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‘Sis’ stars Gelli de Belen and Janice de Belen, Watch the full episodes of #Sis and other GMA programs here: http://bit.ly/GMAFullEpisodes
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00:00 [MUSIC PLAYING]
00:04 We walk hand in hand.
00:05 We dream together.
00:08 We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:11 We're two different people, but we're having fun.
00:15 We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19 We are sisters.
00:20 We are friends.
00:22 We've got magic that never ends.
00:26 I got you, sis.
00:28 You got me.
00:31 The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:35 We always have fun being together.
00:42 You know me the best.
00:43 We're friends forever.
00:46 Through good times and bad, I'm here for you, sis.
00:50 Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:53 We are sisters.
00:55 We are friends.
00:57 We've got magic that never ends.
01:00 I got you, sis.
01:02 You got me.
01:04 The best of friends.
01:06 The best of friends.
01:08 The best of friends we'll always, always be.
01:13 We are sisters.
01:14 We are sisters.
01:16 Good morning, everybody.
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01:23 I know Jeddy.
01:24 I know my Jenny.
01:25 Well--
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01:43 At such a young age.
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01:58 Correct.
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02:14 After having you.
02:16 Not during.
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02:21 After.
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02:41 Why not?
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02:43 It's the things that you go through in life.
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03:35 Maybe a few years from now.
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04:10 When I started working and became independent from my parents,
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05:15 Hello.
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05:17 Long time.
05:18 Yes, long time.
05:19 Long time.
05:20 So over the bottom.
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05:22 He started from Ang TV.
05:24 Yes, then over the back.
05:25 Over the back.
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05:27 TGIS.
05:28 Yes.
05:29 Growing up.
05:30 My god, what age did you start?
05:32 I started 12, actually.
05:34 12.
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05:37 September.
05:38 So I was 13 at that time.
05:39 But then, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:41 Yes, and everything.
05:42 So how was it growing up in this industry?
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05:47 For 12 years, 12 years, normal.
05:49 Everything normal.
05:50 Then suddenly, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:57 Makeup, BS, at the age of 12.
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06:08 So it's all fun.
06:09 And then when you realize--
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06:12 When you realize that you're working a bit,
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06:17 So how would I act now?
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06:22 In show business, it's always a fantasy.
06:25 You do a fantasy.
06:26 You do a love story that ends up with a happy relationship.
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06:38 Exactly.
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06:49 It will all turn out well in the end.
06:51 Yes, yes.
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06:56 Happy ending.
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07:10 How do you deal with that?
07:12 Most of the time, I cry.
07:15 But after crying, I always tend to smile after that.
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07:22 You got it out of your system.
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07:32 Tomorrow, it's another day.
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07:35 Well, now you have two kids.
07:36 Yes.
07:37 Single mom.
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07:41 What more if you're a single mom?
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07:52 Right now, I can't see myself.
07:56 I can't see myself being a wife.
07:59 I can't see myself walking down the aisle.
08:06 Not yet.
08:07 It's sad, but--
08:08 In the future, you think you can--
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08:15 Why?
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08:21 Happy couple.
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08:26 Couples.
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08:38 With all my 12 years in showbiz, most of that time,
08:43 I felt I was incomplete.
08:46 It's a funny-- like, when your kids grow up,
08:48 how do you explain to them?
08:49 How will you explain to them?
08:51 It's hard not to say bad things about the person.
08:55 It would be, for me, I have to control that.
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09:06 This is for your kid.
09:08 And they have to know who their father is.
09:11 And they have to know--
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09:16 It's not because of me.
09:17 It's because--
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09:21 I'm sure you're aware that people judge
09:24 when this happened to you and call you names or whatever.
09:28 They have their opinions about you.
09:30 And I'm sure that it will reach you.
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09:40 I know what they can call me.
09:42 But I was prepared for that.
09:44 That's why this happened to me.
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10:43 But because you're still young, you have to be young. You have to be stubborn.
10:47 So now, we're at a point where we're not quarreling, not fighting, not catfighting.
10:54 We're already at the point of compromise. This is my point, this is your point.
10:59 Okay, let's meet halfway.
11:00 Okay, if we're going to meet halfway, if we're going to direct it, will it be better?
11:05 So it's better now. It's better.
11:07 But it's because you're older.
11:10 Yes, maybe he understood me. I understood him.
11:14 Of course, you're used to a happy ending and all that.
11:18 If you were given the opportunity to write a happy ending to your situation at the moment, what would it be?
11:32 Maybe that even if my daughters have their lives of their own, I would still be a part of them.
11:43 I would still have that. Even if I'm dead, they're still alive and they're all stable.
11:51 If they're happily married, I'm happy. If they're a single mom, I'm happy also.
11:56 But I hope they'll always remember me. Because sometimes the point comes to them, "She's dead, let's go."
12:06 So I hope I'm still there for them. Inspired. I can feel it.
12:10 Even if you're gone.
