Chuyện Chưa Kể #58_ NỖI ĐAU của con cái khi bị chính gia đình mình PHÂN BIỆT ĐỐI XỬ

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02:51 I didn't have to do anything. I just had to do what my mom said.

02:55 Mom said I was young, so I should listen to the adults.

02:58 So why didn't your father be the person you proposed your wishes to?

03:05 Because at home, I had my mother. My father was a teacher. My mother was the principal.

03:14 My mother had a plan that she had to make everyone do it.

03:21 My father was a very gentle and easy-going person.

03:26 He listened to my mother. He did everything she said.

03:29 So your father couldn't decide for you.

03:33 Yes, he couldn't.

03:34 So he told me to ask my mother.

03:37 What was your wish that your mother didn't accept?

03:43 At that time, I wanted to buy a computer, but I didn't have a laptop.

03:53 My mom didn't allow me to buy it.

03:56 She said it was unnecessary.

03:58 I wanted a normal phone to call my family when I needed it.

04:03 My mom said I didn't need it.

04:07 But when it came to my brother's turn,

04:09 I was ready to buy anything he wanted.

04:12 From a laptop, a computer, or a phone.

04:17 My mom was ready to spend money to buy it for him.

04:19 I had enough money to buy it myself.

04:25 So what was the reason that your mother responded to your brother's wishes?

04:40 My mom said that my brother was younger than me.

04:44 He needed more attention from his parents.

04:47 I would buy him whatever he wanted.

04:50 My brother was always with my mom.

04:54 I still remember that I was single at that time.

04:56 But my brother was still with my mom until he was in grade 2.

04:59 We talked more and hung out more.

05:03 We were more like-minded.

05:04 So my mom was always ready to do anything for my brother.

05:08 I heard that your mom was angry at you.

05:11 I'm not going to say the right or wrong.

05:13 But I'm not sure if she was angry at you.

05:18 But if she was, she would use her anger on you.

05:23 Yes, she did.

05:24 Besides studying, were there any other things that made you happy?

05:30 Yes.

05:31 For example,

05:33 I was very hard-working.

05:34 I worked from home.

05:40 I cleaned the house.

05:43 I even did my personal hygiene.

05:46 I also ate.

05:50 Did you have any problems at that time?

05:53 Yes.

05:54 I was very careful with my diet, sleeping, and personal hygiene.

06:02 Did your brother have any problems?

06:05 No.

06:07 Because he was not good at talking.

06:12 So my mom didn't scold him much.

06:15 So there was no reason for you to look at him.

06:18 But you had a reason to scold him.

06:20 He knew how to talk.

06:22 I don't know if he knew how to talk.

06:24 But my mom didn't have the material to scold him.

06:27 And about how he knew how to talk,

06:30 when my mom was angry,

06:33 or when she said something,

06:35 the attitude that I had to respond to my mom,

06:37 was it a problem to make my mom angry?

06:41 The attitude here doesn't mean I'm bad.

06:43 But first, my face for my mom,

06:47 it was a face.

06:48 Of course, I didn't mean to be bad.

06:50 But maybe my frustration, my sadness,

06:54 was exposed,

06:56 so my mom used the words "saying something is a problem"

06:58 or "saying something is a face"

07:00 "saying something is a face"

07:02 Or sometimes I was a friend.

07:06 Did you?

07:07 I didn't.

07:08 Because I was afraid of my mom.

07:11 When my mom was angry, I didn't dare to look at her.

07:14 What did you do?

07:15 I was silent.

07:16 My dad also said less.

07:18 When my mom was angry, he said less.

07:22 You were almost silent.

07:24 And that silence was defined by your mom as "blank".

07:29 That's right.

07:31 While your brother could have a continuous explanation.

07:35 He knew how to talk and explain.

07:37 And your mom defined that continuous explanation as

07:40 "knowing how to explain".

07:42 It made your mom understand the problem

07:45 while you were a silent,

07:48 silent girl.

07:50 Did your mom feel happy when she gave birth to you?

07:54 I only heard this from my grandma.

07:58 Before I got my dad,

08:00 I had a friend in Hanoi.

08:02 He was a police officer.

08:04 But my grandma didn't like the Southerners getting their dad.

08:07 Because she thought my mom would go there.

08:10 So my grandma stopped me

08:12 and asked my mom to break up

08:15 to choose my dad for my mom.

08:18 I think

08:20 my parents got married after a year.

