90 Day Fiancé's Angela Reveals If She's Still Married to Michael (Exclusive)
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00:00 The distance is very, very hard.
00:02 Like, sometimes I sit and say, "Are we still together?"
00:06 They're my goddamn all.
00:07 I am real for you.
00:09 Are you and Michael still legally married?
00:11 We're still legally married.
00:12 Okay. Are you still in love with Michael?
00:14 I am in love with him, but, you know,
00:16 love don't keep a person together.
00:18 We both have to come to an understanding,
00:20 and this journey we've been on,
00:22 it's just went explosive each season.
00:24 Hell, you can't script (bleep) like this.
00:26 You cannot script nothing like this.
00:29 This is real life, people,
00:30 and I'm just one that's not ashamed to show you.
00:33 There's the difference, right?
00:35 But if I were to stand married to Michael,
00:38 you'll just have to wait and see.
00:39 Not anyone give you a clue.
00:41 Tell him, "Michael, let's do it."
00:42 I don't want to. He's like a son to me.
00:43 Why don't you act a (bleep) genius?
00:45 I don't want to. I'm not his brother.
00:46 'Cause your aunt wants us to get a divorce.
00:48 But you do show up.
00:49 It is teased for the season
00:51 that you bring divorce papers with you.
00:53 And I do.
00:55 I do bring divorce papers.
00:56 So you do not use those divorce papers?
00:58 I'm not gonna let you know if I signed them or threw them away
01:01 because this is serious to me.
01:04 I'm getting older,
01:05 and if he is making me think he's playing with me
01:07 or if he really is using me to come see someone else,
01:10 well, you better do some changing at this therapy
01:13 because if you don't, listen, I can love you from a distance,
01:17 and I'm gonna move on
01:18 because I think I've waited long enough for him to change.
01:20 And if you want me to change to be the nice Meemaw
01:23 and the boring Meemaw, then do the right thing.
01:26 But then again, I'm still gonna be the crazy bitch
01:28 when I get my way 'cause I have to get my way.
01:30 I mean, that's just you.
01:32 It's always been me.
01:33 It's always about her.
01:35 Make her happy and do things in her own way.
01:40 I love you, but you will not take me for granted.
01:44 We've seen a lot of stuff go down
01:45 in your relationship with Michael.
01:46 We saw Michael admit to cheating on you
01:49 during the "Happily Ever After" tell-all.
01:52 Then he also revealed that he was in contact
01:54 with another American woman and telling her
01:57 that he was gonna use you to get to the States
01:59 and then leave you to be with her.
02:01 There's this random lady.
02:04 All this, I know I admitted my wrong.
02:07 I caused it all, you know?
02:09 So why would you still wanna be with this man
02:10 after all that he's put you through?
02:13 My children ask me the same.
02:15 Even more than my grandkids. I'm sure they do.
02:16 They do.
02:17 But let me tell you something.
02:19 I'm older, I'm wiser.
02:20 You know, if you'd have done that to me 10 years ago,
02:23 five years ago, well, you'd be in my house six.
02:25 You know, before Michael, I'd have left you, but...
02:28 How is this different?
02:29 Because the distance, people don't understand.
02:32 Michael's an ass, okay?
02:33 He's a man, he's an ass. He's a frickin' ass.
02:36 But he's my ass, and when I'm with him and we're together,
02:39 it's not like it is when we're at distance, you know?
02:43 Like, I have more control and he has more control of me,
02:45 and it's not even control, it's like,
02:47 I get upset when I'm in Nigeria,
02:49 and all he does is touch my hand,
02:51 or be me, and the way he looks at me.
02:53 But it's different when you're apart,
02:54 and you are, most of the time, you are apart.
02:57 Yeah, and I just do a lot of bitching,
03:00 and I do give him credit.
03:02 Even when he's right or wrong, like, when he's wrong.
03:05 Now, what people don't know about Michael,
03:06 he's very stubborn.
03:08 Like, they see the niceness, but when Michael's mad,
03:11 that's what happened with the cheating.
03:12 He'll carry it on and be the rudest,
03:15 mean and make me madder, make me meaner.
03:17 That's why I flew over there and tore that car up.
03:19 I said, "Watch your mouth, boy."
03:21 (laughing)
03:22 Just kidding.
03:23 - Good, DeAngelo.
03:24 - And then, listen, do you know how
03:26 the Nigerian women applauded me for that?
03:28 - I'm sure they did.
03:29 - Like, you know--
03:30 - But then you've got the other people
03:31 that are saying you're emotionally, verbally,
03:34 physically abusive to Michael.
03:35 What do you say to those viewers?
03:36 - I say, listen, my past life,
03:38 I've always said this since I was five, I've done this.
03:41 So who does that, Catholics?
03:42 And who are Catholics, mainly?
03:44 Italians.
03:45 I've been told twice from different readers
03:47 that I'm a boss Italian, and I already know that.
03:50 Have you ever been around Italian women?
03:52 They tell their husband, "Screw you, da da, da da da."
03:55 And they say, "Let's go eat."
03:57 I'm the same way.
03:58 I don't see it like people see it.
04:00 Like, if I don't bitch at you, then I really don't care.
04:03 - That's the only way for me to be happy,
04:06 being married to her.
04:08 - What gives with Michael's visa now?
04:09 It's been three years.
04:10 Will he ever sit the--
04:12 - Well, actually, we've been waiting
04:12 five years on a visa.
04:14 He got a member of the K1.
04:15 - Right.