12:11 Even if I'm gone. So that's my happy ending. Towards the end, I know that even if I'm gone, they're still following me.
12:18 The time comes when they're still listening to me even if I'm gone. They can hear me.
12:24 I think that's what you get from your mom. You see her.
12:29 She's still your mom.
12:32 Even if I'm a daddy's girl, but at the point that my dad died, there was no hard time for me to shift to my mom.
12:43 It's not painful for me. Even if we fight, it's not heavy for me. So now, I feel like I'm still a mom.
12:51 In short, you want your children to remember you as you remember your mom.
12:55 Yes.
12:56 So, don't leave. We still have a lot of Angelou to talk about.
13:01 So, I'll be back.
13:02 We'll know if they're not kids anymore.
13:07 Von Arroyo.
13:09 Francis Ricofor.
13:12 Carol.
13:13 That's you.
13:14 And Antonio Aquitano.
13:16 Not every baby.
13:18 Warning.
13:20 We are sisters.
13:21 We are sisters.
13:23 We are sisters.
13:26 We are sisters.
13:28 We're back.
13:32 And of course, we still have Angelou.
13:35 Hello.
13:36 She still has people with her.
13:38 They're not kids anymore.
13:40 We'll know if they're not kids anymore.
13:43 Von Arroyo.
13:45 Francis Ricofor.
13:48 Carol.
13:49 That's you.
13:50 And Antonio Aquitano.
13:52 Not every baby.
13:54 Warning.
13:55 Not every baby.
13:56 It's not hot anymore.
13:59 Anyway, when did you realize that you're not kids anymore?
14:07 Me?
14:10 You.
14:11 I'm 25.
14:12 You're not a kid anymore?
14:14 Don't.
14:16 Retarded.
14:17 When I woke up one day, I realized that I'm not a kid anymore.
14:23 I realized that I'm being irresponsible.
14:26 But leading to that, how was that?
14:32 I left school.
14:36 I said, "I'll go back to school."
14:39 I did it.
14:41 I said, "This is my maturity."
14:46 Maybe when you were a kid, you did a lot of things.
14:52 I don't know.
14:54 I just woke up one day and asked myself, "What am I doing to myself?"
15:00 It's like that, right?
15:01 How about you, Carol?
15:02 I think it happened.
15:04 No, I think.
15:05 It happened two years ago when our family had an accident.
15:09 I really had to grow up overnight.
15:13 It was really overnight.
15:15 The accident happened when my brother died and my dad was paralyzed.
15:21 Both of them were in the hospital.
15:23 My mom was alone at home.
15:25 I was alone.
15:26 I had to take care of the hospital.
15:29 I had to think of a way to call my mom.
15:33 I had to fix the funeral arrangements.
15:37 In fact, it was harder because you had to grow up.
15:40 That's the precise moment.
15:42 What did you have to give up?
15:44 I had to decide if I still have to continue with my studies or not.
15:50 I decided not to continue because before, I was prioritizing my studies.
15:59 I wasn't doing my full-time.
16:01 But after that, I had to choose to do my full-time to help my family.
16:07 Supposedly, I'm graduating this year, but I'm not in school.
16:13 School will always be there.
16:15 As long as I'm determined to finish.
16:18 So, you feel like you're a grown-up now.
16:21 Yes, I'm a grown-up.
16:23 What do you think?
16:25 What's your personal opinion?
16:27 When you were a kid, you always thought of your mom and dad.
16:32 How do you feel now? What's the fulfillment you get from being a grown-up?
16:40 The mere fact that whatever I earn goes to the family.
16:46 I know that my dad's medicine is enough to pay for the food we eat.
16:57 It's a fulfillment for me.
17:00 How about you, Francis?
17:02 I think I realized it when I was 17.
17:06 I stopped going to school.
17:09 My mom would go to the States and work for a while.
17:13 I realized that when she was in the States, my dad would be out of the house.
17:17 There would be no one there to take care of the kids.
17:20 I realized that I need to be a father.
17:27 My dad would always be out of the house.
17:30 My mom would always be at the States.
17:32 My sister would help us take care of the kids.
17:36 Your sister, LJ?
17:38 Yes, LJ.
17:39 But now, she recently moved out of the house.
17:42 She has her own house.
17:45 She's not a kid anymore.
17:47 My mom is still in the States.
17:50 I have to take care of the kids and make sure that they're awake.
17:58 I'm more serious about my responsibilities.
18:05 But you have to admit that it's hard, right?
18:07 Yes.
18:08 It's hard to be responsible.
18:10 It's also a matter of choice.
18:12 In my case, I was with them.
18:15 My mom had to leave because my dad and I were separated.
18:20 I was left behind.
18:21 I have two younger brothers.
18:24 They were in grade 2 and I was in high school.
18:28 So, it's a big responsibility.
18:30 When did you stop enjoying childhood?
18:37 When did you stop thinking about growing up?
18:41 When did you stop playing with toys?
18:45 When you realize that you're an artist,
18:51 you suddenly have to work because you're already paying for it.
