Kahey Faqeer - Host: Abdul Rauf - Speaker: Sarfaraz Shah
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An hour for spiritual education where our Speaker Sarfaraz A Shah will highlight the importance of Islamic teaching in our day today life and how we can balance it. As these days our young generation is going so far from these teachings but in this hour, we will give answers to those questions which are rising in their minds.
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03:51 So, then that does not go from the brain, it becomes a part of our life or it becomes a part of the body in their language
04:07 So, where ever there is a problem, the thing that we had read and understood, it has trained our brain
04:23 So, our brain will solve that problem according to the follicle. So, this is just a way of testing.
04:37 In practical life, for instance, if I come to you for an interview, you will see what my marks were, what my grade was, what was my position, who did I pass
05:05 You will not test my ability. Where the ability is tested, we are doubtful that they did not give us a job, they had already decided to give a job to their relative, but they did not give me
05:26 Or the person who has hired me, his marks are much less than mine. We do not know why the person was interviewing there
05:38 He was actually testing my ability, he has not decided on my marks, then this problem will arise
05:49 So, what we have to do is to run an expedition, first we have to change our way of testing
06:02 And the people who set the paper, they will have to make sure that they do not give questions that are taken out of the textbook
06:19 But the questions should be such that they can be tested that how much did I understand what I was taught
06:33 If I have understood, then I will answer the question in any way
06:43 But now it happens that if the question does not come from the textbook, then we start protesting that this paper was given out of the course
07:00 This should not happen. So, all the students here will study to understand, not to memorize
07:14 This will increase the ability of a person, in fact, I will say more than that, that the brain starts training
07:23 How to solve a problem
07:27 I remember a few days ago, I am studying at the Gammett College Lahore, the narrator is very influential in our country
07:37 And telling someone that you are doing it, you are also a narrator, it used to be a big deal, sometime in some time
07:43 So, two children were coming from the wrong side of the car, so their sticker was on the car, the narrator
07:51 So I stopped them and told them that you are doing this and that, so they told me to go ahead
08:00 So this difference is very scary, how to convince people on this
08:09 Like I often say that the topic of training, the era you are talking about, when you were studying
08:22 So not only did the teachers keep an eye on our behavior and attitude, but the seniors also kept an eye
08:34 And there was a pride of my institution that if I am doing something that I should not be doing
08:47 So if there is a senior, he will immediately stop me, that be ashamed, despite being a narrator you are doing this
08:58 So I will stop him, because in the first year itself this behavior will start with me, the teachers will stop me immediately
09:09 The teachers were not only limited to teaching, they also kept an eye on our social behavior, now they will stop
09:21 That is not there anymore, now when they are not allowed to stay at home, parents are so busy
09:33 To earn maximum money, so that they can fulfill their life's needs, that they do not have time
09:41 When they come home, they are so tired, so broken, that they find mental relief
09:50 So they will immediately sit in front of the TV, and they do not have time to keep an eye on the child's social behavior
10:02 Keep an eye on the child's manners, keep an eye on the child's manners
10:11 But where the parents are sensible, and they are making their own sacrifices, they raise the children
10:18 So we have to deal with very good children, very reasonable children
10:26 These are the people whose parents have time to raise their children
10:35 So instead of blaming the children, we should blame ourselves
10:43 That we are compromising the upbringing of the children for our own entertainment
10:51 It is very important to give time to the children
10:56 Shah sahab, there is a person who has written his issue, and he says that when the children were growing up, he came to Pakistan from Canada
11:09 But here in business, I am constantly suffering losses
11:14 Now I am in such a difficult situation, that should I go back to Canada and live in the same environment where the children can be spoiled
11:23 Or should I face difficult circumstances here, I don't know what to do
11:30 Look, here also, it is not that everyone has a loss in business
11:38 I have seen the big people flourishing, very quickly
11:45 So, this is a good thing that he did, for the upbringing of his children
11:53 So that they get their own environment, instead of living in a foreign environment, and they carry the same values
12:02 This is a very good step, for the sake of the children, he made a sacrifice, and came
12:08 But what he is saying that there is a loss in business, we should see that it is not that 100% people do business and lose
12:20 People go up very fast
12:24 Shah sahab, we have to stop here for a short break, permission is given, after the break you will be back
12:29 Yes, I am back, after the break, Shah sahab, from where we started, the system was broken, we started from there
12:36 Is it necessary to complain to Allah in difficult circumstances, or is it better to be thankful to Allah?
