It's Showtime: Carl Guevarra, ibinahagi ang kanyang heartbreak experience (April 13, 2024) (Part 2/4)

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00:00 So, you were there at his show.

00:02 Yes, and we were singing "Hindi Taya Pwede"

00:05 That's the song.

00:07 And then, the four of us were in the dressing room.

00:10 The five of us.

00:11 And I was like, "What's this? This is so awkward."

00:16 But when you were a guest, you booked it already.

00:19 That your talking stage is with your friend's girlfriend.

00:22 Because the story is,

00:24 because I knew she was there at the show,

00:25 I was going to surprise her with cookies.

00:28 She brought some.

00:28 She brought some cookies.

00:29 Did you buy it or did you bake it?

00:31 I baked it for my mom.

00:33 My mom's cookies are special.

00:36 So, what happened was,

00:37 because I was excited for that day,

00:39 I told my friend,

00:41 "Bro, I think I'm ready to take this to the next level.

00:45 I want to take her out.

00:46 I want to tell her that I'm really serious about this."

00:48 She said, "Oh, really? Who's this girl?"

00:50 I said, "So, she's..."

00:52 "Who?"

00:53 "Bro."

00:54 "Who?"

00:55 "She's the one."

00:57 She said, "Bro,

00:59 are you kidding?"

01:01 I was like, "No."

01:02 "She's Gariby."

01:03 "Is she the one you're talking about?"

01:05 "No, no. I only know Gariby."

01:07 "Oh, no. She's the one."

01:09 "Are you serious?"

01:10 "Yeah, why?"

01:11 She said, "Bro, she's been my girlfriend."

01:14 "Oh, so she's the one you're talking about?"

01:17 But the thing is,

01:18 because it's a secret,

01:19 no one knows about it,

01:20 but the two of them.

01:22 So, that's when she told me,

01:25 "Well, I'm trying to protect her also."

01:27 So, I was like,

01:28 "That's crazy."

01:30 Oh, so crazy.

01:32 And that's like 5 in the morning.

01:34 Then, we had a call time.

01:36 Same day for the show.

01:38 Oh, because the guest is early.

01:39 No, we talked at 5 in the morning.

01:40 Oh, because it's a morning show.

01:42 Morning show.

01:44 Morning or noon time.

01:45 That's how it is.

01:46 Because I woke up at 5.

01:48 I feel like your call time was 7 or 8 to rehearse.

01:51 Because you're going to perform at 11.30.

01:54 Morning show.

01:55 Soundcheck.

01:56 Soundcheck.

01:57 Taping.

01:58 Taping.

01:59 Flexi time.

02:00 Oh, my God.

02:01 Kyle, they're still there.

02:03 Your friend and your girl.

02:05 Okay, I'll tell you.

02:06 So, what happened is,

02:07 my friend and I had a fight.

02:09 Why did you fight with your friend?

02:10 She got mad at me.

02:12 Because she told me,

02:13 "Okay, bro, before I fight with her,

02:15 act normal."

02:16 That's what she told me.

02:17 So, my interpretation of "act normal" is,

02:18 "Let's give her the cookies.

02:19 They're already cooked."

02:20 Yeah, that's what Mommy Milly made us do.

02:22 So, I gave her the cookies.

02:23 But we didn't have a conversation

02:26 about anything.

02:27 I just gave the cookies.

02:28 And then,

02:29 our friendship was over.

02:31 We didn't talk.

02:32 Then,

02:33 Your friend or your girl?

02:34 My friend and my girl.

02:36 Because I wasn't existing anymore.

02:40 And that's the hard part of a secret relationship.

02:42 You don't have a partner.

02:43 You don't have accountability.

02:44 No one will say,

02:45 "Hey, what happened to you?"

02:47 Because you two are the only ones who know.

02:49 And it's hard to share

02:50 what happened to you.

02:52 Because they won't be able to relate.

02:55 Because they don't know.

02:57 But here's the thing.

02:58 When they broke up,

03:00 What was the last letter of your surname?

03:03 Okay, okay.

03:05 Don't say the girl's name.

03:08 Just her father.

03:10 Who's her father?

03:11 Just the show.

03:12 No, no.

03:13 Do you have a picture?

03:15 Singket.

03:17 Singket.

03:20 I'll show you.

03:22 Singket.

03:23 No, Lu.

03:24 Singket.

03:25 No, Luwa.

03:26 You're so cheesy.

03:28 Wait, wait.

03:29 I have something to tell you.

03:31 Maybe it'll be more concise.