18:55 You're already under pressure.
18:58 You have to be professional, good at acting, and follow the director.
19:04 That's when you realize that it's not fun anymore.
19:07 What's the disadvantage of growing up overnight?
19:12 If you have no choice but to grow up overnight,
19:19 if you're determined to do it and you have no choice but to do it,
19:23 I think it's helpful.
19:26 There's no problem with that.
19:28 I think yes or no.
19:29 Yes, because sometimes when you see your friends who are in school,
19:38 in grade school, high school, and college,
19:42 and you see them when they go out, they have fun,
19:44 they have lots of barcadas,
19:46 it hurts.
19:47 Why am I not like that?
19:49 Why didn't I go through that phase?
19:51 But yes, because in a way,
19:55 you realize that at this age, I'm 22, I think I'm old,
20:01 but you can still have fun.
20:03 You can still have that child in you, especially when you have kids.
20:07 You can still have a pillow fight.
20:09 You can do anything.
20:10 Actually, we can all grow old.
20:13 Even if we have children of our own,
20:15 you can always be children at heart.
20:17 We should not forget that.
20:19 For as long as you know where to draw the line.
20:23 Don't make decisions.
20:24 It's harder to be a child when you're growing old.
20:27 Yes, it's hard.
20:28 Right?
20:29 Do you think that because we're all in the show business,
20:34 do you think that our growing up becomes abnormal?
20:37 Do you think that our aging becomes abnormal?
20:43 Because we're all here at work.
20:45 For me, I'm not that active in the show business.
20:49 I only do taping once a week.
20:51 So, my six days are still balanced.
20:54 How old are you?
20:55 24.
20:56 Oh my God, you're not a kid anymore.
20:58 You're not a kid anymore.
21:00 I'm still a kid.
21:02 And you're how old, young?
21:03 20.
21:04 19.
21:05 22.
21:06 22.
21:07 Oh my God, you're the oldest among us.
21:09 You're the breadwinner.
21:12 You become the breadwinner, basically.
21:14 Right?
21:15 So, before you make things for yourself,
21:19 or before you listen to what people say,
21:22 or buy the shoes you want,
21:24 you think, "Do I really need to listen to what people say?"
21:29 Sometimes, don't you feel like,
21:31 "What's this? I can't enjoy this."
21:34 Because I feel like I'm old.
21:36 At 20 years old, I feel like I'm already mature.
21:39 It's not that you feel like you're old.
21:41 But you think, "I still have work tomorrow.
21:45 I'll be tired."
21:47 That's what you think.
21:48 Or you're having a problem with something.
21:50 And you'll hear, like what Angel said,
21:53 when we see our friends who are not in the same business,
21:58 they're having problems with their assignments.
22:01 Not us, but others who are more complicated.
22:04 What's the tone of this?
22:06 For the record, how old are you?
22:09 What's the exact age when you stopped being a kid?
22:12 Maybe when I was 16.
22:17 That's early.
22:19 I was 18.
22:20 So, I'm 16.
22:22 I'm old.
22:24 17.
22:26 I'm 18.
22:27 I'm 20.
22:28 Men are old before they're mature.
22:31 That's what you mean.
22:33 But we're more mature.
22:35 Yes, but men are older before they're mature.
22:38 They're not kids.
22:40 Okay.
22:41 Francis, you're a man.
22:43 But there are a lot of girls.
22:45 What are your choices?
22:47 The choices that you make.
22:48 For example, these are your choices.
22:51 Okay.
22:52 We have a date.
22:55 But no one will take care of us.
22:58 Mom is not here.
22:59 Dad is in the States.
23:00 He has work.
23:01 No one will take care of my siblings.
23:03 What will you choose?
23:05 I learned to sacrifice.
23:07 Yes, that's true.
23:09 The family.
23:11 I learned to sacrifice the family.
23:13 So, I'll choose him.
23:15 Is that true?
23:16 No.
23:17 There are times when I give LJ a call.
23:22 "Jay, I took care of the kids the whole week."
23:24 "Can you watch them for this one night?"
23:26 You're the one who's like, "Please, I have a date."
23:29 But if no one will take care of us,
23:32 I'll stay home.
23:34 I'm more of a homeboy.
23:36 I'm home.
23:37 So, you're saying that a lot of guys fall in love with you because of that?
23:42 Guys?
23:43 Guys.
23:44 Why?
23:46 There are a lot of guys.
23:47 Well, you know what?
23:49 What else is the sign that they're not young anymore
23:53 when the sister comes back?
23:55 I continue to dream.
23:58 I don't know what will happen to me.
24:02 It all depends on what's going to happen first in my life.
24:05 For me, I feel like when you're diversified,
24:09 you'll grow old.
24:10 No.
24:11 It's just a part of life.
24:14 If it's not a part of life, it's not something God will do.
24:27 We want to ask them,
24:30 of course,
24:31 they told us why they needed to be mature.
24:36 So, we'll ask them,
24:38 what did you think when that happened?
