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00:00:00 Oh, how I love Jesus
00:00:13 Oh, how I love Jesus
00:00:25 Oh, how I love Jesus
00:00:38 Let me tell you why I love him
00:00:42 Let me tell you why I love him
00:00:45 Because he was
00:00:52 Let me
00:01:06 But there's this scripture I want to give you
00:01:07 And those of you that are watching across the world
00:01:09 Please tell everybody at work
00:01:11 That tries to hate on me
00:01:13 He read from the Bible
00:01:15 Because you will be defending me tomorrow
00:01:18 So let me give you something to defend me with
00:01:21 It's the Bible, okay?
00:01:23 So this is probably going viral
00:01:25 So let me just read it from the Bible
00:01:27 Judges 14, verse 18
00:01:30 Samson replied, "If you hadn't plowed with my heifer
00:01:35 You wouldn't have solved my riddle"
00:01:40 One more time, "If you hadn't plowed with my heifer
00:01:44 You wouldn't have solved my riddle"
00:01:47 Come on, let's go viral
00:01:48 Push five people and tell them
00:01:49 Leave that heifer alone
00:01:50 Go ahead
00:01:52 Leave
00:01:56 You scared to say it
00:01:58 I said tell five people
00:02:00 My pastor said from the Bible
00:02:03 Leave that heifer alone
00:02:10 You may be seated in God's house
00:02:12 Leave that heifer alone
00:02:14 I'm in a teaching called "The Life of Samson"
00:02:17 This is part two, this is part two
00:02:19 If you missed part one, I'm gonna ask you
00:02:21 As a homework assignment after the game, whatever
00:02:23 Watch part one
00:02:25 My first teaching was "I Didn't Ask for This"
00:02:27 "I Didn't Ask for This" part one
00:02:29 Of "The Life of Samson"
00:02:30 I don't have time to recap the whole teaching
00:02:32 It's on YouTube, those that are watching
00:02:34 It's on YouTube, Facebook, all that
00:02:35 So somebody do your homework
00:02:36 If you're here for the first time
00:02:37 Or if you missed last week
00:02:39 Make sure you catch yourself up
00:02:41 But suffice it to say, in terms of recap
00:02:43 There's a cat named Samson
00:02:45 Daddy Manoa
00:02:47 God comes to Mama
00:02:49 And then Mama goes to Daddy
00:02:51 Said an angel, an angel of God
00:02:53 A kind of theophany
00:02:55 We believe it was Christ on the low
00:02:57 The Old Testament is the New Testament
00:02:59 Concealed, the New Testament
00:03:01 Is the Old Testament revealed
00:03:03 We see a revealed Christ
00:03:05 In the New Testament
00:03:07 We see him, Mary had a little lamb
00:03:09 In the Old Testament, he's concealed
00:03:11 But he's there
00:03:13 And he came in the fiery furnace
00:03:15 And the king said, "Didn't we cast in three?"
00:03:17 But behold, I see four
00:03:19 And the fourth one looks like
00:03:21 The Son of God
00:03:23 Most believe that was Christ in the Old Testament
00:03:25 Sort of busting an Old Testament creep move
00:03:27 We think it was an angel of God
00:03:29 Theophany
00:03:31 Or Christ
00:03:33 Who appears to Samson's parents
00:03:35 And says, "You have been barren
00:03:37 But you're having a baby"
00:03:39 As a matter of fact, you're pregnant
00:03:41 Right now
00:03:43 You're pregnant right now
00:03:45 Now here's what heaven wants you to do
00:03:47 Heaven wants you to make sure
00:03:49 That he takes on this Nazarite vow
00:03:51 So there are three things about a Nazarite
00:03:53 Come on, you were here
00:03:55 Number one, you do not touch a dead body
00:03:57 Under no circumstances
00:03:59 If your mother passed, you couldn't go to the funeral
00:04:01 You were not to be around a dead corpse
00:04:03 Animal, person, funeral
00:04:05 Nothing dead were you to be around
00:04:07 Number two, you were not to drink anything
00:04:09 With alcohol
00:04:11 No beer, no wine, no Mad Dog 2020
00:04:13 No White Hennessy
00:04:15 To my new drinkers
00:04:17 Praise God, amen
00:04:19 I heard about White Hennessy
00:04:21 So whatever it is, you were not to drink anything
00:04:23 And then the one you know
00:04:25 From watching cartoons
00:04:27 And growing up in Sunday school
00:04:29 Samson was not supposed to cut
00:04:31 His hair
00:04:33 So those are the three, all right
00:04:35 Three characteristics, right
00:04:37 Of a Nazarite
00:04:39 So Judges 14 verse 1 and 2
00:04:41 Last week I said one day when Samson was in
00:04:43 Temna, one of the Philistine women
00:04:45 Caught his eye
00:04:47 When he returned home, he told his father and mother
00:04:49 A young Philistine woman in Temna
00:04:51 Caught my eye, I want to marry her
00:04:53 Get her for me
00:04:55 That's what we talked about last week, this Philistine woman
00:04:57 I told you that in Numbers and Deuteronomy
00:04:59 The text is clear
00:05:01 You are not to intermarry
00:05:03 They were not to intermarry the Israelites
00:05:05 And other religions and races
00:05:07 That did not adhere to
00:05:09 Yahweh, Jehovah God
00:05:11 No matter what, you did not intermarry
00:05:13 So the parents are like, why you want to get with this
00:05:15 Girl who don't even believe in Jehovah
00:05:17 And I told them at the first service
00:05:19 It's a trip when somebody's so cute
00:05:21 You switch religions
00:05:23 Yeah, you didn't gave up on Christ
00:05:25 I was thinking about a family member
00:05:27 A person we know, then changed her whole last name
00:05:29 For some brother
00:05:31 Then gave up Christ, now your name Popoto
00:05:33 Yeah, you didn't change from Smith to Babuto
00:05:35 To get some brother
00:05:37 There's some things
00:05:39 Whatever else life is
00:05:41 Come here married couples
00:05:43 Whatever else marriage is
00:05:45 It is at least an ongoing negotiation
00:05:47 Yeah, please catch this
00:05:49 If you're going to stay married
00:05:51 And I have almost 30 years
00:05:53 If you're going to stay married
00:05:55 It is at least an ongoing negotiation
00:05:57 There's some things you'll have to negotiate
00:05:59 About where you'll spend holidays
00:06:01 Her family, your family
00:06:03 What you going to put up with
00:06:05 We disagree about the kids and money
00:06:07 You'll have to negotiate
00:06:09 My question that I'm asking in my new book
00:06:11 Ten Rules of Dating
00:06:13 The rules have changed
00:06:15 For the third time I'm writing the same book
00:06:17 Ten Rules of Dating
00:06:19 The rules have changed
00:06:21 In terms of social media, online dating, the pandemic
00:06:23 The rules have changed
00:06:25 And one of the things I'm asking people
00:06:27 Is what are your non-negotiables
00:06:29 And chapter two, watch this
00:06:31 Don't negotiate your non-negotiables
00:06:33 If they are non-negotiables
00:06:37 That means there's no
00:06:39 There's no negotiation
00:06:41 Now depending on what age you are
00:06:43 Your non-negotiables will change as you get older
00:06:45 Particularly as a single black woman
00:06:47 With a shortage of men
00:06:49 Jesus and job men
00:06:51 Jesus and a job man
00:06:53 Sometimes your non-negotiables will change
00:06:55 Let's not play any games
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00:12:33 And he'll say girl, there's something about your gums good god almighty
00:12:37 There's some sexy
00:12:39 (mimics gum noises)
00:12:41 If you ever buy teeth I'll break up with you
00:12:43 (audience laughs)
00:12:45 I ain't never seen no gums like that
00:12:47 (audience laughs)
00:12:49 (audience laughs)
00:12:51 (audience laughs)
00:12:53 And so sometimes guys walk up to me single
00:12:55 And I'm telling black single men with a job
00:12:57 Brother you the lottery ticket
00:12:59 Yeah there's such a shortage of jobs
00:13:01 Yeah there's such a shortage of you
00:13:03 You can have anybody for the most part
00:13:05 Because there's such a shortage of you
00:13:07 Jesus and a job and willing to be kind
00:13:09 And be a father brother you can just about have anybody
00:13:11 And sometimes they'll walk up to me with somebody
00:13:13 That's not my type and I'm like wow
00:13:15 Bless his name
00:13:17 (audience laughs)