04:16 - And that was heartbreaking,
04:18 because I really believed we was gonna get the K1.
04:20 And, you know, as you watched,
04:22 Michael did not wanna wait on the letter.
04:24 I didn't understand that part,
04:26 and he just, like, he didn't rush me into marriage,
04:29 because I wanted to marry him,
04:30 but I just wanted, 'cause my mom was sick,
04:31 I wanted to be in the United States,
04:32 my whole family, you know?
04:34 But I wanted to know the reason, you know?
04:37 Because God knows nobody travels that much to Nigeria
04:40 unless they're in love.
04:41 That's just real.
04:42 Not saying there's nothing wrong with their country,
04:43 but that's a lot of money to travel.
04:45 I have to leave my grandkids,
04:47 and I have to deal with them on the phone every day.
04:49 So it was a lot for me, let me say for me.
04:51 So if I didn't love him, you know,
04:53 I just wanted to know what the K1 was.
04:55 You know, but he didn't want it.
04:57 He didn't wanna hear the answer.
04:58 He all assumed it was my age.
05:00 But the distance is very, very hard.
05:02 Sometimes I sit and say, "Are we still together?"
05:04 Because I don't think anybody else
05:05 could have made it this far.
05:06 - Yeah.
05:08 - Five years is a long time, Angela.
05:09 - It's a long time.
05:10 - What gives with the process of his visa?
05:12 What is the status of it today?
05:14 How long do you think it will take?
05:16 Why is it taking so long?
05:17 And do you think he'll ever set foot
05:18 in the U.S. with your help?
05:19 - You're talking to me now, so.
05:21 - Yeah.
05:22 - I don't give up.
05:23 Like, if he doesn't get the spousal visa,
05:27 you know, that's it, right?
05:28 But coming from me, that is not it.
05:31 I will petition the White House.
05:33 I will march.
05:34 I will get my, you know, almost one million followers
05:36 on TikTok, one million followers on Instagram.
05:38 If you love me so bad, you will march with me
05:39 because everybody's calm here.
05:42 I'm not talking about from this show.
05:43 I'm talking about other people that I know
05:45 they're here before Michael is, you know?
05:47 - How many more years will you wait
05:48 for Michael to get a visa?
05:49 Are you giving your decision a year or two years?
05:51 - I don't want to, but God knows
05:52 I'm not gonna live in Nigeria.
05:54 I'm spoiled American.
05:56 I like my water on when I want it.
05:57 I like my lights.
05:59 They go through hell over there, they do.
05:59 I give it to 'em.
06:01 I'm raised different.
06:02 I'm raised spoiled American,
06:03 and I acknowledge it and I say it.
06:06 And I can't.
06:07 I, two weeks is hard to stay there enough for me.
06:11 And then plus I got the grandkids.
06:12 So if this doesn't work, that's our last,
06:16 that's our last thing if we don't get a spousal visa.
06:18 There's no alternative but me to move over there.
06:21 - But if you don't get it in two years?
06:23 Are you waiting that long?
06:24 - I will wait 'til the decision, absolutely.
06:26 Even if I stay married or not,
06:28 I'm gonna wait this decision out
06:29 whether we stay together or not.
06:31 I'm gonna see why they denied me so much
06:33 or why they approved me.
06:34 I put money into this.
06:35 I'm an American-paying citizen, taxpayer,
06:38 and I want to know why.
06:39 Why is it took it so long?
06:41 Because, and sometimes I think, Rachel,
06:43 that if he'd have been here sooner,
06:45 we wouldn't be sitting here in all this,
06:47 you know, we'd have worked out our stuff living.
06:49 - Right.
06:50 - You know, but then again,
06:51 maybe we've done all the fighting.
06:53 If he gets approved, then maybe we'll be doing
06:54 nothing but laughing and cutting the pool.
06:55 Because when me and Michael's together in Nigeria,
06:58 we have good times.
06:59 - Yeah.
06:59 - Sometimes I say to Michael,
07:00 I say, "Michael, do you think maybe it's God
07:03 "protected me?"
07:04 That's what I say because what else could it be?
07:05 - Could be a sign of some sort.
07:07 - You know, I believe in signs, you know.
07:09 But then again, I look on the other half thinking,
07:11 you know, it might be the devil
07:12 because the devil don't like love either.
07:14 He doesn't like true love, you know, he don't like that.
07:16 Because that true love is, you know,
07:17 the greatest gift from God is love.
07:19 - We have seen a little bit of that devil working.
07:22 - I just, you know, yeah, we've seen a lot of devil working
07:25 but with me, I'm not a devil,
07:26 I'm just one that puts my foot down.
07:29 I can bring some horns up.
07:30 - You can, but you are sassy and you are feisty
07:32 and you are fun.
07:33 Like I said, you're just a vibe.
07:35 - I'm gonna trump you up.
07:36 (laughing)
07:38 - So that's why Michael loves to stir the pot with you
07:40 and get you a little rowdy.
07:42 - And he gets me sometimes too rowdy.
07:44 - Yeah.
07:45 - But you know, I've never,
07:46 Michael can tell you, I've never physically hit him
07:48 and he's never physically hit me.
07:49 Now we have gotten up there and grabbed,
07:52 but that's really what we want, you know?
07:53 Like just grab me and I'll melt
07:55 or if I grab him, he'll be like, "Eh."
07:57 So it's just never been violent.
07:58 Maybe it looks violent.
08:00 I don't know, we don't care what people say.
08:01 We know, we know and, you know,
08:05 keep hating and keep saying it.
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