24:40 Like, "I don't want this. I'm just a kid again.
24:42 I don't want to grow old.
24:44 Will that happen to you?
24:45 I don't want this. I don't want to repent.
24:47 I'll just be a kid. I don't want this."
24:49 Is that possible?
24:50 Did that happen to you?
24:51 There are times.
24:53 You'll wake up one morning
24:55 and you'll feel weird.
24:57 It's like life is different.
25:00 I hope it's just like before.
25:02 It's simple.
25:04 What I do,
25:05 if I don't want to be that matured,
25:09 or sometimes,
25:11 let's say I'm not a mom.
25:13 I'll be a lollipop.
25:15 It's like you'll reminisce about your past.
25:18 Yes, lollipop.
25:20 It's a solution.
25:22 Francis?
25:24 There were times when I'd wake up
25:26 and I'd be like,
25:28 "I don't want this anymore. I'm stressed."
25:31 But sometimes, I'd just find time
25:33 to play basketball with my friends,
25:36 share, watch a movie.
25:38 Find another outlet.
25:40 So that you can cry.
25:42 You're so funny.
25:44 Before, I was just using my computer.
25:46 Now, I'm...
25:47 I'm using my computer too, you know?
25:51 Now, I'm going to the gym.
25:53 I need to work out.
25:55 It's for the elderly.
25:57 Are you old?
25:59 What about you?
26:00 Me?
26:01 I'm like...
26:02 Of course, you didn't have a choice.
26:05 You need to find it.
26:07 Usually, when you don't have a choice,
26:09 you're like,
26:11 "I don't have a choice."
26:13 I just cry because I think,
26:15 "I'll tell myself,
26:17 'I don't want to go to school anymore.
26:19 I hope this will be the way.'
26:20 Then, I'll dream,
26:21 "Okay, I'll just give this a time frame."
26:25 "Then, when this year, I'll be here.
26:27 I'll go back to school."
26:28 Then, I'll dream again.
26:29 But when I go back to Japan,
26:31 "That's why I don't have a choice."
26:34 "I'm here."
26:35 It's like, even if I continue dreaming,
26:39 it's like,
26:41 what will really happen to me,
26:43 it all depends on what's going to happen
26:45 first to the family.
26:46 What's going to happen in my own life
26:49 depends on what's going to happen
26:51 to my family's state.
26:53 If they're okay,
26:54 then I can go on with my own plans,
26:57 your own dreams.
26:58 A lot of young people
27:00 feel like they want to be independent,
27:04 they want to be mature,
27:06 they want to make their own decisions in life,
27:08 they want to work.
27:10 It's nice to see people like that.
27:12 What can you say to those people
27:13 who are young,
27:16 but you're mature and old fast?
27:20 Good luck!
27:23 Don't rush it.
27:27 It's a waste.
27:28 There's still a lot of time.
27:30 When you're aging.
27:32 Especially in studies.
27:34 If you have the chance to study.
27:35 Finish it.
27:36 Love life, right?
27:38 Okay.
27:39 Okay.
27:40 Then I'll stop.
27:42 This is Angelo.
27:44 I'll start with you, Angelo.
27:45 To break the ice.
27:47 I'll just say one thing.
27:48 Death.
27:49 Love life,
27:52 it's like you're with them.
27:53 Of course,
27:54 Angelo is in a hurry to become an adult
27:57 because of love life.
27:58 He's a love life.
27:59 They're not like that.
28:01 Their cases are different.
28:03 What can you say to them?
28:05 Like, "This is my love life."
28:08 "Look at me."
28:11 No,
28:12 actually,
28:14 sometimes it helps a person to have a love life.
28:18 But sometimes,
28:19 most of the times,
28:20 it doesn't because you're becoming a different person.
28:24 You have love life.
28:25 If not now,
28:26 I'm sure you've gone through it.
28:28 You've had a guy friend.
28:30 You've had a guy friend.
28:31 Somewhere there.
28:32 Good job, Jelly!
28:33 I'm sure you won't deny it.
28:36 You've been through it.
28:37 You've had a heartbreak.
28:39 How was it?
28:41 Did you have a feeling,
28:42 especially these two,
28:43 you have separated parents.
28:45 Did you feel careful?
28:47 Oh, no.
28:48 I don't want to be serious about this.
28:51 Did you have that feeling?
28:52 No,
28:54 because it should help you.
28:55 It should help you as an outlet.
28:57 And also,
28:58 it should help you grow into a more mature person.
29:02 So, in short,
29:03 you treat it serious.
29:05 Yes, because if you--
29:07 Not just poppy.
29:08 Oh, no.
29:09 We've experienced being separated from our parents.
29:11 So, it's in your mind
29:13 that you don't want it to happen to your family.
29:15 All of your relationships are serious.
29:17 All of them.
29:18 Oh, no.
29:19 What do you call it?
29:20 How serious?
29:21 It's not a priority because I have my family.
29:23 I have brothers too.