03:33 More comprehensive.

03:34 More comprehensive.

03:35 Is it still the same?

03:36 Yes, it's still the same.

03:38 When they broke up,

03:40 we started talking again.

03:42 And this is where I became a jerk.

03:43 You're a jerk too?

03:44 I like her.

03:47 So when they broke up,

03:49 it was really clean.

03:51 We talked again.

03:53 So I thought that was it.

03:54 But question,

03:55 before you continued,

03:56 you said you were okay with it again.

04:00 You did not take that against her,

04:02 that you have a girlfriend,

04:04 you're entertaining me,

04:06 you're even sweet-talking me

04:08 during those moments.

04:09 Actually,

04:10 that was my lesson.

04:12 That was a red flag,

04:13 but I ignored it because

04:14 what felt good to me

04:16 was more important to me during that time

04:18 versus the red flags.

04:20 You felt really strong.

04:22 Yes.

04:23 And that's also the learning.

04:25 I want to talk about this

04:26 because I want to let everybody know

04:28 that not because you know a lot about relationships,

04:30 not because you've heard a lot,

04:32 it means you're foolproof

04:34 that you won't make mistakes in love.

04:36 How did you know that?

04:37 Because love is such a powerful feeling.

04:39 And it will make anyone fall for you.

04:42 So I am not shy to admit

04:45 that I became a jerk

04:46 even though I had red flags at the beginning.

04:49 When she talked to me again,

04:51 I re-engaged.

04:52 Although I felt that it was more real

04:54 because she was able to talk to my friends,

04:56 we were able to FaceTime.

04:57 My family was able to talk to each other,

04:59 my friends in the province were able to FaceTime.

05:02 So I thought that it was more real.

05:04 It was more of a game.

05:06 But,

05:07 maybe because of the nature of our job,

05:09 after a few months,

05:15 our problem was the pandemic.

05:17 So we were not allowed to meet

05:18 because we were locked in taping

05:20 and we also had to swap every now and then.

05:23 So we were not allowed to compromise

05:25 our health security and stuff.

05:27 But I was surprised that one time,

05:30 we saw an article

05:31 announcing that she is with another person.

05:38 And they are official,

05:39 it's out there,

05:41 they are celebrated,

05:42 they're a love team.

05:43 The other person is also a celebrity?

05:46 So you were double whammy.

05:50 What did you tell her?

05:52 Just one thing,

05:53 when you found out,

05:54 you shared with her,

05:55 with your friend,

05:57 your talking stage,

05:59 you have a boyfriend,

06:00 you know him, you know Guy.

06:02 But the guys in the group,

06:04 do you know each other's relationships?

06:07 Because there are girls,

06:09 right?

06:10 You're chatting, you're talking,

06:13 and they also have a lot of opinions about guys,

06:15 even about us, the gays.

06:16 But about guys,

06:17 do they also tell stories?

06:20 And then you ask for their opinions?

06:21 Do you have a say or not?

06:23 Actually, there's this thinking,

06:25 that when,

06:26 oh no, the guys are crying.

06:28 But to be honest,

06:29 sometimes,

06:30 the guys are more expressive

06:32 when they're hurt.

06:34 They're more noticeable,

06:37 the sadness,

06:38 or their feelings.

06:40 So us, in our group,

06:42 we're just supportive

06:46 of what we can give.

06:48 Did you tell them or did they feel what happened to you?

06:51 I told them.

06:52 That this is the situation.

06:54 Sheesh, congratulations, surprise.

06:57 This is what happened.

06:58 And I think,

06:59 in our group,

07:01 we trained ourselves to open up to each other.

07:05 Because at the end of the day,

07:07 you're just good with what you have.

07:09 Because we go through a lot of things,

07:11 that other people don't understand.

07:14 And there can be a lot of versions,

07:16 interpretations of other people

07:17 that we see from the outside.

07:19 But our truth,

07:21 the four of us,

07:22 we're the only ones who understand.

07:24 So I guess,

07:26 it's my personality,

07:27 I'm not afraid to share

07:29 what I'm going through.

07:31 Because that's how I cope.

07:32 That's how I cope with the pain.

07:34 Life just happens.

07:35 The second time,

07:36 did you knock on his door?

07:38 The second time,

07:39 the first time,

07:41 for girls and for gays,

07:42 the second time,

07:43 we'd already knock on their doors.

07:44 Because we're gay.

07:45 You didn't learn that.

07:46 Usually, the first time,

07:48 we just give advice.

