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00:00:00 Actually, every baby has a deep meaning
00:00:03 For a mother, giving birth to 4 babies means you love your child
00:00:07 So every baby is a meaning that you can never forget
00:00:09 In your mother's journey
00:00:10 The doctor said, maybe my wife doesn't know where to give birth
00:00:12 Maybe I have to have an abortion
00:00:13 At first, I was a little worried
00:00:14 If I had an abortion but I didn't have an abortion
00:00:17 I was afraid that the baby would have some problems
00:00:18 So we changed to have a buffet breakfast and then have an abortion
00:00:21 I'm a mother, I'm happy
00:00:23 And I'm happy because I'm a mother
00:00:24 Not because I'm the mother of a boy or a girl
00:00:26 When a baby is born, you don't just feed it and let it sleep
00:00:30 You have to plan for the child's education
00:00:32 About the development of the baby and the parents' companionship
00:00:34 How to distribute it to the baby
00:00:35 A girl in the family, I think it changes everything
00:00:39 It makes her brothers love each other more
00:00:41 And it connects the whole family with that baby
00:00:43 Wow
00:00:44 Hello, Ms. Kiwi
00:00:45 Thank you
00:00:46 First, I would like to send my greetings to Ms. Tonia
00:00:50 MC Ngoc Lan
00:00:51 This is a mother who also has a lot of children
00:00:53 How many are you?
00:00:55 I'm updating to see if the final number is correct
00:00:58 Up to now, there are 4 babies
00:01:00 So you updated correctly, 4 babies
00:01:03 Up to now
00:01:04 What about the future?
00:01:05 I don't know about the future
00:01:06 We don't need to care about that because we don't know
00:01:09 My oldest baby is 15 years old
00:01:12 The second baby is 8 years old
00:01:14 The third baby is 6 years old
00:01:15 And the youngest is 1 year old
00:01:16 Wow
00:01:17 Kiwi Ngoc Mai Trang is a model, singer, aesthetic expert and Vietnamese citizen
00:01:22 In 2007, Kiwi Ngoc Mai Trang married the famous singer Do Hoang Duong
00:01:26 In 2008, after giving birth to her first son, she returned to singing
00:01:31 With the release of the second album named "Em Vuan Hac"
00:01:34 Currently, the couple has 3 sons and a very lovely daughter
00:01:38 The first journey was 16 years ago
00:01:44 Is it still rich in your memory?
00:01:46 Actually, when each child is born, there is a very rich impact
00:01:51 For a mother, having 4 children is very lucky
00:01:55 So each child is a very important memory that I will never forget
00:01:59 Today, I can reveal that all 4 children came to me with a surprise
00:02:03 When I told my husband that I was pregnant, we both felt very surprised
00:02:07 Because we planned not to be pregnant
00:02:09 But we received the news very suddenly
00:02:12 The day you told Duong that you were pregnant, how was your body?
00:02:19 I was very confused
00:02:20 At first, I was very sleepy and I was very afraid of the smell
00:02:23 After that, I told my husband that I was sleepy and I slept everywhere
00:02:26 That was the first sign of having a baby
00:02:30 How did you go to the doctor?
00:02:33 I went to the doctor immediately to see if my body had any changes
00:02:39 And if I was pregnant, I had to have the right nutrition for my baby
00:02:43 When you were a little bit sick and smelly
00:02:46 First, I bought 10 scents and tried them
00:02:49 There was still a smell
00:02:51 But why did you buy 10?
00:02:53 Because I was sure
00:02:54 Because one was a little bit far but 10 was for sure
00:02:57 You still didn't believe the manufacturer
00:02:58 I still believed
00:02:59 I was sure
00:03:00 After I tried them, I went to the doctor
00:03:02 When you went to the doctor, the doctor told you how long the baby had been with you
00:03:07 When I tried, the baby was about 6 weeks
00:03:11 When I knew I was pregnant, I felt very uncomfortable
00:03:14 I didn't feel uncomfortable, but I felt tired
00:03:17 You felt like you were in a coma
00:03:19 Yes, I felt like I was in a coma
00:03:20 But my first pregnancy, my journey ended after 3 months and 10 days
00:03:23 After that, I ate normal food and gained 18 kg
00:03:26 I think my first pregnancy was great
00:03:29 You were happy
00:03:30 Yes
00:03:31 How did the first day of the baby happen?
00:03:35 Did you have any signs?
00:03:37 Or did you go to the doctor on the right day and check and then you gave birth?
00:03:41 When I went to the doctor, I had a thicker period
00:03:45 The doctor told me that I had a two-part period and I had to go to the hospital
00:03:48 I told him to take me home and he took me to the hospital
00:03:52 After that, I prepared my stuff
00:03:56 My husband asked me how I was doing
00:03:58 I told him that I didn't have any weight when I went to work
00:04:01 So I told him that I would go to the hospital first and then he would go to the hospital later
00:04:04 After that, I only had a period for a day
00:04:09 I told him that I thought he would take me to eat buffet
00:04:12 The doctor said that my wife didn't know where to give birth so I had to have a surgery
00:04:17 I was a little worried that if I didn't have a surgery, what would happen to my baby
00:04:23 So we changed our clothes and went to eat buffet
00:04:26 Why did you choose to eat buffet among all the food?
00:04:30 Because there were many dishes I liked
00:04:32 You can eat everything before giving birth
00:04:35 Yes
00:04:36 The principle is that the baby's head is a surgery
00:04:38 Did you have a make-up when you had a surgery?
00:04:44 Or did you have a make-up at home?
00:04:46 I had to have a make-up
00:04:48 I had to have skincare in my clothes
00:04:52 I had to have a skin care and my lips had to be a little bit swollen
00:04:55 I had to be a little bit swollen when I took pictures
00:04:57 I had to be a little bit swollen when I took pictures
00:04:58 So you really enjoyed the first journey
00:05:02 How did you feel when you saw your first child?