29:25 You're the eldest.
29:27 So, it's not that serious.
29:29 Oh, no.
29:30 It's a priority.
29:31 No.
29:32 You're a coward.
29:34 Because sometimes,
29:38 you're stressed because of your responsibilities as separated parents.
29:43 I always look to that person,
29:46 that special person,
29:47 to be a shoulder to lean on,
29:51 to comfort me.
29:53 You're also serious.
29:54 I'm serious.
29:55 So, you don't have fear in your relationship
29:59 because of what happened to your parents.
30:00 You don't have that kind of concept.
30:03 Instead of being serious,
30:05 you're serious in your love life.
30:08 Antonio is serious.
30:10 He's serious.
30:11 He's serious.
30:12 No, he's just a coward.
30:14 He's serious.
30:15 He's not playful.
30:18 Carol has no choice.
30:20 I don't have a choice.
30:22 Yes, because the reason why you had to mature
30:26 is because of what happened.
30:28 So, when it comes to love life,
30:30 do you have time or not?
30:32 Do you have to work?
30:35 I'm scared.
30:37 But, right after what happened,
30:40 I'm serious in all aspects.
30:44 I know it's too young to say that
30:48 when I get into a relationship,
30:49 you're thinking, "I hope so."
30:51 You're thinking of it.
30:52 But, I'm sure everyone goes through a relationship.
30:55 Everyone goes through a relationship.
30:56 That's how it should be.
30:57 Especially, for women.
30:59 Especially, for women.
31:00 We feel that we should be serious.
31:03 But, for me, I still have other responsibilities
31:07 and other problems that I need to solve.
31:09 So, when I know that I'm serious in a relationship,
31:12 which I'm always like that.
31:14 I'm always being genuine.
31:16 It's great because I'm reaching the point
31:19 where I'm getting into a relationship.
31:21 I realize that I need to slow down.
31:25 So, you're really making yourself
31:28 ready to go all out.
31:30 Okay, then.
31:32 I'll be serious in sex.
31:35 Okay.
31:37 Okay.
31:39 That's growing up.
31:42 Does it mean that innocence is lost
31:45 when it comes to that?
31:47 No.
31:48 Parents would think that.
31:50 Parents would think that.
31:52 But, it's not actually.
31:54 What is it?
31:55 I mean, for you.
31:56 For me, they feel that when you're
31:58 divergenized, you're old.
32:01 No.
32:02 It's just part of life.
32:05 If it's not part of life,
32:06 God won't do it.
32:08 So, you will come to the point that
32:11 of course, there will be the body's heat
32:15 that says that even when you're young,
32:17 you already have that.
32:18 That when you're given,
32:20 and you think,
32:21 to a woman,
32:22 no, I mean,
32:23 I hope not, right?
32:25 But, for a woman,
32:27 our feeling is that when we're given that,
32:31 you should be serious with me.
32:35 Because I already gave it.
32:36 That's your feeling?
32:37 No.
32:38 Yes, actually,
32:40 you should have dotted liners
32:47 that say, "You're like this because I already gave it."
32:49 You have expectations.
32:50 Yes, which is now,
32:52 not anymore.
32:53 Actually, I'm avoiding sex now.
32:56 That's how it is now.
32:57 You're avoiding sex.
32:58 It's an equation of sex in regards to love life,
33:01 with regards to growing up.
33:03 Because before,
33:04 even when I was young,
33:05 if I knew what sex means,
33:07 I was already old.
33:09 Because usually, when you're young,
33:10 you'll say, "Oops, don't watch, you're still young."
33:13 "Don't listen, you're still young."
33:15 When you're big, it's like that.
33:17 What about boys?
33:18 Because boys,
33:19 they want you to be younger,
33:21 to be higher than others.
33:22 Like, "I'm younger, I'm ahead."
33:24 Yes.
33:25 When you're 14, you're already okay.
33:27 I thought it was you.
33:28 Ego, really.
33:29 You're just a boy.
33:30 You're just a boy.
33:31 What about girls?
33:32 Francis.
33:34 Did Francis do it?
33:35 Yes, I taught him.
33:36 That's why,
33:37 you said this,
33:39 you didn't mature there,
33:40 that's why it's there.
33:41 It's the same.
33:43 Because boys,
33:44 they're still playing.
33:46 It's like they're still playing.
33:47 So, does that mean you're still a virgin?
33:49 No.
33:50 No.
33:51 It's really like that.
33:53 It's not like that.
33:54 Why are you talking like that?
33:56 Francis said it.
34:00 No, like Antonio said,
34:02 for guys,
34:04 when we're not kids,
34:06 especially if they're handsome, right?
34:08 They're arrogant, they're ahead.
34:10 In my case,
34:11 what happened with me,
34:13 after it happened,
34:14 I don't feel matured anymore.
34:16 I feel like I'm more
34:18 matured than other guys.
34:19 Did you feel that?
34:20 But it's not like,
34:21 "Oh, I'm matured now."
34:23 No, it's not like that.
