nursing homes and the law

  • 10 年前
I took several clips from one day of eating, a normal day, at the nursing home. The reason for these clips are to show you by picture, how she can actually eat, but the staff, doctor, nurses and even office staff, say she needs to be peg, (tube fed) because it is dangerous; after 5 years they still insist it is dangerous. So I have my suspicions, that the other 10 to 15 people at this nursing home, at least 2 or 3 can probably eat without being tube fed, but for the nursing care convenience, to make money, they will not allow this. I have been bullied here by the staff, my mother bruised up, I went to the police station but they never investigated, after the second time I went, the detective asked me why I didn't move to another home. That was strange, before investigating an assault charge, he asks me to move. Well, I would have but for two reasons I didn't, One, being all the nursing homes are probably doing the same thing to make money and two, well, my mother and I believe they can kill the body, but will, never take our soul. So after arguments, about feeding, suddenly she has bruises near her eye, they said it was an accident and couldn't be helped. shoganai in Japanese, and not so polite; actually the polite image of Japanese is not true, it is an image, and people are people the world over, furthermore when it comes to reducing their profits, they can become quite ugly. That is why I am making these clips, because I think other people are on the tube, and not being fed. If they cannot eat by themselves, they are put on the peg. This was my mother's situation, and when I insisted on her eating by being fed by the staff, they became belligerent and say I was belligerent. Well, all I want is to my mother to at least enjoy food and not be tube fed if it is not dangerous, and these clips plus 5 years of eating prove that. But if I do not come and feed her, they don't feed her, maybe, a little, but they put her back on the tube. can you believe this, the newspapers ignored me, the insurance staff and program ignored me, the police ignored me, so I uploaded clips; I would like to know what it is like in your country.?