00:05:09 When I gave birth to my first child, I didn't feel the same as when I gave birth to my fourth child
00:05:14 Maybe everyone's feeling was different
00:05:16 I was confused about what I had to do to protect my baby
00:05:22 Both of us were surprised
00:05:26 We were not emotional or crying
00:05:29 Because everyone's feeling was different
00:05:32 I was emotional when I gave birth to my fourth child
00:05:34 I thought I had to live a long time and be healthy to protect my baby
00:05:38 When you gave birth to your fourth child, you were a big girl
00:05:43 Yes, I was a big girl
00:05:44 I was a big girl
00:05:45 I was a big girl
00:05:46 I was a big girl
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00:17:19 I called my husband
00:17:21 It was a great feeling
00:17:23 Because my 3 children are very loving
00:17:27 I think having a daughter in the family changes everything
00:17:32 It makes their brothers love each other more
00:17:34 And it connects the whole family with that baby
00:17:37 Even my husband is more loving
00:17:40 I told him that I saw him giving birth to a baby
00:17:42 I saw him love me so much
00:17:43 Now I see that love is not possible
00:17:45 Because a woman loves a baby
00:17:47 But a girl loves a baby in a different way
00:17:48 When I gave birth to my first child
00:17:51 I told him that I had to live longer
00:17:55 Because my daughter is very fragile
00:17:57 I was afraid that she would be like that
00:18:00 I was afraid that she would be like that
00:18:01 So it was a different feeling
00:18:03 You said that one of the ways to have a stable baby
00:18:06 Is to give birth to a baby and breastfeed her
00:18:07 You have proof of this
00:18:09 But 4 babies?
00:18:10 4 babies, I breastfed a lot
00:18:11 I breastfed more than 1 liter every time
00:18:13 Is breastfeeding fun?
00:18:14 I only breastfed 2 times
00:18:15 So I don't know what to do with 4 times
00:18:17 I told my husband that I was not afraid of giving birth
00:18:19 I was not afraid of giving birth
00:18:20 But I was afraid of breastfeeding
00:18:22 And having a baby with breast milk
00:18:24 Breastfeeding is very hard for a mother
00:18:26 First, I had to wash my baby's diaper at night
00:18:29 And I had to breastfeed
00:18:30 My skin was all wrinkled and my neck was swollen
00:18:32 I had to bend down to see if the baby was breastfed
00:18:36 My back hurt
00:18:37 I had to sit on the bed
00:18:38 If I didn't feel that my baby was a source of happiness
00:18:41 I would feel that it was a tragedy
00:18:43 But when I thought that my baby would drink this milk
00:18:46 I would feel happy
00:18:48 And Lulu would be the one who found the milk of the baby
00:18:52 Please, please, please
00:18:54 Normally, I breastfed all 4 babies
00:18:58 But the breast milk had to be hot
00:19:00 The first baby, I bought a separate fridge
00:19:03 I squeezed too much milk
00:19:04 I squeezed the milk to keep it cold
00:19:05 I opened the fridge and I found it not good
00:19:08 It was hard to drink
00:19:10 So I decided not to let my baby drink milk
00:19:12 I gave the baby and the baby's father the milk directly
00:19:15 When I went to work for 6 months
00:19:17 I cut the breast milk
00:19:18 I cut the breast milk slowly
00:19:20 I finished the breast milk
00:19:22 And I was sure that the breast milk was better than the breast milk
00:19:24 Because the breast milk was home-made
00:19:25 The breast milk was sweeter
00:19:26 So the journey of the 4 babies was 6 months of breast milk
00:19:29 Thank you so much
00:19:30 I feel a little bit uncomfortable with my baby
00:19:33 There will be times when she will not listen to me
00:19:37 She will not listen to me
00:19:38 And it's a little bit hard to say
00:19:40 But it will pass
00:19:42 Because there are stages
00:19:44 Like my sister
00:19:45 There are stages when I don't want my parents to talk much
00:19:47 I just want to be myself
00:19:48 But later, when I have a baby, I love my parents more
00:19:51 I think it's a cycle
00:19:53 And my baby is the same
00:19:54 I would like to ask you one more thing
00:19:57 You are an artist
00:19:59 The stage is the cathedral
00:20:01 But you spend all your time for your children
00:20:04 4 children
00:20:05 And each child, in my opinion, must live with 6 years old children
00:20:09 So your time for work is not...
00:20:11 I still have my own path
00:20:13 For example, I am making an album of music
00:20:15 My music is 2 songs, 2 CDs
00:20:17 Because music is a project that I am proud of
00:20:20 My mother really likes it
00:20:21 I follow the Catholic faith
00:20:22 One project is French music and the other is Tet music
00:20:25 I will go to the music school at 1pm to 4pm
00:20:27 I will go to the music school when my children go to school
00:20:30 And in the afternoon, I can have dinner with my family
00:20:32 I have already done half of my career
00:20:34 I think I have a plan
00:20:36 I will go to the music school to perform
00:20:39 I think I can balance everything
00:20:42 Whether I can balance it or not depends on my thinking
00:20:45 Women can balance everything
00:20:47 Thank you
00:20:48 What message do you want to send to your children?
00:20:51 The topic is "What message does your mother send you?"
00:20:53 In your 15 years of parenting, what message do you want to send to your children, your husband, or your grandmother?
00:21:00 Who has been supporting you all the time
00:21:02 Do you have any message for them?
00:21:04 15 years of parenting is a great journey for me
00:21:08 And through the show, I would like to thank my mother, my grandmother
00:21:13 Because we have a happy journey of parenting
00:21:16 And we are very happy because of your support
00:21:20 I hope you can be healthier and more supportive in the next journey if you have a fifth child
00:21:25 If I have a fifth child, I will go to the orphanage
00:21:29 Thank you so much for sharing your stories about parenting
00:21:33 I know after this episode, the audience will have some lessons to learn
00:21:41 Please have a seat
00:21:44 Hello everyone, hello Ms. Ngoc Giang and Ms. Nga
00:21:49 My name is Phuong Thao, I'm 29 years old
00:21:51 And I have a 15-month-old daughter
00:21:55 15 months is not a new age, so you must remember it very clearly
00:21:59 Yes
00:22:00 I'm just kidding, even if you have been together for 20-30 years, you still remember it
00:22:03 Yes, there are many reasons why we cannot forget the memories of parenting
00:22:08 So, 15 months and the journey of you and your daughter will start with the question
00:22:13 "What was the moment when you received the information that your child came to you?"
00:22:19 So, you have to go back 15 years plus 9 years, which is about 2 years ago, right?
00:22:23 Yes
00:22:24 So, what was the moment when you received the information that your child came to you?
00:22:28 It was a morning when I was diagnosed with a 4-day preterm birth
00:22:38 I was a little bit worried because before I had this baby, I had another baby
00:22:45 But my first pregnancy was not very lucky
00:22:49 I had to stop the pregnancy for 24-25 weeks
00:22:53 That's a long time
00:22:55 Yes, it was about 5-6 months
00:22:58 Why?
00:22:59 Because after about 1-2 days, I didn't see the baby moving, the baby was in my belly
00:23:08 I told my husband, he also comforted me that the baby was sleeping
00:23:13 But at that time, I had a bad feeling about something
00:23:17 So, my husband and I went to the hospital
00:23:19 After the doctor examined the baby, he asked me a few questions
00:23:25 I said, "Thảo, my baby is gone"
00:23:29 So, you had an abortion?