00:13:19 I mean I probably would have went that direction
00:13:21 But and then the lord showed me years ago
00:13:23 Stop projecting on him what you like
00:13:25 (audience cheers)
00:13:27 (audience cheers)
00:13:29 If all men like what you like
00:13:31 Then who's gonna like what don't look like you like
00:13:33 So I gotta give men different tastes
00:13:35 So that women of all sorts can be picked
00:13:37 Okay this is gonna bless your life
00:13:39 At the same time I know there are religions
00:13:41 And real Pentecostal churches
00:13:43 And this is not one watching me
00:13:45 And they prescribe do not wear makeup
00:13:47 That's demonic
00:13:49 And every woman lift your hands in this place
00:13:51 I release the spirit of makeup in this place
00:13:53 I release the spirit of makeup in this place
00:13:55 I release the spirit of makeup in this place
00:13:57 I release the spirit of makeup in this place
00:13:59 Shake it up by mascara
00:14:01 (audience laughs)
00:14:03 Lollop by lipstick
00:14:05 Eat all of the eyelashes in the name of Jesus
00:14:07 Whatever
00:14:09 (audience laughs)
00:14:11 (audience laughs)
00:14:13 Whatever it takes
00:14:15 Watch this
00:14:17 Whatever your husband is attracted to
00:14:19 Do your best to look as good as you can
00:14:21 So I really believe
00:14:23 The physical attraction for men
00:14:25 Even when I'm not in the spirit
00:14:27 I'm still sexual
00:14:29 Yeah when I'm not in the spirit I'm still natural
00:14:31 So having a woman I'm attracted to
00:14:33 Is good for me, this is for men
00:14:35 You see I want to get quiet, I'm telling you what I know though
00:14:37 Not what I think, but I want you to hear me
00:14:39 This is important, there are two things we see, number two
00:14:41 He says get her for me
00:14:43 Because marriages were arranged
00:14:45 So even if you liked someone
00:14:47 Your parents connected
00:14:49 And made sure you got together
00:14:51 I meant to say this at the 11 o'clock service
00:14:53 I talked about how I think
00:14:55 You should let your parents help you pick
00:14:57 Because you in love, they not
00:14:59 Remember that
00:15:01 I also believe that God has given me the authority
00:15:03 In the life of my daughters
00:15:05 All of you with daughters, come here
00:15:07 Sons, all of you future fathers
00:15:09 The moment she says I do
00:15:11 I lose all my authority in her life
00:15:13 So while I have it
00:15:15 I'm a helper pick
00:15:17 (audience cheers)
00:15:19 If I'm the one
00:15:21 That put diapers on her behind
00:15:23 And helped her
00:15:25 Have heat and gas in the house
00:15:27 And paid for every piece of clothes
00:15:29 She ever had on
00:15:31 And then paid for college and paid for dorms
00:15:33 I have a right
00:15:35 To help speak into her life
00:15:37 On not making the second
00:15:39 Biggest choice of her life
00:15:41 Other than Jesus to the wrong cat
00:15:43 So don't get mad at me because I want to be involved
00:15:45 In helping her
00:15:47 Because once she says I do
00:15:49 I lose all that power
00:15:51 And so I think it's important to let
00:15:53 Parents help you
00:15:55 Those of you who have parents you trust
00:15:57 This is what absolutely bless your life
00:15:59 I didn't get to it last week
00:16:01 Look at verse 4, everybody
00:16:03 His father and mother had no idea
00:16:05 That God was behind this
00:16:07 Somebody gonna catch it before I read it
00:16:09 That God was arranging
00:16:11 An opportunity against the Philistines
00:16:13 At the time
00:16:15 The Philistines, listen
00:16:17 The Philistines, you say tomato, I say tomato
00:16:19 Lorded over Israel
00:16:21 At that time the Philistines lorded over Israel
00:16:23 Let me read it one more time
00:16:25 Because this gonna bless you, let's read the Bible together
00:16:27 Watch this, his father and mother had
00:16:29 No idea
00:16:31 That God was behind this
00:16:33 And that he was arranging, y'all missed it
00:16:35 So they're like
00:16:37 Why would you hook up with a
00:16:39 Philistine girl, they don't believe in
00:16:41 Jehovah God, why would you
00:16:43 Intermarry with these pagans
00:16:45 This pagan girl, then the next verse says
00:16:47 They had no idea
00:16:49 That God was behind the scenes
00:16:51 Some of y'all gonna catch this
00:16:53 Can I tell you something so powerful
00:16:55 You want some heavy theology, it's almost like
00:16:57 The text suggests
00:16:59 That God knew he was marrying a girl
00:17:01 Or hooking up with a girl that didn't love him
00:17:03 But yet God was helping
00:17:05 Arrange it
00:17:07 You gotta do something with that
00:17:09 Pastor that's heavy, you tied me up
00:17:11 So God would push me to evil, uh-uh
00:17:13 Come here, uh, don't trap him
00:17:15 In your uh, minuscule
00:17:17 Narrow, provincial
00:17:19 Mindset
00:17:21 God is sovereign and big, your Bible says
00:17:23 He knows my end from my beginning
00:17:25 Okay, let me break it down
00:17:27 So what if God said, because I'm God
00:17:29 I don't have to wait on you to choose
00:17:31 So since I know what you
00:17:33 Gonna choose, I'm gonna go
00:17:35 Ahead and use it and get some glory
00:17:37 Out of it
00:17:39 Woo
00:17:41 It's not that that's what I want you to do
00:17:43 But since I know you're gonna do it anyway
00:17:45 I may as well
00:17:47 Let it be a lesson for your future
00:17:49 I may as well use it
00:17:51 To help you teach your children
00:17:53 Don't do what mama did
00:17:55 Y'all just missed that
00:17:57 I gave you something years ago
00:17:59 That some of you missed, it's one of the best vernonisms
00:18:01 I've ever given you, sometime
00:18:03 God divinely
00:18:05 Deletes your discernment
00:18:07 I'm gonna say that again
00:18:09 You've heard me say it but didn't hear me
00:18:11 Sometime God divinely
00:18:13 Deletes your discernment
00:18:15 Let me try it one more time
00:18:17 Sometime God divinely
00:18:19 Deletes your discernment
00:18:21 You don't know how good this is
00:18:23 In other words, you did pray
00:18:25 Let me talk to entrepreneurs for a moment
00:18:27 Let me talk to people who hired the wrong person
00:18:29 Who dated the wrong person
00:18:31 Who trusted some friend that really wasn't your friend
00:18:33 And you thought to yourself, I jumped in that too fast
00:18:35 I did look at the application
00:18:37 We did do a background check
00:18:39 We did bring her in, I interviewed her three times
00:18:41 I even let her volunteer for a while
00:18:43 To make sure she was the right person
00:18:45 And she still ended up killing us
00:18:47 And you wonder how could that happen
00:18:49 Because God sometimes divinely
00:18:51 Deletes your discernment
00:18:53 Because if he never deleted your discernment
00:18:55 That means you never picked nobody stupid
00:18:57 If you never picked nobody stupid
00:18:59 Nobody would ever hurt you
00:19:01 If nobody ever hurts you
00:19:03 Then how could you grow
00:19:05 So God says
00:19:07 I gotta let some people in your life
00:19:09 To make you more like me
00:19:11 How can you learn patience
00:19:13 Unless I put you around a fool
00:19:15 Oh y'all not, y'all not, y'all not
00:19:17 How can you learn forgiveness
00:19:19 Unless somebody break your heart
00:19:21 How can you learn forgiveness
00:19:23 Unless somebody betrays you
00:19:25 So if you pick right
00:19:27 And hired right
00:19:29 And had all the perfect friends
00:19:31 That means you'd ever have no pain
00:19:33 If you never had no pain
00:19:35 How would you be the woman that you are now
00:19:37 And the brother that you are now
00:19:39 So do me a favor, don't just praise him for the good stuff
00:19:41 Somebody
00:19:45 Praise him for the bad stuff
00:19:47 For the betrayal
00:19:49 Because some of that
00:19:51 Developed you
00:19:53 My team will tell you
00:19:55 There are times
00:19:57 We've done background checks
00:19:59 And I've learned
00:20:01 Sometimes you're just not gonna discover crazy
00:20:03 For a few years