12:43 I think, patience is very important, and the reward for patience is very big
12:57 That Allah is with those who are patient
13:01 As far as complaining is concerned, Allah has clearly told us in the Quran that man does not face any problem except his own
13:13 So, we should review ourselves, that we are not doing something that is lacking, and that is why we are facing difficulties
13:24 So, we should sit and do our own analysis, that where are we making mistakes, where are we making mistakes
13:34 Sometimes it happens that I try a lot, I work hard, but I am doing it in the wrong direction
13:44 So, an example from everyday life is that if I have to go to Islamabad, and I start running on the Karachi road
13:56 I am running, I am making an effort, but the more I make an effort, the further I will go from my destination
14:05 Sometimes it happens that our direction of making an effort is not right, so we should see if we are doing it in the right direction or not
14:20 I remembered a poem by Munir Niazi, that the path was from the wrong beginning, this was understood from the journey's journey
14:31 In the end, I realised that I was on the wrong path
14:36 Ok, so this is a question from a lady, and she says that my brother has taken over our property
14:47 And we are helpless, and we wish that he gives us our share according to the Shariah
14:55 So, can we ask for a prayer, because the path of the law is very long, and there are many difficulties on that path
15:03 We can ask God to give our brother guidance, that according to the rules that you have set, he should give us our legal rights
15:19 And along with that, we can request our brother politely that this thing will remain here
15:38 And we will not be going with it, so we will go with our actions, and on that basis, we will decide
15:51 So, we should be unjust for the person who is not going with us, and this is not a good thing
16:06 So, you should give us our share according to the rules of the Shariah
16:14 We should request the elders to explain this to your brother
16:20 So, when there is pressure like this, we hope that God willing, we will get our share
16:29 And we will get a positive response. If we look at this, the complaints that we have, or the problems in the business
16:40 Or the problems here, they are increasing, and the situation is also such that the problems are increasing
16:49 So, as you were saying, if we start doing something like this, it will take us at least 5 years to get out of this
17:01 Until then, we should adopt some other methods, or we should adopt the methods of worship
17:07 As Wasif Ali used to say, we should pray to God that he forgives our mistakes and gives us a way out
17:19 This is true, and there are many wise elders like Wasif Ali, and his teachings are full of wisdom
17:39 But along with that, effort is also important. God likes those who are always working hard like a soldier
17:54 So, it is important to put in effort practically, and along with that, to pray to God for His help and guidance
18:11 God definitely helps
18:14 These days, there is a question on social media that the day of judgement is near, and the time for the arrival of the Dajjal is near
18:27 Is there any truth in this, or are people just talking nonsense?
18:34 Actually, no one has the time for this
18:45 We do take the day of judgement from the Quran, but we do not know how much time it will take according to the nature of nature
19:08 We do not know how much time it will take according to our time scale
19:16 But we should be prepared, as the day of judgement will come at the next moment
19:23 So, we should be prepared, and that is the duty of a person
19:29 Another question is about the teachers. I am a student of knowledge, and I have seen that the teachers of the olden days were teaching even after class
19:46 Our teachers are such that they are in a hurry to finish their period, and they run away
19:52 So, I think the basis of our bad habits is that the teachers have finished their responsible behaviour
20:03 I would like to draw your attention to a saying of Sheikh Saadi
20:17 Sheikh Saadi said that it is a big mistake to hold on to the mistake of someone older than you
20:30 So, the status of a teacher is very high
20:36 To hold on to a mistake of a teacher, in itself is a big mistake
20:48 But whatever he said is correct
20:55 Our behaviour has changed, so why should we single out a teacher?