00:23:31 Yes, I had an abortion
00:23:33 I asked him the first question, "Why?"
00:23:38 "Why did you do that?"
00:23:40 He said he didn't know the reason why
00:23:45 Because the baby had some changes in the belly that could be out of control
00:23:51 I was so confused at that time
00:23:55 I didn't know what to say
00:23:57 I didn't know what was going on in my head
00:24:00 I went outside and told my husband
00:24:03 He said he didn't accept the result
00:24:06 We will go to another hospital
00:24:11 I still had a small hope
00:24:16 But we went to another hospital that night
00:24:20 My husband and I had to accept the result again
00:24:26 I went home that night
00:24:30 I couldn't express my disappointment and pain
00:24:36 I was afraid of my calmness
00:24:40 I couldn't cry or scream
00:24:43 I could only imagine what would happen the next day
00:24:49 I just held my baby in my arms
00:24:53 I knew that my baby and I would be apart
00:24:58 It was painful
00:25:02 But I was calm and calm
00:25:07 I was afraid of my calmness
00:25:10 I couldn't scream or scream
00:25:13 The next day, we went to the hospital
00:25:17 I could only imagine what would happen the next day
00:25:22 I knew that my baby and I would be apart
00:25:27 When I got the medical report
00:25:31 I started to cry
00:25:34 I saw many pregnant women and babies
00:25:39 I felt so unfortunate
00:25:44 They were my babies
00:25:48 I was hospitalized
00:25:51 I could only imagine what would happen to me
00:25:55 I had a medical report on my desk
00:26:00 The doctor told me that I had a concussion
00:26:05 I had to have surgery to have my baby out
00:26:11 I couldn't have a normal birth
00:26:16 My husband told me that it was okay
00:26:23 We were still young
00:26:25 We could have our baby in a few months
00:26:28 When I heard that, I was devastated
00:26:33 Did your husband hear that?
00:26:35 Or were you alone in the surgery room?
00:26:37 He explained to my husband that he was there
00:26:44 We were so worried
00:26:48 He was a very ambitious man
00:26:51 He had many children
00:26:54 I didn't know if I could wait for another baby
00:27:01 I lost everything
00:27:05 The surgery was successful
00:27:12 But the doctor told me that there was a document
00:27:17 that said that the surgery was dangerous
00:27:20 I could lose my blood, have a concussion
00:27:24 There were risks around the uterus
00:27:26 that could be dangerous to my mother's life
00:27:28 If the doctor couldn't take my blood
00:27:31 I could lose my uterus
00:27:34 I was so scared
00:27:38 I was afraid that if I had to do that
00:27:41 I might not have a baby
00:27:45 I was afraid of losing my uterus
00:27:48 That was my biggest fear
00:27:51 When the doctor told me that
00:27:53 I thought that if I had to lose my uterus
00:27:58 I should just follow my child
00:28:02 I was afraid that if I couldn't have a baby
00:28:08 I would not be able to tell my parents
00:28:17 I kept that in my heart
00:28:19 I didn't cry when I was waiting for the surgery
00:28:25 I didn't know why I couldn't cry
00:28:29 I understand that feeling
00:28:31 There is a reason
00:28:33 When we have a concussion
00:28:35 we all have different reactions
00:28:37 If we don't scream, cry, or be stubborn
00:28:41 it doesn't mean that we are stubborn
00:28:43 or that we are strong
00:28:45 We are just wrong about our reactions
00:28:47 We think that people who receive bad news
00:28:49 and they keep talking about it
00:28:51 mean that they are strong
00:28:53 and that it's okay
00:28:55 It's just a reaction
00:28:57 Our brain can react in many ways
00:28:59 Some people have a lot of behaviors
00:29:01 They move around, cry, and scream
00:29:06 They also have a lot of reactions
00:29:08 When they block their whole body
00:29:11 they look at it or receive it
00:29:13 But outsiders think that
00:29:15 they are okay
00:29:17 I want people to understand that there are many reasons
00:29:19 I think that with Nhu Thao's feelings
00:29:23 it's more serious than the fact that she can cry
00:29:27 Because I can't express it
00:29:29 At that time, no one will understand
00:29:31 how I feel when I lose my cool
00:29:33 and how I feel when I'm in pain
00:29:35 I understand that feeling
00:29:37 With that kind of mentality
00:29:39 it's hard for me to accept
00:29:41 and it's hard for me to overcome
00:29:43 But whatever happens, it has to happen
00:29:45 We have to get the baby
00:29:47 Yes, that's right
00:29:49 Luckily, after the surgery
00:29:51 I woke up and I knew that I was still alive
00:29:55 But the question is
00:29:57 "Can I still have a baby?"
00:30:02 During the hospital days
00:30:04 I didn't dare to ask anyone
00:30:06 I didn't dare to ask my mom or my husband
00:30:08 Because you were afraid of the result
00:30:10 You were afraid of the result
00:30:12 and you couldn't stand it
00:30:14 Until the day I was discharged
00:30:16 I took the paper and read my medical report
00:30:21 I had the answer
00:30:23 I was relieved
00:30:25 In the hospital, my husband kept telling me
00:30:27 "Let's go home"
00:30:29 Because there were only crying babies around
00:30:32 and there were only mothers around
00:30:34 He was afraid that I would lose my cool
00:30:37 and it would get worse
00:30:39 So he asked me to go home
00:30:41 The doctor said no
00:30:43 I had to stay in the hospital
00:30:45 and I had to stay there for a few days
00:30:47 Before I went home, the doctor told me
00:30:49 "Because of the surgery, you have to wait 2 years"
00:30:53 So the time you had to wait for the baby
00:30:57 was it 2 years?
00:30:59 No, because I was afraid
00:31:01 I wanted to prepare carefully for the second baby
00:31:05 But I had to overcome my mentality
00:31:08 I had many plans
00:31:10 I wanted to go to school and work
00:31:12 I also had a plan to take care of my husband
00:31:17 At that time, we hadn't done anything yet
00:31:20 I had the news that I had a second baby
00:31:22 How many months after the surgery?
00:31:24 I had the surgery
00:31:26 and I had 1 month to recover
00:31:28 which was in November
00:31:30 Then in mid-February
00:31:32 I was told that I had a baby
00:31:34 So it was 3-4 months
00:31:36 Actually, with many journeys
00:31:38 we always have the first question
00:31:40 "How do you feel when you receive the news of your baby?"
00:31:42 It's like a start
00:31:44 But there are stories in life
00:31:46 that are not a start but a continuation
00:31:48 And it's not always a welcome and a happy feeling
00:31:52 Like today's story
00:31:54 There is a fear
00:31:56 because we haven't stepped out of the pain
00:31:58 and haven't been truly at ease
00:32:00 So when you see the news
00:32:04 you start to worry
00:32:06 and decide to try the surgery
00:32:08 What did you do with the surgery?