07:49 We support each other.

07:51 But the second time,

07:52 the second time,

07:54 our friends were also fooled.

07:58 That's the feeling.

07:59 That's the general feeling of the group.

08:01 You were hurt.

08:02 Yes, because we were involved

08:04 in what's happening.

08:06 Right?

08:07 So we were like,

08:08 "Who is this?"

08:10 Believe it.

08:12 The reason why we want to protect her

08:14 is because I still believe

08:15 at the end of the day,

08:16 that she has a good heart,

08:18 she's a good person.

08:19 And maybe,

08:20 one way or another,

08:22 there's just something

08:23 that happened to her.

08:25 Maybe it's how the industry is.

08:26 Maybe it's how her past heartbreak

08:28 affected her.

08:30 We can't judge her.

08:31 She's just a girl.

08:32 You don't know.

08:33 It's like when we met,

08:36 maybe something happened to you.

08:38 Maybe you had a past.

08:40 No judgment.

08:41 Maybe something happened.

08:42 Maybe someone prayed for you.

08:43 Yeah.

08:44 But,

08:46 what happened to you

08:48 when that happened?

08:50 How broken were you?

08:54 To be honest,

08:56 I was also questioned by my worth.

08:59 And my place in this industry,

09:02 my life, my career.

09:03 Because it was a career move

09:04 more than anything.

09:06 That's how it felt for me.

09:07 Because when we were still talking,

09:10 there was also a gatekeeping.

09:12 You can't because you're not part of our world.

09:16 You're not accepted by her fans.

09:19 You're not allowed to be seen.

09:21 The handlers are mad at you.

09:23 But on the other hand,

09:26 it's okay.

09:27 Everybody's happy.

09:28 We don't hide it from your parents or anything.

09:30 So, I questioned myself,

09:32 "Is it like a job status thing?"

09:34 But then, I didn't have a chance to really deal with it.

09:37 To be honest.

09:38 Because we were also so busy.

09:39 We were touring all around the Philippines.

09:41 We were doing so much work.

09:42 I didn't have a chance to deal with it.

09:44 And all I had,

09:46 I just did was,

09:47 "Just accept it."

09:48 Because you can see it in your feed.

09:50 You can still see it.

09:51 Even when you look at it.

09:52 You can see it.

09:53 In fact, I have a guesting.

09:55 You'll meet them.

09:56 Yes, when the elevator opened,

09:58 I saw them.

09:59 They were being interviewed.

10:01 And I was like,

10:02 "Hey!"

10:03 And I walked.

10:04 Who are those people who were interviewed in the elevator?

10:06 Maybe you're not conscious.

10:10 But maybe it's one of your ways of coping.

10:12 Writing.

10:13 Because you wrote the song.

10:14 Correct.

10:15 That's true.

10:16 You shared what you felt.

10:18 But you have a few girlfriends, right?

10:20 The official or unofficial?

10:21 Official.

10:22 The official, two.

10:24 Two or three?

10:27 Maybe two.

10:29 I'm the one who knows.

10:31 Why do I know?

10:32 Because in our line of work,

10:35 I have a lot of experiences

10:38 that we don't label

10:40 because we're just stressed.

10:42 But if the feelings,

10:44 if what we feel is true,

10:46 I have a lot of...

10:47 Maybe I would count maybe five or six

10:50 that I really thought it was.

10:52 It hurts.

10:54 Especially the two times

10:56 when your heart was broken

10:57 by just one person.

10:58 You get hurt once, it hurts.

11:01 You get hurt twice, it hurts.

11:03 But the two times that happened,

11:04 and then the pain just hit you once.

11:06 It's like...

11:07 It's the same girl, right?

11:08 Yeah.

11:09 If you see each other again now,

11:12 what do you think you'll feel about her?

11:14 Is she still good to you?

11:16 Are you still okay with her?

11:18 Can she be your friend?

11:20 Right now, I think yeah.

11:24 Because I'm more there

11:25 because I want to celebrate

11:26 what's happening to you right now.

11:28 You look like you're very happy.

11:30 Things are going great for you.

11:32 Maybe it's part of loving someone,

11:35 you want them to be in the best state.

11:37 Right?

11:38 And I'm more there,

11:40 I can celebrate her wins

11:42 from afar.

11:44 Because I know that

11:45 the one she chose,

11:46 she really loves him.

11:48 But Carl, question.

11:49 You said you introduced her

11:50 to your friends, to your family.

11:53 Do you like that or does she like that too?

11:56 I was surprised actually.

