We Sleep With Our Best Friends | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
KATY and Rob were previously featured on Love Don't Judge, speaking about the criticism they faced for being in an open marriage, where Rob also worked as an adult performer. Since filming the show their partnership has evolved. They are now in a relationship with Will and Dee, who starred in their own LDJ episode, speaking about their unconventional lives together as swingers. Explaining the changes since their last episode Dee said: "We became polyamorous after filming with Love Don't Judge. We sleep with Katy separately, we sleep with Rob separately, we sleep with them together." She continued: "It's easy, it's comfortable and it's best friends." Katy agreed: "When we met Will and Dee the relationship flowed from the start. It was the first swinging couple we engaged with." The group now films their intimate lives for the world to watch. "The content can range from educational purposes, like how to go d** on a girl, how to give a good kiss. As well as enjoying the spicy content we all do together," Katy said. "We are swinging anyway, so why not film it and make some money off it," Rob joked. But their life choices have been picked apart online. Comments include: 'This is so disgusting and disturbing!', 'People think swinging is a civilized way of cheating', and 'You could have health problems from so many partners at the same time.' However, the group brushed off the naysayers, "Some people like to be accountants, some people like to be p** stars," Will said. "Just keep having fun, I know what makes me happy and that's what I choose to do every day," Rob agreed.
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00:00 This is Katie. She fell in love with Rob.
00:04 He shook his hand and he said, "Go and have fun with my wife."
00:08 I mean, if that isn't a man!
00:10 The married couple are now in a relationship with Will and Dee.
00:15 We sleep with Katie separately, we sleep with Rob separately,
00:19 we sleep with them together.
00:21 The group film their intimate lives for the world to watch.
00:25 Some people like to be the count and some people like to be
00:29 the bloody f***ing stars.
00:30 But their life choices have been picked apart online.
00:33 This is so disgusting and disturbing.
00:36 Hey. Hey.
00:39 Oh, what I love about Katie, everything.
00:41 She's just so easy to be around, she makes life so fun.
00:45 It's like having a sister, you know?
00:46 Someone also you can explore sexually with
00:48 and learn more about yourself in that realm as well.
00:51 The best of everything.
00:52 We became polyamorous after filming with Love Don't Judge.
00:56 So today we're going to be showing you
00:58 where we hold swingers parties.
01:00 When we met Will and Dee,
01:02 the relationship kind of just flowed from the start.
01:04 It was our first swingers couple that we engaged with.
01:08 We sleep with Katie separately, we sleep with Rob separately,
01:13 we sleep with them together.
01:15 We have other people come over, like we've had big f***s together.
01:20 It's just, it's easy and it's comfortable and it's...
01:23 Best friends.
01:26 I remember the moment seeing Katie cuddle up to Will
01:29 and not be self-conscious,
01:31 and it was just a beautiful moment for us.
01:33 It does confuse people when we're out.
01:35 Work it, work it, work it.
01:37 Yes.
01:38 We'd be kissing and then we'd switch.
01:40 Why do we be kissing Will and Dee would be kissing Rob
01:43 and people are like, "What did I just watch?"
01:47 OK, girls, let's watch.
01:49 I think it's like if you get to choose your brother,
01:54 that's pretty much what we've done.
01:55 We've chosen family.
01:56 There's no jealousy, we trust each other
01:58 and we've got a bit of a bromance going on,
02:00 I think it's important.
02:01 Honestly, it's probably one of the best choices
02:05 that we've made in life.
02:07 Go!
02:08 We've been able to quit our full-time jobs,
02:12 we're living overseas,
02:13 we get to spend all day together in paradise,
02:17 all because of taking a step
02:19 and doing something that other people judged us for.
02:23 So we're going to go back
02:24 and we're going to film some promo content for our socials.
02:27 Let's go!
02:28 All right, girls, how are we going?
02:30 You ready for your photo shoot?
02:31 Yeah.
02:32 Excellent.
02:33 The content can range in the educational purposes
02:36 of how to go (bleep) on a girl,
02:37 how to give a good kiss,
02:39 as well as enjoying the spicy content
02:42 that we all do together as well.
02:44 We're swinging anyway,
02:45 so why not just film it and make some money off it?
02:48 Literally.
02:49 Literally.
02:50 We've found a lot more of the trolls
02:54 generally tend to be on YouTube.
02:56 This is good.
02:57 People think swinging is a civilised way of cheating.
03:00 Cheating is when you don't tell your partner
03:03 or you do it behind your partner's back.
03:05 Very big difference.
03:06 Swinging is exactly like us.
03:07 It's the whole reason.
03:08 Yeah, and you're open about,
03:10 "I'm going to do this," or, "I did this,"
03:12 not being secretive about it.
03:14 Yeah, it's a we thing, not a me thing.
03:17 Hey!
03:18 This is so disgusting and disturbing.
03:21 Oh, my God.
03:22 What's this?
03:25 You could have (bleep) and other health problems
03:28 from so many partners at the same time.
03:31 It's not brave, totally not a healthy thing to do.