00:32:10 How did you talk to your husband?
00:32:12 We were both happy and scared
00:32:16 When I tried the surgery
00:32:18 tears started to fall
00:32:20 I was happy because I had a baby
00:32:22 but I was scared
00:32:24 because I hadn't done anything yet
00:32:26 I hadn't prepared for my health
00:32:28 I didn't know how my baby would be
00:32:30 and if he would come back to me
00:32:32 So we went to the hospital
00:32:34 to check if he was really pregnant
00:32:36 When I arrived at the hospital
00:32:38 the doctor said
00:32:40 I only saw the baby's form
00:32:42 in the uterus
00:32:44 I didn't see the baby's full-time pregnancy
00:32:46 But when I tried the blood
00:32:48 the BCG level was very high
00:32:50 BSR is the B-C-G
00:32:52 Yes, B-C-G
00:32:54 So you had a B-C-G
00:32:56 Yes
00:32:58 B-C-G
00:33:00 B-C-G
00:33:02 B-C-G
00:33:04 B-C-G
00:33:06 The doctor was trying to find out
00:33:08 if the baby's full-time pregnancy
00:33:10 was really pregnant
00:33:12 It was very high
00:33:14 But I still couldn't see any full-time pregnancy
00:33:16 in the uterus
00:33:18 I was worried
00:33:20 I told him that there was a risk of having a baby outside the uterus
00:33:22 But if I had a baby
00:33:24 I would have to keep the baby
00:33:26 I told him that I would keep the baby
00:33:28 The possibility of having a baby outside the uterus is very high
00:33:30 Because we just had the surgery
00:33:32 a few months ago
00:33:34 and the surgery directly affected the uterus
00:33:36 So the mechanism of the baby's activity
00:33:38 may not be fully recovered yet
00:33:40 There are many risks
00:33:42 of having a baby outside the uterus
00:33:44 I was very worried
00:33:46 that the baby would have a miscarriage
00:33:48 and I had a miscarriage
00:33:50 It was very dangerous
00:33:52 It was only a few months
00:33:54 but I received a lot of messages
00:33:56 and information
00:33:58 that made me very confused
00:34:00 The doctor explained
00:34:02 the risks to me
00:34:04 He drew my uterus
00:34:06 Last time, because I had a baby
00:34:08 24-25 weeks ago
00:34:10 my uterus was still very high
00:34:12 For full-time mothers
00:34:14 the uterus is low
00:34:16 If I keep the baby
00:34:18 the possibility of the baby being trapped in the uterus
00:34:20 is very high
00:34:22 If I don't keep the baby
00:34:24 will I keep the baby?
00:34:26 I said yes
00:34:28 I want to keep the baby
00:34:30 I think the doctor
00:34:32 should explain to me
00:34:34 But the doctor said
00:34:36 I should go home and follow the doctor
00:34:38 If I have any stomachache
00:34:40 I should go to the hospital immediately
00:34:42 to follow the baby outside the uterus
00:34:44 If not,
00:34:46 I will have a surgery
00:34:48 in a few days
00:34:50 and the baby will be out of my uterus
00:34:52 I was very angry at the doctor
00:34:54 Yes, you were angry
00:34:56 You knew it was a special case
00:34:58 but you still did it
00:35:00 In this case, I love both sides
00:35:02 I love both doctors
00:35:04 I can't do anything wrong
00:35:06 I have to follow the doctor's advice
00:35:08 to take care of pregnant women
00:35:10 I have to keep the baby
00:35:12 even if the baby is dead
00:35:14 I have to keep the baby
00:35:16 I feel so guilty
00:35:18 I don't know how to say it
00:35:20 How long did you get angry?
00:35:22 I went to another doctor
00:35:24 I went to another doctor
00:35:26 I went to another two doctors
00:35:28 because I wanted to find
00:35:30 a doctor who could give me
00:35:32 the answer I wanted
00:35:34 You wanted to listen to the advice
00:35:36 but you had to follow your own advice
00:35:38 If you follow someone else's advice
00:35:40 you will feel like you are being persuaded
00:35:42 How did you find the doctor?
00:35:44 I had to find the fourth doctor
00:35:46 I had to find the fourth doctor
00:35:48 He understood my situation
00:35:50 He said he would take care of the baby
00:35:52 He would take care of the baby
00:35:54 The third doctor I met
00:35:56 He explained to us
00:35:58 that if the baby was born
00:36:00 and there were any risks
00:36:02 during the pregnancy
00:36:04 he could not promise
00:36:06 to protect the baby
00:36:08 and the mother
00:36:10 until the end of the pregnancy
00:36:12 If he wanted to keep the baby
00:36:14 and there were any risks
00:36:16 we had to take responsibility
00:36:18 The baby was 5 weeks old
00:36:20 When the doctor told me
00:36:22 that the baby was 5 weeks old
00:36:24 and there was a heart
00:36:26 I saw the heart beating very fast
00:36:28 It was only 5 weeks old
00:36:30 and there was a heart
00:36:32 I was confused
00:36:34 I didn't know
00:36:36 what to do
00:36:38 There was a heart
00:36:40 What should I do?
00:36:42 I said
00:36:44 I had a heart surgery
00:36:46 I had a heart surgery
00:36:48 I was not afraid anymore
00:36:50 I was not afraid anymore
00:36:52 I would keep the baby
00:36:54 My husband said
00:36:56 it was up to me
00:36:58 It was my body
00:37:00 He would respect my decision
00:37:02 If I kept the baby
00:37:04 we would try to protect it
00:37:06 I was lucky
00:37:08 I was introduced to the fourth doctor
00:37:10 I was lucky
00:37:12 The doctor said what we wanted to hear
00:37:14 For people like me
00:37:16 the psychological is very important
00:37:18 The doctor gave me
00:37:20 a sense of security
00:37:22 I didn't know
00:37:24 how the medical
00:37:26 and health would be
00:37:28 I felt reassured
00:37:30 The doctor gave me more confidence
00:37:32 that I could keep the baby
00:37:34 The show is a bit long
00:37:36 but there are many things
00:37:38 that the doctors have to say
00:37:40 First, it's stressful
00:37:42 The doctors have to work hard
00:37:44 so there is no time to sit and talk
00:37:46 It's like a romantic movie
00:37:48 The overload of work
00:37:50 doesn't allow them to stop
00:37:52 They understand
00:37:54 Second, it's related to the job
00:37:56 Sometimes they have to be clear
00:37:58 Second,
00:38:00 we only have one pain
00:38:02 but the doctors see dozens of pains
00:38:04 There are pains
00:38:06 that we can't describe
00:38:08 They don't just give us the facts
00:38:10 but they also tell us the truth
00:38:12 The story is 1+1=2
00:38:14 I tell you the story
00:38:16 and you use 1.5 or 2
00:38:18 I will calculate it
00:38:20 There are many doctors in Vietnam
00:38:22 who have mental illness
00:38:24 That's right
00:38:26 When I was filling out the form
00:38:28 I cried
00:38:30 The doctor said
00:38:32 "It's nothing"
00:38:34 I was so sad
00:38:36 The doctor hugged me
00:38:38 and said "It's nothing"
00:38:40 I thought
00:38:42 "This happened to me many times"
00:38:44 So to the doctors
00:38:46 it's not a big deal
00:38:48 It's not big
00:38:50 but they don't have time
00:38:52 to be more free
00:38:54 They don't have property
00:38:56 so I still love them
00:38:58 The movies I play are not realistic
00:39:00 Every time I receive a bad news
00:39:02 I have to tell them
00:39:04 "It's nothing, it's true"
00:39:06 "Let's continue"
00:39:08 "Who knows what will happen next?"