00:20:05 Y'all just missed that praise God
00:20:07 So now we've learned just go on and hire smart
00:20:09 Because we may not find out she's crazy for seven months
00:20:11 Sometimes people can hide that for a while
00:20:13 Sometimes God divinely
00:20:15 Deletes your discernment
00:20:17 Y'all ready for this
00:20:19 Verses five and six says
00:20:21 I'm reading from the Bible
00:20:23 Are you enjoying this raise your hand
00:20:25 It's about to get gooder and gooder up in here
00:20:27 What type of Christmas series is this
00:20:29 As Samson and his parents were going down to Timnah
00:20:31 A young lion suddenly attacked Samson
00:20:33 Near the vineyards of Timnah
00:20:35 At that moment the spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon him
00:20:37 You'll love this
00:20:39 And he ripped
00:20:41 Wow
00:20:43 He ripped the lion's jaws apart
00:20:45 With his bare hands
00:20:47 Oh my goodness
00:20:49 He ripped
00:20:51 The lion with his bare hands
00:20:53 Okay it gets better than that
00:20:55 Let's keep reading because the Bible says
00:20:57 He didn't tell his mother
00:20:59 As easy as it were young
00:21:01 But he didn't tell his father and mother
00:21:03 About it
00:21:05 Oh my God this is going to absolutely bless your life
00:21:07 He saw a woman
00:21:09 Look at me the Bible says
00:21:11 Look at me he liked her
00:21:13 Say he liked her
00:21:15 He saw a woman that he liked this absolutely blessed me
00:21:17 Because when I told you last week he saw her
00:21:19 And he said I want to marry her
00:21:21 And thank you Selina one of my staff people
00:21:23 I said there's a version that says
00:21:25 He saw her and liked her
00:21:27 I said that's good because
00:21:29 Because first he just said lust
00:21:31 Now at least he's talked to her and he kind of liked her
00:21:33 I want to give you what I'm calling the formula
00:21:35 For men particularly
00:21:37 But women come here I want you to write it down
00:21:39 Because this tour God is just speaking to me
00:21:41 Here's what it should be number one
00:21:43 From look to lust
00:21:45 From lust to like
00:21:47 From like to love
00:21:49 And from love
00:21:51 To love making in marriage
00:21:53 Let me try this again
00:21:55 From look to lust soon as you see a woman
00:21:57 You should say good God almighty
00:21:59 On days I can't stand her
00:22:01 I'm still going to sleep with her
00:22:03 Praise God
00:22:05 Yeah lust and if I was a woman I would not want a man
00:22:07 Who didn't lust me
00:22:09 Oh come on
00:22:11 I don't care how many women in here
00:22:13 I need to be the apple of your eye
00:22:15 I know I may not be the cutest thing in here
00:22:17 But to you
00:22:19 To be laying next to a man that don't want you
00:22:21 Is a long life
00:22:23 I know some of you all say pastor talking tough
00:22:25 If I don't teach it who's going to teach it
00:22:27 Pastor why are you teaching this
00:22:29 Because I'm tired of just doing marital counseling
00:22:31 God told me to do premarital
00:22:33 God told me to talk to young people
00:22:35 And single people and divorced people
00:22:37 And hear your pastor
00:22:39 Because a lot of knowledge and a lot of counseling
00:22:41 Has helped me understand get what you like
00:22:43 Don't play that game
00:22:45 From lust to like
00:22:47 Make sure because there's a difference
00:22:49 Between just having lust with somebody you don't like
00:22:51 I'll tell you how you know
00:22:53 You married the right person
00:22:55 After you make love
00:22:57 You didn't just hear what I said
00:22:59 Yeah you think it's all in the love making
00:23:01 It's when the love making is finished
00:23:03 And we still in the same hotel room for three days
00:23:05 Ain't but so much sex you can have
00:23:07 At some point you're going to have to be with them
00:23:09 And then you thinking all you are
00:23:11 Is good in the bed
00:23:13 Yeah other than that
00:23:15 There's nothing else I like
00:23:17 I'm telling you this is why you have no time to play
00:23:19 From the moment I meet you
00:23:21 The investigation starts
00:23:23 I'm not 13 or 16
00:23:25 This ain't who's going to home
00:23:27 Coming with me
00:23:29 This is who I'm going to make a home with
00:23:31 I'm not an outsider
00:23:33 I'm grown enough to know
00:23:35 I need to know do I like you
00:23:37 I told the girl we were in a hotel for two weeks
00:23:39 They gave us the wrong room
00:23:41 We feel like leaving
00:23:43 Room too small
00:23:45 Smaller than the room we got at home
00:23:47 And I couldn't find nothing else
00:23:49 And we in this little room with nothing in it
00:23:51 And I said I couldn't be in here with nobody in the world for two weeks
00:23:53 Not even the kids
00:23:55 God bless them praise God amen
00:23:57 I said but if I stayed in here until Jesus came back
00:23:59 Wouldn't bother me at all
00:24:01 And we just started laughing
00:24:03 I pray you marry somebody you like
00:24:05 (Applause)
00:24:07 (Cheering)
00:24:09 Suki Suki
00:24:11 And from like to love
00:24:13 Married save love making for last
00:24:15 Okay verses 8 and 9
00:24:17 Is where it's about to get gooder and gooder
00:24:19 Y'all ready here it is
00:24:21 Later when he returned to Timna for the wedding
00:24:23 Somebody gonna catch this
00:24:25 He turned off the path
00:24:27 To look at the carcass of the lion
00:24:29 Okay let's see who catches it
00:24:31 And he found a swarm of bees had made some honey in the carcass
00:24:33 He scooped some of the honey into his hand
00:24:35 And ate it along the way
00:24:37 He also gave some to his father and mother
00:24:39 And they ate it but he didn't tell them
00:24:41 He was taking the honey from the carcass of the lion
00:24:43 Come here class
00:24:45 A Nazarite vow meant you were not to what?
00:24:47 You were not to what?
00:24:49 Alright
00:24:51 So implicit in carcass
00:24:53 Is the idea that the animal is dead
00:24:55 He sees a dead animal
00:24:57 He says let me just scoop I'm hungry
00:24:59 Alright this is not no real sin
00:25:01 (Audience)
00:25:03 This ain't killing nobody
00:25:05 This ain't gonna hurt nobody
00:25:07 I'm just gonna
00:25:09 But you missed
00:25:11 What the opening verse says
00:25:13 He turned off the path
00:25:15 Okay
00:25:17 Yes
00:25:19 Yes
00:25:21 Biblicists and theologians watching
00:25:23 Turned off the path is geography
00:25:25 That's all it is he turned off the path
00:25:27 But there's a spiritual principle
00:25:29 The Bible says he was going one way
00:25:31 Turned off the path
00:25:33 Had he stayed on the path
00:25:35 He never would have saw the dead thing
00:25:37 (Audience)
00:25:39 But he turned off the path
00:25:41 The enemy
00:25:43 You didn't shout
00:25:45 Wednesday so maybe you'll shout today
00:25:47 The enemy doesn't give you a flat
00:25:49 He gives you a slow leak
00:25:51 (Audience)
00:25:53 You didn't just hear what I said
00:25:55 If he gave you a flat
00:25:57 You'd have to stop
00:25:59 But what he does is give you a slow leak
00:26:01 So you'll realize that you're leaking
00:26:03 Until you're in the middle of the freeway
00:26:05 And now you're stuck in a place you don't want to be
00:26:07 Because he didn't give you a flat tire
00:26:09 He gave you a slow leak
00:26:11 So you thought you was fine little did you know you was leaking
00:26:13 And so the enemy
00:26:15 Will let you just turn off the path
00:26:17 A little bit and don't realize
00:26:19 You're starting to do stuff that God told you not to do
00:26:21 You're starting to
00:26:23 Fall slowly away
00:26:25 And one thing
00:26:27 Funerals and weddings do at the word
00:26:29 Is you see people who haven't been here
00:26:31 For a while and yesterday
00:26:33 Two or three people I hadn't seen
00:26:35 Some of my most faithful people
00:26:37 And of course they came to give homage to the persons
00:26:39 Who had been serving with them and they hadn't seen
00:26:41 And walked up to me and said
00:26:43 Pastor, I said where you been?