08:24 Maybe their love wasn't deep enough.

08:27 Their love wasn't deep enough.

08:29 But I was like my dad.

08:32 Everyone said I was born like my dad.

08:35 What happened after that?

08:36 4 years later, my mom gave birth to my brother.

08:39 But he was like my mom.

08:42 After 8th or 9th grade?

08:46 After I finished high school,

08:48 I wanted to study journalism at Nhan Van University.

08:52 But my mom didn't allow me to follow her education.

08:57 I understood that

08:59 I was suitable for events,

09:03 TV or journalism.

09:05 That's my favorite job.

09:06 My mom registered me for the exam.

09:09 She only asked me to study and take the exam.

09:12 She didn't need to study at other schools.

09:16 I just had to register and take the exam.

09:18 I told my mom that I didn't want to study.

09:23 Because I wasn't good enough

09:25 to tell others.

09:28 I thought I wasn't suitable to be a teacher.

09:31 Why did you choose journalism?

09:35 I like art,

09:38 movies and music.

09:40 I won't deny your feeling

09:44 about right or wrong.

09:47 But sometimes,

09:49 we have to make a decision

09:52 in our life.

09:56 We have to make a decision for ourselves

09:58 and for others.

10:00 Especially for my mom.

10:01 Maybe she was very optimistic.

10:03 I agree.

10:04 She didn't understand my feeling.

10:06 I agree.

10:07 I think for my mom.

10:10 Of course, she always thinks I'm right.

10:13 The reason why she thinks I'm right

10:15 is because

10:17 I made her think I'm right.

10:19 For example,

10:21 I told her that I was too shy

10:23 and I couldn't teach.

10:26 She said she wanted to study journalism.

10:28 Do you think it's a problem?

10:30 Yes.

10:31 I couldn't convince her to believe me.

10:35 I told her that

10:37 she didn't understand me,

10:39 she didn't respect me

10:41 or she didn't listen to me.

10:44 She didn't feel the need to love me.

10:49 But when she talked to me,

10:51 I was afraid of her.

10:54 But I kept my silence.

10:58 Now, you talk to someone

11:01 who gives you the attitude

11:03 of not wanting to connect.

11:06 Are you crazy?

11:08 Yes.

11:09 If you're crazy, what will you do?

11:11 Just listen to what I say.

11:14 Especially,

11:16 I'm a mom now.

11:18 Don't talk about anything.

11:20 I don't have a mother's side.

11:23 That's what we need to see.

11:26 Why are you like this?

11:28 I don't deny that

11:30 you're right.

11:32 You're so strong.

11:35 But why are you so strong?

11:37 Sometimes, your actions

11:39 can boost your strength.

11:42 For example,

11:43 when you were choosing a career,

11:45 you were too shy

11:46 and couldn't teach.

11:48 You wanted to study journalism.

11:49 Why did you listen to me?

11:50 That's weird.

11:52 So I couldn't believe you.

11:54 Then what happened?

11:55 After I graduated,

11:57 my mom sent me a letter

11:59 to join a job school.

12:01 Was it a high school?

12:03 No, it was a junior high school.

12:05 In Tan Tao.

12:06 So you were assigned a job again.

12:09 Yes.

12:10 Were you happy when you got a job?

12:13 I wasn't happy when I got a job.

12:16 I felt bored when I got a job.

12:19 So when you graduated

12:21 and became a candidate for 4 years,

12:23 your brother joined a university.

12:27 Yes, I was preparing for that.

12:29 Did he get a job

12:31 from his school or his mom?

12:35 My brother liked to work at a bank.

12:38 He chose a school and went to school.

12:41 Were you upset?

12:43 We argued a lot

12:45 when we were at home.

12:47 We didn't get along.

12:49 My brother was so strict.

12:52 I never respected him.

12:54 What happened when you grew up?

12:56 We didn't talk much.

13:01 I couldn't get along with my brother and mom.

13:07 After I graduated,

13:11 I went to school and got a job.

13:13 I decided to live with my mom.

13:15 Did she allow you?

13:16 No.

13:17 Then what?

13:18 You have a problem.

13:20 I told my mom

13:22 that I didn't want to work at school anymore.

13:24 I had another job.

13:27 I worked online.

13:29 YouTube was popular at that time.

13:31 YouTube?

13:32 Yes, YouTube.

13:33 It was popular.

