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00:00 Relationship is healthy when you are not with the other to consume the other.
00:06 When your objective is not really to extract something from the other.
00:10 When you are with the other for the other's welfare.
00:14 And the other is with you for your welfare.
00:16 The two of you are not looking for some kind of exploitation of each other.
00:24 Even if it is exploitation, mutual exploitation with consent.
00:27 Even if it looks more like a trade-off rather than exploitation.
00:30 Still, it is unhealthy.
00:32 So have good relationships.
00:34 So go for intelligence, go for innocence, go for qualities in a person make him lovable and admirable.
00:44 Those are the things that really mean something.
00:46 And then you won't be so torn within.
00:51 And then we won't have people who move into one relationship after the other, ending one relationship, initiating the other, shopping of some kind.