34:24 It's just ego.
34:25 It's just ego.
34:26 Usually, when you're older,
34:28 you don't think about
34:30 other responsibilities.
34:33 Unlike before,
34:34 you're afraid.
34:36 So, you don't equate sex
34:38 as part of maturing.
34:40 No.
34:41 It's not.
34:42 It's an experience to be enjoyed.
34:44 It's not a big factor.
34:45 Even when it comes to a relationship,
34:47 they say it's a big factor.
34:48 It's not that big of a factor.
34:50 Really?
34:51 I disagree.
34:52 It's necessary.
34:54 It's necessary, right?
34:55 But it's not important.
34:56 Yes, but it's not the factor
34:59 to stay together forever and ever.
35:02 Not really.
35:03 Right?
35:04 Of course.
35:05 Your parents taught you
35:07 about growing up.
35:08 But before you answer that,
35:10 when we're back,
35:12 we'll ask you.
35:14 I'm jealous.
35:16 They said, "Let me go."
35:20 "Let me go."
35:21 "Let me go."
35:22 "Let me go."
35:23 So, I can learn.
35:25 Right?
35:26 I agree.
35:27 I agree.
35:28 I agree.
35:29 I agree.
35:30 If you live like a flatline,
35:32 which is straight,
35:34 it's there.
35:35 But because we're alive,
35:38 and we know we have a long way to go,
35:41 it's always up in the air.
35:42 It's like a heartbeat.
35:43 That's a lot.
35:44 So, what are the things
35:57 that you can tell your parents?
36:00 Why didn't you tell me
36:02 that this is what will happen?
36:04 The things you ask for anything.
36:07 Like, life, sex, relationship,
36:10 teachers, fights.
36:12 When you ask,
36:13 "Why is it like that, Mommy?"
36:15 Suddenly, they'll answer,
36:17 "Just because."
36:18 "Just because."
36:19 Right?
36:20 That's when the kids get more curious.
36:22 Like, "Okay, then they'll try it."
36:25 "Ah, okay, now I know
36:26 why Mommy said 'just because'."
36:27 Because it's painful or delicious.
36:29 Do you think it'll be easier
36:30 if parents told you straight out,
36:32 "Oh, son."
36:34 For example, let's say,
36:36 "Okay, you have a boyfriend."
36:37 "Hey, son, you'll break up too."
36:39 "You'll get hurt."
36:41 Your heart will bleed.
36:42 Do you think it's better
36:44 or better if they allow you to...
36:47 It's more advantageous
36:49 because you're more prepared.
36:52 But you won't enjoy the experience.
36:55 I feel like parents,
36:56 their attitude is like
36:57 sheltering right away.
36:59 Right?
37:00 They're the ones who say,
37:01 "No, you'll get hurt."
37:03 Because they want you to stop
37:04 because they don't want to get hurt.
37:06 Well, for me, in my case,
37:08 like with my mom,
37:09 we're the ones who lose.
37:10 She's the one who says,
37:13 "Mom, don't let me.
37:14 If I make a mistake, let me go."
37:16 "If I cry, let me go."
37:18 So I can learn to get up for myself.
37:21 No, they don't want you to get hurt.
37:22 You'll learn more with your experiences.
37:24 No, because as parents,
37:25 I'm the parent of both of them.
37:27 If there's anything
37:29 that I don't want my kids to experience,
37:31 it's heartache.
37:32 It's to cry.
37:33 It's to feel pain.
37:35 But then,
37:36 why won't I let them experience that?
37:39 That's what will make them stronger.
37:41 It's precisely those--
37:43 That is the very factor
37:44 why you, overnight,
37:47 turn into adults.
37:48 Correct.
37:49 But remember,
37:50 life, in general,
37:54 really is a journey.
37:56 Yes.
37:57 And the only way for you to enjoy,
38:00 to experience,
38:01 to be able to live a full life
38:03 is having your mind open
38:05 to what you do not know.
38:07 You know, a friend told me
38:10 that--
38:12 He was counseling and everything.
38:15 There was a nun
38:17 who had a speech.
38:19 She said,
38:21 "I followed the book of God.
38:23 "I followed everything.
38:25 "I am close to being perfect,
38:27 "but I am not."
38:28 Which, what happened to her,
38:30 she had different kinds of pain.
38:32 So what she said,
38:33 her advice is,
38:35 if you live like a flat line,
38:39 which is straight,
38:40 it's death.
38:42 But because we're alive,
38:44 and we know we have a long way to go,
38:47 it's always up and down.
38:49 It's like the heartbeat of the heart.
38:50 It's being able to experience
38:52 all kinds of emotion.
38:53 Yes.
38:54 So you, you're still--
38:55 Well, you're all still young.
38:57 Okay.
39:00 Live your life.
39:01 Still enjoy it.
39:02 Because, oh my,
39:04 there's still a lot.
39:06 The time is slow.
39:08 We thought it was fast.
39:09 Wow.