13:34 I posted ads to earn money.

13:38 I studied information technology.

13:40 It was easy for me.

13:43 I liked to post ads to earn money.

13:48 I decided to live abroad.

13:51 My mom didn't allow me to work at school.

13:55 I had to work at school because my mom was pregnant.

13:58 I didn't want to affect her reputation.

14:01 I said I wanted to apply for a journalism school.

14:06 I could afford it.

14:09 See?

14:11 Luckily, my dad was popular.

14:14 He said it wasn't suitable for me to study.

14:18 It was not effective.

14:21 He quit his job.

14:24 If he could earn money and live on his own,

14:27 he should choose the path he wanted.

14:29 My mom was angry.

14:31 She didn't want to do it.

14:33 My dad was sick in 2017.

14:38 When he gave birth,

14:41 she didn't want to argue with him.

14:45 She agreed to let me study journalism

14:52 and live abroad.

14:54 You were alone.

14:56 I went abroad in 2017.

15:01 7 years.

15:03 Did you often go home?

15:05 I often went home when he was sick.

15:08 He passed away in 2018.

15:11 We were in a tense relationship.

15:15 My mom was sad.

15:18 My brother quit his job.

15:21 I didn't listen to him.

15:22 I was angry.

15:25 I didn't want to see him.

15:27 We were in a tense relationship.

15:29 I went home only a few times a year.

15:33 How about now?

15:36 Now,

15:38 my mom and my brother are still living together.

15:41 But my mom changed the lock.

15:45 If I wanted to go home,

15:47 I had to call her first.

15:48 I could go home when she was home.

15:50 How often do you go home?

15:53 Now, when there is a meeting,

15:56 or my mom opens her mouth,

15:59 she will shout.

16:00 It's like

16:01 it's related to the paper signing in the ward.

16:05 I will go home when I sign.

16:07 I will go home when there is a meeting.

16:10 Do you go home on Tet?

16:12 I still go home on Tet.

16:13 I go home on Tet.

16:15 My mom said

16:16 I should go home when I finish eating.

16:19 I should go home early.

16:21 My brother will be sad if he sees me.

16:26 Does that mean you and your brother

16:28 can't face each other?

16:30 No.

16:31 When was the last time you two talked?

16:35 I think it was 2016.

16:38 Before going abroad?

16:41 Before going abroad,

16:42 we never talked.

16:44 And you have been silent until now?

16:45 After that,

16:46 we didn't talk

16:48 or ask each other anything.

16:53 We just looked at each other.

16:57 We just looked at each other.

17:02 You two must have met in his funeral.

17:05 Yes, but we didn't say anything.

17:07 We just looked at each other.

17:13 We didn't talk.

17:16 Before he passed away,

17:19 did you meet him?

17:23 Yes.

17:24 Did he tell you anything?

17:27 Yes.

17:28 He told me that

17:30 he was worried about me.

17:32 He didn't know how I would live.

17:36 Because my job was not good.

17:38 I could go to the US

17:40 and go to the US in the future.

17:42 I didn't know what would happen in the future.

17:43 So he said that

17:45 he would leave me

17:46 his land and property.

17:48 If I wanted,

17:49 I could build a house there.

17:52 If not, I could sell it.

17:54 I could use that money to pay the bank.

17:57 He said that he would be more assured.

18:00 He told me that.

18:02 Then he passed away.

18:04 So that was just a slip of the tongue.

18:06 Yes, just a slip of the tongue.

18:08 But that slip of the tongue

18:09 was not legal.

18:11 Then what?

18:12 I still had a job.

18:14 But the pandemic came

18:16 and it was very difficult.

18:18 I told my mom that

18:19 life was difficult.

18:21 Can you help me?

18:23 I want to have money to work.

18:26 But she insisted that she couldn't.

18:28 Because when we live outside,

18:29 we have to take care of ourselves.

18:31 We don't have the right to ask for anything.

18:34 I told her that my dad promised me

18:37 to take care of me.

18:40 But she said that was just a slip of the tongue.

18:43 It was not legal.

18:44 So she couldn't help me.

18:49 When the pandemic came,

18:51 I was also infected.

18:53 I was scared.

18:55 People around me were dying.

18:57 I was afraid that I couldn't get through.

19:00 But I wanted my mom to help me.

19:03 At least she wanted to come and see how I was doing.

19:07 I called home.

19:08 My mom said that my brother was sick

19:11 and was being taken to the hospital.