00:39:10 "But I have a baby"
00:39:12 "So let's continue"
00:39:14 During the treatment
00:39:16 did you have any worries
00:39:18 during the time
00:39:20 you were in the hospital?
00:39:22 When I started
00:39:24 the journey was still long
00:39:26 so I was worried
00:39:28 at first
00:39:30 I was afraid
00:39:32 because the baby was in my belly
00:39:34 I had to follow the baby
00:39:36 and I had to decide
00:39:38 If there were any risks
00:39:40 I couldn't intervene
00:39:42 I had to decide
00:39:44 I cried a lot
00:39:46 I was afraid
00:39:48 I didn't know what would happen
00:39:50 When I met this doctor
00:39:52 I did many tests
00:39:54 to see how the baby was
00:39:56 and how the baby's condition was
00:39:58 and how the baby's mother was
00:40:00 When I did the tests
00:40:02 there were many risks
00:40:04 but the doctor didn't tell me
00:40:06 I didn't know until later
00:40:08 but he didn't tell me
00:40:10 he did the treatment for me
00:40:12 but there was a big risk
00:40:14 he had to tell me
00:40:16 he said there was a virus in my blood
00:40:18 called B19
00:40:20 Can you explain to me
00:40:22 what B19 is?
00:40:24 It's a virus
00:40:26 that is common in small children
00:40:28 it will spread to the whole body
00:40:30 to the mother
00:40:32 to adults like me
00:40:34 it's not a big deal
00:40:36 but for pregnant women
00:40:38 it's very dangerous
00:40:40 because it will attack the baby
00:40:42 and it will damage the baby
00:40:44 it will take away all the nutrients
00:40:46 and it will make the baby bloodless
00:40:48 so the doctor said
00:40:50 this was not curable
00:40:52 and I couldn't intervene
00:40:54 I had to observe the baby
00:40:56 to see if it was safe
00:40:58 and if it was safe
00:41:00 to observe the baby
00:41:02 and he said
00:41:04 I had to tell him
00:41:06 it was like a trap
00:41:08 but I didn't know when
00:41:10 they would set me up
00:41:12 I was very scared
00:41:14 I asked him
00:41:16 if the virus would attack the baby
00:41:18 would it show up on the mother?
00:41:20 he said no
00:41:22 it was just in the body
00:41:24 they were just fooling around
00:41:26 they didn't know
00:41:28 it was a trap
00:41:30 but this guy is so pitiful
00:41:32 he was in a very uncomfortable state
00:41:34 he couldn't think of anything
00:41:36 we hear a lot about the symptoms
00:41:38 when you read the news
00:41:40 you will know
00:41:42 the symptoms like the stomachache
00:41:44 the stomachache
00:41:46 the stomachache
00:41:48 and you will know
00:41:50 when you go to the doctor
00:41:52 you will know
00:41:54 when you go to the doctor
00:41:56 you will know
00:41:58 how long did you go to the doctor?
00:42:00 how long did you go to the doctor?
00:42:02 I remember
00:42:04 about 2 weeks
00:42:06 sometimes 1 month
00:42:08 the first time
00:42:10 I went to the doctor for 2 weeks
00:42:12 I was still a baby
00:42:14 a few weeks
00:42:16 when the doctor said it was fine
00:42:18 I went to the doctor once a month
00:42:20 the doctor told me
00:42:22 to love life
00:42:24 don't be afraid
00:42:26 if you have a doctor
00:42:28 don't go on google
00:42:30 read other things
00:42:32 but I was too free at home
00:42:34 I went on google
00:42:36 to find information
00:42:38 I found out it was dangerous
00:42:40 because there were mothers abroad
00:42:42 who also had the virus
00:42:44 and they also lost their babies
00:42:46 I also had a mother
00:42:48 who came to me
00:42:50 when she was 32 weeks old
00:42:52 she also had the virus
00:42:54 but it was too late
00:42:56 the doctor said
00:42:58 it was too fast
00:43:00 I couldn't do anything
00:43:02 so I had to follow the baby closely
00:43:04 so I had to follow the baby closely
00:43:06 every time I went to the doctor
00:43:08 my heart was beating
00:43:10 because I was scared
00:43:12 I was scared
00:43:14 I had to measure
00:43:16 the size of the baby
00:43:18 and the size of the baby
00:43:20 to see if it was normal
00:43:22 to see if it was normal
00:43:24 if it was normal
00:43:26 I could breathe
00:43:28 I was very nervous
00:43:30 I was very nervous
00:43:32 I was worried
00:43:34 I was worried about the day I was going to give birth
00:43:36 I tried not to make the feeling of fear
00:43:38 I tried not to make the feeling of fear
00:43:40 with negative feelings
00:43:42 I was afraid it would affect the baby
00:43:44 I was afraid it would affect the baby
00:43:46 How was the day of giving birth?
00:43:48 It was about
00:43:50 38 weeks and 5 days
00:43:52 The doctor said it was fine
00:43:54 so I had to do the surgery
00:43:56 I was afraid
00:43:58 I was afraid
00:44:00 I didn't know what would happen
00:44:02 The doctor told me
00:44:04 that the surgery was on Friday
00:44:06 I asked him if it was Saturday
00:44:08 and he said it was 10/10/2020
00:44:10 The doctor asked me
00:44:12 when did you see the baby
00:44:14 I didn't dare to argue
00:44:16 We packed our luggage
00:44:18 and went to the hospital
00:44:20 The doctor checked again
00:44:22 and said it was Saturday
00:44:24 I said it was Saturday
00:44:26 I was happy
00:44:28 I went home
00:44:30 I went home
00:44:32 I was hospitalized that night
00:44:34 I was hospitalized that night
00:44:36 I was hospitalized that night
00:44:38 There was a bed in the room
00:44:40 for my parents
00:44:42 and my husband had a bed
00:44:44 for his relatives
00:44:46 He was afraid
00:44:48 the bed would be dirty
00:44:50 so he slept on the sofa
00:44:52 He was big
00:44:54 He slept on the sofa
00:44:56 He couldn't sleep
00:44:58 so he let me sleep on the bed
00:45:00 I said
00:45:02 "Please give birth for me tomorrow"
00:45:04 "How can I wait for you to sleep on my bed?"
