Are you learning how to flirt? Find flirting strategies that work? Are you trying to learn how to flirt with girls? How to flirt with a guy? Or How to get a girl you like? There are a few common flirting tips, that may work. Watch this video learn some of them. :)
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00:00 Are you a flirt?
00:01 Have you ever wanted to improve your flirting?
00:04 Some people struggle with flirting and find they don't know where to begin.
00:08 But there are a few flirting characteristics that can improve your chances of effectively flirting with someone.
00:14 Dr. Aaron Benzev explained in his Psychology Today article that these groups of flirting characteristics underlie effective flirting.
00:23 He wrote that,
00:24 "Although there is no formula for successful flirting, there are characteristics that increase its chances of ending well."
00:31 If you take on a natural approach to these behavior characteristics, your flirting may improve.
00:37 In order of importance, here are the nine characteristics to keep in mind the next time you flirt with your crush.
00:43 1. Nonverbal Behavior
00:46 Something to remember the next time you flirt?
00:49 Not only what you say to your crush, but your behavior as well.
00:53 A good amount of eye contact, not too intensely, but still letting them know that you're listening by looking at them in the eyes from time to time.
01:01 Also, remember to genuinely smile when you can.
01:04 Everyone loves a sweet smile.
01:06 Good hygiene and scent are always great as well.
01:09 It's not just what you tell your crush about yourself verbally, but nonverbally as well.
01:14 2. Intelligence
01:17 When flirting, you may want to show that you're intelligent as well by saying a witty joke or having a natural conversation about topics that show you're educated in a variety of things.
01:27 3. A Gentle Approach
01:30 When flirting, it's always important to be respectful as well as having fun with it.
01:34 People want to see you're mature as much as you're funny and flirty.
01:37 If they're not comfortable, you won't make things better by continuing.
01:41 Always be respectful and mature in your flirting attempts.
01:45 4. Cheerfulness
01:47 When someone is looking for a partner, they're not only going to want someone who is respectful and kind, but someone who is cheerful as well.
01:54 This is another characteristic that is said to underlie effective flirting.
01:58 Wouldn't you want a partner that makes you happy?
02:00 If your flirting has a bit of cheerfulness in it, then you're on the right track.
02:05 5. Romantic Intentions
02:08 Of course, when you're flirting, it's always a great idea to show you're romantic.
02:12 You can have a bit of fun flirting, but throughout, you may want to show how romantic you can be.
02:17 Whether it's a sweet look in the eyes that you give or a bit of gentleness in your touch, a hint of romance is often essential for flirting.
02:25 6. Courage and Determination When Flirting
02:28 It can be nerve-wracking to approach someone you like and flirt with them.
02:32 Where do you begin? Confidence is key.
02:35 If you're going to flirt well, you need not only courage but determination.
02:39 So that flirty joke you've been playing out in your head to tell them?
02:43 Flirt courageously and confidently.
02:45 7. Something in Common
02:48 Of course, for you to develop a relationship with your crush, you'll want to have something in common with them.
02:53 So before you start flirting, you may want to find out a few things about them.
02:56 What are they like? Do they have any shared interests? Values?
03:00 You'll need to keep the conversation going after your witty flirting. That's the goal.
03:05 So a few things in common is always a good idea so you can easily bring the conversation back to something you have in common.
03:11 8. Good Looks
03:13 We don't know what qualities others find attractive about others.
03:17 But we can always try to be our best selves to create a first attraction when you approach who you're about to flirt with.
03:23 Good looks can always help.
03:25 So if you can, keep up good hygiene and wear your favorite outfit to express your best self.
03:30 9. A Mysterious Allure
03:34 Lastly, we have mystery.
03:37 If you want to ask your crush on a date after some flirting,
03:40 they'll likely want to get to know you more if you leave something for them to want to know.
03:44 When asked about something, reveal what you feel comfortable with.
03:47 But you don't need to reveal everything about yourself in one sitting.
03:51 Be honest, respectful, and curious with your crush.
03:54 But at first, feel free to leave a bit of mystery.
03:57 It may just leave them wanting to hear more from you, perhaps on that date.
04:02 So, which of these flirting characteristics will you keep in mind next time you approach your crush?
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