00:26:45 Where are my most faithful? Here's the answer
00:26:47 I don't know pastor
00:26:49 Just pandemic and then was watching
00:26:51 And the next thing I know
00:26:53 I thought to myself
00:26:55 Got off the path
00:26:57 You see and then when they came and seen me in person
00:26:59 And heard me and seen the church and seen everybody
00:27:01 It reminded them
00:27:03 That they had took a slight left
00:27:05 And wound up in the middle of nowhere
00:27:07 And you know what I told
00:27:09 I got a word for somebody
00:27:11 Grace is sufficient
00:27:13 I wish I had somebody
00:27:15 That has gotten off the path in your life
00:27:17 Do me a favor
00:27:19 Hit two people say he'll give you another chance
00:27:21 Go ahead
00:27:23 That's the wrong person
00:27:25 Thank God for another chance
00:27:27 I know I have gotten off the path
00:27:29 Since I've been saved
00:27:31 Oh no it's not just sex, drugs
00:27:33 And rock and roll sometimes it's not reading my Bible
00:27:35 Enough not praying enough
00:27:37 Getting too busy you can just subtly
00:27:39 And subtly get off the path
00:27:41 And next thing you know you starting
00:27:43 To do little stuff that God told
00:27:45 You not to do God said
00:27:47 Don't touch nothing dead
00:27:49 But he began to compromise
00:27:51 Be careful
00:27:53 Playing with the enemy
00:27:55 Can I teach?
00:27:57 Can I teach?
00:27:59 Are y'all tired of me?
00:28:01 Okay somebody say teach pastor teach pastor
00:28:03 Okay watch this because I want you to see this
00:28:05 As his father
00:28:07 I'm reading from the Bible
00:28:09 As his father was making final arrangements
00:28:11 For the marriage Samson threw a party
00:28:13 At Timna which was a custom
00:28:15 For elite young men
00:28:17 A party
00:28:19 A seven day party these weren't parties
00:28:21 We have the reception you'll love this
00:28:23 After the wedding
00:28:25 But Eastern thinking there's a seven day
00:28:27 Party before the wedding
00:28:29 Hebraically it's literally
00:28:31 Called a drinking party
00:28:33 I lost the class
00:28:37 I lost the class
00:28:39 It's a drinking party
00:28:41 Let me try it again it's a drinking party
00:28:43 Number one
00:28:45 Don't touch a dead body don't touch a dead body
00:28:47 Number two Samson don't
00:28:49 Drink any
00:28:51 Now the text does not tell
00:28:53 Us that Samson drank
00:28:55 But most scholars and I agree
00:28:57 You don't throw no seven day drinking
00:28:59 Party
00:29:01 You don't throw a seven
00:29:05 Day drinking party
00:29:07 With a bunch of young brothers who got money like you
00:29:09 If you don't plan
00:29:11 To drink that's like
00:29:13 Hosting an orgy
00:29:15 But I'm gonna sit in the hallway you and I
00:29:19 Come on talk to
00:29:21 Me somebody y'all don't want real talk
00:29:23 If you having all that going on
00:29:25 It's because you plan to participate
00:29:27 Touching let me say this is a deep
00:29:29 Christmas sermon where is Mary
00:29:31 Where is Mary had a little
00:29:33 Lamb I don't want to hear about no orgy
00:29:35 I want to hear about Mary
00:29:37 Some of you Samson
00:29:47 Is anointed
00:29:49 Samson is picked
00:29:51 But Samson got problems
00:29:53 Can I tell y'all what I
00:29:55 Didn't tell you last week
00:29:57 It's all on YouTube and I never mentioned
00:29:59 My subject during my sermon
00:30:01 My subject was I never said it
00:30:03 I didn't ask for this
00:30:05 Did you miss the sermon last week
00:30:07 He never
00:30:09 Said I want to make a vow
00:30:11 He never said I'll
00:30:13 Make a vow like you did when you got married
00:30:15 The day he was born
00:30:17 Stuff was placed on him
00:30:19 He didn't ask for
00:30:21 He never said
00:30:23 I want to be a Nazarite
00:30:25 God picked him
00:30:27 And said like it or not you special
00:30:29 What happens when God
00:30:31 Puts something on you that you didn't ask for
00:30:33 But now you gotta live up to it
00:30:35 And sometimes the pressure
00:30:37 The man
00:30:43 The man never made a vow
00:30:45 He was born with a vow on him
00:30:47 You didn't ask
00:30:49 To have to raise your sister cause your mother was silly
00:30:51 You didn't ask to have to be a man at 12
00:30:55 Because you were the only real man in the house
00:30:57 You didn't ask to have to do all this for your mother
00:31:01 Cause your sister's in with trifling
00:31:03 You didn't have to you didn't ask to have to raise a mama
00:31:05 Cause she's immature and you got a mama
00:31:07 Your mama instead of being mama by your mama
00:31:09 You didn't ask
00:31:11 For the calling that's on your life
00:31:13 You didn't ask for all this is happening
00:31:15 And the responsibility that's on you
00:31:17 But since God put it on you
00:31:19 Go and embrace it and walk in it
00:31:21 And live it out
00:31:23 You are different
00:31:25 That's why you at the word today
00:31:27 On one of the coldest days this year
00:31:31 Cause you different
00:31:33 You don't fit in the club
00:31:35 You don't fit it to get togethers
00:31:37 They all get to smoke
00:31:39 And you used to be comfortable
00:31:41 But there's something on you
00:31:43 You tired of your cousins talking about girl
00:31:45 He was good in the bed and keep better than Joe
00:31:47 And girl I slept with Joe but he ain't all that
00:31:49 And you sitting there thinking that's not who I am
00:31:51 I don't fit
00:31:53 Yeah I'm sexual I got needs as a woman
00:31:55 But I'm better than that
00:31:57 I'm a different kind of brother
00:31:59 What happens when God puts something on you
00:32:01 Some of you gotta get over it
00:32:03 You special
00:32:05 If everybody's special
00:32:07 Then nobody is
00:32:09 Thank you
00:32:11 We all special to God
00:32:13 But some of you have a special calling on your life
00:32:15 Samson
00:32:17 Got all this power
00:32:19 And sometime with power and gifting comes passion
00:32:21 And passionate people
00:32:23 Have to be careful with their passions
00:32:25 Cause they'll come out the wrong way
00:32:27 The same drive
00:32:29 That gets you paid
00:32:31 Will have you in the wrong bed
00:32:33 You know what I'm teaching better than you responding
00:32:37 So you have to watch yourself
00:32:39 Watch yourself
00:32:41 When you're passionate
00:32:43 And your mind goes fast
00:32:45 It can come out sideways in temper or sex
00:32:47 Or anything or drinking or overdoing stuff
00:32:49 Or moving too quickly
00:32:51 Because when you're passionate and special
00:32:53 Just like God picked you
00:32:55 God devil did too
00:32:57 And so he
00:33:05 He keeps playing with his gifting
00:33:07 First of all he didn't touch this dead body
00:33:11 Now he threw the party
00:33:13 No one there was gonna be liquor there
00:33:15 You weren't supposed to be around liquor or strong drink
00:33:17 He didn't throw a seven day party
00:33:19 If you play with fire
00:33:23 I'm losing now
00:33:25 Somebody watch me across the world
00:33:27 They're not filling me in the sanctuary
00:33:29 Eventually you'll
00:33:31 I told them at nine o'clock
00:33:33 I told them from 13 to 60
00:33:35 Tom about Tom about you dating
00:33:37 And he over your house and nobody there
00:33:39 And you tell me
00:33:41 Stop
00:33:43 Now you didn't invited him over