00:45:06 "How can I wait for you to sleep on my bed?"
00:45:08 I trusted the doctor
00:45:10 and his surgery team
00:45:12 I trusted the doctor
00:45:14 so the surgery was safe
00:45:16 so the surgery was safe
00:45:18 I was afraid
00:45:20 but the doctor said
00:45:22 "It's time"
00:45:24 "The doctor is worried"
00:45:26 "I don't have to worry"
00:45:28 My husband came to the room
00:45:30 My husband came to the room
00:45:32 with me
00:45:34 He was wearing a protective suit
00:45:36 in the green room
00:45:38 He looked like a hero
00:45:40 I have never seen
00:45:42 my husband being so great
00:45:44 in my life
00:45:46 I was lying
00:45:48 I was lying
00:45:50 I was afraid of the doctor
00:45:52 I was afraid of the doctor
00:45:54 I had to do a CT scan
00:45:56 I didn't know
00:45:58 I couldn't hug him
00:46:00 so the doctor could inject the injection
00:46:02 I couldn't hug him
00:46:04 The doctor said
00:46:06 "It's because of your abs"
00:46:08 "I don't know"
00:46:10 I couldn't hug him
00:46:12 It took 10 minutes
00:46:14 "You need to do it well"
00:46:16 "You need to do it well"
00:46:18 "It's not just pain. It's also a lot of blood"
00:46:20 It's not just pain. It's also a lot of blood"
00:46:22 It took 10 minutes
00:46:24 The doctor and a nurse
00:46:26 came to help
00:46:28 came to help
00:46:30 I couldn't stand up
00:46:32 When the doctor was doing the CT scan
00:46:34 the light was on
00:46:36 I could see
00:46:38 I couldn't see
00:46:40 but I could see the red light
00:46:42 I was afraid of closing my eyes
00:46:44 My husband was next to me
00:46:46 "Please hold the knife"
00:46:48 "Please hold the knife"
00:46:50 "I can smell it"
00:46:52 "Why didn't you decide to do it?"
00:46:54 "I don't know"
00:46:56 I was afraid of closing my eyes
00:46:58 "The doctor is doing the CT scan"
00:47:00 "You are afraid of closing your eyes"
00:47:02 "You need to do it with the sound"
00:47:04 "Do you smell it?"
00:47:06 "I can smell it"
00:47:08 "What smell?"
00:47:10 "The smell of the knife"
00:47:12 "You can smell it?"
00:47:14 "Please be quiet"
00:47:16 "My husband is a foreigner"
00:47:18 "He said BBQ"
00:47:20 "Please be quiet"
00:47:22 "I'm scared"
00:47:24 "He said be quiet"
00:47:26 "I was scared"
00:47:28 "20 minutes later"
00:47:30 "The doctor took my baby out"
00:47:32 "I heard my baby crying"
00:47:34 "My tears came out"
00:47:36 "My husband was crying"
00:47:38 "I was there"
00:47:40 "I ran back to my baby"
00:47:42 "My baby has 2 arms"
00:47:44 "My baby has 2 legs"
00:47:46 "10 fingers"
00:47:48 "10 toes"
00:47:50 He was in class
00:47:52 but he was like "This one has 2 legs"
00:47:54 "This one has 2 toes"
00:47:56 It was like we had been holding it for too long
00:47:58 so now it was one by one
00:48:00 Oh my God
00:48:02 I cried
00:48:04 but I tried to hold it in
00:48:06 I didn't cry
00:48:08 I was afraid that the oxygen was in my nose
00:48:10 and the blood pressure was unstable
00:48:12 I was afraid that the blood pressure was unstable
00:48:14 Luckily, after 38 weeks
00:48:16 and 5 days
00:48:18 all the fears
00:48:20 and difficulties
00:48:22 were gone
00:48:24 I was so relieved
00:48:26 I was so relieved
00:48:28 I was so nervous
00:48:30 I was afraid that something would happen
00:48:32 and I would be worried
00:48:34 but luckily, it was over
00:48:36 After that, the doctor
00:48:38 did a check-up
00:48:40 and he said
00:48:42 my baby had many risks
00:48:44 but he was happy
00:48:46 that my baby was born
00:48:48 I knew
00:48:50 how dangerous it was
00:48:52 but he didn't tell me
00:48:54 I was so scared
00:48:56 I was so scared
00:48:58 I think with your experience
00:49:00 you know
00:49:02 what to say and what not to say
00:49:04 and if you don't say anything
00:49:06 there must be a signal
00:49:08 to tell you
00:49:10 It doesn't mean
00:49:12 that you can hide everything
00:49:14 It doesn't mean that you can hide everything
00:49:16 It depends on the person
00:49:18 When you give birth
00:49:20 how do you take care of your baby
00:49:22 and the risk factors
00:49:24 stop when you
00:49:26 give birth
00:49:28 or are they still there
00:49:30 so that you can take care of your baby
00:49:32 without being nervous
00:49:34 During the period
00:49:36 I pay attention to the diet
00:49:38 My baby
00:49:40 the doctor told me not to give birth too early
00:49:42 because it will
00:49:44 get stuck in the uterus
00:49:46 I just need to give birth
00:49:48 I gave birth a lot of times
00:49:50 and the doctor was so mad
00:49:52 because I was afraid that
00:49:54 I would give birth too much
00:49:56 and it would affect my uterus
00:49:58 My baby was 3.2 kg
00:50:00 and luckily
00:50:02 he was healthy
00:50:04 and well taken care of
00:50:06 so in terms of his health
00:50:08 I
00:50:10 didn't have to worry
00:50:12 I didn't have to worry
00:50:14 because
00:50:16 the doctor was very careful
00:50:18 because
00:50:20 he knew there were risks
00:50:22 so in my team
00:50:24 there was a doctor
00:50:26 and he told me that
00:50:28 if there was anything
00:50:30 I needed to do, he would help
00:50:32 My baby was
00:50:34 very healthy
00:50:36 and then my journey
00:50:38 to take care of my baby started
00:50:40 The journey to
00:50:42 take care of your baby is the most difficult
00:50:44 because there are many people
00:50:46 who take care of your baby
00:50:48 Please tell us about
00:50:50 your journey to take care of your baby
00:50:52 My mother-in-law
00:50:54 lives far away
00:50:56 My mother-in-law
00:50:58 also has a job in her hometown
00:51:00 so I only got
00:51:02 support from my mother and my grandmother
00:51:04 for about a month
00:51:06 After that, my husband and I