39:10 Sometimes I think,
39:12 I want to be young again.
39:14 Right?
39:16 Now you realize,
39:17 what they're saying is true.
39:18 Sometimes when you're young,
39:19 you want to--
39:20 How old are you?
39:22 You're only 12?
39:23 No, I'm 30 next week.
39:25 I'm 30, right?
39:26 I'm 30 next month.
39:28 Because you're still young,
39:29 you want to grow up.
39:30 But once you're an adult,
39:31 oh my,
39:32 how old are you?
39:33 29.
39:34 What? 29?
39:35 You're 31 already.
39:37 Yes.
39:38 There are people
39:39 who stop at 18.
39:41 For the boys, right?
39:42 That's it.
39:43 My age is 18.
39:44 For the boys.
39:46 What, what,
39:47 what do you think,
39:49 what part of adult life
39:51 can you do?
39:54 Maybe when you're married.
39:56 Why?
39:57 You're not saying?
39:59 You're not saying?
40:01 You're not saying?
40:02 Something like that.
40:03 Something like that.
40:04 Because,
40:05 like for my case,
40:06 I've been taking care of my brothers,
40:08 and my mom,
40:09 and when it comes to marriage,
40:11 it's a different aspect of life.
40:13 It's a different facet of life.
40:15 So, new relationships,
40:16 new life,
40:17 new things,
40:18 new life.
40:20 And it's hard.
40:21 And it's hard,
40:22 because it's different from your family.
40:24 You're blood-related.
40:25 But this one,
40:26 I'm not blood-related.
40:28 What do you have to watch?
40:30 What about Francis?
40:31 Having a wife,
40:32 and I think,
40:34 accidentally having a child.
40:36 Which means you should be careful.
40:38 Yeah.
40:39 You should be very careful.
40:40 You should be responsible.
40:41 Yeah, that's,
40:42 you'd know that
40:44 you were irresponsible
40:46 in so many ways.
40:47 That's right.
40:48 You're not even halfway through being an adult yet.
40:50 I hope that's how men think.
40:53 When you have a baby,
40:55 That's the only thing that's reacted.
40:56 When you have a baby,
40:57 you'll think of things to study,
40:59 to eat everyday.
41:00 You want a good future for the baby.
41:02 I always tell my son this,
41:06 because my son is 14.
41:07 So, of course,
41:08 sometimes it's easy to grow old.
41:10 So, I tell him,
41:12 you have to learn your responsibilities first now.
41:15 Because life does not get any easier.
41:17 It's hard, it's hard.
41:19 Your responsibility now,
41:20 it's not there.
41:22 So, your responsibility is when you're 20.
41:24 Yes.
41:25 It's like, "Hello, I don't want this anymore."
41:26 That's how it is.
41:27 So, anyway, Carol.
41:29 Carol,
41:30 sing us a song.
41:31 Sing!
41:32 A song which describes
41:34 how it is to be an adult.
41:38 Am I scared?
41:39 Am I...
41:40 We talked about this.
41:42 We talked about this.
41:43 It's like this.
41:44 This is our theme song.
41:46 Okay.
41:47 Here it is.
41:48 So, I walked under a bus.
41:52 I got hit by a train.
41:55 I've fallen in love.
41:58 But it's kind of the same.
42:01 I've sunk out of sea.
42:03 Crashed my car.
42:05 Gone insane.
42:07 But it felt so good.
42:09 I wanna do it again.
42:12 Your voice is so good.
42:16 No longer children.
42:17 But still not adults.
42:20 Well, to the kids,
42:23 enjoy your childhood.
42:25 Life is a long journey.
42:26 Don't rush it.
42:28 It's harder to be nice as a child
42:31 than to enjoy childhood.
42:33 You want it, right?
42:35 Thank you.
43:02 I think we can stop now.
43:04 Now, let's hear Bon sing.
43:06 What's your theme song for this day?
43:10 For today.
43:13 For today.
43:14 Okay.
43:15 Don't be afraid.
43:18 I can beat you halfway.
43:22 We can't always know
43:25 where the road ends up.
43:27 But with some luck,
43:29 I know we can go
43:32 wherever we imagine.
43:35 Yeah.
43:36 Thank you so much.
43:38 I love you.
43:39 I love you, too.
43:40 You can do it.
43:41 No limits.
43:43 As long as you're young.
43:44 No boundaries.
43:45 Actually, imagination has no age.
43:49 Yes.
43:50 And it's free.
43:51 Exactly.
43:52 You can dream.
43:53 Right?
43:54 What are your fondest childhood memories?
43:57 With my dad.
43:59 With my dad.
44:01 When he played mahjong,
44:03 I had my own table.
44:04 You played mahjong, too.
44:05 I had my own game
44:07 that he taught me for kids.
44:09 I learned how to win.
44:12 Those are my fondest memories.
44:14 Why?
44:15 Because I laughed at the loser.
44:17 I think it was the scene contest.
44:19 When I was young with my dad.
44:21 It's a lot of fun.
