Aired (April 27, 2024): Bakit nga ba importante na may malalim na pagkakakilala sa isa’t isa ang isang couple?
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00:00 If there's a problem, I don't stop until it's resolved.
00:03 But how can you not stop?
00:05 Do you force it? Let's fix this.
00:08 Are you noisy? Are you loud?
00:11 How is your manner of resolving things?
00:14 Because sometimes your intention is good, but how do you do it?
00:19 That's what I want to know. How do you do your pursuit of resolving issues?
00:26 If the problem is small, I'll be more vocal.
00:30 How do you say it?
00:34 "Baby, I have this problem, but I can handle it."
00:38 Do you force it?
00:40 No, because I know I can resolve it.
00:43 But because he's my partner, I want him to know what's happening in my life.
00:48 Even if he hasn't told me anything.
00:51 I want him to listen.
00:54 How does he become a red flag when that happens to you?
00:58 How does he face your manner?
01:01 For him, it's not okay.
01:05 What do you mean?
01:07 It's not like everything will be okay.
01:09 It's always like, "No, later it will be okay."
01:12 That's how he handles it.
01:14 I feel like he's not serious in handling the problem.
01:19 Or maybe...
01:22 Christian is answering.
01:24 He's breathing deeply.
01:26 "I will protect myself!"
01:28 Okay, that's how you handle it.
01:33 You're not serious in handling the problem.
01:36 It's like, "Later it will be okay."
01:39 What can you say about that, Christian?
01:41 Actually, it's just my way of bringing positivity that the problem will be solved.
01:48 But that doesn't mean that I'm disregarding the problem.
01:52 I'm also concerned from time to time.
01:55 I'm also thinking of ways to resolve it.
01:58 But I can see that he's stressed.
02:03 So I will give him positivity from time to time.
02:06 That's how I handle it.
02:08 So you're asking him for advice to solve it right away?
02:12 Especially in work, we work.
02:15 So if there's a deadline, we'll just do it later.
02:18 It's like, "What if we both have to do it?"
02:20 He's not responding to what he's hearing.
02:22 I can see Christian's reaction.
02:25 And he's making a sound.
02:27 He's like, "Shh."
02:29 He's making a sound.
02:31 "Shh."
02:32 Like that.
02:34 Because, right?
02:36 Can you consider the red flag if you're not in the same way of facing the situation?
02:44 Discard.
02:46 Right?
02:47 Because, for example, one is active, the other is passive.
02:50 One is moving a lot, but the other is just small.
02:55 Thinking.
02:56 Thinking.
02:57 Calm.
02:58 I'm not being lazy.
03:02 But I'm doing something.
03:04 Right?
03:05 But I'm not doing it.
03:08 There are some who say, "You're not doing it. You need to see what you're doing."
03:13 There are some who are doing something, but you can't see it.
03:17 You don't know, but they're doing something.
03:20 Right?
03:21 It's like, you're not both being lazy.
03:24 "Why am I being lazy? You're not."
03:27 "So what's this? I'm the only one feeling stressed, and you're not?"
03:30 The other one can be lazy, but he knows how he's going to face it.
03:35 He won't be lazy.
03:37 But you just don't know how stressed he is.
03:40 Right?
03:41 Actually, it's harder to be stressed and quiet.
03:46 It's harder to not go out.
03:48 So you need to know your partner.
03:51 How he's going to face the situation.
03:54 "Ah, that's how it is, but he's doing something."
03:57 But if you don't know him, "Why is he like that? Why am I stressed? No."
04:00 "Does he not care? Am I the only one with a problem?"
04:04 "Is it right for me to do something?"
04:06 You said it, Cece. You need to know your partner.
04:09 Because that's how Erwin and I are. I'm the one who's always like, "Oh, you're the one who's like, 'Oh, no, no, no.'"
04:15 And he's the one who's calm.
04:16 It's like you're a bird.
04:18 I'm like that.
04:19 Sometimes he's angry, sometimes he's happy. It depends.
04:23 And he's just calm, but it doesn't mean he didn't do anything.
04:27 He has...
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