19:12 Mom had to take care of me.

19:14 So I had to take care of myself.

19:16 I contacted the health department

19:19 to ask them to take me there.

19:21 I couldn't give her medicine or help her.

19:24 Because she was taking care of me.

19:26 I was so disappointed and scared.

19:31 I was afraid that I couldn't get through.

19:33 No one would take care of me.

19:35 Your mom's words

19:37 hurt you a lot, didn't they?

19:40 It hurt me a lot.

19:42 What happened next?

19:44 I got through.

19:46 After the pandemic,

19:48 I started working again.

19:50 I was lucky that I could do what I love.

19:55 Now,

19:57 my relationship with my mom and brother

20:01 is not like a family anymore.

20:06 It's like

20:08 I'm just a family member.

20:10 It's like I'm an outsider.

20:13 But I feel that my mom still loves me

20:15 and cares about me.

20:17 When I got home,

20:20 she asked me if I had eaten.

20:22 If I needed anything, she would give me.

20:27 If I needed food, she would give me.

20:32 But my mom was a little afraid of my brother.

20:37 She was afraid that he would find out.

20:41 So she always hid it.

20:43 She didn't dare to tell anyone.

20:46 How did you and your dad's fortune

20:49 come to be?

20:51 I asked my mom

20:54 last year.

20:56 She said that

20:58 it was already in the government's plan.

21:01 Her father's land was in that area.

21:03 So it was not as valuable as before.

21:05 She asked me if I wanted to,

21:08 she would give it to me.

21:10 She didn't want to keep it.

21:12 But I asked her about the house,

21:15 my parents' house,

21:18 and the house in the area.

21:19 She said that she would leave it to my brother.

21:21 What's your opinion?

21:23 About money,

21:26 I used to earn a lot of money and lost it.

21:29 So I feel that money is not permanent.

21:32 I also lost it when I earned it.

21:35 So I can earn it now,

21:37 and I feel that it's okay.

21:39 But who knows what will happen in the future.

21:42 People are really looking down on the legal system.

21:46 The legal system has the right to decide

21:49 what the people of the country should do.

21:51 They should start working

21:53 to build the legal system

21:56 and the law.

21:58 But people only talk about it.

22:01 If I say that I don't care,

22:04 I really don't care.

22:06 I will forget about it.

22:09 I will forget about it.

22:12 I will forget about it until I have a life partner.

22:16 My life partner will not be proud of my legal rights.

22:21 When I have a son,

22:23 my son will not be proud of my legal rights.

22:26 So he will know that his father has the right to designate his father's property.

22:31 That's the real story.

22:34 It's still there.

22:36 It's still there.

22:38 If it's not, it has to be clear.

22:40 We have the law.

22:42 The law is very clear.

22:44 If that property belongs to my parents,

22:48 and now my brother and I

22:51 are the number one designers in my parents' property,

22:55 we have to follow the law.

22:57 There's nothing to be ashamed of.

22:59 I'm just saying that because my show doesn't have a legal advice.

23:03 So I don't say much.

23:05 I think that will be in the future.

23:08 The hard part is the love.

23:10 Now we're talking about the story of "it depends".

23:12 "It depends" here is "it depends on the heart".

23:15 And "it's a plus" here.

23:18 Right? It's a plus.

23:20 Money. How much is it?

23:22 How much is it?

23:23 Gold. How much is it?

23:25 It's all calculated.

23:27 It's the heart that can't be calculated.

23:29 It's the heart that can't be calculated.

23:30 So let's go back to this.

23:32 You're the mother.

23:33 You can't choose.

23:35 Yes, that's right.

23:36 If you can't let it go, let it go.

23:39 Because if I ask you if your mother loves you or not,

23:42 I think she does.

23:43 Right. I answer you that she does.

23:45 But why are you so weird?

23:47 Because you have your own problems.

23:49 That's right.

23:50 There are many problems that I don't know.

23:52 Your problem may be an unpleasant marriage.

23:55 Yes.

23:56 Maybe a deep feeling.

23:58 Yes.

23:59 Maybe the expectations of a child

24:02 that is based on the sensitivity of a mother.

24:06 You're worried about your imperfection.

24:08 Yes.

24:09 So you have to consider everything.

24:12 But your brother

24:14 can show the most perfect performance.

24:19 Yes.

24:20 So you say, "No, he can do it."