00:51:08 took care of our baby
00:51:10 I didn't know
00:51:12 why I didn't
00:51:14 decide to
00:51:16 find a babysitter
00:51:18 because
00:51:20 my mother-in-law was just born
00:51:22 I was afraid that someone
00:51:24 would do something to my baby
00:51:26 and I wouldn't be able to rest assured
00:51:28 if it wasn't my family
00:51:30 so I decided to take care of my baby
00:51:32 Sometimes
00:51:34 I was exhausted
00:51:36 because my husband was working
00:51:38 so there were only my mother and my son
00:51:40 taking care of my baby
00:51:42 feeding my baby
00:51:44 breastfeeding my baby
00:51:46 and feeding my mother
00:51:48 It took away all my health
00:51:50 because
00:51:52 I told my husband
00:51:54 to just sleep
00:51:56 My husband never
00:51:58 woke up at midnight to feed my baby
00:52:00 Because you didn't ask for it
00:52:02 Yes, I chose that
00:52:04 so he could sleep at night
00:52:06 I was just me and my husband
00:52:08 and my baby
00:52:10 didn't cry at night
00:52:12 but he had to
00:52:14 hug me
00:52:16 and hold me in his arms
00:52:18 all day
00:52:20 I just hugged him
00:52:22 When he woke up
00:52:24 I fed him milk
00:52:26 and let him play
00:52:28 so I could rest
00:52:30 or go to work
00:52:32 so I didn't
00:52:34 have to do much
00:52:36 Actually
00:52:38 when you hear my story
00:52:40 many mothers
00:52:42 sympathize with you
00:52:44 but there are also some
00:52:46 who say
00:52:48 "Oh my god, she gave birth to 7-8 babies
00:52:50 and she still works
00:52:52 and she doesn't feel tired
00:52:54 or I'm still taking care of my baby
00:52:56 so it's fine"
00:52:58 But each story is different
00:53:00 Each person has
00:53:02 different power
00:53:04 I don't know
00:53:06 about your health
00:53:08 if you share it with your husband
00:53:10 but do you share it with your family?
00:53:12 I'm fine
00:53:14 outside
00:53:16 but I'm not fine inside
00:53:18 because there are
00:53:20 nights when I hug my baby
00:53:22 and I cry
00:53:24 I don't know why
00:53:26 I cry
00:53:28 My husband still
00:53:30 loves me
00:53:32 because I'm still fine
00:53:34 I still smile, I still talk
00:53:36 I still play with my baby
00:53:38 I still talk to my husband
00:53:40 but there are nights
00:53:42 when I'm alone
00:53:44 I hug my baby
00:53:46 I cry and lock myself in my room
00:53:48 I lock my door
00:53:50 I don't know why
00:53:52 I don't know why
00:53:54 Sometimes
00:53:56 I feel ashamed
00:53:58 because there are many parents
00:54:00 who are taking care of their children
00:54:02 like me
00:54:04 It's hard to have a baby
00:54:06 so I have to try harder
00:54:08 I'm so selfish
00:54:10 to take care of my baby
00:54:12 But sometimes
00:54:14 I blame myself
00:54:16 I blame my husband
00:54:18 I blame my family
00:54:20 I give myself the right
00:54:22 to be cared
00:54:24 I don't know
00:54:26 if it's right or wrong
00:54:28 I'm always confused
00:54:30 in my thoughts
00:54:32 I can't share it with anyone
00:54:34 Your wish is right
00:54:36 Yes
00:54:38 You wish that everyone
00:54:40 should understand you
00:54:42 It's right
00:54:44 But you're wrong about your way
00:54:46 You want people to understand
00:54:48 No one in this world
00:54:50 can understand someone's beauty
00:54:52 So you choose
00:54:54 to take care of your baby
00:54:56 People will say
00:54:58 "My husband is so tired
00:55:00 of taking care of my baby
00:55:02 He should be a role model
00:55:04 to make people happy
00:55:06 not a hard worker
00:55:08 He can take care of my baby
00:55:10 for 30 minutes
00:55:12 It's not a big deal
00:55:14 He doesn't sleep right after work
00:55:16 He can cook for me
00:55:18 It's not a big deal
00:55:20 No one can be a hard worker
00:55:22 But I don't want to
00:55:24 impose my way
00:55:26 I don't want to bother anyone
00:55:28 I choose not to
00:55:30 let people enter my world
00:55:32 If they don't enter my world
00:55:34 how can they understand
00:55:36 my world?
00:55:38 This is the story of many mothers
00:55:40 not just me
00:55:42 I want people to understand
00:55:44 Please understand
00:55:46 You don't want to bother
00:55:48 others
00:55:50 You want to make your husband
00:55:52 feel comfortable
00:55:54 to work
00:55:56 and make money
00:55:58 But you forget
00:56:00 that you are a father and a mother
00:56:02 not just a wife and husband
00:56:04 living together
00:56:06 You have a baby
00:56:08 You have to help your wife
00:56:10 Why help your wife?
00:56:12 You should help your baby
00:56:14 What should I help?
00:56:16 You should help your baby
00:56:18 But you have to change your mind
00:56:20 Everyone has the right
00:56:22 to be a father and a mother
00:56:24 I'm a mother too
00:56:26 I work from 8am to 4pm
00:56:28 I work from 8am to 4pm
00:56:30 I don't even get paid
00:56:32 I don't even get paid
00:56:34 I'm just like my husband
00:56:36 I work from 8am to 4pm
00:56:38 We help each other
00:56:40 to take care of our baby
00:56:42 and share our difficulties
00:56:44 Tô Nhia is right
00:56:46 We don't share our difficulties
00:56:48 We don't share our difficulties
00:56:50 15 months later
00:56:52 Have you solved your problem?
00:56:54 I have
00:56:56 I have a space for my baby
00:56:58 I have a space for my baby
00:57:00 I have a space for my baby
00:57:02 I have to think about it
00:57:04 I have to think about it
00:57:06 Sometimes I ask myself
00:57:08 if I'm having depression
00:57:10 I'm afraid of depression
00:57:12 I have to keep my spirit
00:57:14 I asked myself "Am I having depression?"
00:57:17 I found the test results on the internet and answered the questions.
00:57:21 Then, I found the answers to whether my performance was ok or not and if it was serious.
