सहारनपुर की एक ग्रहणी ने शादी के 17 साल बाद पीसीएस जे की परीक्षा पास की है
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00:00 I am Shivmani Tyagi for Puchkar Patrika. Today we have Deepika Rani with us.
00:04 She is a housewife. She has passed the PCSJ exam.
00:08 You are responsible for those women who feel that their dreams cannot be fulfilled after marriage.
00:16 She has passed this exam after 17 years of marriage.
00:20 Deepika ji, please tell us how you studied and how did you fulfill this dream?
00:28 Earlier, there were family responsibilities.
00:32 It was very difficult for a housewife to get married.
00:37 It is twice as difficult as it is for an aspirant.
00:42 But if you have self-confidence, dedication and continuity,
00:47 and you do it regularly, you can achieve any goal.
00:51 Was it your dream to go to the judiciary or did you do LLB?
00:58 Was there any other option? Or was your aim to go to the judiciary?
01:03 Earlier, I gave a few attempts for PCS.
01:07 But due to lack of time, I couldn't do it.
01:11 Then I got married.
01:13 After marriage, I had family responsibilities.
01:16 So, I stopped studying for a long time.
01:19 But I had a strong desire to do something.
01:23 So, my desire to do something grew.
01:25 Then I thought of taking admission in LLB.
01:27 From there, I started working in this direction.
01:32 I had less time, but I took out as much time as I could.
01:37 I worked in the same direction.
01:39 This is the result.
01:41 These days, women feel that if they live in a joint family,
01:46 their dreams and freedom can be affected.
01:51 You live in a joint family.
01:53 Despite that, you achieved your goal after so many days of marriage.
01:59 What do you want to say to those women?
02:01 It is a little difficult.
02:04 But don't lose your self-confidence.
02:07 And don't lose courage.
02:09 If you walk slowly, you will reach your goal.
02:13 It is difficult, but nothing is impossible.
02:16 You have to send your children to school, prepare them.
02:20 You have to do a lot of household chores.
02:23 When did you take out time to study?
02:26 First, I send my children to school in the morning.
02:29 Then I have breakfast at home.
02:31 Then I do my daily chores.
02:35 If I get time in the afternoon, I do it for 2 hours.
02:39 I do it for 3-5 hours.
02:42 Then I do my evening chores.
02:44 And then I do it from 10 to 2 in the evening.
02:47 This was my daily routine.
02:49 I have never been careless in this.
02:54 Sometimes, I get sick or have some problems.
02:58 But the next day, I stand with the same dedication.
03:01 And if you do all the work, you will succeed.
03:06 Have you taken coaching?
03:08 No, I have not.
03:10 I have done it with my own effort.
03:14 I have read all the books.
03:17 I have done it with the guidance of the books.
03:20 I have not taken coaching.
03:21 I have used social media a lot.
03:23 Because I have seen many videos on daily affairs.
03:29 I have got their support.
03:31 That has made a big difference.
03:32 It is obvious that all the parents are worried about their children.
03:36 They spend a lot of time on their mobile phones.
03:38 But if you use your mobile phone well,
03:41 it can give you a positive result.
03:45 Do you think that the police investigation is 100% correct?
03:51 And all the people in jail are criminals?
03:53 I have not been to that area yet.
04:01 So, if I get a better view in the future,
04:07 I will be able to answer your question better.
04:10 When you reached the interview in 2018,
04:13 you could not pass the exam.
04:15 Did you feel that it was difficult and it would not happen again?
04:21 Did your family members encourage you?
04:28 Yes, when I got the result in 2018,
04:32 I did not pass the exam.
04:35 I am a human being and I can break.
04:39 You fall and get up again.
04:42 Many people support you in this process.
04:47 That is why I am here.
04:49 I want to take the names of some people
04:52 without whom this journey was incomplete.
04:55 I have come here with their help.
05:00 First of all, I want to take the names of my parents.
05:05 My mother and my father, who is no more.
05:08 They wanted my daughter to be successful.
05:11 Wherever they are today, they will be very happy.
05:14 My three brothers supported me a lot.
05:19 Devendra Singh, Ravinder Singh, Pratap Singh,
05:22 my brother-in-law, Kavindra Singh,
05:24 my elder sister, Ladda Rani,
05:26 and Ashish, who is very capable.
05:29 From Bulandshahr, Bhaskar Poofa, Manju Bua, Aditya.
05:35 These were my family members who supported me a lot.
05:39 My in-laws and my husband.
05:43 My husband played a very big role in the economic sector.
05:47 Whatever material they provided, they got what I asked for.
05:52 They took me wherever I wanted to go.
05:57 Whenever I fell, they were there with me.
06:03 And because of them, I have reached here today.
06:06 I wouldn't have been able to reach here without their contribution.
06:09 And with them, my in-laws, my sister-in-law Pushpa,
06:13 her husband, Amit Naveen,
06:16 and many others, without whom I wouldn't have been able to reach here.
06:23 They are very special people in my life.
06:25 And it is because of their contribution that I am here today.
06:28 Would you like to say something to the other women who are married
06:32 and still want to become something?
06:37 Yes, absolutely.
06:39 If a woman wants to become something,
06:43 don't lose hope.
06:45 It's not like you can't become something if you have less time.
06:48 Because your studies should be quality-wise, not quantity-wise.
06:53 It's not necessary that you study for 10-12 hours, that's enough.
06:57 If you take out 5 hours daily,
07:00 if your direction is absolutely right,
07:03 and your vision is correct,
07:05 then you can do it in 5 hours.
07:07 And when the papers come at the last time,
07:09 then definitely you go for 8 hours, up to 14 hours for studies.
07:13 So, it gives you full contribution.