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00:00 I'm going into the submission and I'm saying I'm sorry please don't hurt me and as he starts
00:09 talking I start answering.
00:13 So she's down from there you bite her, whatever you can find.
00:20 From there you're going to pull over to the right.
00:26 Left leg gets put on the arm for control and this sweeps into your first control that you
00:30 all know.
00:31 Okay and from here you go to town.
00:34 With the rape defense class it's a very very sensitive subject for a lot of women.
00:39 You know I teach girls from disadvantaged communities and the minute you get to the
00:43 rape defense section of things they shut down because it's so personal and it's so close
00:48 and for a lot of people it's close to home.
00:51 So what I try to do is at first make the girls feel comfortable, let them understand that
00:55 they're in a safe space.
00:56 I actually break it down from the point where it all starts.
00:59 You don't walk out the door and end up getting raped.
01:02 There's a process.
01:03 You're tired and you need to work.
01:04 Okay.
01:05 Come on you can't, you can't, you can't.
01:06 Finish it.
01:07 You're not going to play here forever waiting for you to move.
01:08 Roll.
01:09 Ninety degrees.
01:10 Come on.
01:11 Get off her.
01:12 Get off her.
01:13 Get off her.
01:14 Ninety degrees.
01:15 Okay.
01:16 That's it.
01:17 That's it.
01:18 Bang, bang, bang.
01:19 That's it.
01:20 Up, up, up.
01:21 Second leg.
01:22 Are you okay?
01:23 So some of it is a bit close to home for me and I just, like I'm just drawn to being able
01:38 to empower other women.
01:39 I think so many...
01:40 Stop.
01:41 I'm sorry.
01:43 These things, should I put them in the kitchen?
01:46 That at the bottom of the fridge.
01:53 Yeah, she'll stack them up.
01:59 Okay, Dada.
02:03 Go well.
02:07 I think parents must ensure that as they start, this becomes part of their agenda of
02:25 the everyday conversation among ourselves, with our children, when we go to these meetings
02:31 at school, in our communities, everywhere.
02:34 We need to start saying, "But we're putting butler doors.
02:38 What about our children?"
02:40 Because they get outside the butler doors.
02:43 And I think it's quite critical that it's considered as among the basic needs.
02:48 Like you must drink water, you must eat, there must be electricity.
02:51 I think this needs to be elevated as well.
03:00 Dominic told me that she's not looking to get me out of there without scratches or it's
03:06 not pretty.
03:07 The whole thing isn't pretty.
03:08 And I'm going to leave the fight scratched up, bruised and hurting.
03:13 But as long as I got out of there alive and I've survived, I think that's very impactful
03:19 to me.
03:20 Put pressure, yeah, and take her down to what we call a bus stop.
03:34 As I take her, stay with her.
03:35 Stay with her.
03:36 Stay with her.
03:37 Okay?
03:38 You want to talk to him.
03:39 Okay, I'll give you whatever you want.
03:40 I'm sorry.
03:41 I'm sorry.
03:42 Okay.
03:43 Go.
03:44 Control.
03:45 Good job.
03:46 Move.
03:47 Move.
03:48 Move.
03:49 Move.
03:50 It's not only something that will boost your confidence and make you feel, I don't know,
03:55 independent if I may say so, but it's something that also just gets you out there, out of space,
04:00 and you just feel like the person that you are, you just feel like a boss, you know?
04:04 I can take care of myself, you know?
04:06 It was at school.
04:07 The boy was like, "Hey, hey, hey."
04:08 Now, I'm in Kerala.
04:09 My wife would call me and be like, "Hey, what's up?"
04:10 I was like, "No, I'm from Kumbisa."
04:11 I'm like, "I'm not going to go there."
04:12 I'm like, "I'm not going to go there."
04:13 I'm like, "I'm not going to go there."
04:14 I'm like, "I'm not going to go there."
04:15 I'm like, "Hey, what's up?"
04:20 I'm like, "No, I'm from Kumbisa."
04:21 I'm like, "I'm not going to go there."
04:22 I'm like, "I'm not going to go there."
04:23 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
04:24 I'm like, "I'm not going to go there."
04:25 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
04:26 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
04:27 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
04:28 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
04:29 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
04:30 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
04:31 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
04:32 I'm like, "No, I'm not going to go there."
05:00 [laughter]
05:01 >> And that's how we got our names out there.
05:02 >> This is a good question.
05:03 >> Yes.
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