21:02 Our behaviour has changed, with the passage of time, and with the force of circumstances
21:11 Our habits, our ways, our ways are changing
21:19 We will have to reform this system again
21:30 We have not only destroyed the system, we have not only broken it, we have destroyed it
21:45 So, until we don't come to the point where we can re-establish the system, the situation will not improve
22:00 If we try to destroy everything, it will take centuries
22:08 And the first thing that we have fixed today, by the time we reach the tenth thing, it will have already been destroyed
22:18 So, instead of individually fixing the components, we should re-establish the system
22:28 We should work on that, because what I often try to say is that
22:38 A person cannot measure his wealth and wealth, until he has established a reference for himself
22:55 When he looks at himself from there, he can measure his wealth and wealth
23:02 We are very lucky in this regard, because we are not like this since the beginning
23:11 Our affairs used to be very beautiful
23:18 So, when we consider that as a co-ordinate, that what we were 50 years ago, what we are today
23:28 Then we will have an idea of what we have lost and what we have gained
23:35 When we realise that, then we will reform ourselves
23:43 Then we will see why we were like this at that time and why we are like this today
23:53 We will start to reform ourselves if we remove the reasons that we have
24:01 We have destroyed that system and we are in this state
24:19 So, we should not fix the individual things, we should re-establish the system
24:25 So that the system can reform itself. In management, we say that the institution in which the system is working
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25:11 I will say the same thing again
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26:12 We should remember one thing that the teachers are a part of this society
26:19 They are among us and they have their needs to live
26:28 They have a minimum requirement
26:34 Until we ensure that we pay our teachers enough to live a comfortable life
26:46 Then we will have this complaint
26:49 We should pay our teachers enough and there is a bigger thing than that
26:55 In an educated society, the teacher gets a lot of respect
27:05 The principle of an institution is more powerful than a minister
27:15 The teacher does not have authority in his pen but the weight of his words is so heavy
27:25 That even the prime minister will respect the words of the teacher
27:33 So until we do not give such respect to the teacher in our society and he does not get enough compensation to live a comfortable life
27:48 Then we will have this complaint
27:50 So first we should remove the reason for the complaint
27:54 Then if there is a complaint, we can blame others
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28:36 I completely agree with him
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29:12 Why should I do such an exercise which is a waste of time
29:20 Then it will remain dark
29:23 But if a person says that it is okay, I will burn my candle and stand
29:30 If nothing else, then there will be light in the 10-foot radius
29:35 Then that person will come out with a candle and in his process, another person will come, then another, then another
29:46 So that the whole city will be illuminated by the candle light
29:50 Darkness will be removed
29:53 (Answering the question)
30:22 So this will not be the island of one person
30:29 In fact, the matter will increase in some time
30:34 By the way, he has said a very important thing
30:37 In a way, I used to do a program on television from PTV
30:46 So when we used to go and talk to people, it was the same 20-30 years ago
30:56 When we used to go and tell them that this is wrong, this is wrong, this is wrong, the answer was the same
31:01 That yes, how can I create an island of goodness
31:08 So the situation has not changed, it has been seen in so long
31:12 See, this is the reason, the answer you used to get that what can I do alone
31:18 That in 30 years, the situation has become worse than it was
31:25 But if at that time we somehow manage to convince them
31:32 That no sir, you can do a lot alone, you can get rid of this evil alone
31:42 So see what you do, a lot of people will come to your meditation
31:47 So the society will get better
31:50 You said something very important before, you said it in the last program too
31:55 And that was that we have become such a powerful medium for television
32:00 Through this, we can at least create personalities, people
32:06 Through dramas, through programs, who talk about this kind of thing
32:11 Unfortunately, that biggest medium, the strong, is being wasted
32:16 Where I always give an example of neighboring countries
32:19 That I watch their film or watch their TV
32:22 So there are a lot of people who promote goodness there
32:25 We are a little lacking in that
32:28 In our country, Allah will do, Inshallah, things will get better
32:37 There is no despair, the time will come, things will get better
32:43 But for this it is necessary to make an effort
32:48 Inshallah, thank you very much, the time for the program is ending
32:52 Before leaving, a request from you, give us your feedback
32:55 Keep sending us your questions
32:58 And Inshallah, we will keep answering you
33:02 We will keep answering Shah sahab
33:05 I always say that good deeds will be done for you
33:08 For life and for the hereafter
33:11 Now allow me, Allah Hafiz
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