11:57 Because if you're not ready,

12:00 you might hide.

12:01 I'll end the call.

12:03 When I saw that I'm doing FaceTime

12:05 with her,

12:06 that my friends are interacting,

12:07 and she's okay,

12:08 she's perfectly fine with it,

12:10 she's comfortable with it,

12:11 she's sharing her life.

12:13 I said,

12:14 "Well, that means she's ready

12:17 to be seen by the people around me."

12:20 And that's one of those reasons

12:22 why I felt like maybe the second time

12:24 will work out.

12:26 When she first did that to you,

12:29 and then you got hurt,

12:30 and then the second time,

12:32 she did that again,

12:33 and the ending wasn't good,

12:35 did she explain it to you?

12:37 Oh, no.

12:38 You didn't feel like there was remorse,

12:41 that she didn't feel like

12:42 you were hurt by what happened?

12:44 No apology, no anything?

12:46 Actually,

12:49 when the article came out,

12:51 the announcements,

12:52 we never talked again.

12:54 She didn't ask,

12:56 "Why aren't you texting?"

12:57 Nothing.

12:58 It's like I don't exist,

13:01 and we never happened.

13:03 Karl,

13:07 another chance.

13:09 The girl came to you,

13:11 she apologized to your friends,

13:13 to your family.

13:14 He needs you now.

13:16 This time, you can be in public.

13:18 He needs you again.

13:19 Maybe I'm tired.

13:21 I'm tired of hoping,

13:22 I'm tired of believing.

13:24 And if it's damaging me already,

13:28 it's damaging my mental health,

13:30 I need to choose what's good for me now.

13:33 Because you had the option to choose me.

13:36 So, no?

13:37 No.

13:38 How about if she comes to you,

13:42 asks for forgiveness,

13:44 her whole heart is shaking,

13:46 and it's not just you,

13:48 it's her.

13:49 Karl,

13:53 forgive me for what I did.

13:55 I didn't mean to.

13:57 I hope I can make up for the tiredness you're feeling.

14:00 What will you say?

14:02 Go, Chucky, go!

14:03 I'll support her.

14:05 She's supporting him.

14:07 Let's go, Chucky!

14:09 She's supporting him.

14:10 What now, Kyle?

14:12 Text me.

14:16 I'm kidding.

14:18 You're so strong, Chucky!

14:20 Don't be so mean to Chucky.

14:22 If you're thinking,

14:23 that's why your head hurts,

14:24 you're getting people to make your head hurt.

14:27 Chucky, if he's your boyfriend,

14:28 his head hurts, right?

14:29 Why?

14:30 The nature of work,

14:32 and then,

14:33 you have a lot to look at,

14:35 you have a lot to steal.

14:36 If he becomes your boyfriend,

14:38 leave him in the corner,

14:41 come back after two months.

14:44 If he's not there anymore,

14:46 call the MMDA,

14:48 they'll take care of it.

14:49 Kyle, don't blame yourself.

14:52 If you're tired,

14:53 I'm more tired.

14:54 I'm more tired.

14:56 Too much.

14:59 I'm so tired, Kyle.

15:02 No, I'm just kidding.

15:06 Okay, so,

15:08 at least you're at that point,

15:09 where you can defend yourself.

15:11 Because it's hard to love, right?

15:13 When you're in love,

15:14 when you love someone so much,

15:16 you can't defend yourself.

15:19 The power of love,

15:22 it's such a strong force.

15:24 Love,

15:25 it's either you get the power now,

15:27 or he gets it.

15:28 The best way to love another person

15:32 is to learn how to love yourself.

15:34 That's my greatest learning.

15:36 Choose yourself first,

15:38 so you can learn how to choose

15:40 the next person you'll love.

15:42 How you love yourself

15:43 is directly proportional

15:45 to how you can love other people.

15:47 If you're also in the same situation,

15:52 yes, love is powerful,

15:55 but if it's affecting your mental health,

15:57 if it's affecting the way you work,

15:59 if it's affecting the way you relate

16:01 with other people,

16:02 then you have to pause and say,

16:04 "Wait, if I don't get anything in return,

16:08 if I'm always out,

16:09 but I don't get anything in return,

16:11 how long can I endure this?

16:13 You're the one who'll lose.

16:15 You're the one who'll lose.

16:17 And if you lose,

16:18 you can't love the right person.

16:20 Correct.

16:21 Because you'll always look for

16:23 where's the one for you.

16:25 So you can't love the right person

16:28 if you're already broken.