00:33:47 You didn't win and got the shrimp in the steak from Red Lobster
00:33:49 And
00:33:51 Or the Cheesecake Factory
00:33:53 It's an Instagram thing
00:33:59 And
00:34:01 Now you didn't went over there
00:34:03 And y'all in the house
00:34:05 Two grown people and you 45
00:34:07 Stop
00:34:09 He like girl you got
00:34:11 Grandkids take them clothes off praise God
00:34:13 Tom about
00:34:15 Stop girl you're 57 years old
00:34:17 Tom about you got a whole grandson
00:34:19 Just walk down the hallway you Tom about stop
00:34:21 You know why you brought me over here
00:34:23 Ditches and fell out every
00:34:25 Your
00:34:27 Ditches and fell out just stop
00:34:29 Hold ditches and fell out Tom about stop
00:34:33 55 years old Tom about
00:34:37 Stop
00:34:39 No if you serious I'm too
00:34:41 Grown to let you come over and we
00:34:43 Be alone I'm not a child
00:34:45 I'm not a teenage I'm a grown woman with a
00:34:47 Child I'm sexual I'm a real man
00:34:49 If we don't do this thing right we have to put
00:34:51 Parameters in place let's meet over your
00:34:53 Mother's house let's meet in public places
00:34:55 Because I'm too wrong I'll just
00:34:57 Kiss
00:34:59 I'll just kiss
00:35:03 I ain't 12
00:35:05 Girl I ain't 12
00:35:07 When I kiss I touch
00:35:09 We just
00:35:11 Don't kiss okay we just don't kiss like
00:35:13 We 13 we just don't kiss we just don't
00:35:15 Stop stop stop stop
00:35:17 Stop then two hours later all
00:35:19 Have sin and fall short come on
00:35:21 There's grace for us
00:35:23 Baby just
00:35:25 People say preach
00:35:31 Don't play with the enemy
00:35:43 Don't play with the enemy
00:35:47 Don't play with the enemy
00:35:51 If you serious about celibacy
00:35:53 Which you got grandkids self
00:35:55 Keep yourself away from sin
00:35:57 If you're in your 20s 30s
00:35:59 Why of you too sexual to play
00:36:01 People who grown
00:36:03 And sexual can't play either we gonna
00:36:05 Do this thing or going and sin
00:36:07 Don't have sin if you going to hell
00:36:09 Go with gasoline draws on praise
00:36:11 God go if you going
00:36:13 Bust it open boom what's up
00:36:15 Go with 12 strippers and some
00:36:19 Black
00:36:21 Why you gonna go to hell
00:36:23 Halfway bust that
00:36:25 My sermon is got off the rails
00:36:29 Somebody pray for me praise God
00:36:31 I have going to hell
00:36:35 I'm busting
00:36:37 That
00:36:39 This is not a comedy
00:36:41 Show this is the word church from Cleveland Ohio
00:36:43 Welcome in you can come as
00:36:45 You are you won't stay
00:36:47 Believe it or not
00:36:49 I'm sorry hit three people say where is the Lila I've been looking
00:36:51 It's been
00:36:55 It's been two Sundays. I'm
00:36:57 I don't I'm not from church, but I know it's called Samson and Delilah. Where is Delilah?
00:37:01 Merry people
00:37:05 Merry people merry couples
00:37:07 Merry couples
00:37:09 On the fourth day
00:37:11 On the fourth day verse 15
00:37:13 They said to him
00:37:15 Verse 15 they said to Samson's wife
00:37:18 Entice your husband to explain the riddle for us
00:37:21 Or we will burn down your father's house with you in it
00:37:25 Did you invite us to this party just to make us poor?
00:37:28 First of all Samson who you got at this party that's trying to kill you
00:37:32 Yeah, who you who you got around you that you think your friend
00:37:37 Yeah, how do you make it to your party?
00:37:40 This ain't pastor Vernon hugging people in the convention center that he don't know
00:37:44 That's his job ministry is messy
00:37:46 He had to take risk every Sunday and hug people who maybe can't stand them. That's what he signed up for
00:37:51 But Samson why you got people all at your party who you don't know?
00:37:55 Teenagers I tell my daughter all the time when she says friend I say stop saying friends just say people I know
00:38:00 Yeah
00:38:04 I tell her
00:38:06 Daddy my friends my friends. I say you just met them like three seconds ago. They are not friends
00:38:10 They they just some kids, you know, they may turn on you any second. Just be kind but be careful
00:38:15 Takes a while to get called friend
00:38:18 They go to his wife
00:38:21 Okay, so there's this riddle. I'm Vernon eyes. I'm out of time. There's this riddle. How much time I got in the clock?
00:38:25 I see whole cameraman black and white. I said, okay, I'm out of time. I said so so look at me
00:38:29 There's this there there's this there's this party and there's this riddle that Samson tells he just talking out getting live
00:38:38 Special but but acting crazy then touch something dead not here to party everybody invited people. He don't even know he's not guarding his anointing
00:38:47 He's not guarding his specialness and now he talking out just talking too much trying to show off
00:38:54 So he tells this riddle and pretty soon he gonna start talking about his hair, which we all know
00:38:58 He's not supposed to let nobody touch but you keep playing with fire
00:39:02 You keep playing with this guy you keep playing with her eventually you're gonna go too far with her because you're human you keep playing with
00:39:09 This person because you're lonely or whatever or keeping people in your life because of low self-esteem
00:39:13 Eventually, it's gonna get to you
00:39:15 So these people this riddle he tells this riddle and says whoever can solve this riddle by the end of the feast you get whatever
00:39:21 Blah blah blah, but Samson doesn't want anybody know so they go to his woman and say you we need you to go trick him. I
00:39:30 Got a question that I wrote that go trick him and find out
00:39:33 What's the answer to this riddle here's what I asked a nine o'clock service what did she project
00:39:40 That made them think she would play her husband. I
00:39:44 Don't know if I'm talking to married people or a single people
00:39:49 What did she project?
00:39:52 What did she give off the Mason brothers think they could come at her like that?
00:39:59 What what was in her disposition or what she had on
00:40:01 What what was it about her that made them think they should take a shot?
00:40:06 I'm not saying the men don't flirt with good women. They do
00:40:08 I'm simply saying I want to ask the question when they start going too far and you've already and they know you married
00:40:14 What what what what does she give off?
00:40:18 Well, what does she give off that made them think that there should be something about the way you carry yourself
00:40:24 That says don't play with me. Oh
00:40:29 You're not mean
00:40:30 There's just something on your life that no good brothers can tell she's not the one she's not the one that's that's gonna be too
00:40:37 Much work and and those of us who are married
00:40:39 No, don't don't play that both male and female are you talking to singles or married?
00:40:44 This is the series for everyone don't miss right now those watching online
00:40:48 Show it to your daughter your cousin your mom your friend because I'm all over the place
00:40:52 Relationships all over all over me because God is a relational God. Whatever else life is this relationships
00:40:58 And so let pass to help you. What does she give off that made them think there ought to be something in your disposition?