24:23 I can do it.

24:25 Because he can do it.

24:27 I love him as if he can do it.

24:31 You can do whatever you want.

24:33 I suddenly realized that

24:36 he's so lucky.

24:37 He can do anything.

24:39 Do you understand me?

24:41 He's also bad.

24:43 It means that my brother

24:45 will also be bad

24:46 in the end,

24:47 he will be a child

24:48 that is opposite to me.

24:50 Yes.

24:51 And as I described,

24:52 I'm a little afraid of him.

24:54 And I'm feeling like

24:57 I can't do anything.

24:59 But my mother's attitude is

25:02 that she's also suffering.

25:04 If I don't do anything for my son,

25:05 she won't be at ease.

25:07 She won't move out.

25:09 She will work hard.

25:12 Because this is a good thing.

25:15 It's easier than being bad.

25:17 I agree.

25:18 Because

25:19 with the worry of a mother,

25:21 she just wants you to be safe.

25:23 But for me, it's a disappointment.

25:26 I'm not happy.

25:28 We can see that

25:30 it's love but wrong.

25:32 And that wrong

25:34 is not lucky

25:35 because it comes from a love

25:37 that is too big.

25:39 I just want my son to be safe.

25:42 That's my mother's suffering.

25:44 The self-dependence that you mentioned,

25:46 it's not because you're too generous.

25:49 You should look at her suffering

25:51 to be self-dependent.

25:53 Why do we have to be self-dependent?

25:55 Because we don't have much time together.

25:57 We're family anyway.

25:59 Love is still mother and child.

26:01 Just like dad.

26:03 If I want to do anything for him,

26:05 it's not okay.

26:06 At some point,

26:08 we can just sit and be patient.

26:11 Just do something for mom.

26:14 If you're too busy,

26:16 you can't do it.

26:18 Right?

26:19 So,

26:21 why do we have to be generous?

26:23 What do people call you?

26:26 Miss.

26:28 For example,

26:29 someone watches this show

26:31 and they recognize you.

26:33 They share this show to you

26:35 and they say

26:37 "You're my son."

26:39 You and your mom

26:41 are watching this show

26:43 and you're so generous.

26:45 What do you want to say to her?

26:47 I hope

26:49 you can live a comfortable life.

26:54 You can do what you like.

26:58 Don't think too much

27:00 and don't do too much work.

27:02 Enjoy your life for your parents.

27:04 Take a break

27:06 and enjoy it.

27:08 Do you want to ask her out?

27:10 Well,

27:12 I'm not good at being with my brother.

27:15 I'm afraid of being in a fight.

27:18 I'm afraid of that.

27:20 I just want to remind you

27:22 before we break up.

27:24 Even if you show

27:26 your pure love to your lover,

27:28 but you're afraid of being

27:30 too arrogant and too mean,

27:32 how can she trust you?

27:35 That's all.

27:37 I hope that

27:39 you can connect with your mom.

27:43 Before you connect with your mom,

27:45 connect with yourself.

27:47 You know what you need

27:49 and what you need to do

27:51 to make yourself and others believe in you.

27:54 Thank you, Nguyen.

27:56 Thank you.

27:58 I understand you a lot.

28:00 I understand your relationship.

28:04 Everyone has their own story.

28:06 It's not just about someone.

28:08 It's about everyone.

28:10 It's about a family.

28:12 But many families feel

28:14 that it's about them.

28:17 The relationship between parents and children

28:19 is a very popular love story.

28:21 It's also a very popular mistake.

28:24 Sometimes we think that

28:26 we're in a relationship.

28:28 But sometimes,

28:30 it doesn't match with the other person's wish.

28:33 It creates scars

28:35 and tears.

28:37 It brings misunderstanding

28:41 and deep scars

28:44 to the distance

28:46 that sometimes can't be covered.

28:48 We hope that

28:50 we can use the material in our community

28:53 to build a happy life

28:55 in many aspects.

28:57 Family, marriage, raising children,

28:59 colleagues, work experience, etc.

29:02 Today is a family story like that.

29:05 It's a story of 30 years.

29:07 It's not a short time.

29:09 It's the will of a mother.

29:11 Let's slow down a bit

29:13 to see how our parents

29:15 are facing the European worries.

29:17 Now, we have to go to sleep.

29:19 The show is over.

29:21 See you next week.

29:23 Thank you for being with "Ai Cung Co Chuyen".

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