44:22 When you win.
44:23 Even if I don't win,
44:25 I'm still happy.
44:26 Because I have the prizes.
44:27 Even if it's a toy or rice.
44:29 You're so funny.
44:32 Not having that much responsibilities.
44:39 I just play at home.
44:41 I play games.
44:42 I eat and watch cartoons.
44:45 I just relax.
44:47 Carol.
44:48 For me,
44:49 the moments when my brother and sister sing.
44:54 It's so emotional.
44:56 Okay, go.
44:57 Okay.
44:58 Let's not talk about that.
45:00 I just play video games.
45:02 I'm always with my siblings.
45:07 What do you want to lose
45:10 from your childhood
45:12 when you're older and more mature?
45:16 That I wouldn't always forget to smile
45:19 with problems or without problems.
45:21 You're still smiling.
45:23 Disposition.
45:24 Disposition.
45:25 Maybe my family.
45:27 They've been always supportive.
45:30 I need support from family.
45:32 I want us to be intact.
45:34 You're on your own.
45:36 You don't want to lose.
45:37 My voice, of course.
45:39 Of course.
45:40 Carol, I'm sure you can say that.
45:42 But some people are like that.
45:44 But I'm sure.
45:46 Francis.
45:47 Just being able to have fun.
45:51 Just have fun.
45:53 It's hard to have fun when you have a lot of problems.
45:57 You're too serious.
45:59 For me,
46:01 it's not my voice,
46:02 but music and laughter.
46:04 Music and laughter.
46:05 Music.
46:06 You can relate to everything.
46:09 You can be happy or sad.
46:11 When you're sad, you're happy.
46:13 When you're brokenhearted,
46:14 you have a dedicated song.
46:15 I'm like that.
46:16 I can always laugh about my problems.
46:19 Even if I'm still laughing.
46:22 Being naughty.
46:24 I don't want to lose.
46:25 Don't.
46:26 Don't.
46:27 It's not like Antonio.
46:29 Correct.
46:30 He's naughty.
46:31 When you're older, you want to be naughty.
46:33 What about you?
46:35 For me,
46:37 innocence.
46:39 There are things.
46:41 Sometimes, you have things that you say.
46:44 When you're young, it's excusable.
46:46 When you're old,
46:48 you say, "Excuse me?"
46:50 "Hello? Are you okay?"
46:52 You should feel that.
46:54 Because it's nice to be able to say what you feel.
46:59 And be honest about your emotions.
47:02 Because they might be irritated.
47:05 What about you, Jelly?
47:06 I want to be idealistic.
47:08 Dreamer.
47:11 Yes.
47:12 I still want to strive for the best.
47:14 Sometimes, you get jaded.
47:16 You think, "This is not right. This is not real."
47:20 "This is just how it is."
47:22 Because you experience a lot.
47:24 Optimism.
47:25 Yes, I still want to be optimistic.
47:27 Actually, maybe that's the better term.
47:29 I still want to be optimistic.
47:30 I don't want to be negative.
47:32 Because usually, beautiful people are like,
47:34 "Oh, no. No."
47:37 "Oh, that's how it is."
47:39 "This is how it is."
47:40 You know, those who are still flirting.
47:43 "Oh, no. No."
47:44 "That's okay. That's fine."
47:46 "Everything will be fine."
47:47 Correct.
47:48 That's why, if you go through a year of life
47:50 without memories of failing,
47:52 your life will be wasted.
47:55 You won't enjoy it.
47:57 How can you experience true happiness
48:01 if you're not hurt?
48:03 Exactly.
48:04 And you know,
48:05 that's the sign that you're alive.
48:09 You feel all kinds of emotions.
48:12 No matter how bad you feel.
48:14 You feel angry, scared, and whatever.
48:16 And on that note,
48:17 thank you so much,
48:18 Andrew, Bon, Mrs. Carol, and Anton.
48:21 Thank you for sharing your life.
48:23 May you all have a beautiful life.
48:25 Thank you.
48:26 You're welcome.
48:27 Thank you all.
48:28 And thank you to the viewers,
48:30 and to the people who watched.
48:32 Thank you.
48:33 Every day.
48:34 Yes.
48:35 Bye.
48:36 Bye-bye.
48:37 Hope it's all.
48:38 The Philippine Advertising Congress
48:40 will reconvene on November 21 to 24
48:43 at the Waterfront Hotel in Cebu City.
48:45 This year's theme is "Target."
48:47 Marketa Santado sa Pinoy Ngayon.
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49:26 [music]
49:28 [music]
49:30 [music]
49:32 [music]
49:34 [music]
49:36 (seductive music)
49:38 ♫ So I walked under a bus
50:04 ♫ I got hit by a train
50:08 ♫ I've fallen in love
50:10 ♫ But it's kinda the same
50:13 ♫ I've sunk out of sea
50:15 ♫ Crashed my car, gone insane
50:19 ♫ But it felt so good
50:21 ♫ I wanna do it again