00:41:04 That says I'm not gonna hurt my husband
00:41:06 Your sister should know it
00:41:08 Your mama should know it. Don't don't don't talk about my spouse, baby. No, no mama. We got to go now
00:41:13 No, mama, that's my husband. That's my there to be something that everybody close to you. Knows. You're not gonna hurt her husband and
00:41:19 He's not gonna hurt her we may make mistakes, but what made them think I want you to ask yourself married couples
00:41:27 Who you married to why pastor are you leaning into this because I don't want you to marry somebody who's not gonna cover you. I
00:41:32 Don't want you to marry somebody that I talk about you like a dog to her mama
00:41:40 I've been married 26 years if she has I've never heard her her and her sister talk every night
00:41:46 I've never walked in on a conversation when she was putting me down
00:41:49 I've never made a mistake in eavesdropped and heard her saying nothing and God knows
00:41:53 There's some stuff she could say about me, but she will not say it even to her own sister her mother
00:41:59 I'm not talking about if somebody's beating you or abusing you at some point you ought to run and get help
00:42:03 But I'm talking about every little thing you ought to be trusted as a spouse and those of you who will marry somebody marry somebody
00:42:10 Who will cover you?
00:42:12 Marry somebody who got your back
00:42:14 Pastor why you teaching this?
00:42:17 Because it's a long
00:42:19 Invisible existence to be with somebody you don't want to sleep with and you can't trust
00:42:24 And the only reason you still marry and so the kids won't be crazy and Christ won't be mad
00:42:32 Now those are two good reasons, but I would hate for those to be my reasons
00:42:38 We don't stay married. So the kids won't be in therapy and so Christ won't be mad
00:42:42 That's those are good reasons to fight. But that shouldn't be the reason and nobody wants to preach this
00:42:49 And that's why God told me to do this tour because yes in 24
00:42:53 I'm meeting all married couples virtually we're gonna talk and help us make adjustments and do what we got to do
00:43:00 But to those of you who have a pick yet
00:43:03 Don't be that lonely
00:43:06 Don't settle you gonna hate you did that for some sex
00:43:12 You
00:43:14 Gotta be with this person to one of y'all die
00:43:21 Unless you're gonna be average and just move from husband to husband. That's not what we teach here at
00:43:27 The word church. Let me say this and then I'm I'm done. You'll love this. Oh my goodness. I'm done
00:43:34 As a as a married person
00:43:38 I put this on Instagram and went viral don't be flattered when people flirt with you be offended
00:43:43 As a married person
00:43:48 Don't be flattered
00:43:51 When people flirt with you now if somebody flirts with you, they don't know you married. They can't see your ring
00:43:55 Don't hate them for that. Thank God. I don't want nobody don't nobody else won't
00:43:58 You just miss that I don't want nobody don't nobody else won't so when guys take their shots
00:44:04 I'd be laughing on player you gonna get rejected. Anyway, praise God. Amen. You ain't got enough enough
00:44:09 Well brother, I do that did it already y'all miss that praise God. I'll do that did it already
00:44:14 Whatever you can think about it's been done brother going out of here. She's loved from head to toe
00:44:18 I wish I had some husbands that will set up and sit back down and say I feel you pastor sit down
00:44:23 Don't play if you see my ring, I know you've heard me teach this and you flirt with me anyway
00:44:35 Especially if you know her you a witch
00:44:38 If you see her as a witch
00:44:44 You'll get away from her
00:44:47 Don't look at her shape. Look at the devil inside of her
00:44:50 And say if you'll mess up my whole happy home, and you know, you know my wife you a witch from hell and I curse
00:44:58 Y'all don't want me to talk
00:45:04 And
00:45:06 I'm talking to men to to you handsome brothers when girls flirt with you. Oh
00:45:12 They'd be glad I'm married girl
00:45:17 Girl, you better go girl. Go girl
00:45:23 That's playing too much
00:45:29 Don't flirt with me
00:45:32 If you know, I'm married I said for years. I'm gonna say it again you flirt with me. I'm gonna say your name on TV
00:45:40 Keisha is a witch
00:45:43 Not the Keisha's here the other Keisha
00:45:46 Girl yesterday on Instagram said I'm sorry no offense, but your teeth are so pretty I
00:45:58 Ain't know what to say
00:46:01 On Instagram, I've no offense but just smiling. I like and I wanted to type back. I bought him
00:46:07 Y'all just miss her friends got a minute
00:46:09 God didn't give them to me. I bought him buy you some don't be complimenting mine. I'm good girl. I'm gonna play with me
00:46:17 Some of y'all say pastor you over the top. No, I'm not
00:46:24 Guard your gates
00:46:27 Guard your marriage
00:46:29 guard
00:46:31 And I said early and I promise I'm finished when I say this and
00:46:37 I made a vow and all of you that have made some mistakes in your marriage. I speak life over your marriage
00:46:42 I can't stand that where she broke her vow you ready for this every couple in here has broke your vow
00:46:47 You forgot if he altar you gave more than one
00:46:50 How come the only vow we talked about is the one with somebody else involved
00:46:55 You also stood there and gave a whole lot of I promise the honor to cherish to love some of you lying women and obey
00:47:02 girl, please
00:47:04 You won't even get a brother sandwich. You're talking about obey obey what?
00:47:08 You're the one said it at the altar
00:47:14 So all of us in some sense of broke our vow in our marriage y'all ready
00:47:20 Let's have church Ephesians 4 32 forgiving one another as God has forgiven you
00:47:27 I'm done when I tell you I went too long. I got to give you this or I won't be able to sleep
00:47:33 I won't be able to sleep here. It is
00:47:35 Here it is
00:47:38 Judges 15 1 & 2 I'm done on this later on it was during the wheat harvest
00:47:43 Samson visited the bride his bride you waited a while
00:47:47 Then you finally went and got your bride when it was marriage time brought a young go to sacrifice
00:47:51 He said let me see my wife show me her bedroom, but her father wouldn't let him in
00:47:56 He said I concluded that by now you hated her with a passion. So I gave it to your best man
00:48:01 You ain't got to watch Jerry Springer come to church
00:48:05 You don't need lifetime you just need the Word of God is this crazy
00:48:11 Samson
00:48:13 Look at me
00:48:23 Has now been given a broken heart
00:48:26 What happens when your daddy play you
00:48:30 The woman you love just tried to get you killed and your father
00:48:36 Gave her to your boy
00:48:40 So he has horizontal and vertical pain
00:48:43 He has pain from above him and pain from who we've been to bed with
00:48:48 So he got a broken heart
00:48:50 What you think he was gonna do when he picked Delilah?