16:31 So you're both single,

16:34 but you're ready,

16:35 you're excited to meet new people.

16:39 I am open to new possibilities.

16:42 My heart is open.

16:44 My eyes are open.

16:45 I believe I'm in the right disposition in life.

16:50 Mind space, even emotionally,

16:52 I feel like it's high time for me

16:55 to, you know,

16:57 to be excited again.

16:59 And probably, hopefully, be happy again.

17:01 What does Karl deserve, Kael?

17:03 Karl deserves to love

17:08 not shortchange,

17:10 but true love,

17:13 and love that doesn't tire.

17:17 I'm okay with love that tires,

17:21 as long as you know how to breathe

17:23 to be strong again.

17:24 I'm okay with love that tires,

17:27 as long as it doesn't give up.

17:29 You're the person I know

17:33 who doesn't just let go.

17:37 Where?

17:38 Who doesn't just let go.

17:39 I knew it.

17:40 Who doesn't just let go.

17:41 I knew it.

17:42 You made that clear.

17:43 I knew it.

17:44 How can you interpret that?

17:46 What are you saying, Ogie?

17:47 I knew it.

17:48 You're thinking of a bagging, right?

17:50 That's not what I'm thinking of.

17:52 What is it?

17:53 You're making up people to say that.

17:55 Huh?

17:56 You're using people to say that.

17:59 Why? We're just the same.

18:01 You're not letting go.

18:03 Where?

18:04 Where?

18:05 Right? Like this.

18:07 Even if you're holding a stick,

18:09 you're still not letting go.

18:10 I'm more into you.

18:13 We can't be together.

18:18 I'm a monkey, you're a horse.

18:22 It's not good, it's not rhyming.

18:26 We can't be together.

18:28 I'm a monkey, you're a horse.

18:33 It's more rhyming.

18:34 Correct.

18:35 I'm a monkey, you're a horse.

18:37 It's not rhyming.

18:38 It's like a rhyme.

18:39 It's like a rhyme.

18:40 You're a monkey.

18:41 He's a newbie.

18:52 Right?

18:54 But...

18:55 But you're with Yael.

18:58 Yael, right?

18:59 Right?

19:01 I don't understand.

19:03 You know, your first relationship.

19:05 They know you're with Elion and Guadam.

19:08 But you're with a monkey.

19:09 How?

19:11 You're with a monkey.

19:12 How did you do that?

19:15 You met a monkey.

19:17 You're not a monkey.

19:19 Let's admit it.

19:20 But Karl is rich.

19:26 Karl is rich.

19:29 Why?

19:30 Karl is his nickname.

19:32 What's his nickname, Karl?

19:33 What's his first name?

19:34 Sports.

19:35 When it comes to sports, he's richer.

19:42 Why?

19:43 Because Karl is his nickname.

19:44 If Karl is his nickname, what's his name?

19:47 Luxury.

19:48 Luxury Karl.

19:49 No.

19:51 Wrong.

19:52 Your uncle is saying something.

19:54 What?

19:55 His first name is Cheese.

19:57 Cheese Karl.

19:58 Cheese Karl.

20:00 I'll clarify this.

20:02 What's his name, Karl?

20:03 To be honest, I'm not rich.

20:05 Because my name is Bote Ba Karl.

20:08 Bote Ba Karl.

20:10 Yes.

20:11 Because you know, that's their business.

20:13 The name is Kala Karl.

20:15 Like that.

20:21 I just want to tell you.

20:22 What?

20:23 Karl, Karl, Karl.

20:26 What?

20:27 Karl, Karl, Karl.

20:28 He's laughing.

20:32 He's just sitting.

20:33 His salary is good.

20:34 He's just like that.

20:35 How many times?

20:36 My God.

20:37 He has the best seat in the...

20:40 VIP.

20:41 VIP.

20:43 I'm not going to say anything.

20:44 I'm not going to say anything.

20:45 I'm not going to say anything.

20:46 I'm not going to say anything.

20:47 I'm not going to say anything.

20:48 I'm not going to say anything.

20:49 I'm not going to say anything.

20:50 I'm not going to say anything.

20:51 I'm not going to say anything.

20:52 I'm not going to say anything.

20:53 I'm not going to say anything.

20:54 I'm not going to say anything.

20:55 I'm not going to say anything.

20:56 I'm not going to say anything.

20:57 I'm not going to say anything.

20:58 I'm not going to say anything.

20:59 I'm not going to say anything.

21:00 I'm not going to say anything.

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