00:57:30 I sent those results to my husband to see.
00:57:34 Then, my husband and I talked to each other and shared with each other.
00:57:39 He gradually understood that I was having a hard time.
00:57:45 As I said, it was my choice.
00:57:49 When I was too stressed, I blamed myself for choosing that way.
00:57:57 My husband said "You chose that way. You wanted to help me but you chose that way."
00:58:04 Sometimes, I just wanted to disappear and leave my child there.
00:58:11 So, you had a relationship with your husband.
00:58:13 Yes, I was scared at that time.
00:58:17 But when I saw my child crying, I cried too.
00:58:20 I was afraid that I didn't know why I had such thoughts.
00:58:23 When I saw my child, I thought that I should be more aware of my child's thoughts and actions.
00:58:35 I didn't share that story with my family.
00:58:40 I was afraid that my mother would worry about my life because I only had 2 children.
00:58:47 But now, my husband is more supportive.
00:58:54 I understand that he is more responsible for my life.
00:59:01 He is not irresponsible. He doesn't take care of my wife and child.
00:59:07 That's my psychological problem.
00:59:09 I talked to my husband and my friends.
00:59:13 I have been able to balance my life.
00:59:18 Each journey is different.
00:59:22 But the key to overcome stress is to share and share information.
00:59:32 It's different for everyone.
00:59:36 But it's not good to keep it to yourself.
00:59:38 You should have your own life.
00:59:44 We often forget ourselves when we are mothers.
00:59:47 It makes us feel bad.
00:59:49 Why do I have to wear this dress?
00:59:51 Why do people leave me?
00:59:53 We can find ourselves and we can balance our life.
00:59:57 The third thing is to be a mother.
01:00:02 It's not just love. It's also responsibility.
01:00:05 There are many other problems.
01:00:08 We can't be calm.
01:00:10 We can't be calm when we are not doing anything.
01:00:12 It's better to be calm.
01:00:14 I think it's good to have someone to help you.
01:00:16 When you are too tired, you can't share with anyone.
01:00:21 You can find the key to your problem.
01:00:25 You can solve it by sending your child to a trip.
01:00:29 You can go to the beach, the forest, the mountains.
01:00:35 You can release the negative energy in your body.
01:00:40 When you go, you feel comfortable.
01:00:44 You can accept the positive.
01:00:49 You can share it with everyone.
01:00:53 The negative energy in the body of a mother is like a button.
01:00:58 When you release it, you feel comfortable.
01:01:02 You can send your child to a trip.
01:01:06 I feel good when I hear you share your story.
01:01:11 I hope that in the future,
01:01:14 besides finding the key to your problem,
01:01:16 you will have more ways to deal with it.
01:01:23 You are 15 months old.
01:01:27 You have already solved many psychological problems.
01:01:30 When you get back to the issue of marriage,
01:01:35 is it comfortable for you?
01:01:37 I have a surgery.
01:01:40 The doctor said I should be patient.
01:01:43 I have to wait for the surgery to be over.
01:01:47 My husband and I are getting closer.
01:01:53 Are you comfortable?
01:01:56 I don't feel comfortable like before having a child.
01:02:03 I am too tired.
01:02:05 I always think about my child.
01:02:07 I have a question.
01:02:09 Do you feel that when you are too tired,
01:02:14 connecting with your husband through the relationship
01:02:18 can create a sense of freedom
01:02:21 to share, get closer, and have someone to accompany you?
01:02:26 Is the fact that you are in a relationship
01:02:30 one of the factors to gradually restore your connection with your husband?
01:02:35 I think so.
01:02:38 When I was pregnant,
01:02:45 I slept in a separate room with him.
01:02:47 My two children slept in one room.
01:02:49 My father slept in another room.
01:02:51 I can feel that the connection is gradually lost.
01:02:55 We have more distance.
01:02:58 I am more active in that.
01:03:03 I think that the distance is the reason.
01:03:09 The connection is lost.
01:03:12 I am also afraid that the love will be lost.
01:03:18 The story of the relationship is not only about the birth.
01:03:23 It is a story of connection from the inside.
01:03:25 It is an art.
01:03:26 Yes, it is.
01:03:28 We have been through a difficult pregnancy journey.
01:03:33 We have been worried and had many emotions.
01:03:35 We thought that the pregnancy journey would be happy.
01:03:38 But it was not.
01:03:42 We have been through it.
01:03:44 We have finished the dark days.
01:03:47 Now, it is a new journey.
01:03:49 It is brighter, more comfortable, and we can connect with our husband more.
01:03:52 Do you have any messages for your parents,
01:03:56 husband, or other mothers?
01:04:00 This is your 5-minute break.
01:04:04 I want to encourage mothers who have been through the same thing as me.
01:04:12 I hope that you will always be strong and have faith that your child will come to you.
01:04:19 All good things are worth waiting for.
01:04:24 I want to thank my mother and my husband's mother for taking care of me and my child.
01:04:33 I also want to thank my friends and relatives for giving me energy
01:04:39 and love and care for my children and my mother.
01:04:44 Do you want to say anything to your husband?
01:04:46 He will watch the show.
01:04:49 You can speak English.
01:04:50 Dear husband.
01:04:51 I will speak Vietnamese.
01:04:54 No, I will speak English to convey my message.
01:05:00 I also want to thank you for accompanying me on my journey.
01:05:09 Thank you for taking care of my two children.
01:05:14 I'm sorry for the things I said and did that were not controlled.
01:05:22 It affected our relationship.
01:05:26 I hope that my husband can share more with you.
01:05:29 I hope that my husband can share more with me.
01:05:33 Now that my child is grown up, I want to...
01:05:37 Ask your husband to hang out with you.
01:05:39 Ask my husband to hang out with me.
01:05:41 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:43 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:44 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:45 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:46 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:47 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:48 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:49 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:50 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:51 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:52 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:53 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:54 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:55 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:56 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:57 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:58 I want to bring my child with me.
01:05:59 I want to bring my child with me.
01:06:00 I want to bring my child with me.
01:06:01 I want to bring my child with me.
01:06:02 I want to bring my child with me.
01:06:04 I asked my grandmother to come here for 2 days.
01:06:06 I think she will accept my request.
01:06:09 I have to tell her my story.
01:06:11 It depends on her.
01:06:13 I think it's important to teach her.
01:06:19 This is a long story.
01:06:20 I will tell you another story.
01:06:21 It's tiring.
01:06:22 Tell it separately.
01:06:23 Thank you for your story.
01:06:25 Thank you for your sincere sharing.
01:06:27 I and To Nhi A can understand your mind.
01:06:30 I and To Nhi A can't contribute much.
01:06:35 I hope this story can help you open up.
01:06:40 Thank you very much.

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