00:48:53 Nobody talks about what he had been through his father what happens when it's your father that plays you
00:49:05 When it's your mother either with their absence or with their words or with their behavior and now
00:49:10 Here you are with a broken heart trying to pick
00:49:13 And you wonder why you ended up with Delilah
00:49:17 I'm gonna give you this because I want to close where I started because the Bible says in verse 18
00:49:24 Judges 14 verse 18 if you hadn't plowed with my helper
00:49:28 You wouldn't have solved my riddle
00:49:30 That's why I preach leave that helper alone and sometime that helper is a him
00:49:35 Sometime that helper is Henry
00:49:40 Sometime that helper is Harry and then sometime is Helen Lee when you see signs of crazy don't ignore them
00:49:48 When people show you who they are
00:49:52 Stop being in denial
00:49:58 And then she comes in there if you really love me if you really love me
00:50:02 You tell me your riddle and the Bible says she cried through the whole feast and some of you got married before you found out
00:50:08 You married a manipulator
00:50:10 Who wants to throw up stuff and always make you feel like there's something you're not doing when they the one broken
00:50:16 But they want to throw in your face if you really love me
00:50:19 So now you're always in this place trying to make her happy trying to make him happy
00:50:22 He never pleased he never happy because they got issues on the inside and they're projecting them on you
00:50:27 So hit his girl is come here married couples because some of y'all don't have to get home or you won't be alone
00:50:34 Cuz I'm at a place in this church. I ain't gonna keep letting you drive. Nobody crazy because you got a ring
00:50:38 Yeah, you want to run somebody away
00:50:43 I know that nobody gonna mentally crazy because nothing they do can satisfy you and you think you got them trapped cuz you got a
00:50:48 Ring at some point you got to make a decision to get healthy or that's abuse
00:50:53 Oh
00:50:55 Man this all over me. I'm with you
00:51:18 Samson has a broken heart everybody. I guess I need to close with Jesus 140 Psalms 147 verse 3
00:51:25 he heals the brokenhearted and
00:51:28 Bandages is their wounds. It's on the screens
00:51:32 quick upstairs. Yeah, he heals the brokenhearted and
00:51:37 Bandages their wounds if you love pastor don't walk right now. Thank you
00:51:41 Luke 418 is the one you know
00:51:44 The Spirit of the Lord is upon me
00:51:47 Because he's a he has anointed me to preach the Gospels of the poor. He has sent me to heal
00:51:51 The brokenhearted
00:51:55 Everybody thinks the word church is in the soul-saving business only now. We also in a brokenhearted business
00:52:02 Because some of you are 50 and don't know you've been operating out of a broken heart
00:52:08 You're a part of why up and you have no idea in your early 20s you're the most brokenhearted girl in the world
00:52:16 And if you're not clear your brother and brothers can't say I have a broken heart we talk go get that money and shut up
00:52:22 Don't about to feel sorry for you, but your mom and Jesus brother right here that mumbo-jumbo
00:52:26 Psychotherapy brother get over it. No that brother got a broken heart
00:52:29 That's why I hug men as much as I hug women when they walk in that line cuz 50 year old man be brokenhearted
00:52:36 I'm brokenhearted pastor, and I don't know how to be a husband. My daddy didn't show me that I don't know
00:52:42 I know I like girls. I know I like nice bodies
00:52:44 I know sex feel good other than that. I'm just trying to figure this thing out
00:52:47 I don't know and I'm single and and
00:52:50 Sometime I'm settling and just looking for any single man in why F or whatever just want to be with somebody cuz my heart broke
00:52:56 I ain't got enough sense to just stay alone and be happy and make money until something comes. I gotta fix my heart I
00:53:04 Didn't have I
00:53:08 Know I ain't raised offering yet
00:53:10 You give if you want to if you don't you walk out I promise I got to do what God said and we need money
00:53:15 Want money, but this is a moment right here
00:53:17 And if ain't nobody dead or in trouble don't walk out this room till I'm finished cuz God's about to minister to you
00:53:23 I didn't had all kind of altercals in my career. I ain't never had a brokenhearted altercal
00:53:29 And so I'm gonna need you to ignore cameras and people's opinions
00:53:35 And if you have a broken heart if you think maybe your heart may have been broken and not quite healed today
00:53:41 It happened at 9 I prophesize about to happen again
00:53:44 Deliverance is in this room
00:53:47 nobody
00:53:49 Talks about Samson's broken heart
00:53:52 He was more than nasty. He was brokenhearted. The altar is open for
00:53:57 brokenhearted
00:53:59 Just run run first one here first one to the water first one to the water first one
00:54:04 Oh
00:54:06 Oh
00:54:08 Oh
00:54:10 Oh
00:54:12 Look at this
00:54:14 You can watch
00:54:16 Oh
00:54:18 Oh
00:54:20 Oh
00:54:22 Oh
00:54:24 Oh
00:54:26 Oh
00:54:28 Oh
00:54:30 Oh
00:54:32 on the way with wicked man in work I know it does in work in work in work in work
00:54:50 In work in work in work in work in work in work
00:55:15 I know it works I know it works
00:55:20 They stand and proclaim
00:55:24 The church is God's and I proclaim
00:55:28 There is no greater name
00:55:32 There is power in the name of Jesus
00:55:37 They stand and proclaim
00:55:41 There is no greater name
00:55:45 Than Jesus
00:55:48 Oh Jesus
00:55:52 Sweet Jesus
00:55:56 You're here Jesus
00:56:01 Oh my Jesus
00:56:05 My saviour Jesus
00:56:09 Jesus
00:56:11 You're my everything Jesus
00:56:15 Jesus
00:56:17 The scripture says he is near to the brokenhearted
00:56:21 I came to heal the brokenhearted
00:56:26 So grateful for every husband particularly single young brother seasoned men who came to the altar
00:56:33 Because we hate to show our emotions but you came to every married woman at this altar to every mother and grandmother every single young lady with life in front of you
00:56:45 I speak healing over you
00:56:50 You ready? God reveals himself depending on what he's getting ready to do
00:56:57 When he's trying to usher in peace he says I am Jehovah Shalom
00:57:02 When he wants to protect I am Jehovah Nisi
00:57:05 When he wants to provide I am Jehovah Jireh
00:57:08 Jehovah Shema
00:57:11 Oh but in the name of Jesus he is the God that heals
00:57:18 And I ask you to lift your hands
00:57:21 In the name of Jesus
00:57:24 He is Jehovah Rapha
00:57:28 The Lord who heals
00:57:31 And healing is breaking out all over this altar right now
00:57:34 There's such a heavy anointing on me
00:57:37 If I can hug all of you one at a time and I might just do that after church
00:57:40 But right now receive the power of God
00:57:42 It has nothing to do with me
00:57:43 The power of God is in this place
00:57:45 The Bible says the power of God was present to heal them
00:57:48 Let me try it again
00:57:49 It was present to heal them
00:57:51 And I want you to think about every pain you've been through
00:57:54 You cannot give the rest of your life to that pain
00:57:56 You cannot
00:57:57 You're right
00:57:58 He's gone, she's gone, that happened
00:58:00 Too many people need you and like Samson you're too special
00:58:03 And today I declare healing over your life
00:58:06 Oh go on and let it out for the last time
00:58:09 Healing over your life
00:58:10 Go on and cry out to God
00:58:12 Heal me God, heal me God
00:58:14 He's fixing your broken heart
00:58:16 Stand up in your house
00:58:17 Do what I said
00:58:18 Stand up in your house
00:58:21 He's healing you now
00:58:23 Every person dealing with father pain
00:58:25 Is gone in the name of Jesus
00:58:27 Passed out but I still feel it
00:58:29 That's alright
00:58:30 I call it gone
00:58:31 It may take a couple more years but I call it gone
00:58:35 I call the healing process to begin right now
00:58:39 All divorcees
00:58:42 Everybody that's been hurt by your husband
00:58:45 Hurt by your wife
00:58:47 Hurt by ministry
00:58:48 Hurt in any way God has called you
00:58:51 Help pick him up Pete, pick him up Pete
00:58:53 Pick him up, pick him up, pick him up, pick him up
00:58:55 Stay right there
00:58:56 In the name of Jesus brother hold your hand up
00:58:59 I call you healed brother
00:59:01 From all your infirmities
00:59:04 That's why you came today
00:59:06 I don't even know your name, what's your name?
00:59:08 Warren
00:59:09 Huh?
00:59:10 Warren
00:59:11 Say it again
00:59:12 Warren, Warren you healed
00:59:14 God sent you to church
00:59:16 I need
00:59:19 Five of my elders and deacons
00:59:22 To come hug all over Warren right quick
00:59:23 Ministers all y'all
00:59:24 Male ministers come get him right quick
00:59:26 Y'all hug all over him
00:59:27 Come on y'all
00:59:28 Y'all give God a praise
00:59:29 Go get him come on go get him
00:59:31 Go get him, go get him
00:59:32 Hey offering is up to you today
00:59:39 I mean it
00:59:40 The Lord just told me to tell you that
00:59:42 Offering is up to you today
00:59:43 I'm not raising one
00:59:44 So I'm gonna figure out what kind of church I got
00:59:46 I'm in healing mode right now
00:59:48 And if you need to go
00:59:50 Then there's a bunch of doors for you to go to
00:59:52 I promise I'm letting you go
00:59:53 I just heard this
00:59:54 If there's a man that's real real broken hearted
00:59:57 I mean just whatever
00:59:59 I need you to come
01:00:00 My ministers and deacons
01:00:01 Male ministers come on stage
01:00:02 I wanna just hug you right quick
01:00:03 God's about to do something in this place
01:00:05 And I'm gonna pray for you
01:00:06 We're gonna go home together
01:00:07 Would y'all thank God for healing in this place
01:00:09 Would y'all stretch y'all hand
01:00:13 Whooo.
01:00:14 Whooo.
01:00:16 Healing is breaking out.
01:00:19 Amen.