03:34 I don't know what you're so proud of.
03:36 Good luck.
03:37 You get lots of comments about STDs and stuff like that,
03:40 which I always find hilarious
03:42 because we are the most tested group of people.
03:45 We're a lot safer than your average hook-up
03:48 on a Friday night at a bar, honestly.
03:50 "So lame, hand over your man card, dude."
03:53 Like, it takes a man to be able to share their wife
03:57 with someone else.
03:59 The thing that really used to get to me early on
04:02 was when people used to say that doing this
04:05 would ruin our relationship.
04:07 I've never been in a relationship with anybody
04:09 and felt the way that I have with Will.
04:12 It was nothing that I would ever do to compromise
04:15 that what we're doing is right for us
04:17 and at the end of the day, that's all that matters.
04:20 Most guys especially, they've probably thought at some stage,
04:23 "Oh, I wonder if I could be a (bleep) star."
04:26 I know deep down that I'm on the right path.
04:28 The biggest compliment, I think, is people ending up
04:31 doing similar stuff to what we're doing
04:33 and saying thank you for having the...
04:35 Yeah.
04:36 They're like, "Oh, Katie, I had my first (bleep)."
04:39 People really are excited and then they see that from us as well.
04:43 Will and Dee are a perfect example of a couple
04:46 that generally do everything together
04:48 and I guess we're just more open.
04:50 Like, we've been in situations where I've picked up a guy for Katie
04:54 and I work in (bleep) so right from the very start,
04:57 she knew before she met me that he's going to be with other people.
05:01 We know what each other like.
05:03 So, for example, we could be out or meet someone and be like,
05:06 "Ooh, that's the type of girl that Rob likes."
05:08 We were out one night and I was getting along very charmingly
05:11 with a 19-year-old and, you know, I had this fun.
05:14 I was like, "Ooh, toy boy."
05:16 Rob could see that I liked this guy and he shook his hand
05:20 and he said, "You want to come home with us?"
05:22 Yeah.
05:23 And we all came home together and he shook his hand and said,
05:26 "Go and have fun with my wife."
05:28 I mean, if that isn't a man.
05:30 So I'm actually going on a date tonight
05:33 and I have already spoken to Rob, asked him how he felt about it.
05:38 And kind of being, like, wined and dined and dating other people.
05:41 And I always bring that information home to the family, don't I?
05:44 Yeah.
05:45 You look so good.
05:48 Thanks.
05:49 Yeah.
05:50 Look how hot he is.
05:52 Oh, babe, you're going to have the best time tonight.
05:55 We might have to share this one later.
05:58 Oh, that would be fun.
06:00 See you later.
06:02 Have fun, baby.
06:03 I feel good about Katie going out on a date.
06:06 I think that the whole point in our open relationship
06:08 is that she gets to go and experience that,
06:11 taking her out to dinner and, you know, fine-wined and dined
06:14 as regularly as she wants.
06:16 Cheers.
06:17 So I think Tony's going to come over.
06:19 Interesting to see what he says.
06:21 We've never really talked about the whole,
06:23 what he thinks about everyone.
06:25 Yo, yo, what up?
06:27 Yo, what up?
06:28 Yeah.
06:29 Chilling, chilling.
06:30 So I guess, as you know, Katie and I see other people
06:35 and now that Will and Dee have moved in,
06:37 the four of us are kind of like one organism.
06:39 What are your deeper thoughts on that sort of stuff?
06:42 Yeah, that's adding another one to the mix.
06:45 It's hard enough dealing with one.
06:47 I don't know how you're going to manage all that,
06:51 but it's up to you, man.
06:53 I guess the plan is that they can help look after each other, right?
06:56 You know what I mean?
06:58 It's kind of like when you have one dog,
07:00 you get another one so they can stay together.
07:03 Her being around other guys, going around town with other dudes,
07:07 you alright with that?
07:09 There's been moments where I've had friends contact me.
07:11 I just saw Katie walking on the beach with a guy,
07:14 and he was kind of surprised a little bit.
07:16 I guess I'm not really the beach walk kind of guy,
07:20 so it just works.
07:21 And most of the time it's just like,
07:24 especially sexually, if she's doing something
07:26 that makes me a little bit, oh, it's like,
07:28 oh, I want to be doing that.
07:30 Can you tag me in?
07:32 Yeah, yeah.
07:33 Could you see yourself dating three other people?
07:35 Three girls? Yeah, why not?
07:37 As long as they're cool, then I'm good.
07:41 Alright, buddy.
07:43 Take it easy.
07:44 Appreciate it.
07:45 See you again soon.
07:46 See you next time.
07:47 Short-term future for D&I mainly is, you know,
07:50 we're getting married next year.
07:52 And having a swingers after-party at your wedding.
07:55 Yeah!
07:56 Just keep having fun.
07:57 That's big for me.
07:58 I know what makes me happy,
08:00 and that's what I choose to do every day.
08:02 You know, some people like to be the count,
08:04 and some people like to be the stars.
08:08 [laughter]
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