karelasyon?! (EXpecially For You)
Aired (May 28, 2024): Sa loob ng 12 years na relasyon ni Marianne sa kanyang ex, limang beses na raw palang siyang niloloko nito at naging cycle nalang daw ang ginawang panloloko sa kanya ng kanyang ex dahil pinapatawad niya pa rin ito. #GMANetwork
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00:00 Let's talk about what happened to you.
00:03 What are the things that make you so stubborn?
00:06 What are the moments in your life that you don't listen to him?
00:10 - Is it about love? - Yes.
00:13 - Why? - There was an instance
00:17 when my ex cheated on me.
00:19 - There was an instance or there were instances? - There were instances.
00:23 - Because I read 5 of those in the book. - That's a lot.
00:26 - There were instances. - How old were you then?
00:30 It started... The first was the first year.
00:35 - The first year. - The first year you cheated? - Yes.
00:38 How many times did you cheat?
00:42 - Four, five. - Five?
00:44 - Five times. - Five times.
00:45 - My ex told me that. - Oh, you talked to your ex?
00:49 Yes, our neighbor.
00:52 Our neighbor.
00:54 - You cheated four to five times, right? - Yes.
00:57 How long was that?
00:59 12 years.
01:01 It became a vicious cycle.
01:05 You'd cheat again and again.
01:08 He'd get mad and you'd forgive him.
01:10 After a while, you'd cheat again and you'd forgive him.
01:15 And sometimes, you'd get sick from his cheating. You know him, right?
01:19 - Not really. - Oh, I read another book.
01:22 - Oh, that's not it. - Maybe it was yesterday.
01:24 - It was with Joe Adil. - No.
01:26 Did he promise to change?
01:29 Yes, after we reconciled, he did change.
01:35 But as time passed, he'd cheat again and again.
01:40 Why did you still hold on to him?
01:46 Because you love him differently.
01:50 You'd forgive him for everything he did.
01:53 You'd hold on to him.
01:55 You see him, but you don't see him.
01:57 You hear him, but you don't hear him.
02:00 You want to say something, but you can't.
02:03 Right?
02:04 What did Joe say to you about those issues that you don't listen to?
02:10 He'd always say, "It's a red flag. It's enough."
02:15 Was it a red flag term before?
02:17 - It was just yesterday. - Yes.
02:19 There was a time when he said it wasn't okay.
02:24 He'd say, "I'll make your eyes wide open."
02:27 His term was like having blinders.
02:29 - You can't see. - Yes.
02:31 - That's for horses, right? - Yes.
02:33 - That's what he said. - Yes.
02:35 - I didn't hear it. - I heard it.
02:37 - It's true. - You're okay with it.
02:39 What's your point?
02:41 - But it's true, right? The blinders. - Yes.
02:43 - I said it was a red flag. - That's what he said.
02:45 - I didn't hear it. - He has a point.
02:47 - I'll push him. - No.
02:49 I just said it was for horses.
02:51 See? He's still insisting.
02:53 But he's my best friend.
02:55 If you have a problem, you'll say it.
02:57 That's why when you're best friends, you can be brutally honest.
02:59 You're black.
03:01 You're really honest.
03:03 I thought it was a joke.
03:05 - She's honest. - Just kidding.
03:09 So, did you shout at him?
03:11 No.
03:13 He's not the one who shouts.
03:15 I don't listen to him.
03:17 - He's silent. - He only texts me.
03:19 How long is the silent treatment?
03:21 Not for a day.
03:23 I don't talk to him first
03:25 so that we can cool down.
03:27 Because when we're at the height of our emotions,
03:29 whatever I say,
03:31 he won't listen to me.
03:33 Question.
03:37 Are you close to his boyfriend?
03:39 I'll say the answer first.
03:41 - Answer? - Because she has a question.
03:43 - Answer. - Yes, ma'am.
03:45 - She has a question. - Yes, ma'am.
03:47 I'm sorry, Your Honor.
03:49 Answer.
03:51 Not really.
03:53 We're just friends.
03:55 - We're friends. - Are you a third wheel?
03:57 Not really.
03:59 I'm a fourth wheel.
04:01 Do you see what he does?
04:03 Yes.
04:05 What do you know
04:07 about what he did to Marian?
04:09 As a best friend,
04:13 you almost get angry
04:15 and angry.
04:17 You confront him.
04:19 You don't want to accept
04:21 what you see happening to Marian.
04:23 Maybe the third
04:25 and fourth cheating
04:27 of the guy.
04:29 The effect on him is really bad.
04:31 He cries, he doesn't eat.
04:33 Does he cry to you?
04:35 - Yes. - He cries?
04:37 I take him to my house
04:39 because he can't go to work.
04:41 Oh, so you can't teach
04:43 in class.
04:45 By that time, I don't have a teaching job.
04:47 I'm full-time
04:49 administrative worker.
04:51 He can't go to work.
04:53 Yes. So I take him to their house.
04:55 He doesn't eat for a few days.
04:57 Sometimes I see him just lying on the floor.
05:01 Maybe he's just lying on the floor
05:03 eating.
05:05 He's lying on the floor.
05:09 I see him just lifting the door
05:11 and his slippers.
05:13 It's really painful.
05:15 That's how you feel
05:17 the pain that you can't get up.
05:19 It's like in the movie.
05:21 It's painful, it's touching
05:23 the wall.
05:25 There's no toilet, no bath,
05:27 nothing.
05:29 You allowed that to happen?
05:31 Did he push
05:33 the guy? - No.
05:35 It didn't reach that level because I don't have
05:37 the energy to do that.
05:39 I can't fight it.
05:41 I'm more concerned about his well-being.
05:43 But didn't the guy approach you
05:45 to help you get back with Mario?
05:47 Oh, no.
05:49 No, he didn't push you.
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