01:00:20 Munison, all men at this altar,
01:00:21 come up here and get a hug
01:00:22 for one of these brothers.
01:00:23 Y'all, y'all get, y'all go crazy.
01:00:25 Y'all go crazy.
01:00:26 Y'all clap y'all hand.
01:00:28 Lift your hands.
01:00:28 Father in the name of Jesus,
01:00:30 healing, healing, healing,
01:00:33 healing, healing, healing, healing.
01:00:36 Healing, healing, healing.
01:00:36 Healing, healing, healing.
01:00:36 Healing, healing, healing, healing.
01:00:37 Healing, healing.
01:00:38 Healing, healing.
01:00:38 Healing, healing, healing, healing.
01:00:41 Ladies, lift your hands.
01:00:42 Healing, healing, healing.
01:00:45 He's doing it right now.
01:00:47 Hug him brothers, hug him, hug him, hug him.
01:00:50 Hug him, hug him, hug him.
01:00:51 Hug him, hug him.
01:00:52 Praise him, lift it up.
01:00:56 Don't, don't, don't, don't, don't be, don't be.
01:01:00 Come on, lift your hands.
01:01:06 ♪ For this is freedom ♪
01:01:10 ♪ There is no ♪
01:01:13 ♪ God in Gilead ♪
01:01:16 Any other men, come on up here.
01:01:21 Any other men, come on up here now.
01:01:22 Any other men.
01:01:24 Any other men.
01:01:25 ♪ There is no ♪
01:01:27 ♪ God in Gilead ♪
01:01:35 Oh, bow, bow, bow.
01:01:36 ♪ There is no ♪
01:01:41 ♪ God in Gilead ♪
01:01:46 ♪ To heal the soul ♪
01:01:51 ♪ Healing for your soul ♪
01:01:56 Shh, we gotta go.
01:01:58 Please let me be the pastor.
01:02:05 There's certain times the waters are troubled
01:02:08 more than others.
01:02:10 There's no cigarette or piece of chicken
01:02:11 or getting out the parking lot first
01:02:14 is more important than what's happening at this altar.
01:02:17 I want you to make your son watch this.
01:02:18 If you think you started late in his life,
01:02:21 he may have a broken heart.
01:02:24 If you were a young mother and loved her to death
01:02:27 but just bust a couple moves you wish she wouldn't have saw,
01:02:31 let her watch this.
01:02:33 I'm not just trying to get likes,
01:02:34 I'm trying to get people healed.
01:02:37 Even your mom may want to watch this.
01:02:39 Maybe she was raising you out of a broken heart
01:02:42 'cause your grandmother broke her heart.
01:02:45 We're not taught in the black ethos
01:02:46 that it's all right to talk about emotional pain.
01:02:50 I know you're a Christian,
01:02:51 that don't mean you don't have a broken heart.
01:02:53 And so today I speak life over you.
01:02:55 He says, watch this,
01:02:56 I didn't come to work with a broken hearted, look at me.
01:02:59 He said, I didn't come to work with a broken hearted,
01:03:01 look at me.
01:03:02 He said, I come to heal.
01:03:04 If you healed, you healed.
01:03:06 So you've been in process too long.
01:03:09 Over the next two months, I declare healing over you.
01:03:13 And when I say healing, I mean,
01:03:15 I'm not saying you won't think about it sometime,
01:03:17 you're a human being,
01:03:18 but it's not gonna impact you like that no more.
01:03:21 It's not gonna mess with your choices about who you date.
01:03:23 It's not gonna make you so lonely
01:03:24 that soon as somebody cute,
01:03:25 everybody else got a husband,
01:03:26 I want somebody and you're settling.
01:03:28 No, you're gonna be so tight in who you are
01:03:30 that you're gonna wait on God.
01:03:33 You're gonna wait on God.
01:03:34 As a man, you're gonna be a better father and grandfather.
01:03:38 Some of you don't ever hug your sons
01:03:40 'cause your father didn't hug you.
01:03:42 My sons push me back, I kiss them in the face that much.
01:03:45 Dominic, Ray, Ralph, in the face,
01:03:47 sometime in the mouth, they have to push me back
01:03:50 because I want them to see what love feels like from a man.
01:03:54 Healing, I'm healed,
01:03:55 so I don't think I gotta make them tough.
01:03:58 They're already tough watching me kill the game.
01:04:00 They tough enough.
01:04:01 They gotta feel the love of a father.
01:04:04 Those of you, no man ever hugged you.
01:04:06 I've been in the convention center.
01:04:07 I know the game all, nobody likes sports as much as me,
01:04:09 but not when God is working.
01:04:11 God is working.
01:04:13 Yeah, this my job, this my job.
01:04:15 One more time, lift your hands, please.
01:04:19 And I'm not just trying to belinger this,
01:04:20 I feel God all over me.
01:04:22 And I wanna hug any of you that wanna hug today.
01:04:24 In the name of Jesus,
01:04:26 I decree and declare by the power of the Holy Spirit,
01:04:28 oh do it God, that healing is breaking out in this place.
01:04:31 Father, I ask you now to touch people
01:04:34 that have been dealing with this as they were five,
01:04:36 13, their first marriage, abuse, abandonment,
01:04:40 some type of molestation, anything God,
01:04:42 I break it in the name of Jesus.
01:04:44 All divorcees in this church,
01:04:46 they are not second class citizens.
01:04:48 Help them understand they were broken hearted,
01:04:50 whoever they married was broken hearted.
01:04:52 They didn't know how to be married.
01:04:53 In the name of Jesus, grace over this place.
01:04:56 Grace over this room.
01:04:58 Every abandoned son, daughter,
01:05:00 everybody in wrong relationships right now,
01:05:02 every couple that somebody messed up,
01:05:05 grace over that marriage.
01:05:07 Broken hearted, in the name of Jesus,
01:05:09 I decree and declare it is done in Jesus' name.
01:05:13 And it is so.
01:05:15 From this altar, I'm sorry, look at me.
01:05:19 If you love God, put your offering in the basket
01:05:23 out there in the hallway as you go out
01:05:25 or drop it at this altar, give online.
01:05:28 That's all I have to say.
01:05:29 Church is dismissed, we're gonna worship.
01:05:32 Anybody wants to get saved right now, run to this altar.
01:05:35 Anybody wanna join this church, run to this altar.
01:05:39 Give your offering on the way out the door.
01:05:41 God bless you.
01:05:43 Come on, teacher, come on, come.
01:05:45 Don't, don't.
01:05:46 There's healing.
01:05:49 ♪ Healing for your pain ♪
01:05:53 ♪ Healing for your pain ♪
01:05:58 ♪ Healing for your spirit ♪
01:06:03 ♪ There's shelter from the rain ♪
01:06:09 ♪ Lord, send the healing ♪
01:06:18 ♪ For this we know ♪
01:06:22 ♪ There is a parmigilius ♪
01:06:25 ♪ There is a parmigilius ♪
01:06:39 ♪ There is a parmigilius ♪
01:06:43 ♪ There is a parmigilius ♪
01:06:53 ♪ There is a parmigilius ♪
01:07:07 ♪ There is a parmigilius ♪
01:07:11 ♪ There is a parmigilius ♪
01:07:21 ♪ To heal the soul ♪
01:07:30 ♪ Healing for the soul ♪
01:07:34 ♪ Healing for the soul ♪
01:07:37 ♪ Healing for your soul ♪
01:07:42 ♪ Healing for your soul ♪
01:07:48 - Ali said I'm pretty.
01:07:56 They ain't make me pretty.
01:07:58 Listen, what a word, man.
01:07:59 You gotta tell somebody about this sermon,
01:08:02 this series, The Life of Samson.
01:08:04 We'll be dealing with singles, married individuals,
01:08:07 making bad choices, when there's an anointing on your life,
01:08:11 not falling back to stuff God told you to avoid.
01:08:14 You name it is in this teaching.
01:08:16 It's The Life of Samson.
01:08:18 Tell everybody.
01:08:19 I gotta go to work.
01:08:20 I'm out.