Pelakon, jurulatih pasukan sorak & bekas finalis Dewi Remaja 2019, Myra Natasya membuat pendedahan baru-baru ini menerusi hantaran Instagram Story mengenai perbuatan bapanya, Halim Othman yang telah menukar maklumat pada surat beranaknya dengan memasukkan namanya tanpa pengetahuan ahli keluarga lain.
Halim yang juga merupakan bekas penyampai radio popular dikhabarkan melakukan perbuatan itu secara senyap-senyap ketika pasangan anak beranak itu membuat pendedahan eksklusif kepada rakan media mengenai hubungan mereka sekitar tahun 2022.
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Halim yang juga merupakan bekas penyampai radio popular dikhabarkan melakukan perbuatan itu secara senyap-senyap ketika pasangan anak beranak itu membuat pendedahan eksklusif kepada rakan media mengenai hubungan mereka sekitar tahun 2022.
#majalahremaja
#dewiremaja
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00:00 Okay, so the story I uploaded yesterday is a recent incident.
00:04 I just went to Osaka this week.
00:07 When I arrived at Osaka, I received a message from my mum.
00:10 She said, "Just to let you know, 3 years ago, your dad went to Japan and he changed the white paper in your birth certificate."
00:17 I was shocked.
00:18 So I asked my mum if I could see the birth certificate.
00:21 She said she didn't have the birth certificate, so I asked her.
00:24 "Hello, Usman. My dad. When I saw it, the birth certificate was changed."
00:29 That's when I was shocked.
00:33 I was heartbroken.
00:36 Because until now, the birth certificate was empty.
00:41 It means that the birth certificate has my name and my mum's name, but my dad's name is not in it.
00:49 So it's empty.
00:50 So when we saw a birth certificate that was changed after 27 or 28 years,
00:56 I didn't understand why it had to be changed.
01:01 If he was sincere about his good intentions, why didn't he tell me earlier?
01:06 Why did he have to hide it from me?
01:08 For me, when the name was changed, it violated my personal rights.
01:12 Because as humans, we have our names.
01:16 Our names represent who we are.
01:18 So even though my name was not changed, when we changed it to my birth certificate,
01:23 it became different. I felt like my rights as a human being were violated.
01:28 And the saddest thing is that since I was a kid, the person who took care of me wasn't my dad.
01:32 It was a Chinese man, my godfather, who took care of me since I was a kid.
01:37 So when I saw this new birth certificate, it had the information of the baby, the mother, the father.
01:43 And below it, there was a witness.
01:45 A witness who gave the permission to change or a witness who validated the birth certificate.
01:52 And the name of the baby was the name of the father who took care of me.
01:55 Even though he didn't know anything.
01:57 So when he was suddenly harassed in this story, and when we saw the name of the person who took care of us
02:03 as a witness who gave the information, it was just too much.
02:08 It was like a violation.
02:09 We were patient, we accepted what he did.
02:11 But when it comes to hurting people that I love so much, it was a violation of my name.
02:17 Okay, at first, I didn't want to ask. I wanted to attack.
02:21 But then my friend said, "No, you have to ask him what his motive was, why he did that."
02:26 So I WhatsApped him and asked, "Why is your name on my birth certificate? Who allowed you to do so?"
02:31 So we were hoping for an explanation.
02:33 "Oh, I have a good intention, I want this."
02:35 We were hoping for an explanation, but what I got was a very painful statement.
02:41 He said, "My call. Without my genes, you won't be here. So be thankful."
02:47 Oh, he said, "Without my genes, you won't exist."
02:49 He meant that without his genes, I wouldn't exist.
02:53 So it was like, is this how a father should answer questions to his daughter?
02:58 Okay, when did you start to complain? I mean, last year or last two years, right?
03:02 For 27 years, I complained every day.
03:05 He didn't tell anyone, "You're my dad."
03:07 Complaining, asking for my consent.
03:09 "No, no, no."
03:10 But when we got our name, we had our own name in the industry, he was also open-minded.
03:16 I think we respected that. We were so happy.
03:18 He tried. He tried so hard to be a father.
03:21 But the truth is, he never was a father in my life.
03:25 So, for example, today you're 30 years old, and you suddenly have a career,
03:29 you want to be a father, you must be feeling uncomfortable.
03:32 So, after we finished the statements we gave, we went on talk shows and everything,
03:38 after that, it was over.
03:39 Our relationship ended there, and then we didn't talk.
03:41 From 2020 until this week, we didn't talk at all.
03:45 We didn't go to parties. That's it.
03:49 We went out to eat for a meal, that's all.
03:53 That's it.
03:55 Before I asked for his explanation, I asked my mum,
04:02 "Why did you let him do this?"
04:04 She said, "Oh, maybe he had good intentions."
04:06 For me, if he had good intentions, he would have discussed it with us.
04:09 If he had good intentions, he would have told us at that time,
04:11 not just kept it a secret for years.
04:14 For example, if I didn't tell him this week, I would never know forever.
04:17 Until when would I not know?
04:19 If he didn't want to explain, at least he would have talked to my mum,
04:22 told her why he did that.
04:23 So, he didn't give my mum any explanation.
04:26 When I asked him, he said, "My mum is at fault too, because she knows."
04:29 So, if the whole world wants to be blamed, my mum must be blamed too.
04:32 So, I didn't understand.
04:34 I just wanted to know why he did that, and all I wanted was an apology.
04:39 I asked my mum, I said, "I'll give him one week to apologise to me,
04:42 and explain to me."
04:43 When my mum said she didn't want to apologise, she didn't want to explain.
04:45 She said, "It's all in the past now."
04:47 That's how it is.
04:48 [silence]